sashabunny:
God where I go get this kin bf from
My dear u r blindly in luv.
When will my own blind luv come

Be careful what you wish for, you might just be the one to fall victim or should i say prey?

Evaberry:
Men and their problems

abeg op why are you complaining

this is a normal thing na

MOST women have a penchant for doing this

Ask married men and women.

if they are going to the market and the total sum is 10,000 it's either they add 5k or 10k.

Although she threatening to break up with you is wrong.

tell her how you feel and If you can't, then break up with her and leave us alone.

Normal thing to threaten breakup because of money for makeup?

That's stup!dity

I will want to be with a woman that threatens to breakup for spending carelessly or saving less for tomorrow.

Sabrina18:
Take that risk, if she love you, she won't walk out easily because of money, I do this alot, threaten my guy that its over(though not cos of money) and still its not over to me, I will jejely use style and come back apologizing to him. Now that's love.

Don't be deceived by gold diggers.

mehn! there's nothing I hate in a relationship than threat!
why should I constantly be in fear coz of someone?!
if a girl threatens me, she'll come back begging...

Evaberry:
Men and their problems

abeg op why are you complaining

this is a normal thing na

MOST women have a penchant for doing this

Ask married men and women.

if they are going to the market and the total sum is 10,000 it's either they add 5k or 10k.

Although she threatening to break up with you is wrong.

tell her how you feel and If you can't, then break up with her and leave us alone.

who said it's a normal thing? bro, one question I want to ask you since you said u're planning to wife her is " can you live with such attitude(s) all your life? " there may even be some other sides of her dat u may not find appealing. the decision is yours to make.

relationship is all about building and sharing with someone you cherish; but the someone must also be willing to do same with you. anyone that threatens to break up with you when it seems he/she
can't av their way doesn't worth d stress. just saying!

Arthurwinner:


wat if she walks out?

And so? There are so many girls out there.

Mrjo:
what of egwu eke

Come, i wee teach u

dustydee:

Why do a lot of Nigerian men think that it is their responsibility to provide for their partners' need when they are not married. A guy can buy his girl friend gifts from time to time but must not necessarily perform the duties of her father or her duties. If she needs to buy powder, let her get a job or wait for her birthday when you can buy it for her.

It is not the men that want to take on the responsibility but the ladies and society.

Village lady on less than 20k struggling to make ends meet will not just be happy if a guy comes along and double the salary and buys gifts, she will still ask for more and will start behaving like a slayer if one is not careful.

Even a girl claiming to be pregnant for money or saying she is going to private hospital when all she did was buy malaria tablets

Arthurwinner:
Well I'm not that super rich but I'm buoyant enough as God may have it...
To be very precise ....
I started dating this lady not too far from now and it have been moving nicely buh, lately i noticed some change in her attitude since she became very sure that I really love her...

For the past month we discussed about marriage and I told her that I'm going to marry her and truly I want to cos it feels like I CAN'T stay without her.....

But the problem is that since then whenever she's around I don't feel like coming back to my house after work cos all she does is to collect money for this or for that and when I try to tell ha that I don't have she always threatening to break up with me, every time I give her money to buy something that is when everything in the market becomes costly, sometimes I look at her and inmy mind I be lik'e "shey Dis gal no know say I sabi d price of all d things she dy lie abwt''
but I keep cool for the sake of peace...

Abeg can you imagine that a brown powder (Zara) she told she bought for 9k I checked it out and its sold for 3k... since night I haven't talked to her but as usual she's packing her bag now....I know in her mind she's waiting for me to beg her or she leave ......

What do I do FAM .....I truly love her

just ask urself what if there is a tym after marriage that you become broke(temporarily) though, will she pack up and leave too?

Bros, I take God beg u move on. If at this level u don't feel like going home whenever she's around then u go go on exile when u get married to her. U no longer love her. U are just economical with the truth or better still u are afraid of starting all over again with someone new. My advise is not based on money shes requesting becos u sha see am before u carry am.

Basically, relationship should be a plus to anyone's life but when it's becoming a burden abeg talk things over and if u are still feeling the same way, MOVE ON!!!

Arthurwinner:
Well I'm not that super rich but I'm buoyant enough as God may have it...
To be very precise ....
I started dating this lady not too far from now and it have been moving nicely buh, lately i noticed some change in her attitude since she became very sure that I really love her...

