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Dear nairalanders,
I have just 200k in my account and my parents are already forcing me to get married. I told them to let me concentrate on my business first , they refused and saying No time. Please I need your advice on this matter.
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unless u now own a car,own a house,have paid bride price,wont host traditional/church marriage,u are ready to go on series of hunger strike with ur proposed wife then u are free to marry

Cocoyamdcomedia:
Dear nairalanders,
I have just 200k in my account and my parents are already forcing me to get married. I told them to let concentrate on my business first , they refused and saying No time. Ll

They won't be there with you in marriage. Marry when you are ready

Cocoyamdcomedia:
Dear nairalanders,
I have just 200k in my account and my parents are already forcing me to get married. I told them to let concentrate on my business first , they refused and saying No time. Ll

Don't allow pressure from your parents to lead you to your early grave. Let them know that marriage is not a day wedding nor a year programme. Follow your plans. Best of luck

Diaper cost is something else though if your babe is comfortable, you can go ahead and grow together

They have no right to force you. They have lived their lives, this is your own life and you will live with your choices alone.

Just be silent whenever they bring up the issue... don't argue or contribute. When they are done, say "ok". Marry when you can.

If I have 200k in my account right now I'll marry 2 wives... to boost my business.

DIVISION OF LABOUR

you only pay salary once, you compensate them every night.

if I die na too much sense kee me


I'm out

It depends on alot of factors.

1. Ur tribe/ state of origin
2. Ur age
3. Ur parents present age & health status.
4. How financially buoyant are ur parents.

Either way still, don't let any1 force u until u r ready.

Marry when ready

Marry when you can afford to be married.. Don't let your parents push you into something you can't finish or end up regretting.
Dem no dey catch latecomer for marriage matter

Erm!!!...Op send the 200k to me......I go return am tomorrow

Cocoyamdcomedia:
Dear nairalanders,
I have just 200k in my account and my parents are already forcing me to get married. I told them to let me concentrate on my business first , they refused and saying No time. Please I need your advice on this matter.
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Mynd44
Lalasticlala
Ishlove

Bros you don see any when you like.....if yes give am belle.....quick quick

Marry the woman.
After marriage Impregnant her then sell the child for 200-500k.
Continue the process until you can marry more wife's so as to produce more children at a faster rate.

200k that's a pocket money na

How old are you op? Your parents may have genuine reason in wanting to force you to marry right now

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Thank you.I will go with you.

Michelle55:
Marry when you can afford to be married.. Don't let your parents push you into something you can't finish or end up regretting.
Dem no dey catch latecomer for marriage matter

Hmmm..... Bros don't try it o, bcus they won't be the one to cater for ur family. So take ur time more so, the decision of your partner matters alot

I have many married friends owing me lol. E no easy

Cocoyamdcomedia:
Dear nairalanders,
I have just 200k in my account and my parents are already forcing me to get married. I told them to let me concentrate on my business first , they refused and saying No time. Please I need your advice on this matter.
.
Mynd44
Lalasticlala
Ishlove

leave story.
if ur both working its possible.
ignore naysayers.
na oversabi b our problem for 9ja.
poor peeps dey mari evriday.
…
plan wit her to save every kobo.
send announcement to ur peeps. request "home warming" gifts.
trado and church on same WEEK day.
buy trado tins, keep d inlaws dia, use d tins for church reception.
church wedding- parents, best friends only.
una wear cloth wey una get.

both sides contribute food.
una do reception for church compound.
once una chop finish-
evri1, return to work.
simple.

don4real18:
Diaper cost is something else though if your babe is comfortable, you can go ahead and grow together

Bro to buy mofix 3200 don tire me. My son Some times use like 4 diapers in a day

DZTech:
leave story.
if ur both working its possible.
ignore naysayers.
na oversabi b our problem for 9ja.
poor peeps dey mari evriday.
…
plan wit her to save every kobo.
send announcement to ur peeps. request "home warming" gifts.
trado and church on same WEEK day.
buy trado tins, keep d inlaws dia, use d tins for church reception.
church wedding- parents, best friends only.
una wear cloth wey una get.

both sides contribute food.
una do reception for church compound.
once una chop finish-
evri1, return to work.
simple.

I guess you are not married... tell me what 200k can solve for the guy ...

Mutemenot:
Bro to buy mofix 4200 don tire me. My son Some times use like 4 diapers in a day

invest in a small washing machine.
dettol, bleach and nappies will save u money in 1 year.

How old 're you and what are their reasons ? Ordinarily 200k is nothing when it comes to marriage ...the liability In marriage is Something beyond eyes

Mutemenot:
I guess you are not married... tell me what 200k can solve for the guy ...

money is d mirage u people keep facing.
it depends on him and her.
a down to earth girl will ignore 'notice me' wastage.
a one day affair will pass.
if they live on his earnings and save hers for future investments, they'll do well.
d only qtn is if he can find an understanding lady.

DZTech:
invest in a small washing machine.
dettol, bleach and nappies will save u money in 1 year.

Nappies in those modern days? We have washable pampers in the market but they aren't still good as diapers ...

Mutemenot:
Nappies in those modern days? We have washable pampers in the market but they aren't still good as diapers ...

make I give u alert:
oyinbo sef don dey leave diapers o!
ask Google,

DZTech:
money is d mirage u people keep facing.
it depends on him and her.
a down to earth girl will ignore 'notice me' wastage.
a one day affair will pass.
if they live on his earnings and save hers for future investments, they'll do well.
d only qtn is if he can find an understanding lady.

Yeah but nor for someone with 200k bro. Is marriage the only responsibility he's going to face?

wedding ceremony is just a day activity but marriage is for a life time.

Mutemenot:
Yeah but nor for someone with 200k bro. Is marriage the only responsibility he's going to face?

ask all those married men who lost their jobs in 2016, 2017 recession.
shey dia marriage don end?
life hard, yes.
but life goes on.
"he who finds a wife finds a good thing", abi?