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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by ladyverere(f): 2:00pm On Sep 28, 2018
laydoh:
As a matter of fact,marriage is an achievement in life most importantly a good marriage but most of you lot wont agree. There are a lot of women who wanna settle down,unfortunately for them,their wish didnt come true even though they tried.tell me why it is not an achievement for those who made it.

They failed because many of us women don't bother to socialise. If you're not out there who will see you to propose to?

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by liver123(m): 2:13pm On Sep 28, 2018
Tell them
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by djon78(m): 2:16pm On Sep 28, 2018
Deltatoto:
delta is the only state that can boast of 13 urban areas we have two Govt houses two airports apart from Lagos no other state in Nigeria has more than one airport so in terms of development leave that one we are good.talking about Honourable my position In govt is media Nd publicity so im where I ought to be if you may know.thrnralking about being sorry for my wife how can you be sorry for a woman that lives the life you always dreamt of.if I show ugerpics and her cars u will be sorry for yourself instead.the truth is u don’t even know who u are talking to if u knew fear no go let u even reply I’m thr richest Man U have talked to in ur life I can bet it


Stop bragging my friend. With all the potential wey that state get, it is still backward. You guys should keep on wasting resources.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 2:27pm On Sep 28, 2018
OldBeer:
Abeg leave me jor.
Who get time for all these childish yabs?
not me
Nonsense cheesy
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by djon78(m): 2:30pm On Sep 28, 2018
Marriage is not everything. In fact, there are a lot of married people that are miserable.

The worst thing that can happen is when you are married to a heartless, and selfish spouse. I have come across people like that with regrets.

I think everyone should pray to marry a spouse you both are of one mind. But if not, may God be with you and give you the fortitude to continue till it gets better.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by liver123(m): 2:47pm On Sep 28, 2018
Truth they say is bitter. They way ladies cherish and celebrate birthdays this days baffles me. You will see a lady advertising a birthday that is still in a month time. All in the name of acquiring money for the birthday. And when the birthday finally comes they will now go out celebrating and snapping all sorts of useless pictures. Your birthday is a day you are supposed to do a sober reflection and give thanks to God for the gift of life.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Deltatoto: 2:55pm On Sep 28, 2018
djon78:



Stop bragging my friend. With all the potential wey that state get, it is still backward. You guys should keep on wasting resources.
come up with facts of us behind pls we are not like some states that show what’s not on ground in tv

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Deltatoto: 2:57pm On Sep 28, 2018
OldBeer:
Money miss road.
See this illiterate.
I am sure you are a thug for your governor.
He cannot even spell.

Tueh!
when I left uniben u will still be in ur moms womb.its not a spelling competition if u were a waec holder u will know what’s called typo error
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Deltatoto: 2:59pm On Sep 28, 2018
omoharry:
I dont envy her at all..naaa!..naaa!..naaaa!..I rather be unmarried than marry a man that thinks in the archaic way you do..Cars..house..money.!!.is that your measurement for total happiness...sorry to burst your burbles oga..that is not my measurement for happinesss but they also important and needed to make life seamless and worthy of living.I dont know who you are but the way you reason diminishes all the money you have in your account before the eyes of the world except your blind followers.
Sorry oga..I will never dream to be in your wife shoes for I know if her husband can be this disrespectful to women online then his wife would not have been as a queen by you... good bye. Dont quote me again.I am done with you.
go and do thanksgiving in ur church for chatting me soon I’ll show my identity I’m sure you will want to rush me
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by ImaIma1(f): 3:02pm On Sep 28, 2018
safarigirl:
you don't know what you are talking about

There are some responsible women that can't find men because they don't socialise. Where will men see these ones to marry?

Those girls slaying in the clubs, they are the ones getting married to the best men every Saturday. Go and check BellaNaija, na dem you go see. I am not talking about all those marriage of frustration that some women subject themselves to. Marriage with two frustrated souls who can barely feed.


Responsible women rarely see husbands because they don't gallivant. Where will good men see you if you are constantly indoors? I am talking about men who respect you and your ideals. Most Nigerian men cannot date a woman who doesn't want sex in a relationship, even if she isn't materialistic and when you find women like that, their relationships don't last

You cannot talk for women because everybody has a struggle that you will never know because you can only speak for your angle.


