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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 11:20am On Sep 28, 2018
This is nonsense......
Because you are married at age 30, l guess, so that means you will make heaven? SmH
I married at age 27(happy with my marriage), but i see no big deal in it, and i can never stand up to condemn
someone that hasn't.
All what we should look into is 'where are we going at the end?
married or not married will not determine your place up there.
leave the singles alone, when the right one comes, they will marry
even @ age 40, you can marry and have a child if God says so
leave dem abeg.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by manikspears: 11:20am On Sep 28, 2018
Shugavee:
yes, after his primary school result , junior secondary Waec and senior secondary school waec is answering that name.

I am the last person on this forum that will start explaining feminism to anyone ,,especially when the topic isn’t about feminism, most especially to convince someone about my feminist personality.

he can always go to any newspaper and change it,it won't cost him 5k.

i get you ,just like smokers ,it is by choice .just hope you are taking the right turn ,all the best.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 11:24am On Sep 28, 2018
manikspears:


he can always go to any newspaper and change it,it won't cost him 5k.

i get you ,just like smokers ,it is by choice .just hope you are taking the right turn ,all the best.
lol but he sure as hell cant change the names already in his certificates! Yes just like smokers it’s a choice n yes I am taking the right turn for ME

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by TimiRume(f): 11:27am On Sep 28, 2018
trustworthy1:
look at how she keep her hand like say done arrive.
This particular photo made me really laugh grin
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by mhizsuzzy(f): 11:27am On Sep 28, 2018
These are the kind of people suffering in marriage but are making the unmarried feel like they have lost it all...

Ma, go and sit down you are pointless...


Social media has made everyone turn into advisers even those that cannot fix their tents

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Dafreeguy(m): 11:30am On Sep 28, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:


Now you know who is responsible.
If there is no sperm bank.My second option would be
A man who is in a no strings attached relationship(unmarried no relationship older or younger) can do the job so no need hitting your head on the wall because of my post.

And I am too responsible to have children with an irresponsible man.And I am not dumb especially after planning it perfectly.
It is my life not yours.
Smh..ur mata weak me
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Lovelife433(m): 11:30am On Sep 28, 2018
post=71592046:
So the ladies above 35 should go and die and stop thanking God for another year they are privilege to see or what is her point exactly?!

Shame on her.....
wisdom no go kill u idiot lol
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 11:36am On Sep 28, 2018
vingeophysicist:
This is why girls are usually categories as shallow minded.
How can you support a girl of 31 years doing boyfriend and girlfriend. I'm 26 but my main aim of going into relationship is to settle down.
kikikikikikkikkk u r not even married yet. Lol babe with this ur comment u r the last person in this world to call anyone shallow minded!!

I am young too earning very well ,doing well in life, even in a relationship, yeah am pretty good but still my aim in life can’t be that ,, want more more money, want to be known internationally like Genevieve, wanna be my own boss, start up a charity to send young girl on the street back to school, who knows , own my own female school even.... I can do this either single or married .. i support women and whatever decision they make as far they ain’t jobless, so yes I support her n will keep supporting her...
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by adedayoa2(f): 11:39am On Sep 28, 2018
vingeophysicist:
This is why girls are usually categories as shallow minded.
How can you support a girl of 31 years doing boyfriend and girlfriend. I'm 26 but my main aim of going into relationship is to settle down.
because you're 26 and your main aim is to settle down doesn't mean a 35 year old guy has got that aim too and that 31 year old girl could fall into the hands of that 35 yr old guy who's got bad intentions for her. You see its a 2 way thing

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by DateMynd44(m): 11:39am On Sep 28, 2018
DaddyNimo:
[s] pic of the ewo calabar and her ancestors looking husband...cos she Don marry she get mouth to yan dust. Stupid woman... See wetin u marry call am husband [/s] .
na calabar woman matter go kill you.
are your Yoruba promiscuous women any better?
Calabar girls are hard to get, they are not as cheap as Yoruba sluts
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by themonk(m): 11:39am On Sep 28, 2018
Zieina:


Pls, let's call a spade a spade. In our world, marriage is everything. If you're a single lady, approaching 35 and still insisting marriage isn't everything, then you're in denial or probably have a good support system. But what about society? People will size you up based on your single status and look down on you cos you haven't any offspring yet.
I would like to point out that this is the social construct in Nigeria mostly as we haven't fully evolved out of the cultural conformist chains that hold us back. I am a huge non-conformist and will never do anything to please someone when I derive no pleasure from it. I fully do not care about what the society says neither am I burdened by the goals they place for me and I will advise everyone to live the way that most suits him or her because at the end it is your life and if you do things because people do, you'll regret it.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by edin: 11:39am On Sep 28, 2018
all this ladies attacking her are 35 + and not married. shebi una say marriage no be 4 every body. Sidon make u de old...time no de.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by adedayoa2(f): 11:40am On Sep 28, 2018
Shugavee:
kikikikikikkikkk u r not even married yet. Lol babe with this ur comment u r the last person in this world to call anyone shallow minded!!

