Gaspardd:

She could have done it in a cool way, y'kno.. carry me along and shìt

So it didn't occur to you that she's a co worker?? Are you not cheap? did you carry her along before displaying the 1500 naira you brought? If I was her I will tell on you, this kain mebo dey sweet to talk

Gaspardd:

Logically i feel i did the right thing but then it was a very awkward moment for me

Dude you have nothing to worry about, you've done nothing wrong.
I think you are somehow amongst reserved niggas

daddytime:
She got one over you...lol

No biggies guy. . Take a chill pill..

Little silly awkward episodes like these are a potential solid foundation for a burgeoning love affair.

Most ladies can kill for a straight up natural and no faking dude like you...

Stay awoke dude...

We don experience worse..

As a young chap back in the days on the streets of The Netherlands I had seen a Caribbean lady with an ass and a hip like none I ever had beheld pronto and so I said to myself "we die here after all all die na die"...

Long gist and not much different from yours...I had over spent to give her a great time when she came visiting me for the first time and later asked we go clubbing that night to which I had obliged even when I knew I had gone seriously low on cash.

After clubbing...na leg me and her take trek the length and breath of Rotterdam through the Willemsbrug.

Na so love take start o come lead to marriage...

Really?

Megfrivolous:


Please do this feminists have a kind of online dating app where i can see them... Biko.

Lol

Gaspardd:
There is this lady at work, she works for the client and i work for the contractor. She has a nigga friend who is my padi and he has been talking to me about her, after so much persuasion, i said fùck it and gave it a shot.

Really she was so receptive than i envisaged and since then we've been casually saying hi and stuff.
On saturday i called her and asked about her weekend, she told me she wasnt doing anything, i suggested we meet on sunday(ytd). She said she wud call me wenever she's back from church.
She called around 5pm, i dressed up, all my clothes were creased so bad so i had to borrow a niggas Tshirt, pocketed 2k cus i am cheap and i live cheap, so i cant spend more than 2k on a date.

I got to d venue, she was waiting already, she was putting on a gown revealing some cleavage which was a very nice sight but really unlike her as she always dress modest to work.
Long story short, i ordered for drinks, all was 1400 naira, which was within budget, d 100 naira change will be for my TP and i will give d maruwa guy 500 for her own TP to give her d remaining change. Everything was going according to plan, things were going fine , what a good time to be alive. Suddenly she said she feels like chewing sth.
I initially made as if i didnt hear what she said, she said it again and i interjected with "NOPE, CHEWING IS BAD FOR TEETH" She laffed and beckoned on the waiter to come over. In shock i yelled wait wait, i brought out the whole of 1500, dropped it on the table and told her this all i have with me, already she knows there is 1400 payment to be made.

She didnt give a shìt, she called the guy, brought 2 plates of meat, i was just feeling awkward watching how the whole shìt wud play out. At last she brought out her purse, gave d guy some money, i picked the 1500, gave it to the waiter but he returned the money, said the money she gave him is complete.
Seriously i was ashamed of myself, i wanted to talk about it but i decided to let it slide so as not to overflogg the issue.
Later we were done and i saw her off, i gave d driver 500 for her TP. Some hrs later i saw 3missed calls from her, i texted her back and she responded with... see you tmao. While i dont know wht that means but i know she is gonna tell everybody at work about what happened, about how i am a stingy pig. But i aint stingy, i just priotize things i spend money on.
Today i told my niggas what happened, i have only two niggas, but neither i nor any of them has heard about the parol from another source. But then i am sure that if words get around, my reputation = Ruined

Change your orientation. See as you wicked reach. You used to be one of my most respected dude for years, look how you mess up, walking in your social Co ditioning life as misled you to believe, women are after your wallet. Smh, this is low. You rationed a date to, I should slap you now. Seriously, if you aren't overly negative you won't be leaning on the mindset that she was after your wallet. See why they say when ladies love, they can give their heart and all, you were in the reverse from the onset, while she was much more open to possibilities, psychological cancer, you need to be whole to date, cause it requires taking responsibilities for more than one individual should things work right. While you're fixated on your rep, I bother about your awareness to your condition. Fix yourself, work on your psyche, I suggest changing your friends and everything you feed your mind with. I can't allow my enemy date a guy like you in your present form. Next time, whenever you plan I volving a third party, always know that things can go sideways real quick and have a back up plan. The 3k you wanted to save due to your assumed gluttony you already Conclouded her to be was the price of your reputation. I feel like flogging you. Make sure you ask for another date immediately and make corrections. Do it while it's fresh before it cast a permanent memory if she declines move on

SaucyBenks:
seriously bro, you mumu true true... Stingy grasshopper!!!

Mtseeeeewww!

No wonder you no get shirt...

[quote author=Gaspardd post=77376765]
She could have done it in a cool way, y'kno.. carry me along and shìt[/quote

Why in the world would you expect her to make that accommodation for you?

IAmSkinny:


I hail you bro. You are quite discipline and you are just the kind of my nigga.

.
What exactly are you ashamed of? That you chose a plan, stuck to it and delivered? Weldone bro, at least you are not a YES MAN.

At the expense of reputation. If I tear you slap

Biglittlelois:
It's really funny when a guy says he likes a lady that pays her bills on a first date and feels bad when it actually happens, isn't that what y'all have been preaching about, why being ashamed and behaving like a sissy, be proud of yourself a lady paid her and your bills so hold yourself high at work sissy!!!

