Safiaa:
Commitment issues. Fear of the unknown. Money problems.

None of the above.....Only one issue....WOMEN AND WAHALA

cruchenutii:


Financial stability should be number 1 and not 3.
Kindly re-arrange.

The poverty level in the country is highly tremendous thus, infidelity has become rampant and only those with money get all the women in Nigeria.

Lack of true luv, 90% of women are materialistic

sorry to say but if not for social conditioning, this is what a man really wants:

1. Money
2. Steady supply of sex
3. Kids (his own fresh and blood)

a woman comes with her own set of wahala and responsibilities. The responsibility woman dey carry dey come eeh, e no be here.

Men dont really need a woman to live with them for the rest of their lives, they rather need that which only a woman supplies- sex and kids

If for say men can impregnate themselves and give birth, no single man go ever marry.

Ugosample:


not always true

A lot of men at 38 sef don't feel it much, especially when his mates gist him about the horrors they go through in their own marriages

The truth is that marriage to a large extent not worth it to the man here .
the wahala is too much

hahaaaahahaaaaa....storyfor the gods who said marriage is not do or die for guys. You better wake up to reality son. There are many men out there looking for woman to marry and they can't find. Men are equally desperate to marry. It's only single guys like u that make this kind of topic ur favorite Becos u don't have the heart to toast a girl.. ..most guys run to thread like this to populate it with nonsense so that when girls see it they ll be come scared and start runin after guys ...thistopic ll not make girl friend stick to vision less you all in the name of guys are scarce

Saviour22:
80 percent of Nigeria women are ugly, can't marry ugly woman

Let's keep ugly aside coz most men don't marry coz of beauty
Many of ladies don't understand the word LOVE
And they are too materialistic which leads them to cheating
Nagging, empty skull & over dependent

GeeString:
I won't go into any long sermon on this I'll just speak from personal experience.

No Nigerian woman is worth the trouble ahead. Infidelity is a serious Nigerian girl issue and it won't leave after marriage rather it will only get worse since her lifelong ambition has been fulfilled and she is now at peace.

Nigerian girls are materialistic and selfish. They do not truly understand the term "love".

Every Nigerian girl 25 & above has engaged in prostitution of some sort be it openly or 'coded'. There are corporate oloshos now sef. By prostitution I mean sleeping with a man for financial gain.

They are just not worth it.

I seriously doubt if I'll ever get married to a Nigerian girl. I'll have two kids from 2 different women & that's it.




Quote me & bash me but kindly produce counter-points or disprove my points while you do so. Oh & lest I forget I have no sisters & my mom is late too.

Goodnight.

true talk...bro u know dem weller...i just bang one finish today self..and she was calling her boyfriend after we banged finish...with my fone self....d babe na heavy olosho......sha ...i laff
this is because so many naija women are not worth it...they are fake..

Safiaa:
It is well.

As in, that and plus the thought that 40 is just around the corner, i used to see 40 as my grandfather's age. chai indeed it is well

Revolva:
this is because so many naija women are not worth it...they are fake..

have you ever dated a non Nigerian woman to confirm this?

cruchenutii:


No. 38 is too long. I am 28 & my Pastor, Family friends are already reminding me of my age and introducing me to women in the church that i know nothing about. My friend who is also 28 is getting married this Saturday to a girl who is 25. I am sad and happy at the same time.

The pressure is getting to me. I'm a guy & not even a lady.

Follow your own counsel because your pastor, family and friends will not be there to bear your cross for you in the future.

Ebuka2016:
sorry to say but if not for social conditioning, this is what a man really wants:

1. Money
2. Steady supply of sex
3. Kids (his own fresh and blood)

a woman comes with her own set of wahala and responsibilities. The responsibility woman dey carry dey come eeh, e no be here.

Men dont really need a woman to live with them for the rest of their lives, they rather need that which only a woman supplies- sex and kids

If for say men can impregnate themselves and give birth, no single man go ever marry.