You are very right. In my case, i dated guys that i felt were shallow and the relationships were short-lived. I never clubbed or kept late nights and i used to wonder if i would ever meet a guy. Forget church guys...they are the same guys you meet outside but in a sanctimonious form.

When i eventually got married, it was to a childhood friend that i had kept in touch with over the years and it has been worth it.

The lady that made the silly comment that birthed this thread is ignorant and has mouth because she happens to be married. I am married but i know that single ladies even in their 50s may not be single because of a fault of theirs.

There are just too many myopic men and ladies that make single ladies feel insecure and unworthy. An older friend of mine clocked 45 and she is single. She did a photoshoot and flooded Facebook and also threw a party. Life is for everyone...single or married.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by djon78(m): 3:12pm On Sep 28, 2018
Deltatoto:
come up with facts of us behind pls we are not like some states that show what’s not on ground in tv

Oga Delta State is living way below her potential. A state that has the likes of Jim Ovia, Tony Elumelu, The ibrus etc is not meant to be where she is. I watched udaghans interview on Chanel's recently, he was just twisting tongue when asked what he did as governor.

Look at a state like Lagos, doing extremely well. Delta is supposed to be better

Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 3:12pm On Sep 28, 2018
Brightgem:
Only the reasonable can identify reasonable points! Decipher that!
I was just saying you didn't make any tangible point base on your comment in respect to the op's point and you decided to insult me and tag me as unreasonable.
I really don't want to reply you because I respect women.You are acting strong but I know people like you are very fragile. I will not insult you, because if I do....
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by DreamersVille24(m): 3:17pm On Sep 28, 2018
omoharry:
and so fucking what if she is over menopause..how is that your business. Hard working men dont have time for this crap that you have dedicated your whole lives in doing.You are definately a jobless slow poke that have been rejected by so many ladies and you have become this bitter man on nairaland, that is why you are here bad mouthing women...tell me what have they done to you that you will focus all your energy in this forum lashing out at women when your mate are out there making money and preparing for a better future for themselves...
Yes she is approaching Menopause, so am I and so others ladies. So, what if i get to 40 and dont get married how is that your business?..mind your business, go and get a job, work hard and look for a good woman to marry and let us be please.

Stop lazying around and expecting a girl to start soaking Garri with you while you spend half of your life online doing nothing meaningful but bad mouthing women because you had had a bitter experience with them..so oga..I am not getting married nor interested in having into kids..I might adopt though if i wish..maybe later..I have nieces and nephews..all over the place..and it is a choice..deal with it.

Ask most Nigerian married men and women how happy they are in their marriages..To me life goes beyond marriage and having kids but to some other, it very important..everybody with thier destiny and how they wish to live their lives..must everyone give birth? what happens to the children roaming street of Nigeria have they been properly taken care off?...Please if marriage is your sole achievement it is not for many people..so abeg mind your business and stop this menupause bla bla bla..It make you look bitter.

Great response to that oaf.

I'm unpleasantly surprised with the mentality on display by guys on NL on this matter.

There are greater issues in life to be more concerned with than marriage or children ultimately.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by DreamersVille24(m): 3:19pm On Sep 28, 2018
djon78:


Oga Delta State is living way below her potential. A state that has the likes of Jim Ovia, Tony Elumelu, The ibrus etc is not meant to be where she is. I watched udaghans interview on Chanel's recently, he was just twisting tongue when asked what he did as governor.

Look at a state like Lagos, doing extremely well. Delta is supposed to be better



Lagos doing well?

In what terms cos by all known standards Lagos is currently so so subpar.

And I'm talking as a lagosian.

Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by DreamersVille24(m): 3:24pm On Sep 28, 2018
laydoh:
As a matter of fact,marriage is an achievement in life most importantly a good marriage but most of you lot wont agree. There are a lot of women who wanna settle down,unfortunately for them,their wish didnt come true even though they tried.tell me why it is not an achievement for those who made it.

My dear change this mentality!!!

This is why Africa remains stagnant and mostly unproductive!

There are a lot of challenges in different spheres of life awaiting our conquest.

