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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Sheggy13(m): 10:35am On Jan 11, 2019
itsmeurLady:


Please OP give me land to faint, I just want to faint. That's a red flag and it's highly disrespectful
Like that's the height of it telling another man in my presence that I'm just a minor distraction. Such level of disrespect.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 10:36am On Jan 11, 2019
she's a cheerful giver,will b v difficult to change her.giv her some time if nothing happens DIs-engage.or live wit it.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by boomssey(f): 10:36am On Jan 11, 2019
rame18:

No I think most of them would do d same thing cos they don't see it as a big deal.










Most of them just wanna be funny,they know the truth.
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Florblu(f): 10:37am On Jan 11, 2019
Lamb101:

pls if you have nothing to say just ssshush. What's this? 0 You think people want to marry crude girls? No, we're looking for well mannered and virtuous women. You sound like none.


We cant keep residing virtuous women for internally ugly men like you.
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Mpotomisticai(m): 10:37am On Jan 11, 2019
Hmmm after hearing this, u still want to continue...

the one that got me mad was that she came over for the weekend and her phone rang when we wanted to eat, she was answering call and the food was getting cold, I called her baby this food with get cold Oooo... let's eat na. she said I should be eating that she will join Later....

Now she reply the person on phone that it was nothing, just a minor distraction [/quote]
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by sweerychick(f): 10:37am On Jan 11, 2019
Newboss:


You're insecure. This, here, is the proof grin. That girl is my type, not your type. Leave her and go look for your type grin

If she doesn't gist you about those guys, she definitely doesn't trust you or just doesn't feel you grin. It's not a character flaw, but her kind of person grin. That kind is the best to be with if she feels you (that is if she don fall for you) grin
Ironically enough you are the only matured person here who gave the best answer kiss.. I initially wanted to support the guy, but after going through his posts, I see nothing but an insecure person. He didn't even give details of how his girlfriend's conversation with guys go. A typical example of an insecure person.
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Dshocker(m): 10:38am On Jan 11, 2019
Florblu:
You only engaged her,you didn't cage her.

Deal with your insecurity

You must be a prosti.......I didn't complete the spelling.But you can do that for yourself grin
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by fowlyansh181(m): 10:40am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:



the one that got me mad was that she came over for the weekend and her phone rang when we wanted to eat, she was answering call and the food was getting cold, I called her baby this food with get cold Oooo... let's eat na. she said I should be eating that she will join Later....

Now she reply the person on phone that it was nothing, just a minor distraction
thank God you realized this before marrying a FARM TOOL, dude she isn’t in love with you as you are with her, I don’t know about engagement but my girlfriend can’t even answer a guy’s call or even agree to talk ordinarily to my friend without first looking at me to seek my permission.. you are dating a farm TOOL.. I suggest you sit her down and tell her exactly how you feel then if it continues, call it quit..

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by dejol88: 10:41am On Jan 11, 2019
My brother take my advice, tap in the breaks about the wine carrying thing. In my opinion, postpone it to a latter date.
Seek for a marriage counselor, it seems she doesn't find you reliable to take advice from you hence go for experience folks to counsel you guys. Make sure you define your relationship going forward.During the counseling, make sure you let out your feelings and thoughts .That some of her attitude is affecting your sanity and you would appreciate she put a stop to it forthwith .
When you achieve the above give it time to see if she is in sync with you .if not ,call off the wedding .

A word is enough . ......

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by fowlyansh181(m): 10:42am On Jan 11, 2019
bamvik:
There is nothing wrong in giving out her number to males but there is something wrong calling her at odd hours, maybe she is into business and her customers do call her for booking grin . Jus try to enquire reasons for those calls or this might be a case of insecurity
there is everything wrong in giving out your number to random males when in a relationship, except you have a certain business with these guys as a lady you know these guys want to make a move on you.
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by ADRIAN88(m): 10:42am On Jan 11, 2019
osemoses1234:
Bros give me her number make I talk sense into her head

osemoses12345678 except you have a career path in motivational speaking, if otherwise don't do it, pls!

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Florblu(f): 10:42am On Jan 11, 2019
Dshocker:


You must be a prosti.......I didn't complete the spelling.But you can do that for yourself grin


I don't know why you're acting like it's cool to be foolish and ignorant.

