EMIOMOADEOYE:


I contest that.

Most guys will scorn at the sight of such. Guys are aware that a "poolse" can be shined by several different kinds of "stickies" - including the ones with some dreadful disease. Infact, there is a way a girl would dress and appear and the only picture in a guys head is that of a public toilet

Who's this hood rat again Have you washed your boyfriend's stinky toilet today?

Ezionye:


Your mental case is definitely different.

frenzyduchess:
and who the hell goes to her fiancée's parents house half naked?,there is something called dressing for the occasion which is the freedom you folks lack ,it must really suck wearing that thing everywhere you go, now , if you call wearing a gown or denim rugged trouser or a high waist mini skirt as indecent, then ,i say to you again, mind your business, not every one must look like a ninja

Angel196:


Wait, why isn't dressing half naked the mode dressing for visiting a fiance's parents? Cause its decent?

Are the girls below wearing hijab? What can you say about their dressing?

Ezionye:


Your mental case is definitely different.

Fabulocity:
Who's this hood rat again Have you washed your boyfriend's stinky toilet today?

pocohantas:
In a bid to sound or look modern, I think we should still maintain some level decency. I don't think it's ideal for a lady to be disrespected for her dressing, that would look like we're making excuses for perverts.

In all, decency is key, you can look decent and appealing. Decency isn't outdated, your dressing goes a long way in determining how you'll be addressed. Most of you girls attacking the OP, have a picture of how you love your man to be dressed. It doesn't apply to females alone.

cristianisraeli:



i agree with this your statement below the rest maybe not..we have seen videos online were men stone and harass ladies for wearing mini skirts,in a good country that man will go to jail

I don't think it's ideal for a lady to be disrespected for her dressing, that would look like we're making excuses for perverts.

cristianisraeli:



what do you have to say about wearing bikinis at the beach or swimming pools..LOL..would that be indecent too as well?we all know some people want their own private pools for women only and they want to cover their heads as well

pocohantas:
In a bid to sound or look modern, I think we should still maintain some level decency. I don't think it's ideal for a lady to be disrespected for her dressing, that would look like we're making excuses for perverts.

In all, decency is key, you can look decent and appealing. Decency isn't outdated, your dressing goes a long way in determining how you'll be addressed. Most of you girls attacking the OP, have a picture of how you love your man to be dressed. It doesn't apply to females alone.

pocohantas:

It's wrong to attack anyone for dressing in a way that doesn't appeal to you. I would never support violence.

Let's not forget that even 'decently' dressed girls are attacked too, though not physically. We all know the insults deeper life ladies receive... That's to show that both sides don't have it easy.
Strike a balance.

Angel196:


You didn't answer my question abouaboutthose girls who you can't use hijab to judge. Are they decent or not?

About swimming and co. At least they have a good reason for being in bikinis or swimming trunks. We are talking about who roam nowhere near water but are still half naked, what's their excuse? Heat?

Angel196:


Wait, why isn't dressing half naked the mode dressing for visiting a fiance's parents? Cause its decent?

Are the girls below wearing hijab? What can you say about their dressing?

rebirthforgoody:
They say truth is bitter.she is right a woman shouldn't be exposing her precious body.dear keep it up you are really a woman not just a woman but great one at that.

Fabulocity:
You have a good point and if this was how the silly OP presented her points in the first place, she wouldn't have received this kind of backlash. Yes decency is key and I must add, very subjective. We all have different ideas of what "modest" dressing is. She shouldn't have come out to outrightly condemn and judge all those that she feels do not dress well. And why on earth would she blame them for being disrespected by perverts? She shouldn't shame anyone while trying to pass across her points.

Angel196:


Hahaha, jealousy my foot. I'm just sick and tired of those sort of girls whining and complaining about things they brought on their selves. Yes, they can dress the way they like as long as they keep their miseries to their selves.

Believe me, they have nothing I can be jealous of.

