Realitycheck007:
i didn't call only the mods.. If you take 1 naira from 1 million, It no longer a Million anymore. I love her to core, She has every oda quality. Isn't a wife material as the subject is just an expression or Bait to have opinion and advice on how to change her and talk to her

So what's the big deal if she sleeps from 11 to 7am
She's a human being and not some machine
Since you love her so much...you can just overlook that part

Dimples129:
Bathe children, make breakfast, get ready for work... while YOU do what I wonder?

Forever looking for someone's daughter to abuse

M/s not so, I will never hurt someone or displease anybody intentionally. I love her very well, I wil assist it definitely but shuld i be the one doing it regularly

and she's not a wife material because of that?
pls leave her for someone better, like you're perfect sef.
nonsense.

Realitycheck007:
M/s not so, I will never hurt someone or displease anybody intentionally. I love her very well, I wil assist it definitely but shuld i be the one doing it regularly

If she is working then yes! You do it regularly.

Mille:


The fact that you are deeply bothered by a woman who sleeps for 8hrs says a lot about you. If I see your woman today, I will advice her against going into the marriage.

Like seriously? People sleep according to their schedules. If I don't have anything to do on a Saturday or Sunday morning or even free weekdays, coupled with any earlier-in-the-week stress, I can sleep up to 13hrs. The same way I sleep for just 3hrs in weekdays or days where I have earlier schedule.

If she doesn't have anything to do, why wake up so early. Or are you the type who expects a woman to have less sleep or time for herself simply because she is married to you. The one you expect to sleep at 12 midnight and wake up at 4AM.

she has a job at hand.. Talking about sleep, 10pm-5:30am isn't a enough

Dimples129:


If she is working then yes! You do it regularly.

excuse me, I am working also remember?

jamariwolf:
and she's not a wife material because of that?
pls leave her for someone better, like you're perfect sef.
nonsense.

Thank you but i won't leave her for you.....

Ayo4251:
You know China phones right? (Chinko)....Use the phone to set alarm...if the phone alarm tone does not wake her, you know one church down ur street, take her there

Ayo, you're wicked

MhizzAJ:


So what's the big deal if she sleeps from 11 to 7am
She's a human being and not some machine
Since you love her so much...you can just overlook that part

How do u expect me to talk to her? Or what should I do to make her wake early

Realitycheck007:
How do u expect me to talk to her? Or what should I do to make her wake early

Set alarm for her
Someone suggested that

MhizzAJ:

Set alarm for her
Someone suggested that

Lol.. I will think about it lolz

Realitycheck007:
excuse me, I am working also remember?

Excuse you, she is working too! Remember?

Realitycheck007:
she has a job at hand.. Talking about sleep, 10pm-5:30am isn't a enough

Doesn't she make it to work on time? I'm guessing she does, otherwise she would have been sacked by now. Maybe you live in a place where the traffic is light in the mornings and she doesn't have to factor in travel time. Besides, she sleeps for eight hours every night which is actually the average recommended hours for adults (7-9). That's not sleeping too much. What do you want her to do for you by 5.30? Lay it out.

Dimples129:


Excuse you, she is working too! Remember?

That's why i came for you guy's opinion. On how to make it work out... What do you advice i do to make her adjust, Or should i talk to her

MissWrite:




Doesn't she make it to work on time? I'm guessing she does, otherwise she would have been sacked by now. Maybe you live in a place where the traffic is light in the mornings and she doesn't have to factor in travel time. Besides, she sleeps for eight hours every night whish is actually the average recommended hours for adults (7-9). That's not sleeping too much. What do you want her to do for you by 5.30? Lay it out.

not for me, but for d home. Do u advice i buy break fast every morning when she's around?

Realitycheck007:
not for me, but for d home. Do u advice i buy break fast every morning when she's around?

"Buy" breakfast? That's the alternative you're resorting to? If you had said "Do you advise me to make breakfast every morning when she's around?" I would have said "No. I'm sure she wouldn't even be comfortable sleeping while you're disturbing pots and pan in the kitchen by six in the morning. She'll definitely get out of bed and help."

