DouglasH92:


You are the one who needs to explore more and read more. What else provides good living if not money? You are a fool if you think any couple living in Nigeria would be happy under a 35,000 a month budget.

This isn't about being rich, this is about living a comfortable lifestyle. 35,000 a month can't give you a comfortable lifestyle.

I wonder what kind of poverty mentality most of you have on this forum sef. See this one talking about exposure. In the same Nigeria we are talking about, there are people who spend hundreds of thousands at clubs and restaurants per day. And this one is talking about living good with 35,000 a month, lol. Even ordinary tecno phone is more expensive than the monthly salary you are comfortable with.

Victornezzar:

oshe rich dude
we agree we are all poverty minded
hope u don't mind if I send u my account number

DouglasH92:


You are the one who needs to explore more and read more. What else provides good living if not money? You are a fool if you think any couple living in Nigeria would be happy under a 35,000 a month budget.

This isn't about being rich, this is about living a comfortable lifestyle. 35,000 a month can't give you a comfortable lifestyle.

I wonder what kind of poverty mentality most of you have on this forum sef. See this one talking about exposure. In the same Nigeria we are talking about, there are people who spend hundreds of thousands at clubs and restaurants per day. And this one is talking about living good with 35,000 a month, lol. Even ordinary tecno phone is more expensive than the monthly salary you are comfortable with.

DouglasH92:


lol I am just saying the hard truth though.

rosalieene:

There are two options

Enduring in the marriage

Or

Leaving the marriage

DouglasH92:

How are they shallow? If you were a girl would you marry a man earning 35,000 a month? Would you allow your sister marry such man?

I hate all this gender biasness you guys exhibit of the forum. Say the truth and stop making excuses for men. No man earning 35,000 a month should be thinking about marriage. And any woman who agrees to marry him is either not ambitious or just addicted to poverty lifestyle.

ashewoboy:






it's a lie. you narrated how you were deflowered. you are not a virgin. your body count might not be much buh just agree that you are not a virgin.

Evaberry:
...

It is only lazy girls who don't hustle that expect a man to provide all their needs and buy countless human hair that have a problem with this.


35k Alone cannot build a home so why don't you hustle, add your earnings and encourage your man to be business oriented. well you can't blame or hate on someone for their choices

but Even dangote did not start with millions.

rosalieene:

Hian

Extremely nice because of miss NL? am I rude?

I never had interest in that so why now.

I have a very good personality in reality. I am down-to-earth and very nice At least refiner and the few who know me offline can attest to this

Talking about flower, do you realize that 60% of those who lost theirs, did, not of their own will but were deceived by guys like you.

So do not judge anyone if you are not a saint.

rosalieene:


so I saw this post on facebook,
"Ladies can you marry a man who earns 35,000 as salary? "

Lol, ladies gat no chill.

One said "Can't even buy me a wig let's say the truth here NO"

lady B said "When Human Hair 16inches cost 35k.. abegi!! Double your hustle .."

lady C said "Please you people should stop asking all question..
35k cant even completely pay bride price...
Even self contain house rent...
So why this question"

another said "But oh, 35k, how will he pay my bride price biko, I dont want to marry myself"

Another funny comment: "Would he give his sister to a man earning 35k monthly? Let's be realistic while answering, biko. Leave materialistic talk"

*sighs*

my beloved ladies, so am throwing this question to you.

cc Refiner sekxy bibijay123 queencalipso lalasticlala

falconey:





Bloody moron_ visit the northern part of the country and see how people comfortably live with below 20k I'd school there. I don't have time for baseless arguments, I've got to work now.

refiner:

My luff..dont mind them..they always attribute things to miss nl competition..

By d way...izit because my brother that wants to marry u is been paid just 35k,tha prompted u to create this thread?

