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Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by OyeCoker(m): 11:41am On May 29, 2017
If you're in a position to help, help her. It would hurt her even more
Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by ekefre4(m): 11:42am On May 29, 2017
LalaLushness:


Tit for tat not always best policy
Show her you are bigger than that.. she will be shocked and also learn.... another guy won't get rejected in that way
lol but let it be strictly help and nothing more if you decide to .. if she decides to Apologies then its upto you to forgive or keep it moving after the help ...
It will pain her more that you don't like her in that way smiley
Don't be biased pls.
Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by posh95(m): 11:43am On May 29, 2017
olmde:
Tell her to click here for assistance ---------> #DIE
Lolz. Baba no get chill @ all

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Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by IgweBUIKE1(m): 11:43am On May 29, 2017
help her... buh mind you after the help she will be looking for a way to date. just ignore her.... I repeat ignore her
Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by farihafaheemah(m): 11:44am On May 29, 2017
Pls if the help is within your capability and reach, go ahead and render the help. But don't go back and demand to date you. Such lady isn't good for you. Obviously she a gold digger.
I repeat don't make attempt to woo her again.
Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by maklelemakukula(m): 11:44am On May 29, 2017
Kayus4real:
there was this girl I loved some times ago. I really loved her, I could do anything for her. she treated me badly, ignoring my calls most time and when she picked it, it would be a nightmare. She was so arrogant, rude and unpleasant. there was a day she told me she couldn't date me because I was so broke. She slapped me and threw dirty water on my clothes. It got to me that day and I was very depressed. I moved on.. despite the whole ugly event.

I got a job in a big firm two years ago and I can say I'm comfortable now. she called asking for an assistance I think I'm capable of rendering. Should I help her out? please I need your sincere advice..
liar.
Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by EYIBLESSN(m): 11:45am On May 29, 2017
Hmmm. Let her pay for her sin.




Àwòn omo ale
Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by Keenysbojan(m): 11:45am On May 29, 2017
Kayus4real:
there was this girl I loved some times ago. I really loved her, I could do anything for her. she treated me badly, ignoring my calls most time and when she picked it, it would be a nightmare. She was so arrogant, rude and unpleasant. there was a day she told me she couldn't date me because I was so broke. She slapped me and threw dirty water on my clothes. It got to me that day and I was very depressed. I moved on.. despite the whole ugly event.

I got a job in a big firm two years ago and I can say I'm comfortable now. she called asking for an assistance I think I'm capable of rendering. Should I help her out? please I need your sincere advice..
guy pls i beg u in the name of God, pls help her but dnt allow d feelings of the odd comes in. Help her and move on wit ur life, be a bigger person

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Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by Princeemmymu: 11:45am On May 29, 2017
Kayus4real:
there was this girl I loved some times ago. I really loved her, I could do anything for her. she treated me badly, ignoring my calls most time and when she picked it, it would be a nightmare. She was so arrogant, rude and unpleasant. there was a day she told me she couldn't date me because I was so broke. She slapped me and threw dirty water on my clothes. It got to me that day and I was very depressed. I moved on.. despite the whole ugly event.

I got a job in a big firm two years ago and I can say I'm comfortable now. she called asking for an assistance I think I'm capable of rendering. Should I help her out? please I need your sincere advice..
... Biblical help, morally forget her, no help at all..... I think i go with dont help at all, she already look down on u, inshort to hell with her
Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by Adadioranma79(f): 11:45am On May 29, 2017
Parasite? Did I read a different story? Thought its the 1st and only time she's asking for his help? Wisdom they say is profitable to direct.


authoruege post=56965719]I'm surprised you still have any form of contact or communication with a such a person.

My advice, just ignore her, delete her contacts, block her on every forum and don't look back. I detest parasites.

I'm sure there are still some members of your family, some aunties, uncles, cousins that you can render same help to, that would be forever grateful. [/quote]
Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by xtivin(m): 11:46am On May 29, 2017
Kayus4real:
there was this girl I loved some times ago. I really loved her, I could do anything for her. she treated me badly, ignoring my calls most time and when she picked it, it would be a nightmare. She was so arrogant, rude and unpleasant. there was a day she told me she couldn't date me because I was so broke. She slapped me and threw dirty water on my clothes. It got to me that day and I was very depressed. I moved on.. despite the whole ugly event.

I got a job in a big firm two years ago and I can say I'm comfortable now. she called asking for an assistance I think I'm capable of rendering. Should I help her out? please I need your sincere advice..
Show her undeserved mercy as God as also shown you undeserved mercy, but never look up to anything in return. God bless you
Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by ikp120(m): 11:47am On May 29, 2017
What if I tell you that she doesn't need help, she just wants to milk you based on the fact that you asked her out before.

That's how evil most girls are. Ignore her bro.

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Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by mrsheddy(m): 11:47am On May 29, 2017
Why not call her and inform her that you are coming over. Dress in ur finest cloth and go in ur Lexus car.
Go to her house, walk up to her, draw her close and whisper in her, "thunder fire you.

How abt that undecided undecided grin grin grin
Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by vitality22(m): 11:47am On May 29, 2017
Kayus4real:
there was this girl I loved some times ago. I really loved her, I could do anything for her. she treated me badly, ignoring my calls most time and when she picked it, it would be a nightmare. She was so arrogant, rude and unpleasant. there was a day she told me she couldn't date me because I was so broke. She slapped me and threw dirty water on my clothes. It got to me that day and I was very depressed. I moved on.. despite the whole ugly event.

