ImohWilliams1:
Every act of loyalty deserves some reward. We've seen instances where people reward their friends who stood by them including male friends. How much more a lady who had the option of leaving your poor ass when she was faced with pressure daily from wealthy guys but she decided to stay.

doskie:
i love your response. especially the part where you respected fools enough not to refer to her as one. incase you are looking for the english word that deacribes that person, well, i didnt exactly find it, but i found a yoruba word that closely matches with what you want to say. its okponu. please feel free to apply it whenever he/she contacts you again. kind regards

safarigirl:
Recently, George Clooney rewarded his friends with a million dollars.

Why did he reward them? Were they doing him a favour being his friends even before he became a big star?

Anyone who stuck to you in your trying times deserves to be rewarded. If you have ever had a period in your life when you were down and you needed someone and the whole world abandoned you, leaving you with just one person who stuck by you, none of you would come here to make such ignorant statement about why men reward the women who stick by them

Do you know their story? Do you know if these women helped them financially? Do you know how many of these men may have been close to suicide and the woman was the only reason they didn't off themselves? People who kill themselves, you think they would have done that if someone listened to them when they were down and gave them hope?

None of you has obviously been down and out, at that point in life that you become a caricature to everyone, including supposed friends and family, because if you have been there, walahi, if you can, you go even buy Banana Island house for the person that held your hand when you were slipping into darkness.

If you know how many girls feed guys in school, you will not come here and ask a question as silly as "Did she do him a favour?" Yes! She fed him when he had no food, she gave him words of encouragement when he had no hope, she stood by him when he had no support. She took insults from friends and colleagues because she was the 'stupid' girl who was following the broke boy

What is a car compared to years of sacrifice and insult? What is the worth of a car? Do you think a car is even enough to repay someone for being the reason why you were even alive to get these riches?


Like I said, let me attribute this talk to common Ignorance. When you are broke and hopeless and only one person has your back, you will understand the men you think are senseless

mimimile93:





Women seem to have foresights.
They easily detect guys who will hammer and they get stuck to such guys no matter how the condition is or how bad the guys treat them they get stuck cause they know in due time the guys would hammer..

charlesazeh:
So I went to visit my friend who put to bed last week to a bouncing baby boy. We were in the middle of our discussion so I went to the kitchen to grab a glass of water.

I was pouring myself a glass of chilled water when a heard a tiny voice calling my name. It was Mimi my friend's lil girl. Mimi is 10yrs old.

Mimi; aunty

Myself; yes baby...

Mimi; can I ask u something

Myself; of course! Go ahead

Mimi; did my mum vomit my baby brother

Myself; No! �

Mimi; did she poo poo him?

Myself; No! �

Mimi; she bought him from the hospital

Myself; (Lord save me!) No! Listen baby u cannot understand certain things now. Remember to ask me this question on your 13th birthday and I shall explain everything to u.

this generation oh � � �. It's nor me this child wee Kee with questions oh
can u imagine? �.

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carammel:
Today, girls stop chasing already made men around, why don't you date broke guys and build with them.

Tomorrow, any girl that dates a broke guy does not deserve any reward at the long run.

When a broke girl dates a rich guy, she's a gold digger.

When a rich girl date a broke guy, she's a fool,why would she stoop so low?

When a broke girl dates a broke guy, she deserves no reward..

When a rich girl dates a rich guy, she's so proud and stingy, she can't date a broke guy to help his ministry.

Confusion! Confusion!! Confusion!!!

maestroferddi:
Linus ibn Lai Mohammed.

No child of ten will ask that question.

Why didn't she ask you whether her parents bought from Tantalisers?

This you comedy career is no looking good o...

thebosstrevor:


if you say women have foresight,how come majority of women are married to poor or average guys?

in reality only few women will get married to rich guys,majority will marry poor and average guys with sweet mouth

eezeribe:
I agree with you 100 %...
Such men are actually encouraging the gold digging instincts in women.
They are actually making it look like women should only love men who are rich ...
They are unwittingly negating the essence of true love...
I SEE SUCH MEN AS REEKING OF LOW SELF ESTEEM.

safarigirl:
you are a child mentally, that is why you are running your mouth with reckless abandon.


