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SmellingAnus:
Don't worry Conji will teach you how to subdue a woman

thing is only sexually active people have konji.. so he doesn't even have konji sef

Unserious Advice:
Watch "American Pie", it might help you get laid.

Serious Advice:
There's nothing wrong with being male, in 400 level and a virgin. Of course, society will ignorantly think it's weird but it isn't. Don't have sex; you might regret it.

akeentech:
U don't need one

Thank God am seeing this as the first comment. Why do you need one now. If you tell your pastor or Imam, will they encourage you to go into it.
Bro kindly let go of such thoughts, you really don't need it now I must confess and it's not that you have any bodily problem

Reaper99:
Na today oooo...
All Chelsea fans go sleep for 2days after barca trash dem....
I predict 3-1 in favour of barca

No worry Chelsea go surprise una.

OP,

There's nothing wrong with you. I was a late-bloomer too. Was a virgin till final year at 22 and my first experience was horrible. Lasted less than 15 strokes before I busted. That was way back then though.


All the reactions you're getting are perfectly natural. Typical "fight or flight" evolutionary instinct. Those discomforts stem from situations that unsettles your body, sex in this instance. Much like the fuzzy feelings you get when your friends are nudging you to go chyke up a 10/10 chick.


Next time, just go ahead and make a move. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. At worst, she will decline. Women love sex as much as men, if not more, so you will definitely get a yes sooner than later.

Careful though that you don't get addicted. I did slip into that dungeon after graduation, bedding over 40 women in just about 29 months. Learn to put a lid on that libido once you uncage it.

Happy slamming, man.



PS: Your first experience will probably be nothing to write home about. Do get over it. You will get better with time.

SaintHilary:
;DAfter u enjoy ur own..mk OP no do d needful abi
Good advice though

If will heed to my advice,i will tell to stay focussed...BUH IN A VERSITY,IT'S VERY HARD TO CONQUER THE PEER PRESSURE

igbozionism:
lol. my hand no dey that one. no be my destiny be that. But is the fear associated with first time?

arrange that babe wey come your room for me abeg

At 21, hmm �

Kingsley10000:
Ask her the name of her hair she plaited or make,start touching and tickling in a soft manner..[b]tell her you know how to plait hair [/b]that your ex gf that travelled to usa,taught you#this will make her a lil bit jealous#she will start asking you about her,CREATE A STORY,or tell her she got a scholarship during yr1 and left

If she now ask Op to plait her hair nkor?

Another lie to cover the previous one?

21? I got deflowered wen I was an xpdite by lady kenny and I was 22 I think. wait till you bcome 22

you are introvert; you need to try drinking oskrabo or pakurumo with alomo,,,, you will thank me later...ask tj she do cry under me.

her nipples and bombom touched you and you went to kitchen
oboy send me her number.... abi you be celibate for Jesus ni?

igbozionism:
I understand you but my mind is already made up. I am going to graduate with a good result but my social life is messed up. trying this out maybe a couple of times won't kill me and I know I will eventually stop because I get bored with things easily.

I am a little obsessed and I know that this is affecting my social life which id very messed up so I need to get done with it and get over my obsession.

It is very unfortunate that I passed through the uni but the uni didn't pass through me.

@bolded

1. why are you asking for help?

2. what about your spiritual life?

3. what if either of you die in the process? what will your story be like?

Lastly, Premarital sex is a sin before God. I take God beg you, overcome this temptation because it is not worth it. Pray, study the Bible very well and be more serious with your studies.

God bless you.

Remind me this topic when you clock 30

Rukkydelta:
Op please if you can keep your virginity till marriage. I promise to pay your groom price and spoil you with lots of love

I so much love virgin guys

u want to b the one to disvirgin him

Chydo63:
Very good of you!

I am beginning to loosen up, though. I am now becoming more conscious of my environment, especially of the girls in my workplace

[quote author=igbozionism post=65221155]Why? Nothing to help here. You are sane enough. That is how it should be until you are safely married. Or else you are aspiring to join the leagues of other prostitutes/ fornicatirs out there.

YOU ARE STILL TOO YOUNG FOR THAT

Bro, "what's so great about being online?" This is a joke about what a bird that rested on an electric line said. That will be your exclamation after you have summoned the false courage to have sex. Let me tell you something, that you have not had sex gives you an advantage you don't know the worth yet. You see, sex is a powerful energy, no matter how people tend to trivialise sex, it does not make it less powerful.

You have the untapped energy of focus(that is if you don't masturbate) and you need this energy once you're out of the University, if you don't want to take many years to reorganize yourself and focus after school.

Aside from focus energy, sexual energy compromises of many other forms of energy, don't give it to a round a*s and a standing n*pple. You will have those in abundance later.

If you will, stay away from sex for now, you didn't loose anything, you're not weak, you're strong that's why you're still a virgin now. Human body has a way of protecting itself when something is not due, relax when the time comes, your body will adjust and you will naturally flow with the lucky girl you will fall in love with.

For now, I repeat, focus on building your life, you can work hard, date and marry by 25 if you so wish.

I'm old school with regards to sex and sex itself is old.

MODIFIED: Proverbs 31:3 Give not thy strength(energy) unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.

Reaper99:
Na today oooo...
All Chelsea fans go sleep for 2days after barca trash dem....
I predict 3-1 in favour of barca

On behalf of Chelsea fans worldwide, I predict 31-2 in favour of Chelsea club.