It might sound harsh but it's the truth.

cristianisraeli:


you are still not getting my point...and that is..its their life and everyone have the right to do whatever they please to do..well,we know saudi women cant go to the beach can they?or even wear bikinis..for me i think your word decency is not the way a woman decide to dress..its her character that makes her decent and not her dress,OK.thats my point

Aderola15:


Quite obvious from your first comment.

Fabulocity:
You have a good point and if this was how the silly OP presented her points in the first place, she wouldn't have received this kind of backlash. Yes decency is key and I must add, very subjective. We all have different ideas of what "modest" dressing is. She shouldn't have come out to outrightly condemn and judge all those that she feels do not dress well. And why on earth would she blame them for being disrespected by perverts? She shouldn't shame anyone while trying to pass across her points.

Angel196:



You can try to ignore it but dressing is a very big part of decency.

Again about the Saudi and religion, I never made specifics about religion? You did not me. I never said only Muslims dress decently neither did I say people from other religions aren't.

You might think it's only her character that matters but before people know her character, it's her dressing they'll see and judge her by. Most people don't even get to know your character. So what's stopping them from showcasing themselves as modest and responsible through their dressing?

frenzyduchess:
now you seem to miss the point,you cant go to a club and expect to see this kind of dressing there,I believe I have listed what you muslims usually tag indecent dressing, like I said, you dont go to a club wearing that ,that's why its called dressing for the occasion which is the freedom you folks lack,even this type of dressing especially the one on white gown is still considered indecent according to Muslims ,so shut it and face front my friend, we all can't be ninjas ,simple

Angel196:



People and their thirst to turn something wrong to something right.

Stop dragging religion into this, it's making you seem desperate and pathetic especially since the photos I posted has nothing to do with Islam.

What do guys who go to club go there to do? Pick up a responsible laday? Huh, I never knew. Sorry for my ignorance.

You can't fault someone for thinking you're a hooker when you're dressed like one. Bitter truth.

evexx1:


I couldn't possibly care what you think.

If my comments hurt you or anger you, please sharpen a knife and sit on it.

evexx1:


Cursing?
Please Google the word, you dunno what it means clearly.

What is it with some guys on here?

Doesn't the word "disagree" exist in your world? When did disagreeing become such a bad thing?
Community school graduates sha.

cristianisraeli:



seriously..we day talk serious matter and you carry your scam enter,ok..continue

bpee:
are u saying expensive clothes can't be worn without being half unclad? Are there not super rich ladies who look hot and slay who still do not expose their bodies?

cristianisraeli:


well lets say your talking from the nigerian side..because of our culture and all that.but dressing does not mean a woman is decent.theres something called disguise,ok..decency is a womans character and not the way shes dressed,ok.i told you some men love their women hot and sexy,[/b]ok..[b]you know what they say about dont judge a book by its cover?..so dont judge a woman by the way shes dressed,ok..it might just be a disguise..in other countries people dress the way they want.i asked you about nudist...what will you say about them?i made mention of religion so you can stop been robin hood and come out straight..we all know why you are sounding this way even if you try to again..disguise..LOL

Dimples182:
This is some country mindset
No, you should not judge people by what they wear, that's shallow. Because a woman wears a short dress or skirt does not mean she is less of a woman or human being.
The fact that this is coming from another woman is just sad.

Angel196:



Don't judge a book by its cover... A book can never stop being judge by its cover mister even by those who preach otherwise.

Discussing with you isn't going anywhere especially since you see nothing wrong in going around half naked.

Have a nice night.

selflessmaya:


the OP is not female, i know the handle, it was changed to female by him. the internalized misogyny is laughable but then i remember there are girls who dont have the means to live above it and deal with it everyday so i wont trivialize it. a woman should wear what she wants and live free without dumb ppl talking trash but ppl like OP love to rant about other ppl's bodies as if it's theirs to decide what goes where.