#Swine

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Gepheral: 10:42am On Jan 11, 2019
The rate at which girls are becoming promiscuous una sure say no be prayer worrior with at least 5 years experience in prayer, person go go fall in love with and marry?
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Memyselfu2009(m): 10:43am On Jan 11, 2019
Run 4 ur life
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by homirefacuny(m): 10:43am On Jan 11, 2019
sweerychick:
Ironically enough you are the only matured person here who gave the best answer kiss.. I initially wanted to support the guy, but after going through his posts, I see nothing but an insecure person. He didn't even give details of how his girlfriend's conversation with guys go. A typical example of an insecure person.

If your hubby or bf refers you as minor distraction how will you feel dear?

Tell us you do exactly the same thing as the said girl, receive late night calls in the presence of your partner?

Do you delete your WhatsApp chats ?

Let’s see what your answers will be.
Thanks
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by oluphunmy(f): 10:45am On Jan 11, 2019
I read comments from ladies supporting her anf ayam like Are u guys for real? If Twas the lady in kwesion wee she gree for the guy? Hunkle wine carrier,I am a lady and if she continues like this then u r in for a long thing ooo. I dunno y I don’t meet soft guys like u that can take shit from me. God wia is thy face? So so hard guy dey come ma way embarassed

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Lordbellish: 10:45am On Jan 11, 2019
Sheggy13:

Let me get this clear. You're planning to go abroad later this year September and came back early next year January to marry this lady? Am I right?


yeah Bro but I know u go bash me like that others calling me weakling and Sissy
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Femziecarlos(m): 10:46am On Jan 11, 2019
dharamanil:
That was how, I had a girlfriend who travelled to the east for Christmas then she came back in January with a ring from one American guy. She didn't even tell me, I later found out. Fear these girls ooooooo Igbo girls within the age of 21 to 30 gets engaged to 6men at ones and goes with the one that pays bride price first

This really cracked me up big time. WTF
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by ruggedtimi(m): 10:46am On Jan 11, 2019
MariaLavina:
So? she should start calling herself since she's engaged to you right?.

Hain! Insecurity at it's peak! angry
mumu talk..
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Rebornhombre: 10:48am On Jan 11, 2019
MariaLavina:
So? she should start calling herself since she's engaged to you right?.

Hain! Insecurity at it's peak! angry

Werey
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by homirefacuny(m): 10:50am On Jan 11, 2019
dharamanil:
That was how, I had a girlfriend who travelled to the east for Christmas then she came back in January with a ring from one American guy. She didn't even tell me, I later found out. Fear these girls ooooooo Igbo girls within the age of 21 to 30 gets engaged to 6men at ones and goes with the one that pays bride price first

Dead grin

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by sweerychick(f): 10:51am On Jan 11, 2019
homirefacuny:


If your hubby or bf refers you as minor distraction how will you feel dear?

Tell us you do exactly the same thing as the said girl, receive late night calls in the presence of your partner?

Do you delete your WhatsApp chats ?

Let’s see what your answers will be.
Thanks
my dear, leave what the op wrote up there. I can bet with anything that this whole engagement story is a hoax. We haven't heard from the side of the girl so don't conclude yet. I have seen the OPs type before when I was in school. I had a close friend, whom I just took as a good friend nothing more nothing less, he went around and was telling the whole world that I'm his wife to be, even to the extent of telling my friends that he had engaged me. I had to call of the whole friendship thing because he was a creep.
Some men lie and exaggerate alot. Maybe the op maybe right but I won't conclude yet until I hear from the girl kiss

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by smokeyupu(m): 10:53am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:
Hello Nairalanders, please I'm in serious Situation right now... There's this girl (my girl friend) that I proposed to, she accepted that we will spend the rest of our lives together..

But there's this thing I noticed about her, strange numbers (men) do call her and they call in odd times (late nights and early morning)...

I have asked her, why will she give out her number to any random man that demands for her number and she will boldly answer the call... I'm just so tired of this calling of a thing.

what should I do

I love her and I want to marry her. we have even fixed date for wine carrying

I have sat her down countless time telling her that I'm not comfortable with that call stuff but she just won't stop.

SHE'S NOT RESPECTING YOU NOW AND YOU THINK LIFE WILL BE OK AFTER THE WEDDING? IASSURE YOU SHE WILL DO WORST THAN WHAT OU ARE SEEING NOW.

