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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Ubenedictus(m): 12:28pm On Sep 15, 2018
herich:

Is not still enough to quote everyone here, by trying to convince them that your belief is not paganistic in doctrine, even if you and your folks travel round the world to preach that Catholic don't engage in idolatry,,,,,,, it won't still change the view of an average non Catholics on how they feel bout Catholic church.
the views of an average non Catholic is usually biased, the best I can do is clarify their misconceptions.

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by apollo13(m): 12:40pm On Sep 15, 2018
dumo1:

Ehn!! shocked oga how you take do am?

We met when I was in my second year in the university and we had both agreed to the fact that she would change "if" we are going to get married eventually. All the same, no be me, Na God [color=][/color] grin

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Slimsly100(f): 12:47pm On Sep 15, 2018
What are you guys stressing about sef?
Since u guys luv urselves DAT much, why not just do court wedding and proceed with ur individual spiritual lives. The race na individual thing abeg, I know an uncle who attends a different church from his wife's and they both love themselves and are at peace with each other.
It's only a matter of understanding
lipsrsealed

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Xisnin(m): 12:47pm On Sep 15, 2018
aragon4realz:

it's not always about the s3x...it's all about compatibility and commitment...but the truth is I can't give up my church for her, she should be the one doing that for me
At the bold, why?

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 1:06pm On Sep 15, 2018
apollo13:


We met when I was in my second year in the university and we had both agreed to the fact that she would change "if" we are going to get married eventually. All the same, no be me, Na God [color=][/color] grin
Her parents must have been very understanding muslims.
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Ubenedictus(m): 1:16pm On Sep 15, 2018
stankezzy:
catholic is not even the first church , old testament , moses and up till jesus were jews , their religion is Judaism but before jesus left he breathed upon them and said recieve the Holy Ghost , Peter, Paul and the rest apostles were penticostals , they speak in tounges and do miracles and do pentecostal things , it was after the death of the apostles that Romans that used to be idle worshipers now combined idle worshiping with Christianity to form roman catholic so pentecostal came before catholic
lol, Pentecostalism began in the 19th century with the azusa revival and the like, you guys weren't even around 300 years ago talk less or during the apostolic times. Speaking in tongues and doing miracles are not Pentecostal church property even Catholics do same. I guess it is Kenneth Higgins who said miracles happen more in Catholic churches than in Pentecostal ones

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Ubenedictus(m): 1:24pm On Sep 15, 2018
LastDays777:


There is no right religion. Jesus didn't create religion. It was man.
not true.

James 1:27

Religion clean and undefiled before God and the Father, is this: to visit the fatherless and widows in their tribulation: and to keep one's self unspotted from this world


Jesus himself established a church, his own religion with the power to judge cases


Matt 18

If they still refuse to listen, tell it to the church; and if they refuse to listen even to the church, treat them as you would a pagan or a tax collector.

Matt 16:17



Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah, for this was not revealed to you by flesh and blood, but by my Father in heaven. 18 And I tell you that you are Peter,[b] and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades[c] will not overcome it. 19 I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven; whatever you bind on earth will be[d] bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be[e] loosed in heaven.”
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Ubenedictus(m): 1:30pm On Sep 15, 2018
Joshzion:
I can't also marry a catholic, I'm a Christian from a pentecostal church. Catholic doctrine is just too boring and somehow to me
that means you wouldn't have married at all if you were born between 60ad and 1880ad, because all the Christian churches from the beginning till 1500 were similar to Catholic church, Protestant church began in the 16th century and their worship style then was similar to that of Catholics, Pentecostalism began 200 years ago, more like a recent movement.


You have to recheck your understanding of Boring

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by penearth(m): 1:32pm On Sep 15, 2018
please stop that marriage to save ur family in future. all ur children would b Anglicans which will hurt u. stop stop stop. mine was a 7th day, a wonderful girl, but I stopped when she swore I wedded her in her church. plz stop don't ever try it. if she agrees, take her before d blessed sacrament for her to pledge she would die a Catholic not coming through deceits
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 1:32pm On Sep 15, 2018
Ubenedictus:
lol, Pentecostalism began in the 19th century with the azusa revival and the like, you guys weren't even around 300 years ago talk less or during the apostolic times. Speaking in tongues and doing miracles are not Pentecostal church property even Catholics do same. I guess it is Kenneth Higgins who said miracles happen more in Catholic churches than in Pentecostal ones
Had to google it.. he is right

Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Ubenedictus(m): 1:33pm On Sep 15, 2018
Slimsly100:
What are you guys stressing about sef?
Since u guys luv urselves DAT much, why not just do court wedding and proceed with ur individual spiritual lives. The race na individual thing abeg, I know an uncle who attends a different church from his wife's and they both love themselves and are at peace with each other.
It's only a matter of understanding
lipsrsealed
Catholics won't recognise court wedding. Marriage is the mystery that reflects the wondrous Union of Christ and his Church in perpetual covenant. In Catholicism that is a distinct Christian matter that a court wedding doesn't even come close to mimicking.
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 1:35pm On Sep 15, 2018
penearth:
please stop that marriage to save ur family in future. all ur children would b Anglicans which will hurt u. stop stop stop. mine was a 7th day, a wonderful girl, but I stopped when she swore I wedded her in her church. plz stop don't ever try it. if she agrees, take her before d blessed sacrament for her to pledge she would die a Catholic not coming through deceits
u wed a girl in her church, not yours.
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Anas09: 1:35pm On Sep 15, 2018
LastDays777:


This is serious

See how we fight each other because of church. Which church is better and which one is not.

The devil is really smiling now.
The Devil has no hand in this. It's all their fault. They don't know what the Church is, if they do, they'd know that the Church is a whole human being comprising of body parts with The Lord as the Head.

Christian denominations are just different parts of the body of Christ. the Hand can say to the leg you are not part of me. It's only foolishness that will make an eye cast off a mouth.

If we understand that in our physical bodies we have Cells, we will know that Winners Chapel is a cell in the body of Christ. Christ Embassy, Redeem, Assemblies of God, Deeper Life, are all Cells in the same body but all of us unite under one Head. The Lord Jesus, then we'll stop this foolishness of you belong to Paul, i belong to Apollos.
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Ubenedictus(m): 1:39pm On Sep 15, 2018
Shugavee:
Had to google it.. he is right
you didn't read well, this is what your link says


"movement has its roots in the late 19th century, a time of mounting indifference to traditional religion. Denominations that were known for revivalistic fervour became subdued. Emotional modes of religious expression—enthusiastic congregational singing, spontaneous testimonies, prayer in unison, and extemporaneous sermons on simple biblical themes by lay preachers—gave way to ordered, formal worship services that were conducted by “reverends,” ministers trained in homiletics (preaching skills), who were influenced by higher biblical criticism. Lecture centres and elegant sanctuaries replaced camp meetings and crude wood-frame tabernacles"




The Pentecostal movement has its origins in the late 19th century, Pentecostals simply enjoy claiming the apostles, by the 19th century about 200 years ago all the apostles were dead
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 1:44pm On Sep 15, 2018
Ubenedictus:
Catholics won't recognise court wedding. Marriage is the mystery that reflects the wondrous Union of Christ and his Church in perpetual covenant. In Catholicism that is a distinct Christian matter that a court wedding doesn't even come close to mimicking.
union of Christ?? Ur are obviously a fanatic,,, traditional marriage is even more important than church wedding,, court wedding holds more ground than them all!!So if a new member comes to ur church married they will do wedding again or be rejected? Or maybe married in another church nko? This doesn’t follow in real life... this is just up in ur head!! N it doesn’t make sense. The union of Christ is a man n woman coming together as one ,, with or without church wedding if they r Christians that union is blessed already!! U forgot the marriage Jesus did his first miracle? That was even in the Jewish time , did Jesus condemn the marriage.. most of u fanatics think carry church for head makes u a Christian!! Which church wedding did Adam n eve do?? They didn’t even do any marriage !!!
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 1:45pm On Sep 15, 2018
Ubenedictus:
Catholics won't recognise court wedding. Marriage is the mystery that reflects the wondrous Union of Christ and his Church in perpetual covenant. In Catholicism that is a distinct Christian matter that a court wedding doesn't even come close to mimicking.
union of Christ?? Ur are obviously a fanatic,,, traditional marriage is even more important than church wedding,, court wedding holds more ground than them all!!So if a new member comes to ur church married they will do wedding again or be rejected? Or maybe married in another church nko? This doesn’t follow in real life... this is just up in ur head!! N it doesn’t make sense. The union of Christ is a man n woman coming together as one ,, with or without church wedding if they r Christians that union is blessed already!! U forgot the marriage Jesus did his first miracle? That was even in the Jewish time , did Jesus condemn the marriage.. most of u fanatics think carry church for head makes u a Christian!! Which church wedding did Adam n eve do?? They didn’t even do any marriage !!
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 1:48pm On Sep 15, 2018
Ubenedictus:
you didn't read well, this is what your link says