You think to much dats y u are scared, for warri we nor dey worry for how to gist or bleep girl he just dey our gene

My friend be ur self and don't be deceived by mundane things

My friend be ur self and don't be deceived by mundane thingsMy friend be ur self and don't be deceived by mundane thingsMy friend be ur self and don't be deceived by mundane things

Reaper99:
Na today oooo...
All Chelsea fans go sleep for 2days after barca trash dem....
I predict 3-1 in favour of barca

objection my lord, there is a saying that d end justify d means so stop saying rubbish

Reaper99:
Na today oooo... All Chelsea fans go sleep for 2days after barca trash dem.... I predict 3-1 in favour of barca

confam person

Topestbilly:
If she now ask Op to plait her hair nkor?

Another lie to cover the previous one?

Na example wey i give,he mustn't use that scope.moreover,most guys can plait hairs to certain level

LordNapoleon:
You never hear sey condom dey blow during sex?

ogaa but why you just dey try discourage dis dude... my guy just take some some trees x trams when next you wan get friendly match.. otherwise contact me for illustrations esp if na dat girl you describe above.

Kingsley10000:
when the next girl comes around,make the room condusive,put romantic movie for her..drop some sexy compliment in a funny way like"ask her what she has been eating that shez been getting more prettier and gorgeos",when conversing,if she lies or say funny things,you say"if you lie or say that again,i will bite off your lips"

Lol...u Na expert oo

igbozionism:
why?

Truly you don't need it now.... concentrate on your study and graduation, then get a good job..make money..all other things will fall in place and happen at the right time...cos doing it has no positive result in your career..it will even retard your achievement goals.

Kingsley10000:
when the next girl comes around,make the room condusive,put romantic movie for her..drop some sexy compliment in a funny way like"ask her what she has been eating that shez been getting more prettier and gorgeos",when conversing,if she lies or say funny things,you say"if you lie or say that again,i will bite off your lips"

what if the girl says "come and bite it naa'' and he literally bites off her lips, na you advise am o..

If this was a lady, y'all will insult her and ask her why she's eager to have sex now. .and then y'all would ask her to save herself till marriage.

Insteas,you're offering various advice and tips on how to tap yansh, just because it's a guy.

Hypocrites everywhere.

igbozionism:
will be 21 by Oct this year and a 400l student in a fed university. I am an introvert and find it hard keeping conversations with the opposite sex though recently I have been managing to crawl out my shell and be more free with the opposite sex though that has not been easy.

I have not known any girl since my teenage years and I find it somehow unfulfilling to graduate next year without knowing any woman throughout my 5 years in the university

This is the problem. Anytime I am with a girl in my room(I live alone offcamp) and wants to make a move I feel very uncomfortable to the extent that my stomach starts making some disturbing noises. I can't explain the reason for the fear because I am sure that the girl wants what I want and I am also 100% sure she won't refuse. This has happened multiple times.

Recently I had this bae in my room. she came to collect movies from my laptop. she had no bra on just a short gown and her nips was pointing with her curved backside showing in the revealing tight gown.

she was clearly in the mood as she sat beside me and placed her head on top my shoulder with her warm nips pressing hard against me. I was totally nervous and my body became very hot, I just didn't know what to do or how to start the action as fear gripped me. I just disengaged from her and pretended to get something from my kitchen.

So naira landers, I don't know why I can't summon courage to subdue a woman despite the glaring green lights. I can't explain the sudden fear and nervousness that grips me whenever I am with a potential F-mate.

pls I want to know if the fear is common with first timers or is there something biologically wrong with me?

pls I really need this advice.

And u're thinking dat outlook is by mistake or coincidental!
She'll get u anyway. There's nothing u can do abt it.

OP, so are you saying you don't have friends that bleep ladies every now and then??

One of ur friends suppose dey ginger u

You are a good story teller.

My advice is that you should consider fiction writing.

igbozionism:
will be 21 by Oct this year and a 400l student in a fed university. I am an introvert and find it hard keeping conversations with the opposite sex though recently I have been managing to crawl out my shell and be more free with the opposite sex though that has not been easy.

I have not known any girl since my teenage years and I find it somehow unfulfilling to graduate next year without knowing any woman throughout my 5 years in the university

This is the problem. Anytime I am with a girl in my room(I live alone offcamp) and wants to make a move I feel very uncomfortable to the extent that my stomach starts making some disturbing noises. I can't explain the reason for the fear because I am sure that the girl wants what I want and I am also 100% sure she won't refuse. This has happened multiple times.

Recently I had this bae in my room. she came to collect movies from my laptop. she had no bra on just a short gown and her nips was pointing with her curved backside showing in the revealing tight gown.

she was clearly in the mood as she sat beside me and placed her head on top my shoulder with her warm nips pressing hard against me. I was totally nervous and my body became very hot, I just didn't know what to do or how to start the action as fear gripped me. I just disengaged from her and pretended to get something from my kitchen.

So naira landers, I don't know why I can't summon courage to subdue a woman despite the glaring green lights. I can't explain the sudden fear and nervousness that grips me whenever I am with a potential F-mate.

pls I want to know if the fear is common with first timers or is there something biologically wrong with me?

pls I really need this advice.