UyaiIncomparabl:




Ban? Wooo! I'm scared. I'm actively waiting for it here. Let her hasten up please.


Pervert. How'd I stupidly put up my nude publicly? That's Art.

pocohantas:
My dear, you fcked up.

I remember one guy asking me for money in such short time, we never even see. I lost connection immediately.

Another pulled same stunt, I told my guy and he said since it is for medicals, I can give. I gave him, but after that, I found out that I couldn't stand him anymore.

Then I got to understand how guys feel about beggy beggy girls. Totally uncool.

pocohantas:
My dear, you fcked up.

I remember one guy asking me for money in such short time, we never even see. I lost connection immediately.

Another pulled same stunt, I told my guy and he said since it is for medicals, I can give. I gave him, but after that, I found out that I couldn't stand him anymore.

Then I got to understand how guys feel about beggy beggy girls. Totally uncool.

pocohantas:
My dear, you fcked up.

I remember one guy asking me for money in such short time, we never even see. I lost connection immediately.

Another pulled same stunt, I told my guy and he said since it is for medicals, I can give. I gave him, but after that, I found out that I couldn't stand him anymore.

Then I got to understand how guys feel about beggy beggy girls. Totally uncool.

pacificman:
nigerian girls can beg...one time one lady asked me for 50k,,i mean thats 1week salary for people that work in the country i was at then. na borrow she call am and i never even enter this girl honey lpot..na so i turn to usian bolt..lol

Biglittlelois:
Some ladies be making guys generalise that we all are opportunists and money hungry, smh!!!

vingeophysicist:
The babe is really a gold digger in the making but mine problem is she is not aware of her gold digging tendency. Recently, I met a girl for just one week and she demanded a birthday gift. I just deleted her number immediately. she later realizes her mistake and started begging me but up till now I only see her as a sex object.

pocohantas:
My dear, you fcked up.

I remember one guy asking me for money in such short time, we never even see. I lost connection immediately.

Another pulled same stunt, I told my guy and he said since it is for medicals, I can give. I gave him, but after that, I found out that I couldn't stand him anymore.

Then I got to understand how guys feel about beggy beggy girls. Totally uncool.

UyaiIncomparabl:
What if you hadn't known him, how would you have solved that problem? Just imagine he never existed, and get over yourself!

It's highly disgraceful. And yea, he was right. It's too early to start begging for stuffs, to think the relationship is even a week old.

He dodged a missile. It's called the 'Butterfly effect'.

ANGELMARVE:
So in your kpangolo mind now, you are rich.
Fake life in your post.

pocohantas:


No part of my post says/insinuates that I am rich. This is just your envy, insecurity and jealousy speaking. Please, contain it.

Amakavula:
Wait this doesn't give you the right to bash all of us. She messed up but I Know I can't do that to anyone. My self respect wouldn't allow me.

victorian:
Op, I repeat don't ever dabble into long distance relationship.

It's not worth the stress.

The guy won't trust you with giving out money for the next three years or so , even if you guys see once a year. He will still say, it's too early cos he saw you just once in a year.
Then secondly don't expect any guy u are dating to solve your financial issues. Cos he won't.
Look elsewhere for such money and pray God bless your hustle enough to be able to fend for yourself without asking a soul for it.
Although I have friends whom we help each other, when things are down, then sometimes my man do assist, whenever I ask.. Just maybe because we've been together for some years down the lane.


So remember cancel long distance shiit!

Pure waste of time and emotions.

vingeophysicist:
your comment is always shielded with controversy. What is the meaning of "don't dabble with long distance relationship". The fact it didn't work for you does not mean it will not work for others. you sounded like an epileptic social creature. Learn how not to dabble into other peoples belief because it doesn't augur down with you.
The issue here in contention is demanding money from a guy you only started dating for a week.

ballerin:

Hmmm. For some, money is a love language.

victorian:
Op, I repeat don't ever dabble into long distance relationship.

It's not worth the stress.

The guy won't trust you with giving out money for the next three years or so , even if you guys see once a year. He will still say, it's too early cos he saw you just once in a year.
Then secondly don't expect any guy u are dating to solve your financial issues. Cos he won't.
Look elsewhere for such money and pray God bless your hustle enough to be able to fend for yourself without asking a soul for it.
Although I have friends whom we help each other, when things are down, then sometimes my man do assist, whenever I ask.. Just maybe because we've been together for some years down the lane.


So remember cancel long distance shiit!

Pure waste of time and emotions.

zicoraads:

So, your own reason for not dabbling into long distance relationships is just about money?!

Why would you even want to ask him for money when the both of you are not even totally on a 'I know you level?' Before you met him, how were you taking care of your needs?