"movement has its roots in the late 19th century, a time of mounting indifference to traditional religion. Denominations that were known for revivalistic fervour became subdued. Emotional modes of religious expression—enthusiastic congregational singing, spontaneous testimonies, prayer in unison, and extemporaneous sermons on simple biblical themes by lay preachers—gave way to ordered, formal worship services that were conducted by “reverends,” ministers trained in homiletics (preaching skills), who were influenced by higher biblical criticism. Lecture centres and elegant sanctuaries replaced camp meetings and crude wood-frame tabernacles"




The Pentecostal movement has its origins in the late 19th century, Pentecostals simply enjoy claiming the apostles, by the 19th century about 200 years ago all the apostles were dead
therE is no argument here
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by candygirl4real: 1:49pm On Sep 15, 2018
jesmond3945:
something tells me you are the girl in question. Op your wife is here.

I guess the shugvee or watever is really insane
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 1:51pm On Sep 15, 2018
candygirl4real:


I guess the shugvee or watever is really insane
lol idol worshipers.
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Ubenedictus(m): 1:55pm On Sep 15, 2018
Shugavee:
u are so dumb!! Read history fool
it is you who seem ignorant, the Catholic church has been there since the first century, Protestantism began 1500 years later, Pentecostalism began 1900 years later

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 1:56pm On Sep 15, 2018
Ubenedictus:
it is you who seem ignorant, the Catholic church has been there since the first century, Protestantism began 1500 years later, Pentecostalism began 1900 years later
u r most ignorant cause u didn’t read our argument ...
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by candygirl4real: 1:57pm On Sep 15, 2018
Ubenedictus:
it is you who seem ignorant, the Catholic church has been there since the first century, Protestantism began 1500 years later, Pentecostalism began 1900 years later


Dont mind d shuga mumu with madness written all over her

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 1:58pm On Sep 15, 2018
candygirl4real:



Dont mind d shuga mumu with madness written all over her
lol idol worshipers
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Ubenedictus(m): 2:05pm On Sep 15, 2018
wowcatty:
I don't blame your girl, Catholic church is scary now and pope Francis will soon resign. But you shouldn't leave your church for her own. What people do is, you both leave your churches and start going to a brand new church just as you both have to move out of where you live and get a new house together.
a Catholic who won't attend his wife's church, do you think he will forsake his church to a brand new place where he doesn't even know their theology?
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Ubenedictus(m): 2:07pm On Sep 15, 2018
Anas09:

The Devil has no hand in this. It's all their fault. They don't know what the Church is, if they do, they'd know that the Church is a whole human being comprising of body parts with The Lord as the Head.

Christian denominations are just different parts of the body of Christ. the Hand can say to the leg you are not part of me. It's only foolishness that will make an eye cast off a mouth.

If we understand that in our physical bodies we have Cells, we will know that Winners Chapel is a cell in the body of Christ. Christ Embassy, Redeem, Assemblies of God, Deeper Life, are all Cells in the same body but all of us unite under one Head. The Lord Jesus, then we'll stop this foolishness of you belong to Paul, i belong to Apollos.
the devil has a hand in it, this is the factions that the Bible condemned as works of the flesh.

There were no denominations in Christianity

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 2:10pm On Sep 15, 2018
Ubenedictus:
the devil has a hand in it, this is the factions that the Bible condemned as works of the flesh.

