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promisedeco:
my girlfriend and I have dated for 2year now and we stay in different cities. She loves me so much but she have cheated on me 3 times now. It's not like she had sex with the guy(s) - She is still a virgin(100% sure), they were kisses and romance. By the way, I didn't find out on my own, she told me herself - she cries while telling me. the 3rd time was on Friday. I'm so confused right now. I need advice.

promisedeco:
my girlfriend and I have dated for 2year now and we stay in different cities. She loves me so much but she have cheated on me 3 times now. It's not like she had sex with the guy(s) - She is still a virgin(100% sure), they were kisses and romance. By the way, I didn't find out on my own, she told me herself - she cries while telling me. the 3rd time was on Friday. I'm so confused right now. I need advice.

COOL10:
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I get where you're coming from but isn't the whole idea of flirting with her friend,to make her jealous? So why should it matter that she's aware you're trying to make her jealous? She's gonna be jealous either way

DavidTheGeek:
Have you read The 48 Laws Of Power?
Law 3: CONCEAL YOUR INTENTIONS
"Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. If they have no clue what you are up to, they cannot prepare a defense. Guide them far enough down the wrang path, envelop them in enough smoke, and by the time they realize your intentions, it will be too late."

If she has me as her adviser, i would tell her to simply ignore the guy's move and act like it doesn't affect her. Instead, she should seem to attempt to help the guy win her friend. What do you think would be the effect of that move on the guy?

COOL10:
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That's some reverse psychology shiit right there

DavidTheGeek:

HARDDON:
Mail, Response:

Wow! What a wack wack wobble! You cudnt just place a fut right! Not knowing your right from left in d world of women is not fun @ all! U found that out in d most ackward way.
The tension btw u two is soo much , too much that you shld be thanking God you didnt see her that day. If not, two thing were involved n none wud hv gone ur way.
For this kinda situation, u cant just wano meet! U gono scare her cos for all she cares, you cud be a serial killer or some1 wit evil intentions. She dont know u nor wor u about!
You needed to utterly break her defenses b4 u even think of meeting.


Solution?
Now we have to take a few steps back, u take a deep breath n we take it from d top, using anoda style , hopin you havent distroyed all d chances.
Ignore her for a week. Then on d sat of that week, we refresh this wit a sexy message....

I think you need a total brain overhual in d world of women . Read d thread 0-50.

N come join our whatsapp group. You would be glad you did

HARDDON:
Mail, Response:

Wow! What a wack wack wobble! You cudnt just place a fut right! Not knowing your right from left in d world of women is not fun @ all! U found that out in d most ackward way.
The tension btw u two is soo much , too much that you shld be thanking God you didnt see her that day. If not, two thing were involved n none wud hv gone ur way.
For this kinda situation, u cant just wano meet! U gono scare her cos for all she cares, you cud be a serial killer or some1 wit evil intentions. She dont know u nor wor u about!
You needed to utterly break her defenses b4 u even think of meeting.


Solution?
Now we have to take a few steps back, u take a deep breath n we take it from d top, using anoda style , hopin you havent distroyed all d chances.
Ignore her for a week. Then on d sat of that week, we refresh this wit a sexy message....

I think you need a total brain overhual in d world of women . Read d thread 0-50.

N come join our whatsapp group. You would be glad you did

HARDDON:
Sequel to wack threads such as this https://www.nairaland.com/2564661/15-sure-ways-live-happily and many others, I have decided to take the pain of Schooling the weak minded, friendzoned, balless, gameless, Wussbags out there, some of the ropes u must adorn in d WEB world of women. because itz a web, So many have been blindfolded by its threads, so many entangled, so many suffocating begging for but a single sip of breath, so many deballed, deballed n death is inevitable ( of what use is man without some balls?)

Call me love Don, call me Don Pro, Don Jaun, or whatever nomentature u so suit, don't give no hoot. Can't keep shut no more while men rot in dis web.
Battered n bruised
snuffed of life!
Let it ring to d unborn child
Let it sink into d fresh adam-apple growing dude
To all d players, playing balls or hearts
Wudnt u rather Dine?

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DRILL NUGGET 1: WHY DO GOOD GURLS LIKE BAD GUYS? https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only#42440289 & https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only#44815634

1b: Why are nice guys boring and Get friend zoned:
https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only#44816115

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/1#44884410

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/1#44914163

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/3#45168440

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/3#45185360

DRILL NUGGET 2: HOW TO APPROACH LADIES( THE VERY BEST, YOU GOT TO HAVE STANDARDS NOW),
GET THE NUMBER AND GET OUT( WITHIN 5MINS)

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/1#45035607

2a: Where to meet ladies( forget dating, make friends first) she cant friend zone some1 that friendzoned her from the start

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/1#45037572

2b:Tools needed b4 u go making lady friends https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/1#45037055
witty/sassy/funny lines to use when meeting women

2c:Things to avoid when meeting new ladies: https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/2#45037970

2d: Examples of Situations of meeting ladies And on da spot lines:

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/2#45038157

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/2#45106315

2e: witty/funny lines in meeting women :

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/4#45185484

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/4#45188107

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/4#45188926

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/4#45228903


2f: When to place that first most important call, for how long and what for:

2g: How to deal with Rejection( Should you be)

DRILL NUGGET 3: SETTING UP THE FIRST OUTING And Subsequent ones.

