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Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by SonsOfLiverpool(m): 2:19pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Chukapage:Nice one brother, the moment you stop being ashamednof being labelled stingy they have nothing else to attack you with. In my former office, not abiding by their manipulative game made them call me stingy and I gladly accepted that until they stopped saying that. I worker for my money and I have every right, spiritually, legally and physically to be "stingy". It is my right 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 2:20pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Okay please go and die in your brokenness and stop quoting me. Thanks. Chukapage: |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Chukapage(m): 2:21pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
yettymuse:you are Wise, better oil dey your head..the so called "LOVE and RELATIONSHIPS" in this country na SCAM STRONG FACEY YAHOO YAHOO .. its all about strong SELFISH INTEREST.. Am not angry about it oo but wetin dey vex me be sey dem go dey deceive their life calling it LOVE.. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by MzTunechi(f): 2:21pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
boiz2men:Deep 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by joyfullyjoyous(f): 2:21pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
This reminds me of my ex |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by zanogo(m): 2:21pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
limbolimbo:you are partially at fault here, you dont give gold to people who doesnt value it, u should have guage the psyche and exposure of the person you are dealing with, she might even think the watch is worth less than #5000 because that is the level of her exposure on such matters, next time try to know what an individual is likely to cherish irrespective of price......N.B I AM NOT SUPPORTING THE GIRL IN ANY FORM, I AM JUST POINTING THIS OUT FOR FUTURE PURPOSE 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Mariangeles(f): 2:21pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
limbolimbo:If she's as great as you say, then you need to give the relationship a chance . All she needs is a new mindset...a new way of thinking from what she's always known as "NORMAL" The way we are raised shape us...the way we behave. But if after everything she's not willing to adapt to the new system, then you need to go your separate ways. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by SonsOfLiverpool(m): 2:22pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Saffi:not going to work lady, you don't know me and would never do so stop being stupid by judging. Call me brokeass or stingy that's your cup of tea. I still insist, being stingy is a right of everybody, go work for your money and stop begging others and calling them stingy when they don't assist you. Liability. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by kense88: 2:23pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Op are u lie Mohammed younger brother ? |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by toprealman: 2:24pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Run for ya life...... Look not back! |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by eventsmallchops: 2:24pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
pls opp, empower me with this for my business abeg.
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Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by jorion(m): 2:25pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Jeferious: Bros, which ambitious guy spends much time on these hoes. You should have said you don't give a damn about what she does than say she is under your control. FYI, I am the type of guy who would walk into his bedroom, see his wife with another man, enter the shower, take a bath, go to the palour, switch on the TV and watch CNN. I just don't care, I won't shout nor argue. I won't even hold a grudge. I DON'T CARE, THIS LIFE IS ALREADY HARD Enough. As long as you don't poke your nose in my personal affairs, we are cool 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by BluntBoy(m): 2:26pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
limbolimbo: You encouraged her, bro. How can you spend over a 100k on a girlfriend's birthday simply for the reason that you could afford it? Bro, that is extravagance. Moreover, you have sent her the wrong signal. She will exploit you. Please, let your girlfriend appreciate the value of money. Or did you make the money through dubious means? |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by youngdopeboy: 2:26pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
you gave someone else who isn't even your girlfriend a 110k............. how much you come give your mother, brother, sister or father this Xmas?? you mumuh oh |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Chukapage(m): 2:27pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Saffi:lol e pain am ...better go find work oo things are changing ,Don't allow yourself to Live and die in your Poverty stricken misery ooo..go work ooo ..after all na your broke and stingy?? onye ara.. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Ozkar: 2:27pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
merahki:anty, you are just being unnecessarily sentimental. Nonsense political correctness - never call a spade a spade because someone's feelings would get hurt. You sound like the type that would always take sides with the female in any issue. If the man is wrong, then men are scum, but if the woman is wrong, people are overreacting and fueling misogynistic wars. You don't have the right to call anyone stingy unless they have a responsibility towards you. Stop the psychological manipulation. If it's not your husband, he isn't responsible for your upkeep. Work for your money. 13 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by jaxxy(m): 2:28pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
