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ikeepitreal:
Bad guys are more attractive and mysterious.They bear a charisma of manly attributes that most females conform to, mentally and physically.

OP, this is the answer to that your question. God bless your wisdom

[quote author=Cleopatra4 post=58008557]May I know your definition of a good guy?
Remember we have our flaws too.
Waiting.. [/quot

See,the idea I had from reading comments here is that if u don't cheat on your girlfriend,you're a good guy and if you have many 'chicks' and numerous 'side chicks' u are a very bad boy..?
I think being 'good' is more than that.I don't think anyone is so good,so to speak,but as you rightly pointed out, we all have our flaws and relationship for me basically means which persons flaws can you manage..

And by the way being boring and timid is not the same as being a good guy..

Mosseuirdoctore:
Who is actually'good'??
If I don't cheat on my girlfriend??
What if I don't cheat but physically and psychologically abuse her..? Am I still a good guy..?
What if I don't cheat but drink and smoke chronically...?? Doesn't have a plan nor vision..??
Who really is a good guy..??

You share my thoughts jare

I thank God. I'm a good guy and got a good lady with happy home. My marriage is 13yrs now glowing everyday with the wisdom of God.

God bless the op for this topic,honestly am a victim.Am the best guy any lady can dream to have,but have not been lucky to have a good lady.
You need to be close to know how good and devoted I can be to a lady.

pansophist:
The problem with good guys is that they appeal to ladies logic, instead of her animalistic instinct. They shower gift, they have no personality, easily controlled and can't stand on their ground.

Worshipping and treating her good only makes her consider you a good guy. The kind she needs advice from, the kind she calls her brother and the kind that are faithful members in her friendzone tribe.

Humans are not attracted to niceness, and if being nice is all you have, then expect to be at the bottom of the romantic pool. Attraction are combination of charm, mysterious, unpredictability, in control, masculinity, etc.

U sound so great .... May God keep nourishing ur psychological brain!!!

harlos:
Good boy wasn't patient enough to make good friend before rushing into relationship...

Marry ur best friend.

In other words, good guys spent all their time chasing after their dreams and never had time to make friends with the opposite sex.

Then eventually like you rightly said, the good guys rushed into relationships and ultimately landed into the wrong hands because they never took the time to build a good relationship.

I think this the real situation. And if this is the case, then the good guys are helpless.

That is because good girls don't like good guys.

Cleopatra4:
I disagree with you...
There are good people out there.

Look deeply in ur conscience and ask ur self ur u good,have u never lied,insulted,have sexual fantasies,gossip e.t.c . your part of this bad world thats y u av done some of this things.good boys and girls is an imaginary word.one way or d other this things will play out in ur relationship

Mr Bam no woman ugly just apply the right cash to the right places you will see the testimony but wait a minute bros beauty and good attitude,virtue,hardworking lady,good cook,God fearing lady and above all respect which one do you want? As for me you or you fine but just get small change,and value for a woman I no send abeg who beauty and handsomeness help?

Macgabe:
OP, this is the answer to that your question. God bless your wisdom

lol, Amen, bro.

This issue is complicated.

tosyne2much:
That brings us to the conclusion that good people sometimes do not get the best in life

Classic fallacy

Good guys lack the lies the good girls want to hear
good guys are too open and simple, while Dem gals like complications and competition
good guys are too gentle for their liking
good girls don't think they just flow with the abundant lies that the bad guys feed them at the end dem go start to regret

This prayer is for me AMEN AMEN FIRE



Wishing all a Happy and Prosperous New Month

matrix600:
Classic fallacy

I believe you saw the word "sometimes"

careytommy7:
Na d koko b dis. I'm just a humble good guy because I no hold.

Na so e dey be baba

BrightEye:
lolz guy, you are right. I can relate to that also.

correct, maybe dats Y i am yet to have a date......Maybe!

ikeepitreal:
Bad guys are more attractive and mysterious.They bear a charisma of manly attributes that most females conform to, mentally and physically.

Then whn they are done wth d good girl, they move on to d next available one.....and the good girl starts crying heartbreak.
And so the circle continues.

The answer is simply , if a retired olosho fall in hand of a bad guy, the guy can easily know all her escape and uncover all the dirty things she is trying to hide. A guy can never guy a guyoyo.

