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buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness. This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I hav kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal. It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net(night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked.My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest. The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique.she was selling pap (akamu). she walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her.I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day. Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in ss1.I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch water.as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

Read the Bible and don't miss church service

Jagaban880:
baba go and marry....if u no fit toast womam go village yr mama go epp u find wife

Marriage doesn't stop masturbation

1. Get a sex mate
2. Get busy often
No. 1 wont stop you from masturbating but will help reduce it with your self control.

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness. This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I hav kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal. It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net(night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked.My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest. The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique.she was selling pap (akamu). she walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her.I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day. Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in ss1.I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch water.as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

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There is no switch button for masturbation... you must have a very powerful reason to stop it... but sex isn't your ticket out of masturbation trust me... first... pray about it... second avoid triggers... trust me don't watch the upcoming game of throne lol.. it can also be a trigger... thirdly.. engage in more social activities and lastly always say to yourself it can only get better

dollyjoy:
Stop watching porn op and keep yourself busy with meaningful activities, the Shame and guilt that follows after the act is not worth it... you guys think of sex too Much... Haaa

Shame and guilt because of what?

chenzen:
sell ur android phone and buy Nokia torch. u ll be fine


continue using the torchlight phone until u marry.

in most cases this out phones are some of the major causes,it happened to the both sexes

I sympatize with u. What u re doing is not healthy at all . U should look for ways to end this shameful conduct. More tips on this @ www.aboutlifeng..com

You better abstain from it

buhariski:
Thanks bro. but for d issue of using small phone I've sold many smart phone just because I wanted to stop masturbation yet it seems i'm just wasting my money on phones. The porn movies has really gotten into my brain sometimes I don't really need phone to play it. all I need do is to visualize it in my mind that's all. so using small phone can't really change anything.

I understand...Dats typical addiction.

Work on d former advise on time. It wil start reducing wen u av som1 n b4 u knw, it wil becom history. U need to b determined n disciplined too.

Luckily for you, you know you have an issue and
my late dad said the day a madman discovers he's mad then that's the day he gets healed. Quitting masturbation is a process that requires commitment and is prone to relapse. Keeping a record and rewarding yourself for your good behavior can also be a means of motivation for you overcome your addiction.
Stop punishing yourself: Remember that masturbation is actually a natural urge and as human beings, we are always having these sexual urges and neither of these things makes you less of a person or any less worthy compared to anyone. Don’t allow yourself enter into despondency as this is mostly a waste of time; time that could have been spent relinquishing yourself of the addiction. So take it a step at a time and realize that there is actually help and you’re not helpless against the situation.Remove the things that bring you temptation to masturbate: Top of the list of things that brings temptation to masturbate is pornography so you have to rid yourself and your immediate environment of any and all pornographic content. Also, you should control your access to this content. If you are observant enough to know the specific times and instances you mostly get the urge to masturbate, try to get busy with other things at those times. Some people recommend exercising as this gives you a release of its own and leaves you exhausted to do much else. If you masturbate frequently as a result of your loneliness, find ways to limit your solitude. Do things you usually do alone in the company of others and in public places. Don’t lock yourself up indoors all day.Find another outlet for your time and energy: Fill your life with engaging activities like bodybuilding or other sporting activities,. The excitement of doing something different and meeting set goals and objectives can help replace the urge to masturbate and you’ll have a lot more distractions that can keep your mind off it. The process of turning your sexual urges into creative output is something that monks and sages have mastered and it is called sublimation. This is something you can utilize on a scale that you are capable of. There are a lot of things that you can invest your time and energy to such as writing, learning to play an instrument, drawing etc. This takes discipline and persistence and no one ever said it was going to be easy and while at it pray and fast... Stay healthy!!!

jesmond3945:
Anybody that is telling masturbation is good would not be there when erectile dysfunction calls. I don't know whether you are a christian but Jesus saved me from masturbation. Masturbation is a kind of addiction to manage loneliness and depression. Something to give you a momentary high. Some people take to alcohol, some sleep around, some take drugs and smoking. All these are to feel better when depressed but they offer temporary relief. It is a cycle that would be hard to stop ezcept you give you life to Christ . Always listen to worship songs. Throwaway anything secular.

why don`t you use then some pills like https://trustmeds.com.au/buy-cialis-online/ or do preventive exercises like Kagel`s exercises or take contrust shower? I think that it is all bul***it about those fact that God sees everything and Jesus could stop you from masturbation... It is not a sin at all, it is normal.

buhariski:
haha bro I didn't mean to commit suicide oo I was just playing with words. but i really need d sex oo i just need something physical like romance kissing and some good Bleep some wonderful sex styles. not visual or visiting d brrothel. I just need some one. to ur question yes I have had sex before with a prostitute and a girl now my ex girlfriend.