I am young too earning very well ,doing well in life, even in a relationship, yeah am pretty good but still my aim in life can’t be that ,, want more more money, want to be known internationally like Genevieve, wanna be my own boss, start up a charity to send young girl on the street back to school, who knows , own my own female school even.... I can do this either single or married .. i support women and whatever decision they make as far they ain’t jobless, so yes I support her n will keep supporting her...
go girl

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by edin: 11:40am On Sep 28, 2018
all this ladies attacking her are 35 + and not married. shebi una say marriage no be 4 every body. Sidon make u de old...time no de. na true she de talk.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by adedayoa2(f): 11:41am On Sep 28, 2018
edin:
all this ladies attacking her are 35 + and not married. shebi una say marriage no be 4 every body. Sidon make u de old...time no de.
some are married, experienced. And will always support each other, that's what girls do.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 11:46am On Sep 28, 2018
She ain't even talking about anyone else but the chick she's shading, and the rest of you'll have turned it into a discussion shocked

May you'll find peace in your lifes so you'll can stop hating on people grin

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by mirob(f): 11:47am On Sep 28, 2018
[quote author=donstan18 post=71592641]Shot fired!! What a bitter truth! After bashing her, you all will still log out and face reality of what she said grin

Look at them, a lot of them up there wishing and saying she isn't happy with her family, all because she said the truth, all because the truth is bitter. grin

Even without being told, an evening newspaper lady should know that she has no right to celebrate birthday because she has been biologically expired, psychological traumatized, sexually useless, maritally screwed and aboki-cally suyalized.

A single lady still celebrating birthdays, going to wedding parties and still doing boyfriend/boo at 30+, is a disgrace and a big shame.


Sensible evening newspapers will do nothing to end their predicament but............


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I will just assume that you are catching your fun but this is getting irritating, what about those ones that stayed with a man for many years with the promise of marriage and the man in question goes behind her to marry another girl with the excuse that the family wants him to marry the person? Pls stop saying this, it might sound like a joke to you but some people are really taking this serious and it might lead to suicide or depression. Know how you abuse single ladies above 30, not all of them are prostitutes and irresponsible.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Aystarz: 11:49am On Sep 28, 2018
LivingFree:
She ain't even talking about anyone else but the chick she's shading, and the rest of you'll have turned it into a discussion shocked

May you'll find peace in your lifes so you'll can stop hating on people grin


It's the insecurity in them commenting. The Nigerian society hard gan grin

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladycloud(f): 11:51am On Sep 28, 2018
True... But is that how it's supposed to be??
Zieina:


Pls, let's call a spade a spade. In our world, marriage is everything. If you're a single lady, approaching 35 and still insisting marriage isn't everything, then you're in denial or probably have a good support system. But what about society? People will size you up based on your single status and look down on you cos you haven't any offspring yet.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 11:53am On Sep 28, 2018
ANGELMARVE:
The truth they say is very bitter.
she is completely saying the truth.How can a responsible Lady not get married before the age of 35?
If she is not married before her 35th birthday, then her responsibility comes into question. It's either there is something from her pursuing men away or her case has gone spiritual.

You cannot tell me it's her career because as career minded as Beyonce and chimamanda are, "They are both happily married with kids"
That is because their various husbands find them responsible with good woman characters.
So as a Lady that is unmarried after 35, You seriously need to check your life and repair those traits that have drove men away.
I know popular women defenders like cococandy and Dominique will come to defend their nairaland unmarried females as usual but the truth is that both coco and Dominique are married, So the unmarried 35+ ladies need not to be deceived by their defensive words, You better go check up your life, go get married and have kids.
There is nothing more beautiful than seeing your Daughter or son calling you mommy, Mommy, mommy and your husband at your bed side every night.