3a: Where to meet
3b: what not to discuss
3c: Dos and Donts
3D: Always set her hairs on edge( anticipation, spontaneity, suspense)

DRILL NUGGET 4: THE FIRST KISS( EITHER MAKES OR MAR YOU)
4a: Get her into it
4b: tease her: one step forward, two steps back

DRILL NUGGET 5: Never Tell Her U luv Her! https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/3#45149142

DRILL NUGGET 6: GURLS DONT CHOOSE WHO THEY FALL IN LUV WITH (CASE study : all d beauties n d beasts in the world over)

DRILL NUGGET 7: Who to Date and Who not to Date

7a: Bad Long Term Investment: No to close neighbors, don't
date anyone related to a close friend, and DON'T DIP YOUR PEN IN THE COMPANY's INK


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Here is a thread you should all read guys. hear it from a lady's mouth

https://www.nairaland.com/3061623/dangerous-mistakes-most-guys-make#44910074

Boxer007:
Gay men are better in bed. They make the best date thou

promisedeco:
my girlfriend and I have dated for 2year now and we stay in different cities. She loves me so much but she have cheated on me 3 times now. It's not like she had sex with the guy(s) - She is still a virgin(100% sure), they were kisses and romance. By the way, I didn't find out on my own, she told me herself - she cries while telling me. the 3rd time was on Friday. I'm so confused right now. I need advice.

HARDDON:
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CsRockefeller:
I've known her since my undergraduate level in 2015. We didn't date but were very close, I loved her so much and broke the friendship for her refusing to date me.

In 2017, during my convocation we got back together after much pleading from me, we got too close again. Said something wrong in early 2018 and our friendship took a nose dive.

We reconciled back in November of 2018,and I met a new girl, a girl ready to be free, to let go of the old shy and reserved girl. I liked what I was seeing, offered to take her out in December, she refused. Out of anger, I ended the friendship, on the eve of the New year.

Just one week into the new year, I began to miss her, tried reconciling with her but she wouldn't hear any of it.

Went ahead to block me on all platforms including Twitter that I was never a follower, more like blocking me in advance.

I really love this girl, she is everything a man would want in a future wife, I'm done with service, looking for a job, she is in her final year. With about 5 year age gap.

Seems my last action was the straw that broke the camel's back. It looks like she's never going to bend this time around, my 1 minute of a rush of blood has cost me.

What can I do to get her back if there is any hope?
She's still single but also very lonely.

I have many other female friends, but she beats them all, especially in knowledge and character.

Guys in the house, help me Pls.

Cc: Harddon, Davidthegeek

CsRockefeller:
I've known her since my undergraduate level in 2015. We didn't date but were very close, I loved her so much and broke the friendship for her refusing to date me.

In 2017, during my convocation we got back together after much pleading from me, we got too close again. Said something wrong in early 2018 and our friendship took a nose dive.

We reconciled back in November of 2018,and I met a new girl, a girl ready to be free, to let go of the old shy and reserved girl. I liked what I was seeing, offered to take her out in December, she refused. Out of anger, I ended the friendship, on the eve of the New year.

Just one week into the new year, I began to miss her, tried reconciling with her but she wouldn't hear any of it.

Went ahead to block me on all platforms including Twitter that I was never a follower, more like blocking me in advance.

I really love this girl, she is everything a man would want in a future wife, I'm done with service, looking for a job, she is in her final year. With about 5 year age gap.

Seems my last action was the straw that broke the camel's back. It looks like she's never going to bend this time around, my 1 minute of a rush of blood has cost me.

What can I do to get her back if there is any hope?
She's still single but also very lonely.

I have many other female friends, but she beats them all, especially in knowledge and character.

Guys in the house, help me Pls.

Cc: Harddon, Davidthegeek

DavidTheGeek:
Every action has consequences and as an adult, you have to be ready to accept the consequences of your actions.

You can't just go about ending relationships and expect them to accept you back when you return. I wouldn't even advice her to take you back because you're emotionally unstable and would mess her heart up.

I really hope you have learned some lessons from this incident because it appears you didn't learn anything from the first one.

Your focus now should be on getting a grip on your emotions and learning how to deal with rejection.

DavidTheGeek:
Every action has consequences and as an adult, you have to be ready to accept the consequences of your actions.

You can't just go about ending relationships and expect them to accept you back when you return. I wouldn't even advice her to take you back because you're emotionally unstable and would mess her heart up.

I really hope you have learned some lessons from this incident because it appears you didn't learn anything from the first one.

Your focus now should be on getting a grip on your emotions and learning how to deal with rejection.

KingFalcon:
You have a mail braa

DavidTheGeek:
Replied.

KingFalcon:
Check again....thanks

then after making the money you realise girls only want you for your money then you come online and start crying abeg shift

Dothraki:
Look guys, instead of looking for some drills, make money first and see how girls will start liking you as if you be icecream

Make money and all thesd drills will be useless

Dothraki:
Look guys, instead of looking for some drills, make money first and see how girls will start liking you as if you be icecream

Make money and all thesd drills will be useless

kollinzgee:
money can buy you sex and attention from hoes and goldiggers yes but can never buy you the heart of real women .you say this because you are broke too .if money is only what women want then the rich mans wife or girlfriend will never cheat but how come the rich also have marital problems or breakups.)

i cannot change your thinking broda coz i know you totally believe that shiiit. but please dont contradict yourself by coming here to open a thread about how women are goldiggers since you are willing to spend it all on women and also please dont try to rape a girl after buying her phone or she will bite you...

****peace*****

Dothraki:
Maybe you are right sha but you got one thing wrong

I am by no means broke, i drive a venza and live in my own house.. when i was broke, my girlfriend asked me to wait for her while she follow a rich guy out for a date, the nigga bought her pizza and probably bleeped her while i was wating for her in her room...

But now, i can tell you that i have over 4 girlfriends, and i dont even initiate text with any of them... because i dont like them and they aren't mentally fit for me...

I am not moved my their ass or boobs anymore