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| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Ranchhoddas: 7:51pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:I've watched that show. Seeing as that guy caters to Hollywood personalities, he's probably a charlatan. |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by holuwasheyiWGP(m): 8:15pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Nice one Op.. THE GREATEST FORM OF DENIAL IS SAYING THERE IS NO GOD I'm not done I'll be back |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(op): 8:44pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
holuwasheyiWGP:Hope you are coming with sound evidences to prove the existence of God? |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Kiddogarcia(m): 8:52pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Martinez39:why would you believe,when you are talking about fact,am a muslim let's talk |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(op): 8:58pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Kiddogarcia:I said I don't know how things came to be but I am INCLINED to believe that a physical process that can be explained brought about everything. This is equivalent to saying that I don't know is the answer to question 6 is option A or B but if I am to choose one, I would go for B. |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Kiddogarcia(m): 9:15pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Martinez39:and i would be glad if you can explain that physical process,the only reason i can believe that your crap is if you can tell me how all living being started their existence.you coming up with evolution theory right?i got questions that will scare you,be warned |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(op): 9:28pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Kiddogarcia:1) I don't know how the universe came to be. 2) I don't know how the universe came to be but I am INCLINED to believe that it came as a result of a physical process. 3) I don't know what this physical process is but I believe that, like all other physical processes, it can be explained when it's discovered. Get it? |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(op): 9:31pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Kiddogarcia:Evolution doesn't explain the origin of the universe instead it explains how life on earth developed and advanced from simple organism to more complex organisms. ![]() |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Kiddogarcia(m): 9:37pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Martinez39:relax when reading,it helps bro.i never wrote universe.read again and give me answer to my questions |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(op): 9:42pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Kiddogarcia:The physical process I was talking about was related to the origin of the universe. And when challenging me to explain that physical process, you anticipated that I was going to introduce the theory of evolution. So I heard to make it clear that hat there was no chance of such happening. Seems you didn't read your post. |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Mikolion87(m): 9:45pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
I stopped debating on this topic a long time ago, seeing that I have noticed how bias people can become especially when they have their mind already made up. It is much better when relating with a "realist" than an atheist or even most religious fanatics. For the mention, I am a realist, and yes, a Christian (but a free-minded and realistic one). I tend to make logical decisions from REALITY (realistic philosophical school of thought- realism) than idealism ( from ideas or non-factual thoughts). Having laid this premise, I'll start by knowing whether the OP really wants to learn the truth of life or has already made up his mind.. Some of the things written by the OP are true while others are not realistic. -The realistic ones have always been there.. Even the bible, in Ecclesiastes and Proverbs, including Sirach( Good news version) buttress the fact that there's the need to work hard to earn a living. Galatians 6:7 clearly states that a man reaps what he sows (I.e, when you do the right things you get the right results). There are also numerous quotations that encourages hard work . Ecc 9:10 states that, whatever thy hands finds to do, do with all thy might. etc etc. Even though some religious fanatics seat back and expect God to come down and perform miracles in areas that is clearly left for them. When one reads the bible in entirety, one would understand God's ways of working. It is wrong to choose a section and dwell on it as some religious fanatics do.. God has His role and we humans have our own roles to play too. But most people want God to come and perform their own roles for them, then later get frustrated when they don't get the right results. Eccl 8:6 also buttress that there is always a proper way and time for every matter. That explains why people don't get the right results. There are laid down guidelines, realistic ways to live to get proper results in life.. All things being equal, when we do those right things and make right decisions, we'll get the right result (All things being equal). And the bible also mentions some of these things, "seeth thou a man diligent in his works,he shall stand before kings not mere men".. The bible is like God's manual of living (for the Christians). If we must be sincere, most people don't get results in life because, they do certain things the wrong way, and instead of learning how it should be done, they blame it on God. Even those who are born in poor homes can apply certain life principles (which the bible also teaches), such principles as .humility, honesty, kindness, diligence,.. others such as, anger management, curtail extravagant living and proper planning.. while being constantly positioned for opportunities.. Most remain poor when they fail to spot opportunities that may come their way. -Now as to whether God exists or not. That he has refused to provide manner for everyone on a platter of