I got a job in a big firm two years ago and I can say I'm comfortable now. she called asking for an assistance I think I'm capable of rendering. Should I help her out? please I need your sincere advice..
i will advice you to help her for the sake of humanity. i will also advice you just get her account number and credit her account, no need to see her face again. I had same experience though while looking for a job in PH. Though, mine didnt throw water at me.
Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by Emmahunk(m): 11:47am On May 29, 2017
Kathmandu:
Don't help her. She doesn't deserve your help.


Imagine pouring water on you? Tell her to go to Hell

That's harsh. If we keep paying back evil with evil, the world will be a horrible place. Show some love
Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by nurex01(m): 11:49am On May 29, 2017
Kayus4real:
there was this girl I loved some times ago. I really loved her, I could do anything for her. she treated me badly, ignoring my calls most time and when she picked it, it would be a nightmare. She was so arrogant, rude and unpleasant. there was a day she told me she couldn't date me because I was so broke. She slapped me and threw dirty water on my clothes. It got to me that day and I was very depressed. I moved on.. despite the whole ugly event.

I got a job in a big firm two years ago and I can say I'm comfortable now. she called asking for an assistance I think I'm capable of rendering. Should I help her out? please I need your sincere advice..


Weldone. Hmm! I sight you. Help her, that is not the end of life na.
Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by Amadaz(m): 11:50am On May 29, 2017
My guy, make u no help am at all. She go see you as mugu instead. Those girls no get conscience at all at all, Im telling you!

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Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by Pritypussi(f): 11:51am On May 29, 2017
she is the arrogant type.. I'm sure she won't even look at you at the point of death .

one good turn deserves another.. one bad turn will deserve another too

why are you still talking with her? she might turn you to maga and even use charm on you. run

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Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by Sokoflow(m): 11:51am On May 29, 2017
Yes,you can help her. But don't go back to your vomit( contemplating of dating her) as she could be wanting you guys to date now since she knows you are financially okay.

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Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by judgedredd22(m): 11:51am On May 29, 2017
Kathmandu:
Don't help her. She doesn't deserve your help.


Imagine pouring water on you? Tell her to go to Hell

Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by Ijaya123: 11:51am On May 29, 2017
firstking01:
If you think you are bigger than the money she's asking i 'll advice you just help her for humanity sake and pls be strict while giving her the money...don't stand there and be smiling and drooling sheepishly after she tells you thank you in an alluring way cos i know she must give you this inviting look after you give her the money....giving her the money shows you are way out of her league and class....secondly, it'd speak maturity of you giving her the money and wanting nothing in returnundecided…we 've all been there....that's a typical attitude of a nigerian girl, after turning you down she 'll still come around to ask you for favour....most of them have no shame....just assist her and walk away and go and look for a berra girlundecided…

How much is she asking for?
Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by alan333(m): 11:52am On May 29, 2017
You ain't wise!
Though it's good 2 help but not that kind of lady.

If you've money and don't know what 2 use it for...go and donate to the old people's home/motherless babies home.

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Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by Nobody: 11:52am On May 29, 2017
op u need to remind her about what she did to you and tell her that you cant have anything to do with her.

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Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by bareal(m): 11:53am On May 29, 2017
Why are u telling us?
You no see Kunle Afolayan, Zeb Ejiro, Tunde Kelani and co for dia? Like say na we go help u produce ur new movie.

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Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by Nobody: 11:53am On May 29, 2017
O. P instead of you to help that girl. See me help! I promise, I will not pour you dirty water.

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Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by Charly68: 11:54am On May 29, 2017
This is the time to play real man...give her a call and help her while you keep mute over whatever has happened in the past..throw her into terrible suspended terror. Play the card very well & she will be the one to run after you ,who knows she may be your wife in reality...for playing hard to get,she has shown her stuff & could be relied upon. The reality of life has hit her and that is why she is calling on you for make up.. She may not really need your money but your attention. Good luck guy.

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Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by judgedredd22(m): 11:54am On May 29, 2017
adajoe555:



I would say you should help her...don't pay back evil with evil..she never know how tomorrow would be.. now she is asking for your assistance ...but make sure you don't go into any relationship with her




Advice to ladies ..never look down on guys because they are broke ..because you don't know what tomorrow will bring ....# God bless my broke boyfriend #

Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by KHALIFORNIA(m): 11:54am On May 29, 2017
Ehyaaaa... tell her that thunder go fire her to that same spot she poured you dirty water.. itz justifiable...

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Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by evy1(m): 11:55am On May 29, 2017
Am sure you have already made up your mind,so follow your instincts..but please use a condom if the need arises grin

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Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by ring7(m): 11:56am On May 29, 2017
had it been she didn't reject you you would be wallowing in love ,the rejection made you step UP on your game,
Karma is a bitch....

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Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by firstking01(m): 11:57am On May 29, 2017
Ijaya123:


How much is she asking for?
I think the original poster is in a better position to answer that.
Re: She Abused Me When I Asked Her Out. She Is Really In Need Of My Assistance Now. by Nobody: 11:57am On May 29, 2017
Kathmandu:
she doesn't deserve any help from him.
a good female doesn't close eye at all past
dude assist her it's earns more respect
your hand will always be on top by God's grace

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