limbolimbo: In simple terms when a gal is already talking about being stingy or not or bringing up fights because of money just know she’s only in it for the money. Yes she may like u bt she likes her money much more. Date her only for the pleasures and pls don’t take her seriously. She’s yet to understand what a good relationship/partner is all about. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by noah91(m): 2:28pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Naso one yeye girl I dey toast dey tell me say her former boyfriend dey give am 500 everyday as pocket money. I looked at her, shake head, just comot. The same girl had told me to buy her a new phone even while toasting her, still told me she hates sex and she won't give me if she accepts to be my gf. Omo, I just japa. Stupid girls with broke parents full outside now, guys beware 7 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by smeag0l(m): 2:29pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Hi, from my experience this usually doesn't end well. The issue here is not whether or not you can afford what you give to her or whether or not she deserves it. The issue is her mindset. Trust me, this girl will only become a liability to you in the long run. Even if she starts working and earning money , she still be heavily dependent on you and when you get married to her it'll only become worse beca use she'll bring her family members into the equation. Girls on this forum please and please , learn to realize that exhibiting any sense of entitlement to your boyfriend only diminishes your self worth. He toils day and night for his money and he's not obligated(even by marriage) to share any of it with you. limbolimbo: 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 2:29pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Cook for yourself, sex yourself, and las las do not ask any woman for any damn thing. Why is it always broke guys that are miserable and bitter? The comfortable ones never complain because they are financially smart enough to budget and deduct what is needed to satisfy their woman. We can all be selfish and and stingy but the truth remains, offline you guys still make it rain. D SonsOfLiverpool: 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Ozkar: 2:30pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
sexybaby22:lol. What are the returns on this 'investment'? 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by boiz2men(m): 2:30pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
benratigan3: If you give a guy money. You are sowing a seed into his life... It will come back to you in the future. Give a babe that same money... You will be heart broken.. There's a friend that gave 1k in my university days. It was almost the last he had. I find it difficult saying no to him till this day. And he doesn't know y. A babe has done same too. I almost opened a business for her but she was lazy. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Acidosis(m): 2:30pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
What's wrong with our youths? What job is she doing to deserve a monthly salary? If you need help with your stuffs, you can get a maid to take care of your meals and laundry with around #20-25k or a little more per month. Even if you make more money than NNPC, never in your life date a woman with such traits. I think you should count your losses and move on, and please try to delete that traditional nonsense in your opening paragraph. Your girl is far from being traditional, you're only yet to see the true colours. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by SonsOfLiverpool(m): 2:31pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Saffi: Liability. Get a life or be used for ritual soon 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by DanDeeBoss(m): 2:31pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Monthly stipend as if she works for you.... Mtseeeeewwww Op just continue, she go soon retire
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Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 2:32pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
One thing you men dont understand is that women have it easier. A broke woman is far better than a wretched broke man. Who wants a broke man? He is at the bottom of the bottom and seen as shittt. Calling me broke can never pain me but las las you will still cry yourself to sleep because of your condition. It is well. Chukapage: 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Iyajelili(f): 2:33pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Adeinfo:I am an orphan yet I stopped this entitlement mentality many years ago with family members let alone my boyfriend. Back to the topic, I don't know why some people some guys inclusive have entitlement mentality when you have 2 working hands and 2 working legs. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 2:34pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
rame18:See one of them boys pocket na poverty alleviation program 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 2:34pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
limbolimbo:This is such a big problem, you keep loving a girl and the girl seems adamant to it at first you did not get to find out her love language. 1. She may be someone who loves acts of service and hates receiving gifts. Before you get up to do something for someone you must first of all know the main thing that person want. Now you got her wrist watch, get her cake yet she don't really value it. What she need is the money, every lady now is after the money not gifts with the money she get what she needs. Next time you first know her needs before giving anything out. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by zcee: 2:35pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
boiz2men:pure!!!! You have said something I like about me and yo have truly made my day Bleep all those Nigerian ladies... 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Jeferious: 2:35pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
jorion:If I mean to prove to you that I have great amount of control her, then I'd divulge basic secrets in our relationship which would pass me off as manipulative, selfish and evil ultimately. And since I won't like such impression to be created against me, then I choose to agree with you. You're 100% right. In conclusion, the nonchalant attitude is valuable when dealing with these ladies. Don't ever give what is holy to pigs. If you must give, make sure you do so to a queen. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 2:36pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Typical broke mentality. They think the only way to acquire wealth is through rituals or yahoo. Go and look at your mates and get some inspiration, we don’t all live in pitiful conditions. Fortunately I’m exposed to finer things in life SonsOfLiverpool: 2 Likes |
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