gold does not in any way mean he does not exist. He has provided a guide for living. So, whatever one sows, he reaps. No one can question Him. .Come to think of it, even robots have makers, let alone being as complicated as humans. Everything is not only Physical. Life is begging for answers in many respects. But, if you critically view our reality, you'll find God's handwriting everywhere. Science may Have explained away the big bang theory, but have failed to clarify the source of the lightening and force that brought about the existence of the first product with well organized cells( which are all interlinked). I happened to have studied Medicine at a stage of my training in Dentistry/dental surgery. After seeing and studying the anatomy of man and the physiology, it will be laughable and even foolish to say, these things came about by chance. Even things carefully made by well organized and highly intellectual beings and scientists, end up having some loopholes and mistakes, let alone something made by "nobody" (chance,big bang theory). .The way our world and the universe is organized also points to the existence of God. From the breaking of the day (when the sun rises) to the increased production of adrenocortical hormones in the human body (which increases alertness and activity), to sunset, leading to increase of serotonin (which signals rest). Or is it the different seasons... When you look at our universe, you'll notice orderliness and organization. You don't need a prophet to tell you all these are not products of chance. Except that man has contributed immensely to the expansion and beautification of the universe (by God-given knowledge), man also is the cause of several chaos in our world today. . Now, concerning "village people" or spiritual wickedness, if you haven't experienced anything, it does not make it false. There are powers.. And some men use it either to torment others or for their protection. That is why today, we're talking about yahoo plus guys and using women's pants. Others use many other things for rituals... These things are not fake. You're probably not in tune with our reality. And I believe that God's role is majorly for those spiritual causes which we have no control over. That is where prayer comes in. Especially where diabolic persons may be trying to terminate your life or make you I'll by spiritual means, the Name of Jesus is very efficacious in this respect (I have experienced this personally). There are so many things happening in our reality that has lent clarity to the fact that there is God. Except that, most people expect God to do everything for them.. God has laws and has made life and embedded principles into it. Failure to live by them results in misery and pains. I have taken my time to type this so that you and many others can meditate on it and come to the truth of our reality and never be deceived. |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Kiddogarcia(m): 9:53pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Martinez39:why don't you just explain this your physical process.why would expect me to believe there's no God when you don't have valid fact. |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(op): 10:03pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Kiddogarcia:1) I don't know how the universe came to be. 2) I don't know how the universe came to be but I am INCLINED to believe that it came as a result of a physical process. 3) I don't know what this physical process is but I believe that, like all other physical processes, it can be explained when it's discovered. Get it? In addition, all religious gods do not exist. If you think your Allah exists, what sound evidences do you have to support his existence? If it turns out that there is a god in the end, it wouldn't be any of the religious gods known to man. |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by cigaricon(m): 10:12pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Whether God exist or not is a thing of FAITH and BELIEF. You can choose to believe or not, nobody is forcing you, God Himself isn't going to force you to believe in Him. He doesn't have to prove to his Creatures that He exists Because HE MADE THEM ALL. Does a potter have to prove to the pot the fact that he made it? Martinez39:And what makes you think it isn't you who is deceiving yourself? |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Kiddogarcia(m): 10:15pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Martinez39:i was expecting to see fact,but all i saw is i believe,i believe,when did you turned to Martin luther king.how can you come here to preach what you don't know.you don't even know about your so called "physical process" for two books to have stood the test of time,is just a proof of God.and inside those books there are predictions made hundred years ago,and the prediction is coming to reality now |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by cigaricon(m): 10:17pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Martinez39:Well I know how the Universe came to be - GOD created it. |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(op): 10:18pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Mikolion87: . Those who want to see god in everything will see god in everything. I can't, for the life of me, see how one can call himself a christian and a realist. How can you look at the sun or the human body and say that god exists? What are the indications? Even if they lead us to conclude that god exists, how can you be sure that it is your god? Besides, go and read your Bible and know what it says and don't interpret things as you like. |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by cigaricon(m): 10:21pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Kiddogarcia:No mind the guy |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Toseenlove: 10:31pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Melvict:Pls Preach to them, Let them know Almighty God exist. |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(op): 10:32pm On Feb 09, 2019*. Modified: 7:09am On Feb 10, 2019 |