Marriage is only a choice which has even wrecked so many people and cut short their destinies.

You were not put on earth to wantonly make babies but to leave the world a better place.

Many of you end up frustrating yourselves after rushing into marriage for all the wrong reasons.

The world does not revolve around marriage.

Wake up and smell the coffee!!!

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by wait: 3:28pm On Sep 28, 2018
You might have a point, but some certain viewers wont find your physical appearance attractive to correspond with your words
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by pocohantas(f): 3:39pm On Sep 28, 2018
CaptainMitch:
Yes I am, the strike is making me enjoy needed rest, I hope it is over by next week.

Same here, I worked half day. I am at my babe's place now. She say make I buy her that thing. I don't even know what it is called, do you?
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by dasparrow: 3:42pm On Sep 28, 2018
Well, Sylvia is entitled to her opinion. She reasons like 99% of the unhappily married Nigerian women I once came across in Nigeria. The ones that in the middle of the night are secretly nursing the 1001 sexually transmitted diseases that their cheating husbands gave them. What can I say?

Stay salty Sylvia AKA the Nigerian glorified housemaid and deliverer of future Nigerian scammers, drug traffickers, cultists, gang members and body part sellers.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by CaptainMitch: 3:43pm On Sep 28, 2018
No I don't know the name, I think it's a kind of imported Berry though, my former boss at work used to buy it for me.
pocohantas:


Same here, I worked half day. I am at my babe's place now. She say make I buy her that thing. I don't even know what it is called, do you?
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 3:45pm On Sep 28, 2018
Yes marriage is everything
Am under my bed come & help beat me

Ladycloud:
Pheeew!!
Age is really not maturity!

Person go just dey matured with no sense...

Is marriage everything??
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by pocohantas(f): 3:55pm On Sep 28, 2018
CaptainMitch:
No I don't know the name, I think it's a kind of imported Berry though, my former boss at work used to buy it for me.

Your former boss na man or woman?
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by CaptainMitch: 3:59pm On Sep 28, 2018
Woman, I prefer female bosses.

pocohantas:


Your former boss na man or woman?
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by GboyegaD(m): 3:59pm On Sep 28, 2018
ANGELMARVE:
Please my dear, spear me the sermon of life is not a competition.
Listen i am a guy and i can tell you how Guys think.
Guys are lovers of good and responsible ladies, If a lady is responsible and a wife material, there is always that good guy that is 100% ready to wife her.
The only ladies that guys are running away from when it comes to marriage, are ladies that have questionable characters or past.
When i was in school in my ND days, there are some ladies that got married before ND graduation, while the slay queens are still unmarried even till today.

So what makes the married students to be different than the unmarried ones?
My dear the difference is clear like mirror.
As a Lady clock 25, if she is responsible, mature, resourceful with good characters, There are guys out there that are ready to get married to her, even if she is still in school.
Do you know when omotola got married?
What of Beyonce?
What of Michele Obama?
what of Aisha buhari?
Please spear me the life is not a competition crap, If a lady is good, she will get married.
Most unmarried 35+ ladies have spent their early days slaying, clubbing and doing all sorts of youthful Nonsense that have driven responsible guys away.

Your opinion doesn't imply all guys think like you. To each his/her own and we should allow people live their lives the way they choose.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Jahwinaboy(m): 4:01pm On Sep 28, 2018
ANGELMARVE:
Please my dear, spear me the sermon of life is not a competition.
Listen i am a guy and i can tell you how Guys think.
Guys are lovers of good and responsible ladies, If a lady is responsible and a wife material, there is always that good guy that is 100% ready to wife her.
The only ladies that guys are running away from when it comes to marriage, are ladies that have questionable characters or past.
When i was in school in my ND days, there are some ladies that got married before ND graduation, while the slay queens are still unmarried even till today.

So what makes the married students to be different than the unmarried ones?
My dear the difference is clear like mirror.
As a Lady clock 25, if she is responsible, mature, resourceful with good characters, There are guys out there that are ready to get married to her, even if she is still in school.
Do you know when omotola got married?
What of Beyonce?
What of Michele Obama?
what of Aisha buhari?
Please spear me the life is not a competition crap, If a lady is good, she will get married.
Most unmarried 35+ ladies have spent their early days slaying, clubbing and doing all sorts of youthful Nonsense that have driven responsible guys away.