What's causing the rejection? You need change your style. Change things about you, be confident and please smell nice. Always smell nice... The fact is, masturbation does not sate sexual tensions, it's only a quick fix.

joliethebest:
why don`t you use then some pills like https://trustmeds.com.au/buy-cialis-online/ or do preventive exercises like Kagel`s exercises or take contrust shower? I think that it is all bul***it about those fact that God sees everything and Jesus could stop you from masturbation... It is not a sin at all, it is normal.

ok if it is normal why did Op open a thread for it?

donbrowser:
Marriage doesn't stop masturbation

True Salvation does

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness. This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I hav kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal. It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net(night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked.My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest. The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique.she was selling pap (akamu). she walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her.I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day. Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in ss1.I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch water.as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness. This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I hav kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal. It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net(night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked.My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest. The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique.she was selling pap (akamu). she walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her.I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day. Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in ss1.I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch water.as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

hmmmmm meself dey hard everytime o,but,I dey control myself making sure I don't masturbate,4cking ashawo self better pass wanking o

Lalasticlala please help this man overcome this bad habit

Nor worry, ED go soon catch u. When ED catch u. Then nor b person go tell u to stop.

OP how old are you?

Go kwanangida go drop.

Tales by the moonlight.

I easily know a fake or exaggerated story anytime I come across one.

But all the same guy, you have a weird sense of imagination.

Dami12345:
Bro use ashawo joor.
Look dont let anyone lie to you. Everybody self-services. Even girls. I wan. Yes bro I have a girl. And so many offers from other girls but I still self-service from time to time. Its healthy. Just not so often. Like everything in life. Do in moderation.

Bro everyone goes through this stage. Most will lie but go back and do them shit. Just take care cause its better to be a wakner than for someone to lie rape on your head.

Speak for yourself only ode. I’ve never maturbated since i was born and i can never be comfortable doing such


Like i said earlier, always speak for yo damn self

annford:
You need to always engage your mind. Think positive thoughts and carry out positive activities. Disadvantages of self-service are just too many. Some of them include but not limited to; Terrible weight loss, insufficient sleep, restlessness of the mind, constant headaches, disfiguring of the male organ, possibility of becoming infertile, mood swings, sexual aggression, looking older than one's age, premature ejaculation for a man or even unnecessary delayed ejaculation, constant need to ejaculate, anger issues and so much more. Masturbation isn't a thing anyone ( male or female) should engage in. Sex is a feeling'. feelings come and they go. you need to stop it now so you don't find yourself running to Doctors or Fertility Clinics when you're married cos that thing has rendered a lot of men incapable of fathering children.

pls explain how masturbation can lead to infertility.

annford:
You need to always engage your mind. Think positive thoughts and carry out positive activities. Disadvantages of self-service are just too many. Some of them include but not limited to; Terrible weight loss, insufficient sleep, restlessness of the mind, constant headaches, disfiguring of the male organ, possibility of becoming infertile, mood swings, sexual aggression, looking older than one's age, premature ejaculation for a man or even unnecessary delayed ejaculation, constant need to ejaculate, anger issues and so much more. Masturbation isn't a thing anyone ( male or female) should engage in. Sex is a feeling'. feelings come and they go. you need to stop it now so you don't find yourself running to Doctors or Fertility Clinics when you're married cos that thing has rendered a lot of men incapable of fathering children.

Please let's not promote FABLES here.
Masturbation DOES NOT CAUSE INFERTILITY.
Regular ejaculations help get rid of old spermatozoa nearing the end of their life span making way for new juvenile sperm cells.
As long as hypothalamic and pituitary axis plus testes are functioning ok. A man can always make up new healthy sperm.
No fertility doctor prescribes abstinence as a method for raising sperm count. That is an archaic school of thought which was discarded ages ago.

Cut it off.

That's the only thing that would work long term.

You need God

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

To be honest with you, if I wasn't masturbating I'd be dead by now.
The only reason I'd advise you to stop is cos it kills ur perfromance in bed and your sperm count.

if u think so,ask STD patient ls what they are facing