Kiddogarcia:I overestimated your intelligence. Since you have taken it upon your self to remain ignorant and irrational, there is nothing I can do. @bold What?! are you kidding me? so both the bible and Quran are true because people still use and believe them? How can both books, which contradict each other, be valid? According to the Quran, Jesus is just a prophet but according to the Bible, Jesus is god and the son of god. The bible does not even mention Muhammad. SMH. I rest my case. ![]() |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Toseenlove: 10:33pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Martinez39:See Idiot.....Then
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| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(op): 10:40pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
cigaricon:I didn't say it is by force to believe in god, all I am saying is that there are no sound evidences for the existence of religious gods and they do not exist. If am going to believe in a god, there must be proof and evidence to support his existence. People who believe in absurdities without evidence are deceiving themselves. Because you believe something by faith doesn't mean it's true and faith is not a virtue or a good reason to believe in something. What are you evidences that the god you believe in exists? |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(op): 10:41pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
cigaricon:What are your proofs and evidences to make this conclusion? |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Veiniously: 11:19pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
In conclusion nobody have a sound evidence Please i want thiS thread to end I just know 1 thing it better i die in doing the right thing and believing God exist and die to find out their isn't or die and find out their is than to Die feeling their is no God and found out their is It wont do you any good |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Mikolion87(m): 11:51pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Martinez39:First of all, even though I still have my reservations about some topics in the bible, I remain a christian because I agree with most of the teachings of Jesus, and I have experienced the efficacy of that name. I have personally had some encounters with spiritual forces, hence it's now part of my reality. And who says I can't be both (a realist and a christian). Being a realist allows one to view life more practically rather than imaginarily. Now as to whether it is the bible's God or not who created the universe, I don't know. But from records available to us, only the Bible has made accurate records and description of the creation story. Most of the places and people described in the bible have been found to have truly existed from archeological records and history. For instance, Apostle Peter's grave has been confirmed.. All I know is that life is a product of a supernatural being. Even logical reasoning agrees with this. I practice Christianity not necessarily for any of these arguments, but because I like some of its teachings beneficial and very much realistic. Especially on virtues (fruits of the spirit). I believe there must be a standard and guide of living, if not, you'll live life blindly and make erroneous mistakes. I choose the bible. I don't expect you to understand the working of human body, and there's no need to go into details here (I don't have that strength now). If you had studied the human body, and seen both dead and living(during surgery) contents of the human body, you'll understand better why you shouldn't draw such hasty and illogical conclusion about this great Architect and Designer of life.. |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Nobody: 11:52pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
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| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by TheEminentLaity: 1:34am On Feb 10, 2019*. Modified: 2:39am On Feb 10, 2019 |
@martinez39 Interesting post. Personally, I think Nigeria as a country would change dramatically to a very productive nation if majority of the people have these principles as foundations in their culture and traditions. However, this reads as one written with a high degree of certainty that one – not excluding atheists and nihilists – cannot help but question how you arrived at some of your suppositions. 1) THERE IS NO GOD AND YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN :Other than making the exact opposite claim of religious fundamentalists about God, I do not fault your explanation. You cannot prove that there isn't a god (god would have to be defined; and it is, as you know, a fruitless hyperloop argument) 2) THERE IS NO AFTERLIFE :The message is apt. Live life, focus on what is ... but again, you cannot prove that there is no afterlife, so you especially – as one who supposedly arrive at positions with logic – cannot also make such claims. Don't know if you've come across 'NDERF' ... it may not disprove or prove anything but I'm inclined that you may find it interesting. 14) EVERYTHING IS PHYSICAL, NOTHING IS SPIRITUAL :Suppositions of dogmatic certainty is antithetical to logic. People develop special abilities and strengths – some stronger, faster, super brains etc. The term 'supernatural' may just be semantics for an outlier ability resulting from evolution, genes or and even accidents. There are and have existed geniuses and phenomenal savants throughout history. 'Spirituality' and 'spiritual' on the other hand, are somewhat ambiguous and relative depending on whom one might be talking to. People who meditate for their well-being might refer to such as spirituality while other who babble in glossolalia would also say such is an aspect of spirituality. Throw superstitions away, perhaps? YES! by all means. No really knowledgeable person speaks with utmost certainty like the religious folks because the more one learns, the more one's ignorance is revealed and the more one realizes that they know nothing. There are a good number of unexplained phenomena – call it mysteries – and theories for what is known in science that would be obsolete, if not outright wrong in the future. So, we really cannot be so sure. |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by TheEminentLaity: 2:35am On Feb 10, 2019 |
