Why do men marry and travel abroad?

is that not free ticket to illicit sex on her side.. women don't think deep.
They can sacrifice their future and that of their kids for 10 - 15 mins enjoyment.

Even the ones wey their husbands dey Nigeria still dey cheat talkless of ones in far away distance. You fvcked up big time.

Dyt:
OK both of you are cheating


I am.waiting for insults landing on the woman leaving the cheating man behind

Msteew..

Katikati..

junnyjake:
That's sad Bro.

She needs to know how bad her actions are hurting you.

If nothing changes, let me know. I'd assist you in teaching that Ex a lesson, nobody would tell him to not only lose her number but change his sim card and cut off every form of communication.

Sometimes, violence is the only way.

Cheers!

look wat u ar saying.da hussy should handle his wife not ex dude

morgan844:
i only did it to pay her back, and keep my self out of the thought

Bad decision imo

just don't be voilent I have a case like that my ex still call and tell me she want me back I just pray that all

morgan844:
Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

manage until they are 15yrs ago but you risk a chance of death from your wife

you have the kids even 3? what are you still looking for? without you or with you if she want to cheat she will still cheat on you.

It's possible that you love her but she doesn't love back. You may be dealing with a serial liar but you don't come across as honest or sincere. The fact is that women have needs too but a lot of men overlook this fact. You didn't say how long you stay abroad without being around her, though. How are we sure that you're not rocking someone's boat where you are based. Did you have those 3 kids before you left for greener pastures? If not, take a hard look at the three of them to see if any look like the man. Hope you saved his picture he exchanged with her.

She misses him period


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I need to ask you , did she caught you cheating on her? How many years are you married to her?
Let be sincere here ...try talk to her family members about this.....I'm very sure she's having sex with her EX or whoever she's chatting with...women heart are very fragile and they fall in love easily after sex....I would advice you speak with her close relatives, parent or siblings ..I wouldn't advice for divorce because of your kids but you need to be very careful not to lose your life ..May God help you....when men cheat ,it's just for sex but when women cheat...they fall in love and can do anything to have their freedom to continue their promiscuous ways.....pray to God for guidance ...pray to God as he would direct you and not to any pastor

morgan844:
Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

morgan844:
Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

I might still be young to have a say in a thread like this. But I don't think married women are supposed to cheat! No matter what. And to think of the fact that you ve confronted her once. A cheating wife is dangerous. May God help you

keepingmum:
You are unrepentantly, openly cheating on ur wife...even posted in on FB for friends and family to see yet you want ur wife to take an oath not to cheat on you? That you are Dangote or bill gates? Abi ur small dicck has become the size of Mandingo?
A common poor church rat like you that cant even afford to fly but rather jump buses is feeling like king kong.
Abeg, Madam Morgan if u see this post; you are a beautiful sexy woman, who after several kids, is still greatly desired by men outside...plz dont EVER take an oath with this wardrobe of a disease infected community peniis you call horseband.
Many men outside desire you and will treat you better thab this slowpoke

You nailed it..

Two wrongs don't make a right.. what if the wife didn't sleep with the said ex.

The OP has no case again.

oga just divorce /... marriage dead already

i hope you find peace in the near future

You can't send her away..... She's the mother of your kids... Although i think you should do dna test sha
And God hates putting away

In as much i ain't one to condone infidelity in marriage...
I think you have some things to sort out personally too

I think you are too soft.... She doesn't have fear for you nor regard

You guys exchanged phones.... If she's got fear for you... She will clear any evidence pointing to her cheating
She lies easily about it

The best course of action is to have enough evidence.... Tell her you two are going for a retreat or camping.... Let her pack some of her things and take her to her village..... That should reset her brain... Let her be there for a while... Till you see changes.... Don't cringe to begs for forgiveness or crocodile tears

zealblinks:
I would like to hear from your wife before I can judge. you can give me her digits

Chief Settler!! I Hail Thee

one thing I hate about married couples or serious lovers is to be distance apart. It is all your fault. You turned to your marriage into open relationship.

morgan844:
Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

If you reading this respond from me, I just want you to know that you never loved your wife. You are not ashamed of saying you are divorcing her?
Just divorce her... I don't know why we men always look for excuses when we are tired of marriage.
You are not man enough to tell her that you have met someone else in your new location

Sometimes I just dey fear...which kind wife person go come marry self....the way married women cheat these days is alarming...they don't even feel any remorse...May God help us

Alariiwo:
Why do men marry and travel abroad?

is that not free ticket to illicit sex on her side.. women don't think deep.
They can sacrifice their future and that of their kids for 10 - 15 mins enjoyment.

