Point of correction
The topic should read how do I dump my "woman friend' not girl friend abeg. Una don too old to dey call una sef boy friend and girl friend end

ImaIma1:
Why did you sleep with her when you knew somewhere at the back if mind that it won't work?

Why didn't you think of all this incompatibilities and hindrances before you got into her panties?

You want to have your cake and eat it. Now you want to run and you are looking for an easy landing.

Deal with this yourself! Why didn't you come and ask us if you should sleep with her? You wanted to taste and see. Scammers everywhere parading as boyfriends/lovers.

Madam, you are not objective in your post at all, What if I lied I have not slept with her am sure you will still look for another reason to castigate me because of your feministic inclination.

I only sought for advice and not condemnation, please ooooooooooo

If you haven't gone for blood group,tell her say una blood group no match

I let a lady like that go some weeks ago. Very nice and pretty. But she had some traits which I have seen and don't like in women. She is still hurting but she will be fine. I miss her too.
I told she is nice and the prettiest girl I ever dated but I am not convinced she is the one for me to marry because I loose my peace whenever I think of settling down with her. So it's best I let her go now so I don't end up breaking her heart later, which will be more difficult for her to bear.

samguru:
For mature minds only.

I need your advice on how to dumb a lady which I don't like but we have been dating in the last 5 months.
She was introduced to me by a friend and since then I thought the relationship can lead to marriage but my instinct keeps telling she is not the one.
I have had sex with her anyway but her antecedents is something to worry about as she has been married and the marriage crashed without a child.
I have also married with a male child but the marriage crashed due to crazy intolerable behaviours of my ex.
This lady has shown some signs which my ex possessed and I don't want to experience such marriage again.
Please how do I dump her without having any feeling of guilt
Please feminists should keep off this thread.

Hmm....I can relate a bit to what u are feeling, It's kinda psychological. Once bitten twice shy but I will say is that try to learn from ur previous marital experience, don't repeat same mistake cos it takes two to tango, be a better man, let go of the fear and hurts and free ur mind for a better beginning. Though easier said than done but nothing is impossible.

Express how u feel about some of her characters u don't approve but do that carefully so that she won't spark up. Give her little time to change cos change is inevitable. We all gat our flaws and weaknesses, no perfect being on Earth. And after all said and done, no changes and u know deep down in urself that u can't cope, d best way is to break transmission in communication cos sound communication cement relationships or come out boldly to her.

Marriage is to be enjoyed not endure.

You wan dump refuse
Better bag it well and keep in in front of your house for LAWMA to comman carry, they are better than vision scape

Dumb her you say?

Ps- don't try to edit

samguru:


Madam, you are not objective in your post at all, What if I lied I have not slept with her am sure you will still look for another reason to castigate me because of your feministic inclination.

I only sought for advice and not condemnation, please ooooooooooo

Really?? I am not objective? If you lie, you know within yourself and it would have definitely caught up with you.

Why does every opposing stance from a lady have to termed as "feministic"?

You sought for advice? Or for someone to validate your position and tell you what you want to hear?

No way! Unless she does not like u!

OladimejiRufai:
Very simple

Firstly, lay some foam first inside the bin or any soft material

Then dump her inside the dustbin

Lobatan! That way she wont feel hurt at all if she lands safely on the foam

Or u can dump her inside a lagoon. if she can swim, she will find her way

No, u dont av to thank me

What are Nairalanders for??

This got me ROTFL

I just hope say this guy never collect this girl pant... wan come use style run �� with peace ✌� you lie my broda


You must marry �� her

Imagine. U want to "dump" someone and also don't want it hurt her, u must be a bad person.

That's why I liked we men folk, if it's a woman that want to dump you, they care less about your feeling.

easy! just flash her number. whenever she calls back yell at her and ask her why she didn't pick up on time. tella it's over that what if you were in a police net and she would just let em take you to kirikiri.. works everything dude

Just stop crashing people, who are crashing other who crsh them please.