Damn right.

chris31:

Let's keep ugly aside coz most men don't marry coz of beauty
Many of ladies don't understand the word LOVE
And they are too materialistic which leads them to cheating
Nagging, empty skull & over dependent

wen I mean ugly am not talking about appearance ,am talking about character, they nag too much, depends on men too much, anyway u are right

pcguru1:


As in, that and plus the thought that 40 is just around the corner, i used to see 40 as my grandfather's age. chai indeed it is well

aww. Too bad, as long as you’re still open to it and not dehumanising Nigerian ladies I’m sure you’ll find someone soon enough.

Saviour22:
wen I mean ugly am not talking about appearance ,am talking about character, they nag too much, depends on men too much, anyway u are right

And how is this a Nigerian woman quality? Have you dated outside of Nigeria, I highly doubt.

Safiaa:
Easily? With all this paranoia and fear he has about marriage, what makes you think he’ll easily get married at 38? Getting married is not just a snap on the finger, especially with his mindset. Each to their own, not forcing him at all. Just stating what is bound to happen in a few years. If he wants to be single forever, then so be it.

if a man is 48 and has money, he will easily get married (emphasis on easily).

I took my time to read all the criticisms from some men. Nice one.

Delusions of grandeur, I must say.

Nigerian men are not interested in marriage yet there are pre-wedding photos at every nook and cranny.

Nigerians girls are hoes, cutlass, this and that, who the hell do they cheat with, themselves?

You keep calling ladies unprintable names, is it not men like you that break the "Almighty bro code" by going for someone else's woman. I remember a dude put up a post last week about waiting for his friend to break up with his girlfriend so he could shoot his shot?

It is getting stale. If you don't want to get married, please don't. Some of you up there are boasting of having 3 side Chics. Who should cast the first stone?

No matter how women try to explain that not all women are the same, some of you chauvinistic lot still try to humiliate womanhood. It is tiresome.

I am proud to say that I have so much more to offer to the world, and it is not my body. Men have wronged many women but you don't hear us whinning and bickering about men being bedswervers.



Last, last. In the bid to please some girl, some of you will still slide into a girl's DM and do everything within your power to get her attention. After that, Una go come here dey form Bruce Lee.

abiolamitodun:
Why are men scared of getting married and why is the number of baby mama increasing
let's discuss

Commitment and probably stories that touches concerning other failed marriages.

abiolamitodun:
Why are men scared of getting married and why is the number of baby mama increasing
let's discuss

I’m not afraid of marrying because I’ll divorce the person faster than a New York minute.

Safiaa:
aww. Too bad, as long as you’re still open to it and not dehumanising Nigerian ladies I’m sure you’ll find someone soon enough.

it seems you don't know my profile if not you would have known it's not my thing to do such, i have female relatives at home.

Ebuka2016:

if a man is 48 and has money, he will easily get married (emphasis on easily).

Nope, not true and you know it. It’s even harder for a man with money. Sorry to burst your bubble. You have more options to choose from, yeah...but harder to see the real ones. At 48, you’re very old to a lot of younger women, they’ll take you for their sugar daddy.

IamaNigerianGuy:

Damn right.

my nigga!

GeeString:
I won't go into any long sermon on this I'll just speak from personal experience.

No Nigerian woman is worth the trouble ahead. Infidelity is a serious Nigerian girl issue and it won't leave after marriage rather it will only get worse since her lifelong ambition has been fulfilled and she is now at peace.

Nigerian girls are materialistic and selfish. They do not truly understand the term "love".

Every Nigerian girl 25 & above has engaged in prostitution of some sort be it openly or 'coded'. There are corporate oloshos now sef. By prostitution I mean sleeping with a man for financial gain.

They are just not worth it.

I seriously doubt if I'll ever get married to a Nigerian girl. I'll have two kids from 2 different women & that's it.




Quote me & bash me but kindly produce counter-points or disprove my points while you do so. Oh & lest I forget I have no sisters & my mom is late too.

