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THERE YOU HAVE IT. YOU'VE BEEN PLAYED.



FOR THE SAKE OF LOVE THIS MAN WILL ONLY CRY FOR A FEW DAYS AND WAVE EVERYTHING ASIDE. HE'S GETTING NOTHING FROM HER.. NO HONESTY, NO APOLOGIES, NO LOYALTY.
LOVE CAUSES THE BRAIN TO MALFUNCTION SOMETIMES.

ibkayee:
Like a few people have already said, she may be telling the truth, asides the more intimate connection they would’ve had when they were together, a lot of people and their exes were technically also friends. So if they’re still in each others’ good graces the fact that he helped her get a job isn’t ‘unthinkable’. Passing the night at his does sound dodgy however. Did she explain why she had to pass the night at his? Does he live closer to the location of the place where she was interviewed or something? Even then, you live in Lagos too abi? So she could’ve gone from your place. I don’t know whether she’s lying or not but the way she went about it is very suspect, I won’t even lie

oluwakekz:
you see am not saying seeing your ex is bad ,that's not my kind of lifestyle, and never will it be. She did not tell me anything at all about contacting her ex, I call her the day she left my place to show appreciation to the person that help her get the job,she said he's sleeping already! I ask her "oh its a guy? Are you safe? And are you sure you will be fine?" She said yes ,that all is well.... My place is very far to that exalt location so she brouth the idear of going there to pass the night before the interview..... Why hide it from me at first, what if I did not ask her after two weeks ..... The said guy stay close to where she's working ,just imagine ...

oluwakekz:
she's not even remorseful at all.... Not even at all. You seriously need to see her massage on WhatsApp.

oluwakekz:
she's not even remorseful at all.... Not even at all. You seriously need to see her massage on WhatsApp.

Emagha:
If she had told you she was going to see her ex for the job would u have allowed her? i guess no and she told u the truth that it was her Ex and not friend so try and believe her maybe until u suspect any other thing

gonkin:
Its gonna be hard for me to date someone that keeps too many secrets especially from me. I really really hate it. That's the kind of stuff that breaks relationships.
Seriously girls are very vulnerable around ex AND MALE BESTIES Sometimes an ex would pass the night at my place maybe cuz she just wants to be away from home. and we end up doing it.
Never trust a girl that still communicates with her ex. My last ex was always communicating with her supposed ex. I complained that i didn't like it and she kept saying they were just friends.
Unknown to me that she was cheating on him with me. He was the boyfriend, i was just the guy with the p3nis. Till one day i got to know the truth.

CHAI!

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SOMETIMES IT'S NOT WHAT THEY DID THAT PAINS, BUT THEIR NONCHALANT, EGOISTIC, UNAPOLOGETIC ATTITUDE AFTERWARDS.
USE YOUR HEAD. DO WHATEVER YOU CONSIDER BEST. MAYBE YOU'LL LEARN FROM THIS EXPERIENCE LIKE THE REST OF US.
I RATHER BE WITH A STICK THAN A SLITHERING, PROUD, UNAPOLOGETIC HUMAN (LIKE YOUR GIRL) .
GOODLUCK NURSING THAT HEART BREAK. CHEERS.

PS: PLEASE DON'T COMMIT SUICIDE.

oluwakekz:
not even a call ,text not until I initiat a convo ...... Suicide it not even in my option..... Heaven know how truly I was planning we both enjoy our life together forever....... Am just too loyal to be betrayed with trust issues....