But you said "buy", which makes me think you consider the kitchen beneath you, and you just want to cast her in those traditionally feminine roles. And I don't subscribe to that, especially since you are both working people. The thing is, when you buy your breakfast, that's a convenient way of modern living that shouldn't necessarily grate her conscience. She can go ahead and get her sleep. But when you step into the kitchen, you're setting a tone that she wouldn't just ignore.

MissWrite:



"Buy" breakfast? That's the alternative you're resorting to? If you had said "Do you advise me to make breakfast every morning when she's around?" I would have said "No. I'm sure she wouldn't even be comfortable sleeping while you're disturbing pots and pan in the kitchen by six in the morning. She'll definitely get out of bed and help."

But you said "buy", which makes me think you consider the kitchen beneath you, and you just want to cast her in those traditionally feminine roles. And I don't subscribe to that, especially since you are both working people. The thing is, when you buy your breakfast, that's a convenient way of modern living that shouldn't necessarily grate her conscience. She can go ahead and get her sleep. But when you step into the kitchen, you're setting a tone that she wouldn't just ignore.

Wow. I never thought to this angle, I would say thank you deeply. I think i would watch her when the going gets fuller

Realitycheck007:
Her work hours are from 8am-4pm, So if she wakes by 7, Break fast and Kids nko? I Will assist definitely but She shouldn't just be Rolling on the bed.

What you are saying in essence is that she is supposed to wake by 4.30am and start jumping because she wants to be a wife material What do you expect her to be doing at early hour since there is no kid/kids to take care of for now?? Okó iyawo

Realitycheck007:
Thanks Mister, I love her and I just came here to seek advice on how to tell her and treat her

welcome bro...

Dimples129:
Bathe children, make breakfast, get ready for work... while YOU do what I wonder?

Forever looking for someone's daughter to abuse

forever looking for gold

Realitycheck007:
That's why i came for you guy's opinion. On how to make it work out... What do you advice i do to make her adjust, Or should i talk to her

Leave her alone, she is an adult and she will do what she needs to do. Right now she has no reason to wake up before 7am because she has work at 8am. If she had something to do before 7am she'd do it, wouldn't she?

Why would she wake up early to look at you

Antina:


What you are saying in essence is that she is supposed to wake by 4.30am and start jumping because she wants to be a wife material What do you expect her to be doing at early hour since there is no kid/kids to take care of for now?? Okó iyawo

I think this is were i missed it... It is to early to judge whether she wakes up early or not cuz she hasn't had any tedious responsibility to warrant that.. Thanks Antina.

Dimples129:


Leave her alone, she is an adult and she will do what she needs to do. Right now she has no reason to wake up before 7am because she has work at 8am. If she had something to do before 7am she'd do it, wouldn't she?

Why would she wake up early to look at you

lolz to massage me na .. I think this is were i missed it. i was quick to decide whether she wakes up early or not because she hasn't really gotten any reason to... Thanks

Biko there is nothing wrong in having a 8hours sleep
I normally sleep from 10pm to 6am unless on occasions I have something doing
My normal sleeping time isn't below 6hours cos if it is I am likely to be feeling dizzy during the day.

Op please set that lady free cos it seems you are looking for a maid and not a wife

Realitycheck007:
lolz to massage me na .. I think this is were i missed it. i was quick to decide whether she wakes up early or not because she hasn't really gotten any reason to... Thanks

Men like you, smh! Live and let live.

As long as you trust, enjoy her company and you love her then there's no problems, unless you want to create problems.

Go and sin no more, you have been forgiven

mikolo80:
forever looking for gold

You smell like copper so you're safe

Rukkydelta:
Biko there is nothing wrong in having a 8hours sleep
I normally sleep from 10pm to 6am unless on occasions I have something doing
My normal sleeping time isn't below 6hours cos if it is I am likely to be feeling dizzy during the day.

Op please set that lady free cos it seems you are looking for a maid and not a wife

I would never treat a lady like that... I love her, I was just too over concerned cuz of the love i have for her and didn't want to loose her due little issues in which i misjudged

Ayo4251:
You know China phones right? (Chinko)....Use the phone to set alarm...if the phone alarm tone does not wake her, you know one church down ur street, take her there

Lolz. were dem dei sell dt kind phone

Dimples129:


You smell like copper so you're safe

Convert her

This one never jam red oil like me,you go fear oo.Abeg free that madam jare.


I can sleep for three days without waking up and no be say i die na sleep.