Jobia:


"i should act like the boss" with your measly 2k.

Mehn gtfo
Goat

With him miserable 2k.

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Lol.... We cannot come and die jur. Sometimes,I do take myself out when I don't have a date. I don't spend millions but that good treat matters a lot.

Use your friends for rituals so the secret is permanently buried

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Lol.... We cannot come and die jur. Sometimes,I do take myself out when I don't have a date. I don't spend millions but that good treat matters a lot.
Same here ooo

AntiBrutus:
Men; We want independent women. Nigerian ladies are olosho, they don't pay on dates.

Man goes on a date with lady. Lady pays the bills and even tops the menu

Man comes on NL next day to create a thread like this.

You no go kill person

My broda...dis is simple...why d long talk or shame.....take her out some other time when u are most buoyant, return d favour and beat her hands down...u will smile last last....trust me on dis, buy me beer later

Ishilove:
LMAO! Stingy ass.

I love what the lady did. Shows she can pay her own bills and doesn't need any cheap negro to do so

sauceEEP:
You wan take a lady out cum carry 2k for wallet and untop that tfare dey inside that 2k o! For this Buhari economy?

..my guy I tire oooo..maybe nah local buka Dem go..

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Money wey you no spend today you go still spend tomorrow. That's my watch word bros.

Gaspardd:
There is this lady at work, she works for the client and i work for the contractor. She has a nigga friend who is my padi and he has been talking to me about her, after so much persuasion, i said fùck it and gave it a shot.

Really she was so receptive than i envisaged and since then we've been casually saying hi and stuff.
On saturday i called her and asked about her weekend, she told me she wasnt doing anything, i suggested we meet on sunday(ytd). She said she wud call me wenever she's back from church.
She called around 5pm, i dressed up, all my clothes were creased so bad so i had to borrow a niggas Tshirt, pocketed 2k cus i am cheap and i live cheap, so i cant spend more than 2k on a date.

I got to d venue, she was waiting already, she was putting on a gown revealing some cleavage which was a very nice sight but really unlike her as she always dress modest to work.
Long story short, i ordered for drinks, all was 1400 naira, which was within budget, d 100 naira change will be for my TP and i will give d maruwa guy 500 for her own TP to give her d remaining change. Everything was going according to plan, things were going fine , what a good time to be alive. Suddenly she said she feels like chewing sth.
I initially made as if i didnt hear what she said, she said it again and i interjected with "NOPE, CHEWING IS BAD FOR TEETH" She laffed and beckoned on the waiter to come over. In shock i yelled wait wait, i brought out the whole of 1500, dropped it on the table and told her this all i have with me, already she knows there is 1400 payment to be made.

She didnt give a shìt, she called the guy, brought 2 plates of meat, i was just feeling awkward watching how the whole shìt wud play out. At last she brought out her purse, gave d guy some money, i picked the 1500, gave it to the waiter but he returned the money, said the money she gave him is complete.
Seriously i was ashamed of myself, i wanted to talk about it but i decided to let it slide so as not to overflogg the issue.
Later we were done and i saw her off, i gave d driver 500 for her TP. Some hrs later i saw 3missed calls from her, i texted her back and she responded with... see you tmao. While i dont know wht that means but i know she is gonna tell everybody at work about what happened, about how i am a stingy pig. But i aint stingy, i just priotize things i spend money on.
Today i told my niggas what happened, i have only two niggas, but neither i nor any of them has heard about the parol from another source. But then i am sure that if words get around, my reputation = Ruined

You budgeted 1,500. You would have budgeted 720 naira . Hanging out is not compulsory or by force. You could have as well stayed home and put the 1500 hard earned cash in your piggy bank.

Now that she paid for the outing it is an issue...lol. i love that girl. Next time, stay at home if you cannot handle a lady paying since you refused to spend.

kunleweb:



Indeed. Whoever said 4k would be too much for a date. People who place such chains upon themselves don't see beyond their stingy horizon.

