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Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 10:57am On Jul 20, 2017 |
frenzyduchess: Yes so why are we fighting? why not look for the well-bred ones..? or you think they don't exist? Na big fat lie aunty |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 10:58am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Lionessza: Be cope with a man, look out for the gaps...you'll find d truth there...the devil is in the details? are u single and pretty? on a scale of one to ten how nice are you? |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 11:01am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Lionessza:It takes two to tango. I'm not saying married men shouldn't be blamed but these girls dating them shouldn't be exonerated either. If we fold our hands and keep blaming these men 200% like you said they'll never change. Women also have a role to play in order to ensure that another woman's marriage doesn't crash. BTW, single girls dating married men have more to lose than these men. "I had no idea" seem like a childish stunt to me 'cause married men leave clues. There're hours they don't take calls, their rendezvous is always secretive, the kind of company they keep is another thing to look into but some would just pay a blind eye and say "He never told me". Do predators inform its prey before attacking?. |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Lionessza(f): 11:04am On Jul 20, 2017 |
connectpoint: From that point on i stalked any potential bf to find out where he lived and with who? . No , I'm married. Nice ? I think the people who know me should do the rating but since they aren't here , I would say 8 . 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 11:05am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Lionessza: was that how you found your hubby ? the potential bf you stalked ? |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 11:06am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Benita27: Exactly what i've been trying to say |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 11:06am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Lionessza:I am not clutching to straws You brought in a bias example to prove your point, so I equally tried it on you First of all, ops case is in Nigeria (Africa) and because it doesn't exist else where dosent mean it dosent exist in Africa There are ladies stealing married rich men because of jealousy, it may not be popular else where because the economy is better and there is very little to be jealous of And who told you Asians don't have diabolical means |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 11:09am On Jul 20, 2017 |
connectpoint:Making excuses for wrongs like married men are some sort of invisible being that can't be identified. |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 11:10am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Benita27: I don't know what to say..life has screwed us all. |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 11:26am On Jul 20, 2017 |
connectpoint: I'm glad you've said this: that not all men are cheats. That is very true. There are many good men out there and I know that for a fact. But, here on NL, you find some guys peddling the notion that women have no choice but to accept a cheat for a husband, because it is in the DNA of a man to cheat; and that it is unreasonable for a woman to expect faithfulness from her man. I know that they probably try to sell this idea so that women lower their expectations and allow men get away with disrespecting them like that. But it's to that that I say: IF the concept of fidelity is beyond the emotional evolvement of men, why get married? I didn't say: SINCE it is beyond......... So please don't be offended by that. It is not a claim. You can say that it's not beyond men. And since it isn't, then they should be faithful to their spouses and be held solely accountable for their actions when they're not. |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by profsomebody(m): 11:29am On Jul 20, 2017 |
sunshineG:Leave her abeg. I don't know which man discusses his wife's bedmatic skills with his friends? Moreover, which young bachelor will be looking for how to woo his friend's wife with a slack pun..ana because of bedmatics? When fresh single babes are everywhere? Note also that it's women who need more work before they reach orgasm, hence the reason they kip looking for hu has got d requirements. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by tosyne2much(m): 11:32am On Jul 20, 2017 |
SACI:No sane lady in her right senses will date someone who refuses to take her to his home |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 11:34am On Jul 20, 2017 |
RaggedyAnn: Haba..I can tell you're super intelligent but I think you need to see men as we are... If a man advocates bad, he's not doing it o...at least not as bad as he preaches it...By advocating bad, one looks tough, hence the tendency for many to advocate bad on NL..Like my Japanese sages say, humans many times say the opposite of what they truly feel or who the are..this is to tilt people in the opposite direction of who they are so they can not be figured out...suffice to say, people say the opposite of how they feel or who they are...deep within...it is an emotional insurance against emotional liability... You dig ? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 11:35am On Jul 20, 2017 |
profsomebody: Lol @ Note also that it's women who need more work before they reach orgasm, hence the reason they kip looking for hu has got d requirements. |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by profsomebody(m): 11:37am On Jul 20, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Tell dem. Most of them know deep down their minds that d guy has got something to hide but side attractions won't let them reason. You c a cute, comfortable man in his early forties, he says he's not married and u open ur smelly kitty. |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by sekem: 11:48am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Lionessza: I don't why you have this idea that in such relationship where side chics exists, the men involved have the free pass to continue with their pussy_hunting activities but I tell you it is not really like that. You see, in most cases, these wives fighting those side chics are oftentimes also fighting their husband at home but that's like an internal war Ideally, the man should never break his vows to his wife which is what gives rise to the side chic saga in the first place but in reality is that really the case? You and I know it is not Now, lemme tell you the mindset of a wife fighting the side chic. Obviously, for reasons best known to her, she treasures or should I say, she still values her husband above every other thing which is why she still wants to keep him. If not, it would have been much more easier for her to walk away from her marriage but in reality, you know it's not that easy. So she settles for fighting her aggressor as a more practical option. Any side chic who knows that she may become a victim of public harassment or physical attack might think twice before giving in to the advances of the man. Look at this scenario. When the US forces were fighting the German forces in World War II, the Americans went ahead and bombed Hiroshima in Japan. Why? You see, Japan was an ally of Germany and with that bombing, the war automatically came to an end! Moral Lesson: Sometimes when you want to tackle a very difficult problem, practically wise, you don’t just concentrate on the source of the problem only. My wish for you is that you won't find yourself in the position where you have to fight for your husband with some side chics because should that happen, only then will you come to fully understand the mindset of wives who fight their husbands' side chics... |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by tosyne2much(m): 11:49am On Jul 20, 2017 |