For the past month we discussed about marriage and I told her that I'm going to marry her and truly I want to cos it feels like I CAN'T stay without her.....

But the problem is that since then whenever she's around I don't feel like coming back to my house after work cos all she does is to collect money for this or for that and when I try to tell ha that I don't have she always threatening to break up with me, every time I give her money to buy something that is when everything in the market becomes costly, sometimes I look at her and inmy mind I be lik'e "shey Dis gal no know say I sabi d price of all d things she dy lie abwt''
but I keep cool for the sake of peace...

Abeg can you imagine that a brown powder (Zara) she told she bought for 9k I checked it out and its sold for 3k... since night I haven't talked to her but as usual she's packing her bag now....I know in her mind she's waiting for me to beg her or she leave ......

What do I do FAM .....I truly love her

Bros. Coming from an Elder with more than 10yrs experience in marriage, please I beg you with the love of God. Never you ever marry a girl that can't afford her own cosmetics.
Don't get me wrong your lady can ask you for money sometimes, but a lady that cannot buy her own cosmetics and toiletries is a red flag. You will be the one paying for everything in the marriage till you die, she won't be able to buy ordinary maggi-cubes till you come back from work.
A word is enough for the wise.

Why are men such pussies these days? Grow a fuckingg spine and tell her to get a job.

m

pweetiedee:


not giving her money doesn't mean ur gf won't love u. see I don't even know aw to ask, that's my own, and that's y I like working for.money.

U shud at least buy ur girlfriend gifts, okay. It makes girls feel loved. U don't av to give her.money for human hair, lip stick etc. Just buy nice gifts for her.

buying gifts is quite ok even though i dont have that time to go buying flower （business men arr not that romantic）, human hairs are expensive because my gf once demanded 20k for one, i reminded her my shaving cost 300naira and even advised her to shave, the case died. the truth is that any investment on a girl not married to you is a risky investment. when im married i might losen up a bit, depends on my equity

Josephjnr:


Nothing is actually forever. Have you ever wondered if the money you spend is all she really cares about? Take away the likely only thing she appreciates about you and see what she will become.

good and reasonable thoughts. d problem with most pple in relationships, mostly committed ones is that they don't use their heads.

And you're still thinking of marrying her?some guys sha. I hope you no go sell yourself before your eyes go clear


Freecocoa abeg give me tom tom jare

MhizzAJ:
Come, i wee teach u

thats right

Arthurwinner:


lol tho she's demand a lot ...I cnt c ha running me down

Na the same thing brother obinna for my street talk before Em three shops run down

This is rubbish!
Arrant rubbish

She is in love wit ur money and not urself.

Sabrina18:
Take that risk, if she love you, she won't walk out easily because of money, I do this alot, threaten my guy that its over(though not cos of money) and still its not over to me, I will jejely use style and come back apologizing to him. Now that's love.

Don't be deceived by gold diggers.

My Grand ex (ex before the last) tried this nonsense with me. She threatened to walk out and I warned her that if she walks out of my house, that's the end. She sat down.

The second time she tried it, I warned her again but she thought I was joking and did it. I broke up with her without looking back.

In a relationship, someone must wear the trousers and dictate the pace of the relationship. If your bf is a weakling who you dictate to, that's his cup of tea. But as for me, them no born 100 of you well.

Arthurwinner:


wat if she walks out?

Tell her safe journey

in my opinion, if you want to marry a girl you don't rush into saying it to her because she asks you. put small suspense nah and I won't blame the girl trying to extort you if you had given her the impression that money no be problem

if she threatens to leave you, man up and watch to see if she'll truly walk out or not. if you remain apologetic every now and then, congrats to you, you've handed her you'd mumu button to press anyhow

OP, man up.......you can't die if she walks out

MhizzAJ:
What is even wrong with this OP self

So u mean u can't fix this little issue with her privately
That powder that u talked about is expensive
It's not 3k please
Make dat relationship work

I love men that re 'givers'

I hate ladies who are beggars.

It's not a relationship, it's a transaction. The lady is his personal prostitute and he pays for her love.

