26andsearching:


What will you gain moving here

Pls move to Naija ooo, cos me am waiting for u oooo pls dnt forget to buy oyinbo burger com ooo

Where's she from ?
If na igbo girl,
Even if her father na Wike and you no get job,
She go stil ask you for money.

26andsearching:


What will you gain moving here

Pls move to Naija ooo, cos me am waiting for u oooo pls dnt forget to buy oyinbo burger com ooo mind u, u wil gain me here in Naija

D prbm wit we guys is we always try to impress ladies, as a guy u sud ave a limit to 2 wot u can offer any lady sometimes just 2 protect our ego we ended up spending more Dan we bargain for, 2 cut d story short op d prbm lies wit u it depends on how u toast ur gals some ladies once dey sight dat boasting nature of dia is money Oko na to cum in and chop bellyful most guys since dey cnt really toast dey tend 2 use moni 2 impress

reereespace:

yimu, Mr Goldenheart if its true why are you the one bragging about it?
do your good in silence oga helper!

God bless you
not all friends worth spending on...I will rather send my sisters or mom that money than to spend on random girls...

EnigmaticEnigma:


U kicked us all with that comment

Savage

tuesyvick:
Where's she from ? If na igbo girl, Even if her father na Wike and you no get job, She go stil ask you for money.

Haha... Chop High five jare!!!!!!

humble ur self as if u don't have money... don't give her DAT impression

Tonymegabush1:
D prbm wit we guys is we always try to impress ladies, as a guy u sud ave a limit to 2 wot u can offer any lady sometimes just 2 protect our ego we ended up spending more Dan we bargain for, 2 cut d story short op d prbm lies wit u it depends on how u toast ur gals some ladies once dey sight dat boasting nature of dia is money Oko na to cum in and chop bellyful most guys since dey cnt really toast dey tend 2 use moni 2 impress

nobody is trying to impress any lady
meet a Nigerian lady today... the next day she start to tell you her phone is bad, bla bla
she starts narrating her problems expecting you to solve them.....
so painful that many are living a life they can't afford and as such shift responsibility to others

E be like say na igbo girls u too dey meet, na dem dey materialistic pass. Sw babes no dey give stress, suya and malt, she fit follow u go house.

26andsearching:


To which level na

I can't claim wat am not

Am just trying to be myself​

Am myself too

26andsearching:


To which level na

I can't claim wat am not

Am just trying to be myself​

Am myself too

26andsearching:


Guy this your strategy eh

If you can accuse anyone of strategy, then I am of the belief this write up is a strategy from you too

Lewaluv:
Are they only beautiful girls?

Are those really yours ( I mean the booobi )

Anyway sha.just leave gals matter for now..you never know when you'l stumble on a really nice girl

Poster has ojukokoro (cockroach eye). So is attracted to those flashy glittering types. You have to help them maintain it.

26andsearching:


Yes o

That's my compulsory criteria

I find it difficult to move with worwor gals

I always go for naturally beautiful ones

Then stop complaining,from your description you like moving with slay gurls meaning u have to pay for their bill. If you can attribute love to facial beauty thats not good. Sure u av to be attracted to someone before dating her but i sense you are in the category of guys that go for the extremely curve,fair and stunning ladies or am i wrong

26andsearching:
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.

Thanks

If they ask, stylishly say no. A few days later, ask her for financial assistance.
Her response would determine your next move.
If she stylishly say no, block her numbers.......

My brother u are not alone, same with me o n i dey ask myself d same queshun.

reereespace:

yimu, Mr Goldenheart if its true why are you the one bragging about it?
do your good in silence oga helper!

Even if I said something else, human will still ask "who u epp"

26andsearching:
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.

Thanks

Samehere bro....
Been there
Or she pretends for a while and then before i know it , im paying bills up and down

But it seems i got something going on wit my bae, quite understanding. ill say so far so good.

Go for professional women and federal civil servants, look out for church girls and women in force and paramilitary. For a business woman don't go for the one still serving, in the quest of looking for an independent woman, don't be deceived by those who doesn't ask from you, most do have sugar daddies as major sponsors so your stipend may mean nothing for them as they may want you for marriage but that won't stop them from being promiscuous. But your eyes down you will see, don't create an avenue for trade by barter I.e no sex demand in exchange for cash.

reereespace:
you're saying it's okay to ask as long as you're suffering....wehdone -_-, I don't even have words anymore

at least it's better than venturing into prostitution and the likes.

Humility017:

God bless you
not all friends worth spending on...I will rather send my sisters or mom that money than to spend on random girls...

I still think Every friend is worth spending on...

Humility017:


nobody is trying to impress any lady
meet a Nigerian lady today... the next day she start to tell you how phone is bad, bla bla
she starts narrating her problems expecting you to solve them.....
so painful that many are living a life they can't afford and as such shift responsibility to others

no thanks to peer pressure and intimidation.

safarigirl:
if you have a job in Nigeria at 26, uncle, you no suffer.

As for the girls you date, they are simply a reflection of who you are.

Ypu people need to stop disturbing us about these gold diggers you encounter on a daily basis, na wetin you find enter market na im you go see.

There are good girls o, but those ones do not do waka waka, they don't live the life you guys expect and you don't see them starting threads on how they can't find good guys.

when you get your own bobo, we go continue this conversation

CaraJewel:
Anyway sha.just leave gals matter for now..you never know when you'l stumble on a really nice girl

Nice Girls don't really exist in this part of the world.

One naija guy told me if a girl ask you for money and u say go to hell.. She b like I don't have transport fare lol

That is because most nigerian girls are hungry.the recession is not funny at all.i don't even blame most of them because there is no job,and the little ones around they pay so low expecially to girls.for example some girls are paid as low as 10k.after transportation how much will remain.
That is why they are always loking for men to take care of them.
Anybody that is from a rich home,know no weting GOD do for am.

26andsearching:
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.

Thanks

If u can wait patiently for ur time,u will find d right lady

nkemdi89:
Go for professional women and federal civil servants, look out for church girls and women in force and paramilitary. For a business woman don't go for the one still serving, in the quest of looking for an independent woman, don't be deceived by those who doesn't ask from you, most do have sugar daddies as major sponsors so your stipend may mean nothing for them as they may want you for marriage but that won't stop them from being promiscuous. But your eyes down you will see, don't create an avenue for trade by barter I.e no sex demand in exchange for cash.

TRUE TALK NKEM

bjhaid:
I didn't say men are atm, alotta girls are struggling esp the ones from poor/average background, and most can't really hustle like guys do, that's why I can't really blame the ones that beg

I am from that kind of background, there is something called dignity and self confidence. No matter how i need money i dont beg,my bf can only offer to assist if he has the means.

OP two things are involved here. Its either you are stinking rich or u worwor die okkkk on a more serious note don't be the first to buy things for a girl if u MUST then make it 50:50 she must contribute if not them go friendzone ur nyash #tutorial from a girlfriendless pick up artist. I play with girls they don't play with me