Brilliant analogy, although I would rather a 99:1 % odds at sea because god isn't anywhere close to 10% efficient. But, would you go on to believe in something that you know for certain isn't true? If Yes, how would such belief lead to any assurance of a better future? That would be like forced self-imposed delusion. I agree hopelessness isn't cool neither are many truths comforting. Nihilism is the only logical conclusion of biological existence. Life has no inherent meaning – critical examination scientific and religious POVs reveal this – except that which one decides to; and meaning/purpose can be achieved without believing in superstitions and ancient myths. Some people care about what is true, even if it hurts. Pessimism isn't skepticism and neither is it nihilism by the way. Religious people can be pessimists, in fact most, if not all end-time believers are some of the worsts pessimists there are, with their frequent apocalyptic visions and rapture episodes. The thing about enlightenment is that one cannot go back. One cannot continue to believe Santa Claus would drop gifts after knowing the truth, likewise religion or personal gods. I like this quote because knowledge of reality isn't all fun and roses, to know the extent of suffering that exists in the world and how insignificant humans are in the universe is, quite frankly, depressing. "Sorrow is knowledge, those that know the most must mourn the deepest, the tree of knowledge is not the tree of life" Amakavula: |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by MJBOLT: 6:57am On Feb 10, 2019 |
that guy is a clueless noob,christians and muslims do not even worship the same god Martinez39: |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by hakeem4(m): 7:06am On Feb 10, 2019 |
Martinez39:no truer words have been said ! |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(op): 7:10am On Feb 10, 2019 |
Veiniously:What if you god is the wrong god? |
| Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(op): 7:27am On Feb 10, 2019 |
TheEminentLaity:Okay. ![]() Other than making the exact opposite claim of religious fundamentalists about God, I do not fault your explanation. You cannot prove that there isn't a god (god would have to be defined; and it is, as you know, a fruitless hyperloop argument)If you read my posts, you would know that I am talking about religious gods when I say that there is no god. My observations has led me to conclude that mankind is own it's own to solve it's problem and there is no help coming from anywhere. The message is apt. Live life, focus on what is ... but again, you cannot prove that there is no afterlife, so you especially – as one who supposedly arrive at positions with logic – cannot also make such claims. Don't know if you've come across 'NDERF' ... it may not disprove or prove anything but I'm inclined that you may find it interesting.If you mean near death experiences, check out one of my recent topics about NDEs under the moniker Martinez19. Suppositions of dogmatic certainty is antithetical to logic. People develop special abilities and strengths – some stronger, faster, super brains etc. The term 'supernatural' may just be semantics for an outlier ability resulting from evolution, genes or and even accidents. There are and have existed geniuses and phenomenal savants throughout history. 'Spirituality' and 'spiritual' on the other hand, are somewhat ambiguous and relative depending on whom one might be talking to. People who meditate for their well-being might refer to such as spirituality while other who babble in glossolalia would also say such is an aspect of spirituality. Throw superstitions away, perhaps? YES! by all means.When talked about abilities, I never meant physical abilities. Of course there are variations amongst us. I was talking about spiritual abilities. No one has spiritual abilities. Everyone is just human, nothing special. What is spiritually impossible for me is spiritually impossible for everyone. No really knowledgeable person speaks with utmost certainty like the religious folks because the more one learns, the more one's ignorance is revealed and the more one realizes that they know nothing. There are a good number of unexplained phenomena – call it mysteries – and theories for what is known in science that would be obsolete, if not outright wrong in the future. So, we really cannot be so sure.Lol. What you call mysteries are natural processes that we haven't figured out yet. Confirmed scientific theories are never wrong since they are based on observations, they may only be upgraded or superceded by a better one in the event of new observations. Newton's law of gravity was superceded by General Relativity. Newton's law wasn't wrong but it had a small range of validity which was expanded by Einstein's theory. ![]() |
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are you kidding me?
so both the bible and Quran are true because people still use and believe them? How can both books, which contradict each other, be valid? According to the Quran, Jesus is just a prophet but according to the Bible, Jesus is god and the son of god. The bible does not even mention Muhammad. SMH. I rest my case.
THE UNIVERSE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT MORALITY. ALL IS CAUSE AND EFFECT : good things happen to bad people; good things happen to good people; bad things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people. Do the right thing and you will get the right result. It doesn't matter whether your approach is legal or not (legality and illegality are man's construct), apply the rules and you will get the right results. Cause and effect agrees with the strong overcoming the weak that's why your corrupt and powerful politician can unduly put you in jail and you will rot there no matter how morally upright you are. Your saving grace is if there is a more powerful force to save you and keep him in check. The universe cares about rules and facts not morality and your constitution.