Goodnight.

bro u no lie at all...Nigeria girls no worth am at all, the only tin they have is sex and even the sex sef person no dey enjoy am .

GeeString:
I won't go into any long sermon on this I'll just speak from personal experience.

No Nigerian woman is worth the trouble ahead. Infidelity is a serious Nigerian girl issue and it won't leave after marriage rather it will only get worse since her lifelong ambition has been fulfilled and she is now at peace.

Nigerian girls are materialistic and selfish. They do not truly understand the term "love".

Every Nigerian girl 25 & above has engaged in prostitution of some sort be it openly or 'coded'. There are corporate oloshos now sef. By prostitution I mean sleeping with a man for financial gain.

They are just not worth it.

I seriously doubt if I'll ever get married to a Nigerian girl. I'll have two kids from 2 different women & that's it.




Quote me & bash me but kindly produce counter-points or disprove my points while you do so. Oh & lest I forget I have no sisters & my mom is late too.

Goodnight.

Some or most ....don’t say Nigerian women as that denotes all as that alone means we are all the same. I will fight tooth and nail to disapprove that view of yours. I could argue all men cheat but I have the foresight not to Group all men into one category. As much as your point of view reflects a growing trend which is problematic don’t generalise.

Safiaa:
And how is this a Nigerian woman quality? Have you dated outside of Nigeria, I highly doubt.

and how did u know that, I have not date outside Nigerian? am right 80percent I mean 99percent of Nigeria women depends on Nigeria men too much, and they still want this men to them wit respect, while they are a burden. no one wants a burden in this time and age.

Mcy56:
Men makes excuses for not getting married because they can easily get what makes marriage unique effortlessly i.e. s*x.
There are quite a lot of them that are gainfully employed but refused to marry with an excuse that women are this, women are that.
While not totally against them, my question is this: is it not the same men that are sleeping around with some of the ladies and are making them untrustworthy?
You know, I think some are scared of karma actually.
Notwithstanding, I believed there are still quite a lot of ladies that are morally trained and descent out there.
Let me come and be going......

Are you morally train and decent?
Are you still a virgin?
If you are non of the above, then you know what to do

Saviour22:
and how did u know that, I have not date outside Nigerian? am right 80percent I mean 99percent of Nigeria women depends on Nigeria men too much, and they still want this men to them wit respect, while they are a burden. no one wants a burden in this time and age.

ok

Rexnegro:

bro u no lie at all...Nigeria girls no worth am at all, the only tin they have is sex and even the sex sef person no dey enjoy am .

Just because you have constantly fraternised with women who have nothing to offer don’t argue a point that all Nigerian women have nothing to offer. You have not met all Nigerian women to make a blanket statement like that.

I think u knownth the answereth to that questioneth

abiolamitodun:
Why are men scared of getting married and why is the number of baby mama increasing
let's discuss

scared or not interested?

Safiaa:
Nope, not true and you know it. It’s even harder for a man with money. Sorry to burst your bubble. You have more options to choose from, yeah...but harder to see the real ones.

there is no real one out there if you wanna go that route. How many women will marry a man without money? Its like a guy marrying a woman who is ugly. We fall for what we see. If it means our love aint real then it ok. No one is real out there.

And remember that men age like wine, not like women (una dey age like milk)

Safiaa:
i never disputed that homie. I just said men also receive pressure too especially in their 30s, so you’re not completely exempt from it.

we're the exception of the rules,babe.

We only need to knock one up and get the forename trending for posterity.

Don't take me seriously

MissRaine69:


Some or most ....don’t say Nigerian women as that denotes all as that alone means we are all the same. I will fight tooth and nail to disapprove that view of yours. I could argue all men cheat but I have the foresight not to Group all men into one category. As much as your point of view reflects a growing trend which is problematic don’t generalise.

90percent of Nigeria women depends on men, they have nothing to offer apart from sex, fight all you want. that's the reality we see everyday not what u type on Nl, deal wit lady.