ibkayee:

It isn't 'in a way', if the guy has no respect for his marriage/relationship, why would the sidechick? You’d also be surprised at how many sidechicks aren't aware that their partner is already with someone. When she does know though, it's a 50/50 effort at the very least

Women who involve themselves with anyone knowing that they're already in a relationship are a disgrace and you'll probably lose him the same way you got him

Chommieblaq:

A million like for all your response.
A man cheats and the side chic is being blamed. Who took the vow with the woman? What made the husband to look for succour outside his home in the first place?
A man cheats, instead addressing the issue with the man, they will be busy slut shaming the side chic.
Not to mention, some women even cheat more than the men.

Blackhawk03:


Should a lady say no to the advances of a married man, it's simply because of her own moral standard not because she's supposed to keep another woman's man in check biko. Is chasing everything in skirt with your wedding band on fair? What happened to the man's self worth, where is the respect to his wife and their matrimony?

sunshineG:
who says men are the only one chasing
Look at those senators for example, there are like 10 girls chasing and running after their contact
Apart from married men, look at how davido baby mamas are so proud of how davido slept with them both, look how many picture they display on the interne

Now tell how davido was chasing after those once

connectpoint:


You didn't include Abuja, the senetorial quarters..although e don dey cast.. back in d days, it was a market square for girls..

When Ajah too first opened up, you need to see, 2pm 3pm 4pm, they carry their tooth pick legs all over the place upandan...


it's ladies exploiting weak men at the expense of women..it's a cycle

Safiaa:
Exactly. I unknowingly dated a man who was married for a few months. I had absolutely no idea that he was married. It wasn't until his wife came back from Nigeria, and things turned left, and she saw us. When the confrontation happened, she was trying to fight me not her husband. And i had no idea, i was honestly confused. I just wish more women would learn to digress their issues towards their husbands no matter what the situation may be. Some of these married men behave like dogs honestly.

HannahHitler:
op it's not anybody's fault if you marry a dog.

there will always be women of easy virtue and your dog. sorry I meant husband is ready to spend your children's school fees on them.

Try to check your husband every morning if he actually wears his ring.

Safiaa:
Exactly. I unknowingly dated a man who was married for a few months. I had absolutely no idea that he was married. It wasn't until his wife came back from Nigeria, and things turned left, and she saw us. When the confrontation happened, she was trying to fight me not her husband. And i had no idea, i was honestly confused. I just wish more women would learn to digress their issues towards their husbands no matter what the situation may be. Some of these married men behave like dogs honestly.

Blackhawk03:


God will bless you ooo Safiaa. That was how one foolish one made me believe he was single and searching while having a wife with two beautiful daughters outside Naija. I still thank God whenever I remember how everything played out. These guys don't have conscience ahswear, the kinda lies they pull to cover their tracks are outta this world. #Spits

connectpoint:


When yu first saw him didn't it feel like you won a lottery ?

Blackhawk03:


My dear, I just settle like say I don reach my last bus stop nii ooo. Complete package

CarterKim:
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Safiaa:
Exactly. I unknowingly dated a man who was married for a few months. I had absolutely no idea that he was married. It wasn't until his wife came back from Nigeria, and things turned left, and she saw us. When the confrontation happened, she was trying to fight me not her husband. And i had no idea, i was honestly confused. I just wish more women would learn to digress their issues towards their husbands no matter what the situation may be. Some of these married men behave like dogs honestly.

pocohantas:

Envious of what Sir?

Funny question @OP.
A man cheats on his wife, and you think the problem is women supporting each other? You go on to see the other woman as the enemy who isn't supporting you. The men that support you women, why can't they keep to their vows?

Afam4eva:
The heart of man is desperately wicked, who can know it..

This is not an issue of women not supporting women. It's an issue of humans being at the very wicked and covetous self. If a man who said his vows to his wife, who probably now has children can insult the sanctity of his marriage for another woman, why should another woman be castigated for having an affair with the said man. I think we need to stop putting the blame at the door step of the side chicks.

Asorockqueen:
The rate at which some couples break up is now alarming and records have shown that it's always the cause of some side chicks, Why do some girls always find joy in seeing their fellow girls suffer in marriage, I know we have to blame the men in a way but most girls are quick to do anything to have the man, well I just want to say whatever you reap you shall sow, Ladies let's learn to support each other

GogobiriLalas:
Because the stupid white man's nonsense is evolutionarily and biologically unrealistic, statistics show that more baby girls are born and women outnumber men 5 to 1, if a man that's meant to be managing 5 women at least is being monopolized by one of the women, what happens to the remaining 4 women? Hence the growth of baby mamism, oloshoriosis and side chikism

Amarabae:
A sharpner may not be able to stop the pencil from going to other sharpners.
So a sharpner must make its blades sharp to be on top of the game in trapping the pencil.

Amarabae:
A sharpner may not be able to stop the pencil from going to other sharpners.
So a sharpner must make its blades sharp to be on top of the game in trapping the pencil.

BluntBoy:



What is this one saying?

GogobiriLalas:
Because the stupid white man's nonsense is evolutionarily and biologically unrealistic, statistics show that more baby girls are born and women outnumber men 5 to 1, if a man that's meant to be managing 5 women at least is being monopolized by one of the women, what happens to the remaining 4 women? Hence the growth of baby mamism, oloshoriosis and side chikism