Now every bad guy is looking for a good girl he can easily deceive with sweet talk and she will genuinely fall for him and he will marry her if he has reached age of marriage . So bad Girls can easily deceive good guys and bad guys can easily deceive good girls . Remember two captain can't ride a ship. If you are a bad guy thank your God because you can hardly be deceive by all these evil girls looking for men to devour and blackmail

IMASTEX:
Okay

The answer is simply , if a retired olosho fall in hand of a bad guy, the guy can easily know all her escape and uncover all the dirty things she is trying to hide. A guy can never guy a guyoyo.

Now every bad guy is looking for a good girl he can easily deceive with sweet talk and she will genuinely fall for him and he will marry her if he has reached age of marriage . So bad Girls can easily deceive good guys and bad guys can easily deceive good girls . Remember two captain can't ride a ship. If you are a bad guy thank your God because you can hardly be deceive by all these evil girls looking for men to devour and blackmail

IMASTEX:
Okay

The answer is simply , if a retired olosho fall in hand of a bad guy, the guy can easily know all her escape and uncover all the dirty things she is trying to hide. A guy can never guy a guyoyo.

Now every bad guy is looking for a good girl he can easily deceive with sweet talk and she will genuinely fall for him and he will marry her if he has reached age of marriage . So bad Girls can easily deceive good guys and bad guys can easily deceive good girls . Remember two captain can't ride a ship. If you are a bad guy thank your God because you can hardly be deceive by all these evil girls looking for men to devour and blackmail.

Dats because unlike poles attract, while like poles repel_#winks

'..When a Good guy goes Bad, he's gone for good!..'

The answer is simply , if a retired olosho fall in hand of a bad guy, the guy can easily know all her escape and uncover all the dirty things she is trying to hide. A guy can never guy a guyoyo.

Now every bad guy is looking for a good girl he can easily deceive with sweet talk and she will genuinely fall for him and he will marry her if he has reached age of marriage . So bad Girls can easily deceive good guys and bad guys can easily deceive good girls . Remember two captain can't ride a ship. If you are a bad guy thank your God because you can hardly be deceive by all these evil girls looking for men to devour and blackmail

Any guy with money already knows that most girl's coming to him are all gold diggers

what about quiet bad guy

Primenet:
The solution is marry your best friend

You and I know how difficult it is to build such long friendship.

habdulafeez:
that's the irony of life. it baffles me a lot actually.

Unlike attract
That all

DonroxyII:
This is the only correct assertion .....

Bad guys/bad girls has sample more than enough girls/guys to know and understand all the attributes of oloshos, runs girlz, playboy etc, while the good guys /good girls are novice in the game of relationship without adequate skills to decipher all needed to be known in a guy/girl!!!

So, a bad guy can easily know a bad girl and each will be trying to outsmart one another at last they dropped one another , it depends on who zap each other first but they both know non of them is husband/wife material


The good guy can easily fall into pretentious behaviours of bad girls, cuz when a bad girl see a husband material dem sabi how to repackage and spoil such person with love and gifts while the good girl can become somewhat boring even in bedmatics and love/manner games!!!


Also, the good girl can easily fall for a player/runz guys, runz guy will marry good girl for keep at home, while carrying out his gigolo activities for outside .... thus good girl for family , gigolo for business !!!


Conclusively, good girl/good guy doesn't have the necessary skill/experience to decipher who is a bad guy and who is a bad girl .... while bad guy/bad girl knows and understand who to bang for money and who to bang for love !!!



I nearly fall into d hand of a bad girl, she be full Christian/Muslim but confirm runzgirl but I maybe cool looking and gentle but when the chip is down I gatz my sense ..... she gave me my best sex ever and doesn't require anything from me than Marriage while a good girl I dated before her, today my school fees is not complete, tomorrow my daddy beat my sister, next tomorrow, taxi driver nearly harassed me.....

deep down me I know the runz girl is not marriageable but for an average good guy out there with such a girlfwend, you may not be able to look more inward before sealing d deal then GBAM .....


Oloshos/playboys know how to make a good guy/girl feel at home...... Most girls like the aura of playboys and the energy and illumination they bring to relationship , most dull girls don't like dull guys because deep down these girls they are burning but are concealing it so, they needed a somebody who understand female anatomy to help them sparkle the sensations which most good guys can't do ...... but only a player knows how to tell a girl what she really wanna know and what is right about her .... Good girl will fall easily for such!!!


Most times, good guy/girl finds good girl/guy boring .....

When a bad guy tell a bad girl I love you, the bad girl will just look him and smile , no be today nyansh dey for back Na .... vice versa!!!

I tuale 4 dis post.

Undiluted truth