profsomebody:U don get am baba |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Lionessza(f): 11:56am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Benita27: Obviously those women should be blamed too, what they are doing causes a lot of heartache and breaks homes. These are probably women who derive pleasure from seeing others hurt and broken, can we ever get rid of such people?. These women are a disgrace to womanhood and humanity for being willing participants in these types of relationships, but then again who knows if some people weren't born to be distractions to the weak minded to test their loyalties?. Again , who do I blame the most between my husband who promised me loyalty and respect (samethings he should expect from me) and some random bitch without values? . There are many men out there who target married women for affairs too, should they be blamed if I start loosing my values and sleeping with them and thereby joining the " oh well all these men offering d*cks all over the place should be stopped cus they are destroying marriages " gang ? . How about staying away from trouble in the first place. You know you are married and you know what that means. Knowing what I know now about married people as a grown up woman, I would have noticed on the second day that he was married. He texted a lot in the evenings and never called but being a naive fresh out of varsity girl I thought that was " hot" lol. Plus he was young and fun( not the type you would suspect for being married ). I know there are women who play the I was " duped card" while the fully knew. Anyways the question still remains, what the hell is a married man attempting relationships with other women for? . When you know who you are and what you stand for , why would you allow me to come and change you?. Those sorts of men are directionless , disloyal weaklings to me. The type that would be corrupt if put in a leadership position. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Lionessza(f): 12:01pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
connectpoint: No I didn't have to stalk him, I grew up with him so I knew most of the things I wanted to know about him and was satisfied enough to marry him. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by chumakk: 12:01pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
Safiaa:how will you not know? Are you not the one advising ladies not date broke guys? You know many single guys in Nigeria are not that rich. |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 12:04pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
profsomebody:
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Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 12:05pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
Lionessza: Cute |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by sekem: 12:11pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
profsomebody: Don't mind the girl She thinks she will remain hot forever, that is, if she's even that hot in the first place Obviously, she hasn't heard that 1. While men age like wine; women age like milk 2. It is a man's world |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by pocohantas(f): 12:56pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
Barzinime:This would only make sense if you can say same about men who sleep with other people's wives, knowing that she is married. |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Blessed16(m): 1:00pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
Estharfabian:hahahahahahaha, this one weak me ooo |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Lionessza(f): 1:35pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
sunshineG: Don't pull that crap on me young man . I told you I live in a diverse society with people of different beliefs but each and every group has cheating lying men. Are these men all bewitched? Lol. How did these women access these rich men in the first place ?. Where did I say Asians don't do that ? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Nobody: 1:41pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
Lionessza:yeah my lady, people cheat for different reasons My assertions were based on cheating men in Africa not Asia I have not been to Asia before so I can't make assertion on asia Perhaps you did not understand my point, ladies in Asia may cheat with their married men for other reasons sis Yes you said you don't think a chick in asia will use diabolical means to get a man |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by SonofDevil: 1:43pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
pocohantas:a man can. Declare two wife in the public I am waiting for the day women replicate that. Continue living in self delusion hope you will cheat on ur husband with me when u caught him cheating on you |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by pocohantas(f): 1:43pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
SonofDevil:.....k |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Lionessza(f): 1:45pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
sekem: Now you have resorted to telling me about the actions of the wife against the sidechick. Why did this man not honour his vows in the first place? . Why is he disloyal to the person he promised loyalty to? Why disrespect his home?. As for the statement about me, never would I fight anyone for a weak coward who can't face me and tell me what his problem is with me , but instead goes behind my back to get gratification elsewhere. I would rather spend the rest of my life alone and in peace than fight to keep someone who can't fight for me . In as much as I love him, but I love and value myself more. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by Lionessza(f): 1:47pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
connectpoint: What's cute ? |
Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by WORLDPEACE(m): 1:51pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
Lionessza:It's not easy to be a man. It's not easy to be a man with a diiick. |
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