IamaNigerianGuy:


Actually, he did.

rosalieene:


Ahaaaaa, ur brother has 30billion for his akant na

DouglasH92:


You keep casting aspersions at me but you are obviously the one who those aspersion rightly describe. The only slowpoke here is you and you aren't just a slowpoke you are an ignorant and mediocre minded one. This question is not excluded to people who live in Northern Nigeria and when you give answers you shouldn't couch your answer in a Northern Nigerian context. We are talking generally, based on the economic situation of Nigeria and based on the kind of needs people in general have, irrespective of where they live and I say it again: 35,000 a month can't give anyone in Nigeria a comfortable lifestyle. 35,000 a month can't afford many needs a couple would have, talkless of their children.

You have lived in northern Nigeria and I've lived on the Island. It's clear we both have different perspectives on how we view comfortable living. But for fucksake, there is more to life than living on breadcrumbs and managing in low standard environments. Open up your mind, aim for better and better will come to you. A man who earns 35000 a month should aim to better his life not aim for marriage. And you should stop making excuses for such an unwise man.

Of course you have work to do - Like going to another thread to post your ignorant comments. No wonder you are making excuses for financially mediocre lifestyles. When all you do from morning to night is comment on Nairaland. How can someone like you break free from your poverty mentality and financially inadequate lifestyle?

refiner:
Chop kisses jaree..i know u wee not break his heart!

SalomonKane:
If I were I girl i'd know just cos a man earns 35K today, doesn't mean he can't earn 350K the next day, or 3.5 mill in some months time.

It's my sister's decision to marry whoever she deem fit. Whether he be a million or a pauper. What count is her happiness.

This is the reason why you're shallow like those girls. You fail to see the future. All you care about is now forgetting that now doesn't mean forever.

I bet it's people like who collect 2 cups of rice from politicians.

Rukkydelta:
I can't not in this present economy we are facing now
Personally me as a Lady I can't get married when what I earn in a month is below 50K. I want to live more than my parents and not far below them
If I have a fiance that is earning such amount I will advise and support him to start a business of his own that will bring more income

falconey:




My mum is not of this generation, nothing like "hoes" during her time. I was told it was a taboo then and curse will be upon any single girl who hoe. To round it up my dad met her a flower.

9jayes:

I gatt more than 6 inches

Amarabae:
Those who are saying that they can are hypocrities,
35,000 as salary is very poor for a man to start a home.

DouglasH92:


You keep casting aspersions at me but you are obviously the one who those aspersion rightly describe. The only slowpoke here is you and you aren't just a slowpoke you are an ignorant and mediocre minded one. This question is not excluded to people who live in Northern Nigeria and when you give answers you shouldn't couch your answer in a Northern Nigerian context. We are talking generally, based on the economic situation of Nigeria and based on the kind of needs people in general have, irrespective of where they live and I say it again: 35,000 a month can't give anyone in Nigeria a comfortable lifestyle. 35,000 a month can't afford many needs a couple would have, talkless of their children.

You have lived in northern Nigeria and I've lived on the Island. It's clear we both have different perspectives on how we view comfortable living. But for fucksake, there is more to life than living on breadcrumbs and managing in low standard environments. Open up your mind, aim for better and better will come to you. A man who earns 35000 a month should aim to better his life not aim for marriage. And you should stop making excuses for such an unwise man.

Of course you have work to do - Like going to another thread to post your ignorant comments. No wonder you are making excuses for financially mediocre lifestyles. When all you do from morning to night is comment on Nairaland. How can someone like you break free from your poverty mentality and financially inadequate lifestyle?

Amarabae:
Those who are saying that they can are hypocrities,
35,000 as salary is very poor for a man to start a home.

Victornezzar:

I didn't doubt u b4 na
since u said most of us are poverty minded
just transfer small change so I won't be poverty minded again

DouglasH92:


I quoted you because I have the right to quote anyone. Every registered user on this forum has this right. I also quoted you because your opinion is agonizingly naive.
Stop being idealistic and face reality. Stop reasoning like a child. Only a foolish, ignorant and unambitious woman who is addicted to suffering and poverty would marry man who earns 35,000 naira a month.