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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by JerryJJZ(m): 10:39pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
I understand how difficult it might be bro,, but am with her 100% in this. Grant her wish and enjoy a lasting marriage.... She sure have her reasons, and I think I know a couple of it 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by chloride6: 10:40pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Ask your Gf one question. Is he father attending her mother's Church. 8 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Godwinny(m): 10:44pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
I know say that girl na from deeper life |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by doughziay: 10:46pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
aragon4realz: Thing is both of you are Christians and you're by doing this church thing bringing separation in the body of Christ.. is it not one God? Is the God in Catholic different from her own church..This has to be trashed out squarely before you both walk the road to forever. if you or her by any means give in to the pressure because of marriage to change church, you might be struggling with that in marriage. If she's the will of God for you, God always has his way of making things work perfectly, if it continues this way, pray and your wife will surface. God be with you. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by femi4: 10:46pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
aragon4realz:No sane person will have anything to do with Catholic. Stop dragging her into darkness, you can remain there if you ike 4 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by zolajpower: 10:47pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
aragon4realz:You see why i hate christiandom and i.like the islam way of worship is because all muslim see them self like one and most Christian see them selves better than other Christians . Now its not about you getting married to a muslim lady ooo but because you are a catholic. My brother wen u marry this lady today only future shall tell. Because if she can start controlling you starting with u changing ur denomination then you dont have a control over her in future. Shes more wiser than u, she has seen the vunerabilities and the inadequacies u possses has a man. Guy u are the man and as such u need to take the bull by the horn if not your enemy will remain redundant in future 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by AlphaStyles(m): 10:48pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Religion strikes again
no b the same GOD we dy serve
no b the same bible we dy carry?
why christians like to dy give theirself wahala 6 Likes
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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by mechanics(m): 10:49pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
It means you don't love her, if you really love her, you will do what she says. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Sheggy13(m): 10:49pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
aragon4realz:See what you're saying.You can't give up your church for her but she should be the one to do that for you. On what basis? 4 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Ejadike(m): 10:51pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Peteragan:the most matured talk I've ever heard on nairaland.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Sheggy13(m): 10:51pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
zolajpower:Stop talking nonsense. Muslims have sects too. Muslims don't see themselves as one. Otherwise why is Buhari persecuting El Zakzazy. Is it not because he's a leader of the Shia Muslims. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by danie09(m): 10:51pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
This is one of the issues that shows how shallow minded and hypocritical most Nigerians are. We claim to be so religious yet we suffer and live in abject poverty. We are all mostly ethno religious bigots. And sad enough those that even call themselves Christians still can't find a common ground of faith. I am a mix Bini/Yoruba .was born a Muslim but now a Christian and never for once in my life has it ever occurred to me that I must choose my future partner from a certain tribe religion or sect cos tho I am a Nigerian but I refuse to subscribe to that myopic ethno religious sentiment. Back to the topic OP am sorry to say you and your girl are one of the problems of this country, both of you find it do difficult to free yourselves from the shackles of religious sentiments & to think of the fact that you both pray to the same God makes it a bigger shame. Both of you need serious education and growing up to do. Both of you should get married to your respective churches 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by bitcoinvin(m): 10:51pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
aragon4realz: she is right.Catholic is a messy church. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by hustla(m): 10:51pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
HRHQueenPhil: You have made no sense You people are Christians but still fight amongst yourselves Smh How una wan come take convince atheists? 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by goat22: 10:52pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Please be factual op, you attend " olumba olumba the star of the sunset " . Aren't you Oga Jamiama from Camila Grove? We know you in Camila Grove. To marry into Olumba olumba the bride needs the roasted buttocks of a hungry agric fowl and she may not be able to find this. This must be the reason for her hesitance. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by zolajpower: 10:52pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Sheggy13:Who is this ? |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Ejadike(m): 10:53pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Peteragan: |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Ejadike(m): 10:53pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Peteragan:the most matured comment ever on nairaland. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by AlphaStyles(m): 10:54pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
femi4:watin that 1 cum mean? so na u be GOD abi? na u dy determine which domination no good abi? 3 Likes
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Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Mayowa1056(m): 10:54pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Both of you should sit down and decide on the church you will be going when you get married..My dad is from Anglican, when he got married he joined RCCG... 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by bekeechidi(m): 10:55pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
bro dnt hope to get nice advice from here cos this is not a Catholic tred, the problem btw both of u is that Catholic is an 'established' church and Anglican is an 'established' church too both of them are grounded in faith so it's really difficult for any of u to leave ur church because the two churches are like masters and both of u have been birthed in the teachings and fait of ur churches so what u can actually do is to try convince her which I know is difficult because of her faith in her church another option is for u to marry her and let her attend her church if she agrees or u totally leave her and go for another girl from ur church forget the thing called love it's a thing of the mind 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 10:56pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Oh Christians, why are you your enemies 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by femi4: 10:56pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
AlphaStyles:If you are a Bible scholar with no bias mind, you should be able to identify the denomination with wrong teachings 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Temptee101(m): 10:57pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
You guys should leave each other and marry your respective churches 4 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 10:58pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Oh Christians, why are you your enemies A man's church is what a 'wife' should follow her husband to and not the other way round. If she pleads that you wed her in her church before joining you, its about communication. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 10:58pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
[s] mrblessed:[/s] simple question show me any place in the Bible were the apostle pray to Mary 4 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by myMiracle(m): 10:59pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
aragon4realz: and which law states she should be the one doing that sir? 4 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by kerry57: 11:00pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Guy she no be ur wife, go fine ur wife. Don't start with divided home as a result incoherence in ur faith and place of worship. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by Nobody: 11:00pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
zinnydan:Wetin come bring JW enter this matter now? Post specifically mentioned Catholic and Anglican abeg stick to the post and stop shifting goalpost 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by HeyCorleone(m): 11:01pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
femi4: I like comments like this. Ignorance is indeed orgasmic. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by HeyCorleone(m): 11:02pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
Princeofnigeria: Show me any Catholic who prays to Mary. Son you gonn learn today. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girl Doesn't Want To Marry Me Because We Are From Different Churches by madridguy(m): 11:02pm On Sep 14, 2018 |
You will marry muslim and even do hajj. SBL28: |
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