NwaAmaikpe:



Please don't be intimidated.
It is actually scriptural.

Our great Prophet Muhammad married wealthy Khadijah who was 40-years old when he was only 25.
So unless she is wealthy, then this is stupid.

omooba969:


How do you know, but they're colleagues at the same place of work na.

omooba969:


Now you're talking & I will be coming with my adorable ibkkk.

ibkkk:


Gba bee!

Awayu?

boy16:




I think she is a feminist who now realised age is not on her side.


OP if you marry her don't come back on Nairaland saying

"my wife is too old what should I do?"

Jogunomi1:


He has to find another job or be promoted to her level. I'm two months older than my wife. She was earning better than I did 3 months ago. Today, I earn better than her. In our first fight, she was angry when I bought data with money in her bank account - giving her cash to save my trip to bank for lodgment - saying she doesn't like having cash in hand. During our second fight, she stopped cooking foods at home for family and refused to use anything in the house bought with my money. I was not worried because I had already started looking for a house I will once in a while go to whenever she starts her nonsense. After some days, she started crying profusely.

gbagyiza:


Is not even too old that is d problem, but she will like to control him n dictate to him what to do.

Oyindidi:
Something is wrong with this kind of love. Somebody is about to be turned to a houseboy

Bush2013:
thank you. If you see every other qualities you want in a woman go ahead age is just a number to be frank. You may end to up leaving her for a young bae whom you don't have guarantee of her respect. And endeavors to change your username when bringing your invitation

ishmaelemeka2:
you need to be sure you truly love her first..then mk sure she does in return and it must be genuine.. get to know her family and up bringing. mk sure she is not the type that will over ride on you wen u finally settled in marriage..cos most ladies working class with their money are like that... most of all if she respect you for who you are that's all..but always be real and keep it professional as you said. God bless you.

Hotzone:
Sorry if I don't mention the name of my organization but I am seriously worried and deeply in love with my female senior colleague who wants me to pop the question as soon as possible. While feeling reluctant to respond to her feelings, I am much distracted and feels intimidated with respect to her position of power and money.

IamPlato:
...



Only God Know How Many Times Una don Fvck on Top Office Table...

Ladyhippolyta88:


Don't mind them it is a societal thing.
Men are not advised to pray for their wives it is only women because according to religion na only the woman dey build the home

So many insecure men

I remember attending a church service back then and the woman was preaching telling women to pray that their husbands earn more money and become more successful than them just because they are men and it was their God given mandate to provide and not the place of a wife to earn more in the family.
I was dumbfounded.

samysmoothfresh:
Niggie grab her fvcking ass digitus quartus and put that fvcking sperm ring on it!!!


This is the 21st century niggie................and everyone is looking for an independent lady regardless of her fvcking position...........


Besides i think it'd be fun being the only one in the office who doesnt call your boss "boss".....................while others call her boss, you fvcking walk into her office, grab her ass, place your mouth close to her ears and whisper "darling" while nibbling her ear lobe....



As far her as she's a good lady (i mean wife material), and you're comfortable with the whole shiit, go for that shiiiit and fvck what people might prolly say.....

Boss13:


I’m sorry about your plight. I don’t know if you are newly married. That’s women for you. Ignore her during issues but ensure that your power and influence do not reduce in the family. It’s good you have increased your earning capacity- regardless of what you think she would be concerned. Most men do not understand that women have this innate insecurity or fear and sometimes such fears drive them to do inexplicable things.

Your wife would come around especially when she begins to see that you are truly committed in the marriage and when old age begin to settle in (laughs)- they all do.

Men know this - your wife or girlfriend is always thinking if this marriage/relationship breaks what is their backup plan. They will never own up, but they all do

omooba969:


Provide us with the authentic proof then.

The burden is now on you to prove otherwise.

SarcasticGenius:




Mumus are the kind of people who try to hide notorious facts that are in plain sight.

Imagine how stupid a person has to be in trying to hide something which the whole world acknowledges.

When you're done imagining, look into a mirror and write the word "fool" on the image you find looking back at you.

Jogunomi1:


Newly married! Yes, they have it in their subconscious mind the backup plans irrespective of the level of love in the marriage. I will advice men never to go into marriage without solid financial backup if they can't tolerate nonsense from women. My wife is very mature. But her being not tech savvy oftentimes smuggles misunderstandings into our union. For instance, she claimed to have sent me a message and I intentionally refused to reply. She ought to have set her phone's message setting to "show delivery report". She would have seen whether her message was delivered or not. Her message was not delivered, and I already texted her that I wouldn't be able to answer her myriad of incoming calls at the point in time, and should send message only.

samysmoothfresh:
Niggie grab her fvcking ass digitus quartus and put that fvcking sperm ring on it!!!
You nailed it, my man.


This is the 21st century niggie................and everyone is looking for an independent lady regardless of her fvcking position...........


Besides i think it'd be fun being the only one in the office who doesnt call your boss "boss".....................while others call her boss, you fvcking walk into her office, grab her ass, place your mouth close to her ears and whisper "darling" while nibbling her ear lobe....



As far her as she's a good lady (i mean wife material), and you're comfortable with the whole shiit, go for that shiiiit and fvck what people might prolly say.....

Hotzone:
Sorry if I don't mention the name of my organization but I am seriously worried and deeply in love with my female senior colleague who wants me to pop the question as soon as possible. While feeling reluctant to respond to her feelings, I am much distracted and feels intimidated with respect to her position of power and money.

Rashduct4luv:







I did a corrective post on it in the Islamic Section

Read below

https://www.nairaland.com/4744418/what-age-did-prophet-salallaahu


Probably, you will realise not all popular stories are really authentic! I am no fool but just more enlightened!

mechanics:
This your question is a delicate one, you better thread softly so you won't regret your actions later, see wide counsels from your pastors and elders.

lefulefu:

Oyindidi:
My brother, how you dey na?

lefulefu:

i dey fine jor
its like op wan marry im mama age mate