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I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.

Thanks

The way you present yourself?

Are they only beautiful girls?

How about you bring yourself down when you want to woo a girl. This could be the issue.

Lewaluv:
Are they only beautiful girls?

Yes o

That's my compulsory criteria

I find it difficult to move with worwor gals

I always go for naturally beautiful ones

kimbra:
How about you bring yourself down when you want to woo a girl. This could be the issue.

To which level na

I can't claim wat am not

Am just trying to be myself​

Chai sowie,i hav a solution 2 ur problem,cum nd date me i'm nt materialistic i wil even pay ur house rent 4 u,in short i wil turn ur life around.lols

Keep on searching op

Dis girl dey make me High E I, High E I

U no go believe, she looking at me

My temperature dey Rye E Eyes, Rye E Eyes

If u see dis baby tell am say...

26andsearching:
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.

Thanks

Probably how you carry yourself

Evablizin:
Chai sowie,i hav a solution 2 ur problem,cum nd date me i'm nt materialistic i wil even pay ur house rent 4 u,in short i wil turn ur life around.lols

Thank God you are joking

Lovely sense of humor u got

Evablizin:
Chai sowie,i hav a solution 2 ur problem,cum nd date me i'm nt materialistic i wil even pay ur house rent 4 u,in short i wil turn ur life around.lols

Hiaaaaan!
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cerowo:
Keep on searching op

For how long

I mean I suffered to get a job

Now I must also suffer to get a gal

Softorgasm:
Hmmm op its not your fault..

That your friend is lucky because a larger percentage of ladies in Nigeria are only after the money.

I don't want to believe your statistics

It's scary

26andsearching:
To which level na

I can't claim wat am not

Am just trying to be myself​

The impression you create matters. That's what they act on. So put off how much you could take care of a girl or how rosy your life is when wooing.

Tklabelle:
Probably how you carry yourself

Am trying to be real

I can't pretend

EnigmaticEnigma:
Hiaaaaan!
https://clipartix.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/Karate-kick-clipart.jpg

lols current chaki chen well don ooo,u've suceeded in kickin me out 4rm my sit.

Evablizin:
Chai sowie,i hav a solution 2 ur problem,cum nd date me i'm nt materialistic i wil even pay ur house rent 4 u,in short i wil turn ur life around.lols

Are you related to Pastor Jerry? You've got his looks facially.

26andsearching:
For how long
I mean I suffered to get a job
Now I must also suffer to get a gal

Double yr searching the right one is on d way

Basildvalour:
Are you related to Pastor Jerry? You've got his looks facially.

nope

26andsearching:
Am trying to be real

I can't pretend

I know that feeling . Problem here is that men are like that. Maybe I should move to Naija

Evablizin:
lols current chaki chen well don ooo,u've suceeded in kickin me out 4rm my sit.

U kicked us all with that comment

kimbra:
The impression you create matters. That's what they act on. So put off how much you could take care of a girl or how rosy your life is when wooing.

I rarely speak of myself or status when wooing

U ladies are just too complicated

26andsearching:
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.
t
Thanks

the way you present yourself in the first place

Basildvalour:
Are you related to Pastor Jerry? You've got his looks facially.

Guy this your strategy eh

You are what you eat

Tklabelle:
I know that feeling . Problem here is that men are like that. Maybe I should move to Naija

What will you gain moving here

26andsearching:
Guy this your strategy eh

Sorry, nothing more than that question intended.

I am a married man

Evablizin:
nope

But l believe you know who l am talking about.

kimbra:
How about you bring yourself down when you want to woo a girl. This could be the issue.

0.03 balance.

hope you get?

Didn't hear from you.

How are you na??

Evablizin:
Chai sowie,i hav a solution 2 ur problem,cum nd date me i'm nt materialistic i wil even pay ur house rent 4 u,in short i wil turn ur life around.lols

U