The truth is, anyone you meet and demand financials from immediately, will have second thoughts about you. Both male and female.

UyaiIncomparabl:
What if you hadn't known him, how would you have solved that problem? Just imagine he never existed, and get over yourself!

It's highly disgraceful. And yea, he was right. It's too early to start begging for stuffs, to think the relationship is even a week old.

He dodged a missile. It's called the 'Butterfly effect'.

victorian:










I don't dabble into long distance relationship means I don't go into it. Not for anything in this whole wide world. You know why? Cause of trust issues.

Then asking a guy for money, be it one week or one month or two years in the relationship is not advisable. Financially issues can erupt in someone's life at any time! There is no perfect day or perfect time to ask for money from anyone.

So for me, the Op shouldn't have asked even if she's dying on a sick bed cause the guy will take a walk and that's the reality.

I have been in a situation in the past, when I started a relationship with a guy from long distance, and unfortunately I fell ill. After some days. I was seriously ill and I am an orphan. It was just me and God. I asked the guy I was dating then for money to treat typhoid and malaria, but he didn't believe I had such illness. He said it was too early to ask. I laughed in hysteria, cos the typhoid has gone deep into my brain and system. That's like four days battling with how will I have money to go buy drugs and treat myself. My eyes were white, I was short of blood cos I had my menses days before the typhoid came. And heavy flow it was.

So I was short of blood, then coupled with typhoid and malaria to treat. He said he won't send, it's too early. I said OK, thanks, don't bother.
I cut the call. I laid down on my bed and I was praying with tears in my eyes, God if this is how I will die, without help, it's all good. I was managing my health , all my friends back then said they don't have. Thank God none back then are my friends again as I type.

For 1week and few days I was ill with typhoid, no drugs, no food nothing. My temperature was very high, all my insides were trembling until one day, my bp rose and I had heart attack , a thought said I should call my Pastor. And I did as I held unto to my chest with sharp pain. My Pastor picked immediately. I said Pastor I am dying pls help me. He said God forbid! What happened, I said my heart and I am down with typhoid. He asked are u at home or where? I screamed yea! Am home. Then I collapsed and fainted.

The next thing I saw, I was in the hospital after some hours when I woke up. With my pastor and his wife staring at me with relieved faces.

Anyway to cut it short. I got saved. My past Bf then, I cut him as soon as I bounced back. I didn't regret cutting off from him. He called after some weeks, hoping to revive the relationship and I asked him assuming u heard I am dead today, will u still be saying u are inlove with me and want us to date?



I just pray God should bless the hustles of everyone trying to make it and trying to survive. Cause only very few truly cares. If the Op has money, she wouldn't even ask the guy for money. And there is no perfect time to ask for help. And I pray small illness will not kill us before our time and our financial problems will not choke us. Amen.

May God just help us.

And lastly the friends I have now are far better than the ones I had in the past. God will keep blessing them for taking me very close. If your friends are selfish! U have all the right to cut them off, and change everyone of them when u are back on your feet.

As dem no owe u anything, u sef no owe them as well. They are better off away from your side. Make yourself better and screen any new friend coming in ,before accepting their hands of friendship.

farano:
Smh..Everybody shouting it's too early for her to ask for money.. There's no right time to ask for money or sex in a relationship. I once dated a guy, I started dating him in the afternoon and that same evening, I asked for some money and he gave me. He was even happy I asked him for something..

farano:
Smh..Everybody shouting it's too early for her to ask for money.. There's no right time to ask for money or sex in a relationship. I once dated a guy, I started dating him in the afternoon and that same evening, I asked for some money and he gave me. He was even happy I asked him for something..

UyaiIncomparabl:





Pervert. How'd I stupidly put up my nude publicly? That's Art.

Saff:
Let me keep quiet

SyberKate:
Hi

So I decided to go into a long distance relationship with this guy I have not met yet. We just met online and have exchanged pictures.

So far the relationship is just one week old and I was in a bit of a situation where I needed some money. Nothing much just about 15,000 to solve an issue.

So I asked my BF if he could assist me with the money, only for him to start saying things like the relationship is still young for me to be making demands, that what if he starts demanding for s3xx this early in the relationship.

I said I wish I could have solved my problem myself but I really need all the help I can get. He still insisted that he hasn't even met me physically and I could be trying to swindle him for all he knows.

Then I said if he feels that way then no need to continue with the relationship and it was over, just like that within one week.

So do you think I was being unreasonable to make demands this early in the relationship.

Biglittlelois:


Yeah true, been a while, your digits?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Are you well today, my dear?