There were no denominations in Christianity
here is another stupid talk,.. the Bible is the work of the flesh!! Written by man n translated by man So shiiiiiii
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by candygirl4real: 2:12pm On Sep 15, 2018
aragon4realz:

this is my biggest problem right now so am still reading....this is one of the best advice I have received thanks...I will go ahead and propose to her and also make it clear that we will be wedding in the Catholic Church when the time comes,if she says no,I move on


Your choice
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 2:19pm On Sep 15, 2018
aragon4realz:

this is my biggest problem right now so am still reading....this is one of the best advice I have received thanks...I will go ahead and propose to her and also make it clear that we will be wedding in the Catholic Church when the time comes,if she says no,I move on
just move on now n get another gf, cause if at all u hv to wed her in her church
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Ubenedictus(m): 2:19pm On Sep 15, 2018
Shugavee:
union of Christ?? Ur are obviously a fanatic,,, traditional marriage is even more important than church wedding,, court wedding holds more ground than them all!!So if a new member comes to ur church married they will do wedding again or be rejected? Or maybe married in another church nko? This doesn’t follow in real life... this is just up in ur head!! N it doesn’t make sense. The union of Christ is a man n woman coming together as one ,, with or without church wedding if they r Christians that union is blessed already!! U forgot the marriage Jesus did his first miracle? That was even in the Jewish time , did Jesus condemn the marriage.. most of u fanatics think carry church for head makes u a Christian!! Which church wedding did Adam n eve do?? They didn’t even do any marriage !!

Read up my dear: eph

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her; 26 that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she should be holy and blameless. 28 So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself; 29 for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church, 30 because we are members of His body. 31 For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh. 32 This mystery is great; but I am speaking with reference to Christ and the church.



Marriage in the Christian setting goes beyond what tradition and law says, the marriage of husband and wife is the mirror of Christ and the church.... This is why Christian marriage is distinct from traditional or court marriage because by faith it embodies and takes on a powerful mystery.

Jews had marriage, tradition has marriage even court too, all those marriage comes with a provision for divorce, Christian marriage doesn't, it is different.

If you are a Jew as Jesus was and still practice Judaism then marry as a Jew, if you are a traditional person go for tradition, I am a Christian and marriage means more to me than it did a Jew, a court, and tradition.

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Shugavee(f): 2:25pm On Sep 15, 2018
Ubenedictus:


Read up my dear: eph

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her; 26 that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she should be holy and blameless. 28 So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself; 29 for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church, 30 because we are members of His body. 31 For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh. 32 This mystery is great; but I am speaking with reference to Christ and the church.



Marriage in the Christian setting goes beyond what tradition and law says, the marriage of husband and wife is the mirror of Christ and the church.... This is why Christian marriage is distinct from traditional or court marriage because by faith it embodies and takes on a powerful mystery.

Jews had marriage, tradition has marriage even court too, all those marriage comes with a provision for divorce, Christian marriage doesn't, it is different.

If you are a Jew as Jesus was and still practice Judaism then marry as a Jew, if you are a traditional person go for tradition, I am a Christian and marriage means more to me than it did a Jew, a court, and tradition.
uncle spare urself this long epistle n answer what I asked if u really need to quote me.. the reason I tagged u is cause u used the phrase union of Christ!! N u apportioned that to the Catholic Church!! Reason I asked all the questions I asked!! Which church wedding did Adam n eve do please? don’t forget that!
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by abobim: 2:31pm On Sep 15, 2018
Bro, she doesn't know much about Catholic faith.. My girl friend then was rehearsing about Catholic faith and their life style.. I thought her that if she is in dilemma about committing a sin, she should pray please save me Lord or else i will perish.. So many things that caught her attention... The truth is that she sees us as a pegan.. My friend girl friend went to Catholic church for morning mass to see if truly we worship idols... My advice for you is only God that can touch that lady's heart. Pray the rosary,so that God will show you more insight on the lady... I'm saying this based on experience, She knows that your love is more than her.. I rest my case...

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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by kushme: 2:39pm On Sep 15, 2018
spiceadole:
Let her go.
4 years of chopping free kpekus.. Take that as your consolation and move on

You are a man.
Men do not hang on too long and too much to one lady.
They always have choices/options.
Are they no single Catholic sisters in your church or neighbourhood?


@bold... What is da fvckin' meaning of that. So, every pucci should be priced?
There should be nothing like free fvcks in your great mind abi? The mindset is something else.

What about the female, preek should always pay for a pucci abi?

Una dey always see una pvcci as something special abi, no wonder sex for money thing is a popular and lucrative biz to a lot of ladies...

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