Tell her she isn't honest with you let her know no if you really love her let her know her deceitfulness if she is threatening to leave you then you are the only one in the relationship she doesn't live you

You are not married and she is already blackmailing you only God knows what will happen when you finally get married. It's either you talk to her now or allow her go cos you are breeding unhappiness in future.

You said she is packing, does she watch ZEE world and co? Then I don't think I can help

Logician:
m

buying gifts is quite ok even though i dont have that time to go buying flower （business men arr not that romantic）, human hairs are expensive because my gf once demanded 20k for one, i reminded her my shaving cost 300naira and even advised her to shave, the case died. the truth is that any investment on a girl not married to you is a risky investment. when im married i might losen up a bit, depends on my equity

I didn't say flower o. lol

shave ke? you're funny.

she should buy human hair if she wants, I can't even ask my bf, my mouth sef go dey shake. I buy mine myself.

plus he prefers braids or pixie cuts on me and I dun need human hair for that.

just get her gifts, and she has to do the same for u too.

oga, be romantic

murphyibiam15:

yet you love men that give.. why not work for your money.. you're a human like men

I see you...

Evaberry:
Men and their problems

abeg op why are you complaining

this is a normal thing na

MOST women have a penchant for doing this

Ask married men and women.

if they are going to the market and the total sum is 10,000 it's either they add 5k or 10k.

Although she threatening to break up with you is wrong.

tell her how you feel and If you can't, then break up with her and leave us alone.

Iru kan nkan (no diff)

don't u worry. all dose delicacies when she dey cook without asking u for money and she dey serve u like king, its d brown powder extra money doing it. But beg her not to leave sha its lyk she rily likes it.....for peace to reign

IamLEGEND1:
The only thing I feel like doing after reading the nonsense you wrote is taking a sledgehammer to your face.

You have little or no spine, and by the sound of things, even less conviction.......
When you say something, mean It. That way, she won't fuck_around with you when you tell her to STFU and dial back the gold mining.
But NOoooo! You want peace to reign so badly that you've resorted to acting like a total pussy_even after catching her in a lie.

Well, you're her_bitch now and there is no turning back..... Dump her or proceed with your financial slavery in perpetuity.

You can't stay without her indeed.

Oboy u just spoke my mind, 3 gbosas for u

Don’t make a woman cry!
There is nothing as expensive as a woman’s tears.
When a single drop of tear comes out, it first mixes with L’oreal Eye Liner: N7,500, Mary Kay 17,200 and Revlon Mascara: N8,500; then when it rolls down the cheek, it mixes with Estee Lauder Foundation: N11,000; Zaron Blush: N15,000 and Mac Powder: N19,000.
Then, finally, when it touches the lips, it gets mixed with Maybelline Lipstick: N12,000 and Avonlip Gloss: N5,000.
A single drop of a woman’s tear is running for about N78,000, so please, don't make her cry. It's too expensive





Lemme comman be going ���

Arthurwinner:
Well I'm not that super rich but I'm buoyant enough as God may have it...
To be very precise ....
I started dating this lady not too far from now and it have been moving nicely buh, lately i noticed some change in her attitude since she became very sure that I really love her...

For the past month we discussed about marriage and I told her that I'm going to marry her and truly I want to cos it feels like I CAN'T stay without her.....

But the problem is that since then whenever she's around I don't feel like coming back to my house after work cos all she does is to collect money for this or for that and when I try to tell ha that I don't have she always threatening to break up with me, every time I give her money to buy something that is when everything in the market becomes costly, sometimes I look at her and inmy mind I be lik'e "shey Dis gal no know say I sabi d price of all d things she dy lie abwt''
but I keep cool for the sake of peace...

Abeg can you imagine that a brown powder (Zara) she told she bought for 9k I checked it out and its sold for 3k... since night I haven't talked to her but as usual she's packing her bag now....I know in her mind she's waiting for me to beg her or she leave ......

What do I do FAM .....I truly love her

God is still intervening in ur life. Let her pack out o and if she later come and beg... Sit her down and discuss with her and u wount take such, ever and ever. It's fine for ladies to add some extra money on money they ask, because some can't go to market without getting 1 or 2 thing for themselves. But hey, naso u go marry her and she go dey threaten u?
A broken relationship is better by far than a broken marriage