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Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Nobody: 2:10pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Big men looking for women to help pay their bills for them. It’s pitiful. Looking for a homeboy instead of a lady. I rebuke it, it’s not my portion. You will find your sugar mothers soon. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Ginalex(f): 2:12pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Saffi:Entitlement mentality is the bone of contention here. Let's stick to it and not change the narrative. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by scoory: 2:12pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Saffi: Sometimes I wonder if you are a male behind a female moniker. It seems your goal is to provoke men into hating women. If that is not the case, then you are not very wise afterall. Men will always be men and women will always be women. No amount of online venting will change anything. You are not making any difference. Relax. What you can do is understand how the system works and take advantage of it. Everybody else is responsible for their foolishness. It is only losers who have more to loose that try so hard to convince others they don't care about that they are foolish. Let's be honest, it's not like you care about Nairaland men. 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Nobody: 2:18pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
You’re absolutely right. Men will always be men and Women will be women. So as far as I’m concerned, men will continue to spend on women, as it’s been happening since eternity. Men will continue to use their hard earned money catering and pleasing women, which is how it’s supposed to be. Women will continue to nurture and do what they’ve been doing. So yes, I agree with that. scoory: 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by shaybebaby(f): 2:20pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Saffi:Baby girl, I am all for setting standards. Don't get me wrong. But whatever standard you are setting for others, make sure you are all of that and more first. This applies to both genders. A man cannot insist I must cook for instance when he is incapable of doing such himself or even unwilling to do so. Iro! Mba! Because I would apply the same principles for myself to him, the kitchen doesn't admit people based on gender. Yet I do cook for my man, as a way of showing I care (I don't even cook for myself) and will always do so when I can as a matter of choice and not because I see it or it has been ascribed to be my duty. I am pretty much kicking against the sense of entitlement in such a situation and not the act of cooking itself. No one should feel entitled to the resources and skills of others. No one was put on earth just for your wellbeing and neither do you owe anyone else their wellbeing. If a man wants to take care of you in all its entirety, great! As long as its not you going through life demanding that it is your right, its not. Just like women don't owe men the nurturing, submissive shtick! Do it because you want to not because it is demanded of you. 11 Likes |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by scoory: 2:30pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Saffi: Yet most of your posts on Nairaland seems to revolve around this "fact". It gives the impression that your life depends on people to accept this "fact". Why do you need men accept this "fact"? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Nobody: 2:31pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Well you and I both know that people in general are hypocritical when it comes to this situation. You may be different but unfortunately the minute a woman decides to set certain criteria’s for herself, they scan her like a book as if she’s not worthy. But yet the majority of men do not know how to cook extremely well, yet they are demanding a chef ? So that’s what I’m saying, if you’re going to criticise women about wanting a financially buoyant man when she’s not rich herself, then you need to also need to call out men in the same sentence if you’re going to call it hypocritical, because it makes no sense otherwise. Like I said I don’t demand, I expect. And if you can’t reach my expectations which I cannot modify to please you, then you can go. And if a man expects you to be nurting and you can’t do it, then you can leave. It’s as simple as abc. shaybebaby: 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Nobody: 2:34pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
If you don’t want to accept it, I’m not putting a gun to your head. It’s your fuckinggg business. I log off nl and I live my own life. It’s not a do or die. I state my opinion aggressively which I believe to be factual, but you don’t have to agree with me and quite frankly I don’t care if you don’t. scoory: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Mariangeles(f): 2:34pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Saffi:The book of proverbs says Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies The heart of her husband safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil ( gains) She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands . She is like the merchants' ship; she bringeth her food from afar She considereth a field, and buys it : with the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard She girds her loins with strength, and strengthens her arms She sees that her merchandise is good : and her light does not go out by night ... Her husband is known in the gates, when he sits among the elders of the land Strength and honour are her clothing... She opens her mouth with wisdom... Her children arise and call her blessed ; her husband also, and he praises her .... 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by scoory: 2:45pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Saffi: Well, that doesn't make any sense. You have spent more that 30% of your waking hours on the issue. You obviously care if people agree or not. That is the main reason why any sane person will argue or debate for that long. |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Nobody: 2:51pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
I don’t care and as you can see most people on this thread Do not agree with me but I’m still going. I’m Arguing for my own personal satisfaction and getting my point across. Any more questions? scoory: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by BLUEJAYY: 2:51pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
lilwetdick:The MGTOW and red pill movements epitomizes what you're saying. I've personally never needed a woman to get motivated. I've never had a girlfriend tbh. I do FWBs period. I know I'm different. I'm not one to put up with the conundrums of relationships or whatever it is. |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by scoory: 3:04pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Saffi: If everybody agrees with you right now, you will have no reason to argue further. The reason why you are still arguing is because they have not agreed with you. So you obviously care if they agree with you. It's simple logic. Please, no serious emotions here. I just want to understand why you need the validations. |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by BLUEJAYY: 3:07pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