I don't know if your mother and your sisters are all prostitutes, but I can assure ou now that we are not all like the women in your family.

Some of us have values and we also will not allow small boys insult the entire female population of this country because they may or may not have encountered these leeches.


I don't know who fu-cked you up, but it is unhealthy to take out your anger on all Nigerian women. It is not as if Nigerian men are loyal anyway


BTW: I don't know anything about the oga and his ex, I am speaking from a general viewpoint, not from one incident. And, sometimes, a person will leave you not because you have done wrong, but because they realise they are holding you back and they want the best for you. Not all broken relationships have negativity attached to them.

BTW: Many people have progressed in this life without a woman, just like many women have progressed without a man.....but I can tell you this, there are more successful women who have no man than successful men who have no woman


Good luck with your life.

safarigirl:
Recently, George Clooney rewarded his friends with a million dollars.

Why did he reward them? Were they doing him a favour being his friends even before he became a big star?

Anyone who stuck to you in your trying times deserves to be rewarded. If you have ever had a period in your life when you were down and you needed someone and the whole world abandoned you, leaving you with just one person who stuck by you, none of you would come here to make such ignorant statement about why men reward the women who stick by them

Do you know their story? Do you know if these women helped them financially? Do you know how many of these men may have been close to suicide and the woman was the only reason they didn't off themselves? People who kill themselves, you think they would have done that if someone listened to them when they were down and gave them hope?

None of you has obviously been down and out, at that point in life that you become a caricature to everyone, including supposed friends and family, because if you have been there, walahi, if you can, you go even buy Banana Island house for the person that held your hand when you were slipping into darkness.

If you know how many girls feed guys in school, you will not come here and ask a question as silly as "Did she do him a favour?" Yes! She fed him when he had no food, she gave him words of encouragement when he had no hope, she stood by him when he had no support. She took insults from friends and colleagues because she was the 'stupid' girl who was following the broke boy

What is a car compared to years of sacrifice and insult? What is the worth of a car? Do you think a car is even enough to repay someone for being the reason why you were even alive to get these riches?


Like I said, let me attribute this talk to common Ignorance. When you are broke and hopeless and only one person has your back, you will understand the men you think are senseless

charlesazeh:



Mumu u no see copied... time when u go study u use am for Nairaland

mimimile93:


Most women know a man that has great potentials .

For the fact that the man doesn't live up his potentials doesn't mean He didn't have one.

You can be destined to become a pilot and if you don't work hard towards it you can't become one


Manners don't fall from the sky anymore..

You work hard towards anything you want in life.

thebosstrevor:


so basically what killed that potential?

thebosstrevor:


so basically what killed that potential?

zicoraads:
Why do guys think it normal to 'reward' ladies who dated them when they were not rich? I don't get it, was she doing you a favour by being in a relationship with you?

It has become commonplace to read about rewards, car gifts especially, purchased by guys as rewards for ladies who they were in a relationship with when they were poor. I think in constantly doing that, guys are making it look abnormal, the idea, that a lady is supposed to stick with her man, come rain or shine.

She wasn't doing you a favour by being in a relationship with you. No one is doing you a favour by being in one with you now. Whether it ended or not, you owe her nothing for that period the both of you were dating.

Guys should stop making it seem like dating a particular lady is a privilege they don't deserve.

mimimile93:


A man's greatest enemy is what?

If you know the answer to this question then you know the answer to your question..

yettymuse:
I pity babes that wants to 'struggle' with a broke dude! I tell any babe that cares to listen, you ain't doing him any good. Not tomorrow he blows and you're biting your fingers and lamenting how you stood by him through thick and thin.

Bitch get over with yourself! Dude only used you to relieve mental stress. What stops you from breaking boundaries and building an empire yourself instead of waiting for a 'joint' effort, wasting your time and losing all your body counts ontop 'e go better'

I can't date a broke dude! I can't 'struggle' with a broke dude either. I'm too busy building my empire to start shit from scratch with any body! Make your money, I make my money and we fix an exotic date at SUCCESS CUISINES!