Absolutely ridiculous opinion right here. There are many reasons why a girl could be unmarried at 35. Sometimes it's personal, other times it could be spiritual and not a fault of the girl in question. To assertively generalize that any girl who is unmarried at 35 is irresponsible is absolutely wrong and furthermore what's up with the Bday celebrations stuff? There are many unmarried girls who are more responsible than the married ones. So Birth days should only be significant based on Marital status? Smh..No wonder Africa is backwards and we wonder why...

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Zieina(f): 11:59am On Sep 28, 2018
themonk:

I would like to point out that this is the social construct in Nigeria mostly as we haven't fully evolved out of the cultural conformist chains that hold us back.

I get your point and agree to the fact that living your life in a non-conformist way is the best. But if you're a woman who genuinely desires to have a home and children, these things will eventually get to you, especially when you know you deserve more.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Zieina(f): 12:01pm On Sep 28, 2018
Ladycloud:
True... But is that how it's supposed to be??

No. It's entirely wrong to put older single women in a stereotypical box.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by themonk(m): 12:01pm On Sep 28, 2018
Zieina:


I get your point and agree to the fact that living your life in a non-conformist way is the best. But if you're a woman who genuinely desires to have a home and children, these things will eventually get to you, especially when you know you deserve more.

I agree. If you have similar goals with the one that society expects then you should be bothered to achieve it.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by cicikhemy(f): 12:06pm On Sep 28, 2018
Taaaaaaaa.....madam sharap.....who told you that marriage is for everyone....issoright...you are married tell me what that has added to you? Apart from social recognition of Mrs..,even in the Bible gan marriage odikwa not mandatory....shioooor....Tell me other achievements
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladycloud(f): 12:09pm On Sep 28, 2018
smiley
Zieina:


No. It's entirely wrong to put older single women in a stereotypical box.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by OldBeer: 12:15pm On Sep 28, 2018
Jesse25:
As a guy I we blame my self if have not marry at the age of 35 talk less of a woman at 35 it the worst thing that can ever happen to a woman..... The truth is always bitter
Oga instead of blaming yourself, enter school and learn English.
See as you type like an illiterate.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by omoharry(f): 12:19pm On Sep 28, 2018
Deltatoto:
delta is the only state that can boast of 13 urban areas we have two Govt houses two airports apart from Lagos no other state in Nigeria has more than one airport so in terms of development leave that one we are good.talking about Honourable my position In govt is media Nd publicity so im where I ought to be if you may know.thrnralking about being sorry for my wife how can you be sorry for a woman that lives the life you always dreamt of.if I show ugerpics and her cars u will be sorry for yourself instead.the truth is u don’t even know who u are talking to if u knew fear no go let u even reply I’m thr richest Man U have talked to in ur life I can bet it
I dont envy her at all..naaa!..naaa!..naaaa!..I rather be unmarried than marry a man that thinks in the archaic way you do..Cars..house..money.!!.is that your measurement for total happiness...sorry to burst your burbles oga..that is not my measurement for happinesss but they also important and needed to make life seamless and worthy of living.I dont know who you are but the way you reason diminishes all the money you have in your account before the eyes of the world except your blind followers.
Sorry oga..I will never dream to be in your wife shoes for I know if her husband can be this disrespectful to women online then his wife would not have been as a queen by you... good bye. Dont quote me again.I am done with you.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by OldBeer: 12:21pm On Sep 28, 2018
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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by OldBeer: 12:23pm On Sep 28, 2018
Deltatoto:
delta is the only state that can boast of 13 urban areas we have two Govt houses two airports apart from Lagos no other state in Nigeria has more than one airport so in terms of development leave that one we are good.talking about Honourable my position In govt is media Nd publicity so im where I ought to be if you may know.thrnralking about being sorry for my wife how can you be sorry for a woman that lives the life you always dreamt of.if I show ugerpics and her cars u will be sorry for yourself instead.the truth is u don’t even know who u are talking to if u knew fear no go let u even reply I’m thr richest Man U have talked to in ur life I can bet it
Money miss road.
See this illiterate.
I am sure you are a thug for your governor.
He cannot even spell.

Tueh!

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 12:28pm On Sep 28, 2018
Aystarz:



It's the insecurity in them commenting. The Nigerian society hard gan grin

Watch this bs turn up 30pages grin

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 12:28pm On Sep 28, 2018
OldBeer:
Oga instead of blaming yourself, enter school and learn English.
See as you type like an illiterate.
Mumu ....ur papa yansh
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by OldBeer: 12:31pm On Sep 28, 2018
Jesse25:
Mumu ....ur papa yansh
grin grin Illiterate and jobless. Uncle pick a struggle, time dey go o!

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