This is hot and direct although not 100%. When do we start slaying those slay Mamas. I hate that word Slay Mamas.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Olamibawse(m): 4:01pm On Sep 28, 2018
[quote author=Ladyhippolyta88 post=71595571]
Abeg, how did una 2 argument end? Was it conclusive or are we having a rerun?
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Raalsalghul: 4:06pm On Sep 28, 2018
The fact that soo many ladies are replying on this thread shows that they are pained
If not, they would've ignored. grin grin grin

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Raalsalghul: 4:12pm On Sep 28, 2018
ImaIma1:


You are very right. In my case, i dated guys that i felt were shallow and the relationships were short-lived. I never clubbed or kept late nights and i used to wonder if i would ever meet a guy. Forget church guys...they are the same guys you meet outside but in a sanctimonious form.

When i eventually got married, it was to a childhood friend that i had kept in touch with over the years and it has been worth it.

The lady that made the silly comment that birthed this thread is ignorant and has mouth because she happens to be married. I am married but i know that single ladies even in their 50s may not be single because of a fault of theirs.

There are just too many myopic men and ladies that make single ladies feel insecure and unworthy. An older friend of mine clocked 45 and she is single. She did a photoshoot and flooded Facebook and also threw a party. Life is for everyone...single or married.
I can bet you got married to that your childhood friend out of pity. Probably he asked you out before and you friendzoned him to go play around with the bad guys and only considered him when none of the bad guys would wife you. I'm just so sure. smiley

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Jahwinaboy(m): 4:13pm On Sep 28, 2018
I wish I could marry all the single Ladies and put an end to all these debates.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Raalsalghul: 4:15pm On Sep 28, 2018
OldBeer:
End thread.
You said it all.
You are wise.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by faites(f): 4:19pm On Sep 28, 2018
donstan18:
Shot fired!! What a bitter truth! After bashing her, you all will still log out and face reality of what she said grin

Look at them, a lot of them up there wishing and saying she isn't happy with her family, all because she said the truth, all because the truth is bitter. grin

Even without being told, an evening newspaper lady should know that she has no right to celebrate birthday because she has been biologically expired, psychological traumatized, sexually useless, maritally screwed and aboki-cally suyalized.

A single lady still celebrating birthdays, going to wedding parties and still doing boyfriend/boo at 30+, is a disgrace and a big shame.

Sensible evening newspapers will do nothing to end their predicament but............




You are very stu.pid
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Raalsalghul: 4:24pm On Sep 28, 2018
safarigirl:
you don't know what you are talking about

There are some responsible women that can't find men because they don't socialise. Where will men see these ones to marry?

Those girls slaying in the clubs, they are the ones getting married to the best men every Saturday. Go and check BellaNaija, na dem you go see. I am not talking about all those marriage of frustration that some women subject themselves to. Marriage with two frustrated souls who can barely feed.


Responsible women rarely see husbands because they don't gallivant. Where will good men see you if you are constantly indoors? I am talking about men who respect you and your ideals. Most Nigerian men cannot date a woman who doesn't want sex in a relationship, even if she isn't materialistic and when you find women like that, their relationships don't last

You cannot talk for women because everybody has a struggle that you will never know because you can only speak for your angle.
At the bolded, only reason they pretend not to want sex is to appear decent. Can you guarantee they're virgins?
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by ImaIma1(f): 4:26pm On Sep 28, 2018
Raalsalghul:
I can bet you got married to that your childhood friend out of pity. Probably he asked you out before and you friendzoned him to go play around with the bad guys and only considered him when none of the bad guys would wife you. I'm just so sure. smiley


You are so so wrong. It is a funny story though.

We both dated different people and he even used to ask me help him "access" a girl he liked. And then whenever i needed to make a continental dish, i would get him to help me.

It never crossed my mind to date him and i doubt it crossed his until that year. We started dating Feb/March, he proposed in May and we got married in November.

There was a reason both of us never thought of dating but that is story for another day.

Your assumption is actually baseless. That is why people should be open minded

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