doshe39:
I think you know it

Of course I do but very few men will admit this

My advice ?

She should choose US.

The husband can join her later .

Even if it was the ex who processed it .

Cos if the tables were turned , then man wil accept and travel abroad . he will even break up with her and remarry in the US, no be today, yansh dey back!

lefulefu:

very true
the ex is sending the message on code to the husband that he the ex is above him
and that he d ex is the one opening the way for the wife
and that he the ex can collect the wife if he so feels like
now the wife will be wondering why did she not marry her ex in the first place.
gbege

.. And the woman will never reason well.Its a pity that most of our ladies allow emotions to becloud their sense of reasoning.

sharpwriter:


Chai... Broda Lefulefu go give the man heart attack if he's reading this o.... She will eventually be dependent on the guy at least for some time. If she'll work it may be seasonal, and if not, it's definite she won't get job immediately. Also, that $400 per month is below chicken change..... Earning $1000 per month in Yankee sef na from hand to mouth wages.... Such $400 only makes sense if it's spent in a place like Nigeria. $400 there won't take her far, it may not even cover a month's rent even though you sharing apartment with another person. I pray God help them with decision.....

but we being realistic here na
anyway lets pray the ex isnt an american citizen cos if d guy na yankee citizen then the husband should just forget about this lady .

Hi
Go for your U.S scholarship....
Poland has not matured yet

lefulefu:

very true
the ex is sending the message on code to the husband that he the ex is above him
and that he d ex is the one opening the way for the wife
and that he the ex can collect the wife if he so feels like
now the wife will be wondering why did she not marry her ex in the first place.
gbege

Your eye sharp bro. I rather die than my wife of 1 day come home with this kind gist of scholarship. What nonesense? I am shocked to see men here even suggest she goes US. Na me n that inlaw for wear same trouser if them advice my wife on shit! What even is $400 per month oo? Money that maynit even pay rent!

Seek Guidiance from her God and also seek advice from close loved ones that she trust and most importantly let her final decision be in line with her Heart.
And this is a test for both couples.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. And the woman will never reason well.Its a pity that most of our ladies allow emotions to becloud their sense of reasoning.

the woman is jumping up and down right now that she has gotten admission to an american college.she no know d trap wey d ex don set for her.she"s likea juicy beaver dancing her way to the trap set down by the hunter(ex) .

victorian:
My advice ?

She should choose US.

The husband can join her later .

Even if it was the ex who processed it .

Cos if the tables were turned , then man wil accept and travel abroad . he will even break up with her and remarry in the US, no be today, yansh dey back!

I sincerely dont think you are married. I also dont think you have read the story very well.Besides, I dont also think you have lived in the UK or USA before. So i will assume your advice is based on ignorance.

MissJoy29:

I couldn't help but exclaim @the bolded.
Just like that? You will return the bride-price? A man you claimed you loved enough to marry, you will just return the bride-price in less than a week after the wedding? Iffa hear! Let's keep lying anonymously sha on the Internet!! It's allowed only here because noone could be that rash in real life.

Besides, are you the one that will return your bride-price? What if your family doesn't't support your decision?

See you... don't underestimate the kind of people in the world today.... She fit abscond and damn bride price o... The main problem here's the abroad syndrome... That's all. Since our leaders are arseholes, abroad is also heaven. Many will do anything to go there. That delusion of utopian life over there is real and very strong. It is a prayer point of many on mountains of prayers. Many of them fit go and not be able to return in twenty years coz they live from hand to mouth. But it's just life thing. Some also go and become fruitful. It's 50/50 but people only look at the seemingly positive side. The problem here's that when some youths hear abroad, London, US, their sense of reasoning is gone. Their dream is now based in beautiful fairy land that you'll live there happily ever after.

na2016:


Your eye sharp bro. I rather die than my wife of 1 day come home with this kind gist of scholarship. What nonesense? I am shocked to see men here even suggest she goes US. Na me n that inlaw for wear same trouser if them advice my wife on shit! What even is $400 per month oo? Money that maynit even pay rent!

gbam!
if na me i will quickly call off d marriage so she can jus join d ex over there and i will forget about her and move on

lefulefu:

the woman is jumping up and down right now that she has gotten admission to an american college.she no know d trap wey d ex don set for her.she"s likea juicy beaver dancing her way to the trap set down by the hunter(ex) .

