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Sorry if I don't mention the name of my organization but I am seriously worried and deeply in love with my female senior colleague who wants me to pop the question as soon as possible. While feeling reluctant to respond to her feelings, I am much distracted and feels intimidated with respect to her position of power and money.

Do u know her so well. Have deep discussions with her. Pray den make ur decision

Please don't be intimidated.
It is actually scriptural.

Our great Prophet Muhammad married wealthy Khadijah who was 40-years old when he was only 25.
So unless she is wealthy, then this is stupid.

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Only God Know How Many Times Una don Fvck on Top Office Table...

I think she is a feminist who now realised age is not on her side.


OP if you marry her don't come back on Nairaland saying

"my wife is too old what should I do?"

Deeply in love but scared of marrying her. What a contradictory statement. How did you fall in love with her? Did you not see anything good in her before falling in love? Please man up and sort out ur insecurities.

Olifiz:
Do u know her so well. Have deep discussions with her. Pray den make ur decision

She loves to tell me whatever I ask her. I love her because of the respect she has for me even within my office environment, even though we try to keep it professional.
I really appreciate your words.

Something is wrong with this kind of love. Somebody is about to be turned to a houseboy

IamPlato:
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Only God Know How Many Times Una don Fvck on Top Office Table...

None. We agreed against that

Marry her if you see the qualities that you are looking for in a wife.
Had sex yet?

NwaAmaikpe:



Please don't be intimidated.
It is actually scriptural.

Our great Prophet Muhammad married wealthy Khadijah who was 40-years old when he was only 25.

I appreciate your comments

Hotzone:
She loves to tell me whatever I ask her. I love her because of the respect she has for me even within my office environment, even though we try to keep it professional.
I really appreciate your words.

Do u know her family well, her upbringing, etc. is she older than u? I’m asking all these becos some women change when they get comfortable, wen they are married. So things like her upbringing might have an impact on how she will behave after marriage. U wouldn’t want to be in a marriage where ur wife doesn’t have respect for you because she’s richer than u. Then if u must marry her I think u should start looking for a better job elsewhere or being self employed. Still depends tho.

I can’t b accurate cos me sef still Dey single o.

Niggie grab her fvcking ass digitus quartus and put that fvcking sperm ring on it!!!


This is the 21st century niggie................and everyone is looking for an independent lady regardless of her fvcking position...........


Besides i think it'd be fun being the only one in the office who doesnt call your boss "boss".....................while others call her boss, you fvcking walk into her office, grab her ass, place your mouth close to her ears and whisper "darling" while nibbling her ear lobe....



As far her as she's a good lady (i mean wife material), and you're comfortable with the whole shiit, go for that shiiiit and fvck what people might prolly say.....

Oyindidi:
Something is wrong with this kind of love. Somebody is about to be turned to a houseboy

I think she knows better than that. I know she ain't the type

NwaAmaikpe:



Please don't be intimidated.
It is actually scriptural.

Our great Prophet Muhammad married wealthy Khadijah who was 40-years old when he was only 25.

Lol u be Muslim? Surprises everywhere

Hotzone:
None. We agreed against that

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So Because She Is A Senior In Office You Cannot talk. She Is Not Your Senior By Age and Even If She Is Approach Her, she Wont Bite

Hotzone:
I think she knows better than that. I know she ain't the type

Who is older?

don4real18:
Marry her if you see the qualities that you are looking for in a wife.
Had sex yet?

Your new moniker. Got you!

Oyindidi:
Something is wrong with this kind of love. Somebody is about to be turned to a houseboy

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You Are Seeing It Wrongly

IamPlato:
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You Are Seeing It Wrongly

Really? Explain it to me deadrat, e don tey I mention you sha

Oyindidi:
Your new moniker. Got you!

Nope... You must have mistaken me for someone else

don4real18:
Nope... You must have mistaken me for someone else

Don't let me mention your main moniker.

JONNYSPUTE:
Deeply in love but scared of marrying her. What a contradictory statement. How did you fall in love with her? Did you not see anything good in her before falling in love? Please man up and sort out ur insecurities.

Never said I am scared bro. Just the first experience and I don't want to make a mess of it, please

Oyindidi:
Really? Explain it to me deadrat, e don tey I mention you sha

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Iyawo!


Because She Is Of A Higher Position Doesnt Mean She would Belittle Him

Oyindidi:
Something is wrong with this kind of love. Somebody is about to be turned to a houseboy

Looks like you've given up on love. Maybe you only really love your kid(s) now.

OP, you can go ahead. Just ensure you find out she's still menstruating.

Earthbound:
Looks like you've given up on love. Maybe you only really love your kid(s) now.

I never believed in love. Love is according to your duties not all this lips service

Earthbound:
Looks like you've given up on love. Maybe you only really love your kid(s) now.

Leave my kid out this tori, biko

IamPlato:
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Iyawo!
Because She Is Of A Higher Position Doesnt Mean She would Belittle Him

Fear women!

Oyindidi:
Leave my kid out this tori, biko

Sure.

Maybe you were lied to more than you were shown actual love, but what do I know?

Oyindidi:
Fear women!

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I Always Keep That In Mind.

How Family?

Earthbound:
Sure.

Maybe you were lied to more than you were shown actual love, but what do I know?

Read my other post. I have a different definition for love.

IamPlato:
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I Always Keep That In Mind.


How Family?

Fine dear, the big boy is in jss1