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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by menwongo(m): 8:56pm On Aug 13, 2017
Op just drop a sarcasm.
She actually meant "why are ladies of nowadays not caring for their boyfriend"



Who know wetin guys the suffer for women hand?

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by ngwaba(m): 8:56pm On Aug 13, 2017
Caring in what sense? Is it the one that you people will carry all your problems in the family and expect him to carry it on his head?

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by abbeyty(m): 8:56pm On Aug 13, 2017
She is talking as if good and caring girls are easy to come by

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by acehood907(m): 8:57pm On Aug 13, 2017
chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.
see you I really love my girlfriend actually I always spend.....always on her so go look for a good guy first
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by dumodust(m): 8:58pm On Aug 13, 2017
Caring ladies= caring guys, dont expect what you cant give
People usually mirror the actions or affections they see in others
Those who dont are the cold ones, the the other extrene are the obsessive.., both types are turn offs

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by kosire(m): 8:58pm On Aug 13, 2017
Girls their useless chicken brain dey vex me

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Ahmeduana(m): 9:00pm On Aug 13, 2017
chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.
WHY IS THAT MOST LADIES ARE EXPECTING THERE BOYFRIEND TO BE OR HUSBAND TO BE, TO THERE A.T.M MACHINE? Now let me give your answer, boys has stop dating ladies that the only investment they are bring to the table is there toto.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by clevadani: 9:00pm On Aug 13, 2017
I find this post ironic.
One thing I've found out about Naija girls is that most of them are unreasonable. They don't know what they want.
Majority of them drive out good guys with good intentions and always complain about bad guys. My only reaction is to laugh.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by torres89: 9:00pm On Aug 13, 2017
marisdgreat:

is it the ones u will reply n they wil start sending u their nude pix n videos initiating sex chats all the time, cant keep a good conversation. take time to reply your msgs on whatsap, while they r online. i just need someone that will understand me, money is important but it shouldnt be a top most priority in a relationship. well i hav met diff types of guys from nairaland wit their weird attitudes n most of them r dating but lookin for a side chick

it's either u have been talking with 2go boys or under graduates

just wondering why a decent guy will send nudes or demand for nudes
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by kosire(m): 9:02pm On Aug 13, 2017
clevadani:
I find this post ironic.
One thing I've found out about Naija girls is that most of them are unreasonable. They don't know what they want.
Majority of them drive out good guys with good intentions and always complain about bad guys. My only reaction is to laugh.
This topic dey vex me like mad...
Some naija girls nah chicken

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by delors(m): 9:03pm On Aug 13, 2017
Maybe u r looking in the wrong place. Look here, care is aplenty.
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Nobody: 9:03pm On Aug 13, 2017
cos you've searched the wrong places
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by 46arcadez(m): 9:03pm On Aug 13, 2017
chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

I have been supportive (academic wise), loving and caring but what did i get in return? Heart break.

Kinda on a low key now

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by edicied: 9:04pm On Aug 13, 2017
kosire:
Girls their useless chicken brain dey vex me
Fish brain you mean grin

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by lereinter(m): 9:04pm On Aug 13, 2017
sorry chibaby
so you never find maga all this while
cos thats what caring, loving, and supportive. mean to ladies

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by THEconqueror: 9:06pm On Aug 13, 2017
marisdgreat:

u are an exception hmm what about the girl that u wanted to marry but she is sexually inactive because now u r telling her that u r available

It's like you had an encounter with the fella
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by BlackyOne: 9:06pm On Aug 13, 2017
just be plain...i know you want to ask why boys dont spend money on you like before and the answer is simple.....money no dey again.

work urself and earn a decent living instead of putting ur burden on guys, na ur papa e b abi e don marry you. waitin b una problem sef .....blood suckin girls and dream killers





olosho

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Aug 13, 2017
chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

How many guys of nowadays have you dated? Oya spill
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by disneyjdkeyz(m): 9:07pm On Aug 13, 2017
chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.
we don wise

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by laborious(m): 9:07pm On Aug 13, 2017
Ehya! You always fall the wrong things, when you do, all other bad. Things will follow..bitter truth
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Aug 13, 2017
I laugh in Japanese ...caring, luving and supportive...I don't think they exist anywayz
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by clevadani: 9:10pm On Aug 13, 2017
kosire:

This topic dey vex me like mad...
Some naija girls nah chicken
I swear. Funny and confused set of people. Na dem go use their own hand drive caring guy, then log on to Nl dey complain say guys no dey caring.
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Emmy0203: 9:13pm On Aug 13, 2017
I think u can google it/asking Buhari why grin
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by thanknairaland1: 9:14pm On Aug 13, 2017
some men r still fooling themselves by giving women money who doesn't care how hard u made d money.

men! better put down ur eyes an look 4 marriable women to settle down with.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Nobody: 9:15pm On Aug 13, 2017
chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.
Do you need a BOYFRIEND or a HUSBAND..??
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by thanknairaland1: 9:15pm On Aug 13, 2017
some men r still fooling themselves by giving women money who doesn't care how hard u made d money. men! better put down ur eyes an look 4 marriable women to settle down with.
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by victorisreal02: 9:15pm On Aug 13, 2017
chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

Your question:- "Why is it hard to find a caring and supportive boyfriend these days"

My answer:- The perfect guy came for you to cherish and accept the rare gift, but instead, you chased him away, reflect back and you'll know what I'm talking about, he's that brother you avoided, that same brother that was ready to do anything for you but you turned him down, and hurt his feelings.

Ladies, a guy is only capable of being a fool for only one girl in his entire life, if he gets turned down by that girl, omo, he'll date like a player. Trust me

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by GuidoVanRossum: 9:15pm On Aug 13, 2017
From my experience, I observed girls chose to take the caring guys for granted. Pride usually gets in the way. When you spontaneously care for them, they start looking for reasons and the motives behind your kind gestures. They start misbehaving and taking you for granted.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Nobody: 9:16pm On Aug 13, 2017
chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

Think about it dear; there could be something you are doing wrong that is making them act weird and not care for you. For every action, there is always a reaction.

I hope you are able to act right and attract that man what will be attentive to your needs.
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Soulsymbol99: 9:17pm On Aug 13, 2017
Effizy12:
Guys are now wise, #OurMumuDonDo

Gbam! grin three gbosa 4 up my guy cool boys r nt smiling angry

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Reeoman: 9:18pm On Aug 13, 2017
Why will they not be scarce when you people have turned all those cares that are really caring into your long lost brother and uncle and you now expect the rest to care?
They know once they show you little caring you will start saying he is my bro na

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Caring, Supportive, Loving Boyfriend Nowadays? by Chukazu: 9:21pm On Aug 13, 2017
When you keep taking them for granted undecided

I beg go receive treatment for injuries

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