SpicyMimi:

Lol we were actually living in the same lodge, we usually spend time together in each other's rooms....the closeness was extremely much, but thank God...our friendship broke and crashed so much till he passed out, then we became just normal friends till now.
In fact it was on the night he was to leave the lodge that we apologized to each other.

The point is....I prayed to God to make us enemies! I wasn't even sure of my prayers but it happened. Only God can save your relationship and marriage.

Hmnn... U see? Imagine u now sleeping in same room (op girlfriend could be sharing a room just saying another room is empty)

CAN U KEEP A GOAT AND A YAM TOGETHER Pls try put my question into Practicals and u know wat to do about yo girlfrnd..........I just dey observe how tinz are happenin

We hav heard Uncles Rapin Nieces, Infact a Nephew is on d Verge of Bleepin his Aunty now.
We hav heard father rapin daughtas. A brother bleepin his Sista et al.........Go listen to "ITS ABOUT THAT TIME" (Timaya ft 2face)

oceanized25:
So my girl friend wants to go for industrial training, I.T, for close to two months in another state and she intends to stay at a male's house, this male she calls "family friend", bear in mind that he does not have a girlfriend or lady that stays with him, he lives alone, she says there is an empty room that she will own all through the duration of her stay so they won't be sleeping or staying in the same room.....

But the idea of her staying with this guy, that they are not related at all does not sit right with me, am not saying he will definitely make a pass or move on her or vice versa but these are members of the opposite sex.......

Am I just being paranoid?

Well.. Unless the guy is gay.... Caused shit is going to get real bro...

pocohantas:


Read the OP, close to 2 months!!! 2 months!!!

You mean you can't stay with a lady who isn't your relative for 2mths without sex What's happening to our youths!?



Now I know better. The OP concerns are well in place, but the fact that almost everyone has concluded they must have sex is very worrying.

even 2 mnths gan, if it was 30 years ago, we wnt b worried but in dis day n age, dem go fvck tire

Yes you are. To be double sure and secured, get her few packets of condom and pnor.

MCzubby247:

Sorry girl, guys don't think like that.
I wish men think like that garri for no cost pass rice

Really?

Lexusgs430:


Haba, all those 65 year old people, claiming youth nko?

How old is Dalung and his hosts of adviser's? Average age?

Their Konji have stopped performing, they are not youth.

oceanized25:
So my girl friend wants to go for industrial training, I.T, for close to two months in another state and she intends to stay at a male's house, this male she calls "family friend", bear in mind that he does not have a girlfriend or lady that stays with him, he lives alone, she says there is an empty room that she will own all through the duration of her stay so they won't be sleeping or staying in the same room.....

But the idea of her staying with this guy, that they are not related at all does not sit right with me, am not saying he will definitely make a pass or move on her or vice versa but these are members of the opposite sex.......

Am I just being paranoid?

She staying with him is the least of your problems; at least in his case you'll know who's screwing your girl.

It's all those unknown guys she'll meet at work and around town you ought to really be worried about.

supereagle:


Their Konji have stopped performing, they are not youth.

You need special deliverance and fasting sessions ......

Essentials1:

You are right to be paranoid and the fact that you are means you don't trust your girl so much and that means she is not the kind of person you can say is very faithful no matter what...

You are not being real here. Do you have a wife or girlfriend that you would be glad or comfortable to be in such a position?

pocohantas:

Reading comments here makes me weak, is this generation now so sex starved? Lord help your children.

You mean, once a guy and a girl are together, next thing is to start fukcing each other? Nawa! Na real wa!!!!

Spotted. Na them type do pass. Lwkmd

Essentials1:


Forces himself on her..... If you check the news that mostly happens to teenagers or between adults and teenagers.

But Beni, look at it this way.. You are a girl and you made up your mind to live with a guy that is not related to you in anyway.. Why would you do that?... What kind of friend is he?. What are you offering for the accommodation he is giving to you?.. Will you wash his clothes sometimes? will you cook for him sometimes? will you boil water for him?... Remember you are not paying for the accommodation and it is these times of recession...

Think of it Beni, the guy forcing himself on her is not the problem... There is something else and if I were the guy, with a stronghead girlfriend, I would make sure I know more about this guy and even make friends with him... In fact being friends with him reduces the chances of him raping her at all...

cc: lalasticlala

I disagree with this......being a friend with him wouldn't help out....The guy has his intention..

pocohantas:

Reading comments here makes me weak, is this generation now so sex starved? Lord help your children.

You mean, once a guy and a girl are together, next thing is to start fukcing each other? Nawa! Na real wa!!!!

aunty d must fxck.. At least once a week

baba once your girlfriend is planning on staying in another man's house, you better plan to have a new girlfriend

Lexusgs430:


Front? The place wey the breast dey? So you wan carry back & I carry front?
Are you advocating a 3some?