Even the ones wey their husbands dey Nigeria still dey cheat talkless of ones in far away distance. You fvcked up big time.

God said 'seek.. he shall find'. bro you searched and made your choice.. marriage is the only school where no one will advice you to drop out.. its totally your choice and personal decision to make

morgan844:
Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

Report her to her family first. Let them call a family meeting and warn her very well. I don't think she has crossed the line yet but if you don't do something about her behaviour it may be too late soon.

J0hnTrevolt:
@morgan844 u r very childish, infantile and very stupiid. U r not yet matured for marriage.
I'm amazed a kid like u could open ur Wife's leg and harvest 3 kids of 2,4 and 6 and still act like one of ur kids.
U r a shame and disgrace.
Continue living in ur fool's paradise.





Who believes this concocted bullshiiit? Nobody.
Just engage the fool in his folly

Mtcheew!
Nonsense..

Ikennablue:


I might still be young to have a say in a thread like this. But I don't think married women are supposed to cheat! No matter what. And to think of the fact that you ve confronted her once. A cheating wife is dangerous. May God help you

They do.. infact there are so many of them on this forum doing coded runs.

The problem with most of them is greed, they lack contentment.
They still want to check out every hot guy out there after tying the knot with their supposed love.

morgan844:
since i married her i have never met another woman. except recently as i am trying to calm my self i just got hooked up but i am not happy about it

You have to clean up your own acts first before you hold her to higher standards.

Stegomiah:
You can't send her away..... She's the mother of your kids... Although i think you should do dna test sha
And God hates putting away

In as much i ain't one to condole infidelity in marriage...
I think you have some things to sort out personally too

I think you are too soft.... She doesn't have fear for you nor regard

You guys exchanged phones.... If she's got fear for you... She will clear any evidence pointing to her cheating
She lies easily about it

The best course of action is to have enough evidence.... Tell her you two are going for a retreat or camping.... Let her pack some of her things and take her to her village..... That should reset her brain... Let her be there for a while... Till you see changes.... Don't cringe to begs for forgiveness or crocodile tears

Ur opinion though.... Just wish you read yourself out

junnyjake:
That's sad Bro.

She needs to know how bad her actions are hurting you.

If nothing changes, let me know. I'd assist you in teaching that Ex a lesson, nobody would tell him to not only lose her number but change his sim card and cut off every form of communication.

Sometimes, violence is the only way.

Cheers!

How would this option cure the wife from her disease of cheating?

Oga check your kids well to make sure you are the bonafide owner of them o
Thank me later

Two things I can deduce from this story

1. Infidelity : Both are you are guilty of promiscuity. You may change but as for your wife, will she?.

2. Distance: This had created huge cracks to cement your friendship and communication in your marriage. Her ex is taking the advantage of what she craved for hence satisfying her morally and sexually.

My advice for you is to take a break, discipline your wife and re strategise to build communication with her. I can't advise you to divorce her.

Jman06:
But you didn't chastise the woman that started it all the way you did above. Remember if she hadn't started cheating first the man wouldn't have reacted the way he did.
Sometimes women take faithful men for granted and cheat on them, this is why some men resort to cheating as a way to keep their women on the defense, because the woman will be fighting hard to keep off his side chicks and have him all for herself and would not have the time to cheat. It is a mind game !

I'm not trying to justify the fact that the man cheated in revenge but all the vituperations you poured on him were uncalled for considering that he was cheated on first.

you really made sense.

awa:


Ur opinion though.... Just wish you read yourself out

Yes, it's my opinion

morgan844:
Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

Sir cn u buy her anoda sim card n warn her dat u wil divorce her bt jst threat ....bcoz of ur children dnt divorce her.
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