ASK HER TO DELETE ALL SUCH NUMBERS AND STOP PICKING SUCH CALLS. IF SHE REFUSES CUT THIS LINK B4 IT'S TOO LATE

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by MoraxLanre(m): 10:54am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:



the one that got me mad was that she came over for the weekend and her phone rang when we wanted to eat, she was answering call and the food was getting cold, I called her baby this food with get cold Oooo... let's eat na. she said I should be eating that she will join Later....

Now she reply the person on phone that it was nothing, just a minor distraction

Bro. gain your ground and be a man before it' too late. Be in charge and stop tolerating nonsense.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 10:54am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:
Hello Nairalanders, please I'm in serious Situation right now... There's this girl (my girl friend) that I proposed to, she accepted that we will spend the rest of our lives together..

But there's this thing I noticed about her, strange numbers (men) do call her and they call in odd times (late nights and early morning)...

I have asked her, why will she give out her number to any random man that demands for her number and she will boldly answer the call... I'm just so tired of this calling of a thing.

what should I do

I love her and I want to marry her. we have even fixed date for wine carrying

I have sat her down countless time telling her that I'm not comfortable with that call stuff but she just won't stop.
cloner her sim

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 10:55am On Jan 11, 2019
Bros...I beg u in the name of God, to kindly run for ur life wen u 2 legs, hands,ur head and hear is still functioning as expected.
Before u come here again telling us how she end up breaking ur dear hrt...
The hand writing is BOLD on the wall bro...warning signs, and the more u pretend the more ur future is endangered.
All the best.
Lordbellish:



the one that got me mad was that she came over for the weekend and her phone rang when we wanted to eat, she was answering call and the food was getting cold, I called her baby this food with get cold Oooo... let's eat na. she said I should be eating that she will join Later....

Now she reply the person on phone that it was nothing, just a minor distraction

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Sheggy13(m): 10:58am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:



yeah Bro but I know u go bash me like that others calling me weakling and Sissy
I wont bash u cos I've been in your shoes but in my case, we weren't engaged officially but she'd introduced me to her mum and elder brother, but my main issue was this giving out numbers to different random guys and chats on whatsapp which I complained to her to stop, and she lies and hides stuffs from me until I discover myself, especially about her relationships with some of these guys. I just couldn't take it again for my sanity sake.

But question for you, what did you tell her when she made that remark to her caller that u talking to her to come and eat was nothing and a minor distraction and what was her response?

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:59am On Jan 11, 2019
sweerychick:
Ironically enough you are the only matured person here who gave the best answer kiss.. I initially wanted to support the guy, but after going through his posts, I see nothing but an insecure person. He didn't even give details of how his girlfriend's conversation with guys go. A typical example of an insecure person.
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 10:59am On Jan 11, 2019
Nigga break up with the b*tch
So having & spending money is now her measure of respect f*ck
How do you fucking feel with that prostitute ah! N'na ehn


Lordbellish:



Now this is the full story, I'm saving up funds to further my studies by September fall abroad...

Me and my family agreed I should finalize everything about marriage so that when I by year end, I will be going down the alter by 4th January 2020 ....

So me and my patents with some elders went to her village with Palm wine 2 jars according to tradition and we collected full list and gave them Easter as our return date... check my previous post, I made mention of getting list from her family against my coming by Easter...

maybe she's misbehaving cuz I don't spend like I used to before but she should understand that I'm entering into a huge project that will better the lives of our unborn babies

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by dheilaw1(m): 10:59am On Jan 11, 2019
marvin906:
giving her number out to random men means one thing she's open-minded and that's a red flag dude..
open minded and open PUSSYid too
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:00am On Jan 11, 2019
sweerychick:
Ironically enough you are the only matured person here who gave the best answer kiss.. I initially wanted to support the guy, but after going through his posts, I see nothing but an insecure person. He didn't even give details of how his girlfriend's conversation with guys go. A typical example of an insecure person.
... Indirectly supporting the girl. If your hubby or bf is doing exactly what the op is accusing her of,deleting chats ,referring you as minor distraction,answering calls with random ladies at odd hours in ur presence.How will you view it?
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by kenlinzo(m): 11:02am On Jan 11, 2019
Engagement does not mean marriage my dear.

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