Stop rubbing it in. Ease off. Enough of stirring up gender wars. So much so intimacy gadgets are benefitting from the rivalry.

dreamwords:

U no knack am, y

The "I live for sex alone" sheeples has arrived, smh!!!

kunleweb:



Stop rubbing it in. Ease off. Enough of stirring up gender wars. So much so intimacy gadgets are benefitting from the rivalry.

So much for defending ladies if reverse was the case, now you're telling me to ease off y'all can masturbate on paper not only intimacy gadgets who cares

Biglittlelois:


So much for defending ladies if reverse was the case, now you're telling me to ease off y'all can masturbate on paper not only intimacy gadgets who cares

K

Joystark:



Lol... Dude, you had to go copy the whole song?

Guy, forget all this story how will you take someone out on a date and be spending 2k haha... You are stingy and you said you are working...Spending 5k shouldn't be a problem...You just go disgrace your self. Na by force to go out on a date. Wetin be my own self

Preshy561:
She's not gonna disgrace your little ass.
She's a feminist y'all have been shouting and yelling untop your voices that they don't pay their bills.

Now, you've seen one, you are feeling emasculated and acting all sissy.

ato e ti
feminist radarada

kunleweb:


At the expense of reputation. If I tear you slap

Ehn go and clear your account in the name reputation na.

Gaspardd:

We all have our roles to play, i am the man and shld act like the boss. This is not me being paranoid its about she being full of herself

Act like the boss and na only 2k u see chook for pocket? Pls let's do away with poverty mentality... Anyways different class, different line of reasoning.

Hey Gaspardd,
Don't get yourself worked up brotha
No big issue here.
Don't resonate on what's not there
You yourself will be the one to spoil things.
She likes you, so just relax.
Its actually your ego that's making you act all tensed
So I actually wouldn't blame, cause we all have that ego thing.
...
What you should do right now is focus on the present with the future in mind. Leave the past alone
Walk into the office the next morning and ooze the aura of a MAN who knows what's good
Just cause she paid for dinner doesn't make her the winner(pun intended). It doesn't make you a boy as long as you don't make yourself one
When ever y'all are preaching, don't let the memory of she paying come in. In fact do not give her respect for that
As far as we're concerned, you were in charge for the outing and it stayed that way
Go drink some juice you'd be fine
P.s. We've all heard lots of advice against office and co-workers relationship right
You prolly shoud adhere
All the same, smack it like you should brah
Cheers!

Preshy561:
She's not gonna disgrace your little ass.
She's a feminist y'all have been shouting and yelling untop your voices that they don't pay their bills.

Now, you've seen one, you are feeling emasculated and acting all sissy.

You should learn what feminism really means so that you will stop misusing the word,
this lady right here is an Independent Lady, there are many independent ladies that are not trying to compete with men like your modern day feminism portrays.

believe me, that girl won't spill the beans. u've just gotten urself a lady. hold her tight

From personal experience... I think she's not the kiss and tell type.
Don't panic.

What do guys really want? .

She doesn't pay, she's a leech.

She pays...male ego

Funny

Lolzz op that babe get sense pass u.. LEARN

Gaspardd:

Nope she's a glutton.

How is she a glutton?

I don't blame you sha. That three lettered word called EGO can be a little bitch sometimes.

Biglittlelois:
It's really funny when a guy says he likes a lady that pays her bills on a first date, then feels bad when it actually happens, isn't that what y'all have been preaching about, why being ashamed and behaving like a sissy, be proud of yourself a lady paid her and your bills so hold yourself high at work sissy!!!

On the first date? That's bad impression

ImaIma1:
What do guys really want? .
She doesn't pay, she's a leech.
She pays...male ego

at this rate, take anything these dudes say here with a pinch of salt.
changing opinions like chameleons just to suit the narrative.

kunleweb:



Change your orientation. See as you wicked reach. You used to be one of my most respected dude for years, look how you mess up, walking in your social Co ditioning life as misled you to believe, women are after your wallet. Smh, this is low. You rationed a date to, I should slap you now. Seriously, if you aren't overly negative you won't be leaning on the mindset that she was after your wallet. See why they say when ladies love, they can give their heart and all, you were in the reverse from the onset, while she was much more open to possibilities, psychological cancer, you need to be whole to date, cause it requires taking responsibilities for more than one individual should things work right. While you're fixated on your rep, I bother about your awareness to your condition. Fix yourself, work on your psyche, I suggest changing your friends and everything you feed your mind with. I can't allow my enemy date a guy like you in your present form. Next time, whenever you plan I volving a third party, always know that things can go sideways real quick and have a back up plan. The 3k you wanted to save due to your assumed gluttony you already Conclouded her to be was the price of your reputation. I feel like flogging you. Make sure you ask for another date immediately and make corrections. Do it while it's fresh before it cast a permanent memory if she declines move on

It wasnt about the mentality that women are after my pocket, its d fact that i have a spending cap and i do not exceed it. And like i said in the OP i am a cheap guy, i live well below my means hence d reason for the 2k.
And again it was supposed to be a date, meetup to share moments together and not a food party.

I kind of hate stingy guys. How can you go on a date with just 2k?

So your plan was to drink only alcohol without eating meat or food?
What kind of broke-ass date is that? If you don't have money for a date simply invite her over to your house so u two can watch telemundo

No pressure Bro, reputation ruined or not, money saved is money earned. No go dey do pass your self. Catch head.