Lmao... You no well.

Emaprince:
Lmao... You no well.

My Oga, nah clarification me dey find o......

JUST GO GET THUNDERBOLT ON HER...(MAGUN)..IF not,this guy will service her for you...

I know a church pastors wife that lived with a congregation male member just for 2 weeks Church program in ebonyi state and eventually got her pregnant...

Beware of DENIS ROD-MAN.....

pocohantas:

Reading comments here makes me weak, is this generation now so sex starved? Lord help your children.

You mean, once a guy and a girl are together, next thing is to start fukcing each other? Nawa! Na real wa!!!!

de there de sleep na.... Wetin them wan de do before...

Bross,on behalf of the assistant boyfriends association of Nigeria( ABAN), we welcome you as our newest member and chairman.

On a serious note,no body is expecting the lady to give her body to the guy or for the guy to just go onto the girl.
one clear thing is that you can't put two opposite sex in the same house for long and don't expect any form of attraction.
As time goes on the girl will start doing things like cooking for the guy,washing ,sweeping or any other thing ,likewise the guy and things like this can spark out strong emotions. let's say ur girl is strong enough to withstand the emotions but how long can she?
put yourself in her position and comfort yourself with the truth .

A bird that loves its owner will definitely fly back home to the master .

Another side of this is your girl may not have anything with this guy but you just can't help but to imagine the worst .Just be a man and put your emotions in check not to mess things up yourself.

oceanized25:
So my girl friend wants to go for industrial training, I.T, for close to two months in another state and she intends to stay at a male's house, this male she calls "family friend", bear in mind that he does not have a girlfriend or lady that stays with him, he lives alone, she says there is an empty room that she will own all through the duration of her stay so they won't be sleeping or staying in the same room.....

But the idea of her staying with this guy, that they are not related at all does not sit right with me, am not saying he will definitely make a pass or move on her or vice versa but these are members of the opposite sex.......

Am I just being paranoid?

OP, it's very simple to know all her deeds during her stay. All you need is a "Spy Chat"
pm me for more.

Future kemen and Tboss story loading

sinaj:
Hehe


I comment my reserve

Op abeg even if it's mud house, just rent for her b4...

Let her patents rent a house for her. Her bf is not an atm

Yellowdayzee:
Ok since you don't feel comfortable... Did you offer her an alternative solution

Can you get her another place to stay?

Don't point out a problem without a solution

Can't her parents get her a place to stay? Is the boy an ATM?

Why is guy just getting paranoid, i.t. is not forever, besides if girl goes for national service, will he follow her.
The most impoortant thing is trust and since the lady has been truthful enough to tell him where she will be
staying, he just have faith her or high B.P will not be far from him.

Benita27:
Your post is hammered on trust. What if he trust her and she could close her legs but the dude forces himself on her?.

young lady it seems u don't reside in Nigeria....life is unpredictable.. And in this cold weather anything is bound to happen.. The young man she is planning to stay with is not a robot.. If he was a robot.. Then I would gladly advise the Op to deactivate his dick.. But he is human..

pocohantas:

Reading comments here makes me weak, is this generation now so sex starved? Lord help your children.

You mean, once a guy and a girl are together, next thing is to start fukcing each other? Nawa! Na real wa!!!!

But that is what happens most often than not.......

The risk is not worth taking. Humans will always be humans. Beware!

I don't know why some guys worry about gf so much like this, for Christ sake she's not your wife! Since you can't provide accommodation for her free your mind. You also have six months in the other side is she worried about yours

Lexusgs430:


That's the beauty..... Just ensure while been merry, adequate protection and protocols are observed........

bwaaaah! now you are going back on your word..... are you bipolar?!

if, as you said, A man or woman that would cheat, would still cheat regardless of any hindrance or checks....... then what would be the point of you wasting your life worrying about "adequate protection and observing protocols"?! LIVE YOUR LIFE the best you possibly can and stop having the fear of cheating turn you into a paranoid puppet.

Isn't there anyone else she knows in that state that can accommodate her.
Check her phone and see the kind of chats she has with that guy, you'd be shocked.. Or even pretend to be her and chat the dude up..you'd be shock at the direction of the chats..

.this is because most times when you here this family friend thing, its often a guy she's crushing on.. The IT na just excuse.. And she has boxed you up in a corner, and you can't say no, if you refuse it looks like you are against her progress, if you say yes (when she return na borehole u go meet)..
And u can't so no becos whatever u say, she will still go..

Bro, from personal experience, I've been with someone babe, na IT she use as excuse for her bf..one month drilling and hard IT lessons...hehehe...

Lexusgs430:


You need special deliverance and fasting sessions ......

Deliverance for saying the truth. Begin the prayers for me.