That's what you get for balling on budget.

AntiBrutus:


If you were the one with all the money, will you carry her along?

Maybe ask her, "babe, I want to buy meat, do you have money to add?"

I am VERY SURE you won't. You will just order the thing like a boss and pay the bills.

Tell me the truth, if say you get money and she pay, shey you for the plan return match to equalize? Oga, you are fighting with your ego.

It is very hard dating guys without much money and I am not being condescending here. Call a rich guy "ewu" and he will laugh, because im know say the money dey pon the beat. Call a humble guy "ewu" and he will rush to create thread. I graduated since 2016, I have one small job I am managing, but I don't hesitate to take care of my babe. Yesterday she called me ewu, should I breakup with her?

Walahi, you guys are paranoid. Una dey synonymous with not-goodlooking girls.

I know I have a lot of pride when it comes to being spoilt by women, but this logic has completely blown me away. I'm impressed, and thank you for opening my mind.

SaucyBenks:
seriously bro, you mumu true true... Stingy grasshopper!!!

Mtseeeeewww!

No wonder you no get shirt...

Set in bi ur problem You don't read the op talking about living cheap and bring cheap?? Living means not having good cloths to wear and not enough money to spend. The guy knows his level.

Frezhkid10:
..my guy I tire oooo..maybe nah local buka Dem go..

Lol.... Even local buka are expensive o. Cus the kind orishi orishi wey full that local buka no be here o. I happy say the babe put am for him place. Next time him no go put 2k for pocket enter date taxi again.

Gaspardd:

It wasnt about the mentality that women are after my pocket, its d fact that i have a spending cap and i do not exceed it. And like i said in the OP i am a cheap guy, i live well below my means hence d reason for the 2k.
And again it was supposed to be a date, meetup to share moments together and not a food party.

You're a big embarassment.Mehn!Your mentality is too archaic.How in the world will you go out on a date with 2k?then expose it publicly?Jesus Christ! You no get shame?

kunleweb:



Guy I'm taking ababe on a full day outing. Freedom Park to listen to live band. Gate fee 200naira classy environment maybe with some peppery meat a d drinks. Have I spent 1mil here? Jerk off

I see we are saying the same thing living within your means thank goodness you now agree with me 200 naira hate fee peppery meat and drinks that's like 2k or 3k about highest you never spend 1mil brother you are the realest gee just like the guy that took a babe on a date with 2k no difference between you and the guy so you too get sense I see and you are busy blasting the guy for 2k date when na only 200 naira gate fee you pay while not go for rumors club or quilox club where they pay 15 to 30k gate fee or more than self yeye dey smile if I check wella na 100 naira data you dey use dey form wetin u no be

kunleweb:



I forgot something. How can a man say I am cheap. I live cheap. Omg, I feel like beating this guy up. He's social circle has messed up his life. I am cheap, I live cheap. Blood of Jesus

...Guy abeg naa...

� hahaha

ImaIma1:


You budgeted 1,500. You would have budgeted 720 naira . Hanging out is not compulsory or by force. You could have as well stayed home and put the 1500 hard earned cash in your piggy bank.

Now that she paid for the outing it is an issue...lol. i love that girl. Next time, stay at home if you cannot handle a lady paying since you refused to spend.

Savagery

Awoo88:

Set in bi ur problem You don't read the op talking about living cheap and bring cheap?? Living means not having good cloths to wear and not enough money to spend. The guy knows his level.

His level doesn't matter.How he went about it was very bad.I read this last night and i was just laughing and feeling thst the guy is just plain silly.How can he expose 1400 on an eating table to prove his worth? Chai!Mehn!The lady self will be enbarassed

Women have suffered. You took a girl out on a date and you didn't expect her to eat?

What kind of date was that?

The lady then paid for what she wanted to eat.

You came here to insult her.

Not only are you stingy. You are wicked.