.. No mind her. Na her kpekus go suffer am when e go happen.

na2016:


This is not an opportunity bro. This is slavery and a very bad move by an ex to challenge another man's marriage.

Correct.

They lady should be careful accepting this Trojan gift.

Besides the Husband is planning to go to Poland.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. No mind her. Na her kpekus go suffer am when e go happen.

Lol,

The Ex . won't marry her.

lefulefu:

but we being realistic here na
anyway lets pray the ex isnt an american citizen cos if d guy na yankee citizen then the husband should just forget about this lady .

Hmmmn.... Wahala dey dis life o... God deliver me from evil.

UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man.
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated.

and u 4got dt successful white men don't marry black chicks....only d broke ones do

UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man.
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated.

...babe u dey vex...

UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man.
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated.

Why are u so angry with men if I may ask? Swear u hv never treated any man bad. And who told u it's easy to marry white men just like that? Plenty dollars ehhh? It shows u hv no single idea how the system works here. I bet u this new wife will end up being a single parent here in America at old age cos she may not marry again. Ask our women here in their 40s & 50s who came here 20 & 30 yrs ago what they hv gone through looking for husbands. Our men, including me rather come home to marry than mess around with our single women here. I hope the woman will be wise enough to remain with her husband and forget the scholarship. What's $400/month Anyway?

na2016:


This is not an opportunity bro. This is slavery and a very bad move by an ex to challenge another man's marriage.

Lol!!!

MariaLavina:
Lemme break this table!


Tell her to do whatever she can live with. One is a life time opportunity, the other is everyday opportunity. If you know you know.

which one is life opportunity and everyday opportunity?

She should discuss it with her husband to be, and tell her to cut all ties from her ex, if her husband to be knows the kind gesture was from her ex, he won't be happy about it.

Ajee oshi

UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man.
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated.

UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man.
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated.

Omoh victoria, weiten they happen to you? Why you come they mumu here like this? I been think say you get head before

Rozaytee:
...babe u dey vex...

You be just fool. See your ugly ass face for, fucking big lips fake ass eye lashes. They do babe you they vex there they shine your mumu teeth ni make you never still marry so. That's how guys will continue to use and dump you because like a typical Nigerian girl you are foolish. Omoh if you even bother quote me back, drop your account number make I bless you to help your frustration or else don't quote me because you will be ignored like the low life you are. Nonsense

And listen you fool, don't you ever quote UyaiIncomparabl, she is not like you the fact she is going through emotional state that's making her say shot don't mean she is useless like you. Bleep off her mentions and don't influence her with your olosho mentality.

UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man.
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated.

Ps:

Just saw your emotional thread, finally seen where the problem is. What's wrong with you vic? What happened. Message me on WhatsApp I don't have your number I buy new phone. I run leave my prev phone for police jawe. Message me, I will help you out in any way, you like a sister to me one of the girls I have some respect for here don't like to see you like this. Just beep me
Everything go they alright. Make I sort you out.

All in the name of traffic, you want me to believe that you typed 108 words in 1 minute?

All this blogger self

Women move too.

Valerie47:
When you marry someone, you become a part and parcel of them, in marriages, its men that move not women, a woman got a job offer in abuja, she declined it cause she is in the East with her hubby.

1Dray:


Family meeting on his head that what exactly happened? Are you out of your mind? They way some people reason

are you well or how is it doing you?

ogawisdom:


It's not a debate

She has to submit to her husband decision on this

na u sabi hold ur view make I hold mine....any one who thinks submission is total in still living in d past

Her ex did not give her the scholarship, rather he helped register her for it. I would advise she goes for the US scholarship than go to Poland. US offers her better opportunities than Poland buh you know we girls when we land US, we begin face new life so I pity the husband-in-waiting

Valerie47:
So she should leave her husband cause of the scholarship given to her by a supposedly jealous ex that wants her marriage to end, why didn't he give her the scholarship when she was single, marriage is not something you walk it and walk out when its convenient for you.

Buahari till 2023.

UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man.
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated.

See your life. Oyibo and dollars kill u there for insulting naija men.