ALCOHOL AFTER ALCOHOL IS SUPPOSED TO HELP YOU PASS THIS MOOD. YOU'RE BEING OBSESSED AND SHE KNOWS IT, AND ENJOYS HOW IT'S WORKING TO HER ADVANTAGE. MAYBE THE MORE YOU NAG THE MORE SHE GOES TO THE EX FOR MORE CÓCK.
IF I WERE YOU I WOULD PRETEND ONLY I EXIST. DRINK AND PARTY AND CHILL WITH MY GUYS (AND HOT CHICKS) ALL DAY UNTIL SHE COMES BACK TO HER SENSES, AND READY TO NEGOTIATE. IF SHE DOESN'T, THEN BELIEVE ME JUST KEEP CRUISING CUS SHE'S OVER YOU. THIS PERSON HAS NO REGARDS FOR YOU (FROM YOUR OWN SIDE OF THE STORY THOUGH). WHY ARE YOU KILLING YOUR JOY OVER ONE SOUL WHEN THE WORLD IS YOURS TO TAKE?

oluwakekz:
Hello. Please a kind advice is all I need .
Have being dating this lady since last year December 8months now.....I meet her at her sister place that happen to be my mum neighbour when she came for a visit. She just finish school and looking for a job. We where both looking for job for her even if its far of her place (ekiti) as I thought she should be productive to herself . thought I was lucky ,when she call weeks ago to inform me that a friend call her about one vacancy here in Lagos. I was so happy because I can't do long distance relationship (experience)
She came to my place this said Friday and stay till Sunday. She left for that so call friend place because we think it's not too save to get to the interview venue late . She got the job and we thank God...... After two weeks of resumption, I saw this advice on nairaland that talk about 10 Questions To Ask Your Partner In Order To Build Trust "What do you find hard to talk about with me?" She said " nothing " I try talk to her to open up because I can't settle down with someone that will hide anything from me ,then she said my ex got me this job . she's keep in contact with him. I ask her" we've being together for three days ,you left my house for your ex house and pass the night there? You keep contact with him without telling me all this while? You guys have being seeing each other since you resume(two weeks? All she keep saying is am not cheating on you..... I really love her and am confuse right now. Please I need advice on what to do please because am just tired right now.

Colourich:
And why should she seek your consent? are you her husband, shift jor make we see road.

Colourich:
And why should she seek your consent? are you her husband, shift jor make we see road.

oluwakekz:
just listen to yourself .... I done shift oya see road....... Am suppose to settle down with a Lady that is doing hanjy panky with her ex behind me Abi? Thanks you try well.

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ALCOHOL AFTER ALCOHOL IS SUPPOSED TO HELP YOU PASS THIS MOOD. YOU'RE BEING OBSESSED AND SHE KNOWS IT, AND ENJOYS HOW IT'S WORKING TO HER ADVANTAGE. MAYBE THE MORE YOU NAG THE MORE SHE GOES TO THE EX FOR MORE CÓCK.
IF I WERE YOU I WOULD PRETEND ONLY I EXIST. DRINK AND PARTY AND CHILL WITH MY GUYS (AND HOT CHICKS) ALL DAY UNTIL SHE COMES BACK TO HER SENSES, AND READY TO NEGOTIATE. IF SHE DOESN'T, THEN BELIEVE ME JUST KEEP CRUISING CUS SHE'S OVER YOU. THIS PERSON HAS NO REGARDS FOR YOU (FROM YOUR OWN SIDE OF THE STORY THOUGH). WHY ARE YOU KILLING YOUR JOY OVER ONE SOUL WHEN THE WORLD IS YOURS TO TAKE?

oluwakekz:
.... Which I do things like this bro...... Like I don't do dirt ,smoke weed noi get drunk...she's coming tomorrow then hopefully we'll work things out ,but trust me I don't think so because she's not being remorseful at all .......

MariaLavina:
This is all about PRIORITIES!

The Job or Her Relationship.

Yes, Your girlfriend probably thought you would make a scene about getting a job from an EX and passing the night at his place (this though isn't right) . She obviously more concerned about her finance than her relationship.If She's young, i think that should be her priority as well.
The problem lies in lack of communication in your relationship. She should have told you her fears, plans and moves. What do you guys talk about in your relationship? Nothing until you came across a thread on here.

We can't be certain if she's cheating, we can only tell you where she flawed. You have to talk to her to know her stand in your relationship. Demand for Transparency and Respect (not the yes boss kind of respect though ) Demand to be valued in her life, she shouldn't make decisions that may affect your relationship alone. I wish you luck