Me right now!

After you don lavage all the sweet things, you now know she’s not the right one... aiye le o

rex444:
If you haven't gone for blood group,tell her say una blood group no match

Chai....... I'm highly proud of you..... Is only Nigeria that can lie like this without falling sick.

The truth is that she might also be looking for a way out of the relationship.

The heart of a woman is very deep.

You should talk to her about it.
Its gonna be hard at first but its just the best way to go about it.

If you try avoiding her, you are just gonna hurt her that way.

Just be open to her that things are so not working... My opinion

Frustrate the relationship. Make it look like its not ur fault. Start giving her attitude. Give her tiring and boring chat. If she complaings apologise but stil continue ur tin..pay less attention to her.


or u can just tel her u dnt want again.

IamD18:
All of a sudden her antecedents became something to worry about after shifting her pant.

she also shifted his boxers. I don't know why some people feel that you owe a lady anything because you have sex with her

Cheat on her and make sure she finds out if she is an indecent woman she will do the same and both of you we break up happily

My dear leave all these excuses...you've gotten what you wanted... SEX...love conquers all... If there was love involved,all these things you mentioned go be moi moi case...no love from the start,just attraction.

...now to the root of the matter...you're not a kid from all you've typed here...sit her down and tell her your mind...simple.

samguru:
For mature minds only.

I need your advice on how to dumb a lady which I don't like but we have been dating in the last 5 months.
She was introduced to me by a friend and since then I thought the relationship can lead to marriage but my instinct keeps telling she is not the one.

I have had sex with her anyway but her antecedents is something to worry about as she has been married and the marriage crashed without a child.

I have also married with a male child but the marriage crashed due to crazy intolerable behaviours of my ex.
This lady has shown some signs which my ex possessed and I don't want to experience such marriage again.

Please how do I dump her without having any feeling of guilt.

Please feminists should keep off this thread.

ImaIma1:


Really?? I am not objective? If you lie, you know within yourself and it would have definitely caught up with you.

Why does every opposing stance from a lady have to termed as "feministic"?

You sought for advice? Or for someone to validate your position and tell you what you want to hear?

You're on point..... You're a good advocate to women folks.

IamD18:
All of a sudden her antecedents became something to worry about after shifting her pant.

Sex is not everything, the fact he had sex with her doesn't mean he must marry her

Gofwane:
It's very simple nah. Tell her you are now gay.
But oboyyeh, if the girl is more than 30 years, then you are in deep shii because these categories of girls are soo patient that they can cook a stone till it becomes softer than a boiled egg

Lmao asin
Swear I can relate. Till now i still give thanks toGod say this woman finally see say i no ready to marry her

Saffi:
Stupid fools just to open pant and run away. You know how to open your big mouth for sex, but to be a man and tell her how you feel is a problem. I don’t understand this generation, bunch of loser men.

He requested that feminists should keep off this thread, so what are you still doing here

samguru:
For mature minds only.

I need your advice on how to dumb a lady which I don't like but we have been dating in the last 5 months.
She was introduced to me by a friend and since then I thought the relationship can lead to marriage but my instinct keeps telling she is not the one.

I have had sex with her anyway but her antecedents is something to worry about as she has been married and the marriage crashed without a child.

I have also married with a male child but the marriage crashed due to crazy intolerable behaviours of my ex.
This lady has shown some signs which my ex possessed and I don't want to experience such marriage again.

Please how do I dump her without having any feeling of guilt.

Please feminists should keep off this thread.

give her signs by being aloof and don't call her again she will know you are no longer interested.if its a woman trust me if she is the one that has lost interest she Will tell you without caring about your feelings so man up and tell her but giver her those signs first so it wount be new to her.

It's not possible. I did it once and it almost caused me my life
Some people can't be dumped unless they are tired of you.

Twoclans:
The truth is that she might also be looking for a way out of the relationship.

The heart of a woman is very deep.

Deep heart shallow brain, is God not wonderful??