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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Biglittlelois(f): 7:16pm On Jan 16, 2019 |
smeag0l: Maybe, but what if i'm ugly?? |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by smeag0l(m): 10:13pm On Jan 16, 2019 |
I know you aren't. Let's talk on pm...lol Biglittlelois: |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Evercurious(f): 8:17pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Just2endowed2(m): 8:41pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
Never love too much. |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by joyousever(f): 8:54pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
If this is true, guy I feel for you oo. Just man up & advise yourself. The writing is all over the wall that she doesn't respect you & the relationship,which is enough reason to call it quits, before she infects you with a life-threatening disease in the name of 'I'm in love & I can't let go'. Ok bye! mikaelangelov: 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by joyousever(f): 8:58pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
Is this reality or fiction? alfredo4u: |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Nobody: 6:43pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
Look carefully bfore u leap |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by olaboy1: 8:53pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
smeag0l: I’m so confused with Nigerian guys that earn good salaries placing women on some sort of allowance. I intentionally refused to give money to all the girls I dated when I was working in a big company in Nigeria, and it was never a deal breaker. My job title, blue chip company I worked for, my swag, intelligence and well furnished apartment did all the magic, and some girls even told me they were scared to ask for financial help so as not to lose me. I’ve had Naija girls telling me how their hearts ache at the thought of losing me. You might have to revisit the fundamentals of seduction if truly you have a fantastic salary, because all my colleagues at work were slaying pu$$/y without placing them on any sort of allowance. I would place a bet that the guys who place women on these allowances are below average in looks. First step is to raise your level of attractiveness. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by drmikeadams(m): 11:52pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
olaboy1:gbam....very simple concept..make them run after u |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by luminouz(m): 12:06am On Jan 21, 2019 |
olaboy1:Nawa o..so u still dey comment on NL?? Naso u just run go leave me abi?? Get me a job too na!!!! |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by smeag0l(m): 12:09am On Jan 21, 2019 |
I never placed a girl on a salary cos she doesn't work for me. I just give her the money equivalent of whatever I think is her basic need cos she wasn't working at the time. Besides, I chose never to date a girl that has nothing doing cos of this very reason. I just tried it cos I expected it was going to lead to marriage. olaboy1: |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Harsheer(m): 1:00am On Jan 21, 2019 |
If you love her so much.... Don't show it all to her..If you do...She'll start behaving for you ooo... 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by olaboy1: 4:16pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
smeag0l:Almost every month and around 20% of your monthly income for a girlfriend sounds suicidal and try hard to me. I understand your act of kindness, but know that women are not as kind and helpless as you perceive them to be, they don’t think twice when they want to throw you under the bus. Generally speaking most women are hypergamous in nature and are really not looking for love but the highest bidder. 3 Likes |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by srclark: 4:31pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Many you will walk a thousand miles for over and over again are not ready to take a step for you ,never ignore the little warning signs it goes a long way in telling you how your partner is especially when it comes to finances .I paid for flights countless times to and fro from abuja to Lagos cause she was a student thinking I was giving her comfort when in the real sense a wise student will actually keep the money for flights and use bus just to have extra am happy we parted ways 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Nobody: 5:37pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
srclark:So true. There are always signs. |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by smeag0l(m): 7:26pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
I don't give a girl 20% of my income. I was never even giving my girlfriend up to 5% of my income every month and I was never giving her cos she asked. olaboy1: |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by olaboy1: 7:54pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
smeag0l: Check your initial post below “Never date a lady that's not working. She'll just end up milking you dry. I tried it last year when I was dating a lady in Abuja. I pay her flight tickets(return) to come see me in my location. I take care of her and even send her between 30-50k almost every month(I wasn't giving her an allowance but just helping with basic needs). Mind you, the money wasn't my problem as this wasn't even up to 20% of my monthly income. However, this girl was till not loyal as she calls another guy to come pick her from the airport in Abuja whenever she leaves. I also later found out that she was secretly having an affair with someone that works with one of these agencies that arrange holiday flight bookings and accommodation for people. I just stopped talking with her after so many confrontations and denials. Never give a girl that's not your wife, sister or mother money except you just want to help the person. Now, I only roll with ladies in my class-ladies that have well paying jobs!” 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by smeag0l(m): 8:49pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Yeah, but I never said that was 30% of my income. I still maintain that I was never giving her up to 5% of my income and she never for one day asked me for money. The estimate I made below is just an estimate of things I buy for her and money I give to her whenever she is leaving my place. olaboy1: |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Evercurious(f): 12:29pm On Jan 24, 2019 |
smeag0l: You owe no one all these explanations. Lesson learnt .. Move on. Afterall it was your money .. Wasn't it? |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by smeag0l(m): 9:05pm On Jan 24, 2019 |
Yeah, and I decide how to spend it and not anyone telling me how to. Thanks evercurious. BTW, what's the reason behind your moniker Evercurious: |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Evercurious(f): 1:07pm On Jan 25, 2019 |
smeag0l: Smiles |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by dharamanil(m): 2:17pm On Jan 25, 2019 |
Ones she is 25 u better engage her or the next time she travels she gone for her marriage 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Elsah(f): 2:47pm On Jan 25, 2019 |
1.) Never go into a relationship cuz you're just curious about relationships. Don't play with ppl's feelings. 2.) As a lady, never do anything sexual with anyone until you're sure he will marry you. But if you can, abstain completely till marriage. 3.) If you find the one person you want to settle down with early in life, never let them go because you don't want to just date only one person in life. They won't wait for you and even if you get them back, the person might have transformed entirely into someone you no longer know, and thus, become incompatible with you. 5 Likes |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by MrsInvisible(f): 2:55pm On Jan 25, 2019 |
I learned to never trust anyone. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by smeag0l(m): 5:45pm On Jan 25, 2019 |
Talk na Evercurious: |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Luminary1: 9:39pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Angela777: can you elaborate more on 'never make it easy for a man ' clause. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Nobody: 4:37am On Jan 28, 2019 |
Luminary1:Don't pay for you both to meet, don't give him money or don't spend on him, he will not appreciate it and ask for more. The real man needs to make an effort to meet and to win the woman he likes/loves, if the woman makes it easy for him paying from her pocket for them to meet in another country or because he is poor paying for food, dinners out, helping him in life, car, etc., he will use this woman saying so easy and fun and easy moves to the next one or just takes you for granted and even disrespects you and mistreats you. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by mkpurumma090(f): 1:19pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by MhizLewa(f): 1:52pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
olaboy1: "Ur swag....intelligence ....well furnished apartment did all d magic" ? "And guyz who placed girls on monthly allowance are below average??" Smh!!! U're so damn full of yourself man!!! 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
Angela777:Funny you.. Making it "hard" for a man doesn't change the fact that if he wants to use u and dump you,he will not do exactly that. Funny enough,not every responsible guy would want to engage in the vigorous chase method you want to use. Personally, if you want to play mind games with me,I will advise the lady take her ass to the playground! 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by mkpurumma090(f): 4:39pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
larryking540:Lol That one nah wicked fellow 2 Likes 1 Share |
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