And the lady even texted you that she'll see you tomorrow.
Not that you texted her to check on her after the date. She was the one that did so.

The lady deserves better. I hope she realizes that and goes to look for better.

Jayslicky:
Move on and forget about all these, if you over spent your income because of a date will she be there when you will be going 101 for the rest of the month?

He should have stayed at home and if she agreed to come over, he would have cooked for her. That is way cheaper. It's not a must to hang out when the money is limited and end up feeling awkward and embarrassed.

Jidibia:

What impression? I am not even after what happened at the dating spot. My concern here is him putting 2k in his pocket without being pro active to unforseen circumstances. Do you even know the meaning of feminism?

You are the one that doesn't understand what feminism is, your type go leave your mama for village dey suffer go dey follow woman about, you go dey drink garri while the girl dey chop suya, I pity your life, f up mehn, stay real to yourself if you don't like it f out of my page, dummy fake being

nkwuocha:



You're a big embarassment.Mehn!Your mentality is too archaic.How in the world will you go out on a date with 2k?then expose it publicly?Jesus Christ! You no get shame?

I pity the girl wey go marry this guy. This kind person, even if you dey die, the go save their money for piggy bank or commercial bank come dey tell u say dem no get shishi. Such men won't buy biscuits for their kids even when they are crying daddy buy biscuit for us. Such a man will be using milk cup to measure rice for their wife to cook. Stingy man....

@Gaspardd She's a glutton?! Because she bought something and paid with it for her own money? She was even trying to make things 50-50 by buying food while you buy drinks. All you had to do was reimburse her for the cost of the drinks after the date since she gave the waiter enough money to cover everything. The problem here is that You're a f***ing cheapskate! And an entitled idiot. Your stinginess is so bad that you cant even spend on yourself and that's why you're busy borrowing clothes upandan. And you're here shouting that you're keeping it real when you're really just a miser. If you don't have money for dates then don't ask people out. If you insist on taking someone then save up for one. I just wish she could have seen the post where you called her a glutton and that would blow the chance you had with her. Nonsense!

Teetop22:

Do you live large at work that your reputation will be ruined?
that my type of girl. I hold my money when going on a date because any funny thing might happen... and I hate embarrassment

SaucyBenks:
seriously bro, you mumu true true... Stingy grasshopper!!!

Mtseeeeewww!

No wonder you no get shirt...

spiceadole:


Exactly.
All the talk about wanting and admiring independent ladies end on social media.
In real life, independent ladies who foot their bills are a worry to men.

Take NL alpha males seriously at your own risk. Most nonsense they type is just to attack ladies and appear woke. It all ends here!!!

They prefer those small small girls that they can control with 5k. It is what feeds their ego. That way they can come online and brag of how they INVESTED in their gfs.

MartinsD12:

You are the one that doesn't understand what feminism is, your type go leave your mama for village dey suffer go dey follow woman about, you go dey drink garri while the girl dey chop suya, I pity your life, f up mehn, stay real to yourself if you don't like it f out of my page, dummy fake being

Lol.... You have not explained to me what feminism is all about but rather you took it personal. I don't womanize but I know what it means to take responsibilities as a man. Na your type go save money for bank go allow your family members dey die of hunger and will be walking wretched in the streets because you are so stingy. Don't worry, when you die, las las na people go still chop that money wey you dey save.

U have nothing to be ashamed about, matter if fact she's gonna love u for it, talk to her and joke about it that u're trying not to go over tour budget so that u guys can have a bright future together, watch as both of u guys will start splitting bills. Best of luck

Inferiority complex guy
Just chill Nur be today yanch dey back things happen

Although you acted childish by bringing out the amount you have from your pocket and making her feel gluttonish or someone coming to catch up on a free meal. You could have told her codedly and maturely. Anyways, I don't know maybe you need to tell her what played out you know there. Respect to that lady, she is a matured type. That's what I like most in a lady; maturity, understanding and be real