lilwetdick:It's pathetic bro. Pussyass men everywhere who can't be selfless enough to empower up and coming talents to become successful. All they do is feed the monster of entitlement in lazy, low IQ, unproductive women who only know how to spend it on material stuff and sh1t. Give any of these entitled women some capital to run a business and they'd fvck it up real quick. Their brains are toast. That's why they don't see why they should make their own damn money. The lowest ones are those who work but still can't touch their money, still whoring around in offices. 8 Likes |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by DMerciful(m): 3:17pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Part of a man's success is having a family that's why most successful men are married! But this does not necessarily mean the successes are because of the women. A man may likely be in the path to greatness before considering a wife and things continue on that path. Would you say polygamous men are not successful? Who among the women will claim being responsible for the success? Saffi: |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Nobody: 3:41pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Saffi: Between me and you, you actually care. I won't be surprised if you change your stand on this few years time. After all, reading through your old self "Safia" A lot of things have changed about you. You were 23 then I think. Na only this Man - provider issue remain. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by DMerciful(m): 3:41pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
You have tried for defending your position till then end and I commend you greatly but in your moments, think about what has been said, the world is indeed changing, and we must change or break! Saffi: |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by WilliamsChelster(m): 3:55pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Stupid people everywhere Especially that Landin moniker girl patrolling everywhere |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Nobody: 3:57pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
DMerciful: My bloda! You better go and marry. Once you marry ehn, the money go dey come yafun yafun. In short, the more wives the more success. No wonder Solomon was successful . Na him wives give am sense na, as him no get sense before. |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by shaybebaby(f): 4:10pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
truthsayer009:Lmao! |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Nobody: 4:18pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
BLUEJAYY: men need to learn how to be selfish and think about themselves first before any woman that is not your mother or sister, life would have been better if they teach this entitled women that in order to get A, you have to work... when i have a son, i will teach him that his job is not to save any woman from poverty rather himself. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Nobody: 4:21pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
truthsayer009: according to your logic, all married men na them dey get money die, be like say you never see married men wey no get job for ages married men are the one suffering in Nigeria, lot of irresponsible responsibility to cater for. |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Daeylar(f): 5:08pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Mariangeles: So what should ladies feel entitled to? Horrible treatment from guys? Why should a normal human being be annoyed because a woman sets high standards and demands to receive it? Most of them feel they're entitled to receive calls, texts, gifts, attention... IT'S ANNOYING LADIES!Why the hell should this be annoying to anyone? What should we feel entitled to then? to be ignored? To not be given gifts? What the hell is this thread? you miss someone, make that damn call even if it's a guy .This is a good message which you could have just given without the hate and bile you're piling on women (for no reason if i might add) asking and receiving money and things (e.g attention, special treatment) from men Most ladies would need something, instead of getting it themselves, they'll look for someone (especially a guy) to extort just to get it . IT'S ANNOYING LADIES!Extort? Please how do women extort anything from these men? Do they carry a gun or carry gangs and force these men to give them money? Do they kidnap the man or his family members or friends and refuse to release said man or friends until their demand are met? Do they use force? Why these melodramatics all over the place? If you want something, get it yourself!Why? If I want something and I ask someone to get it for me and the person agrees to get it for me. Why is your body scratching you? Why are you in pains? Sifia pains non the less Prove you're an independent woman! So being an independent woman means you must do everything for and by yourself and can never ask for anything from anyone? Smh Stop depending on guys for stipends. IT'S DAMN ANNOYING LADIES! YUCK! There is nothing wrong with depending on a guy for stipends if she wishes. It's a free world, we must not live like copies of each other, as long as the guy she is asking for doesn't mind, it's no one's business. Besides. ITS HER DAMN BODY. IF SHE WANTS TO GIVE IT FOR A GODDAMN TOOTHPICK IT'S HER GODDAMN BUSINESS WHATS YOUR DAMN PROBLEM? IF YOU DON'T HAVE A JOB, START A BUSINESS! and after starting all the businesses in the world if she chooses to ask her man for something. Will it stop her? Mtchewww STOP BEING BLOODSUCKING LEECHES!To who? How? They ask and they get and it's paining you so you brand them as blood sucking leeches. Instead of you to deal with your envy, jealousy and your pain. You're busy throwing tantrums and labeling women foolishly. Learn to mind your business, instead of asking women to start business. Take your own advice and Start one so you can mind it. Stop displaying jealousy and hate all over the place. When you go on dates, go with cash! This is good for the girl. Why does this message need to be accompanied by all the hate and insults to girls who ask for money from men? To the girls who demand special treatment and attention from their men? Propose to share the bill! If a girl wants to share the bill. More power to her, if she doesn't, more power to her. It's disgusting to bash women just because they choose to live a different life from yours. If we don't bash women who share bills then women who don't need to be left alone. Buy your own clothes! And so what if she doesn't buy her own clothes or pay for her hair or her accessories? TOO MANY GUYS ARE SAYING THE SAME DAMN SH!T ABOUT Y'ALL HAVING ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY!The only thing that has to stop is your goddamn hysterics over a girl getting her life funded by a man, getting the attention, texts calls, special treatment she demands from her man. your jealousy, your envy and your hate, that is what needs to stop Get help. This isn't cute nor healthy This ridiculous unnecessary hate towards women who ask for money and clothes and hair is not right. If you're an independent woman say IDo you know that someone can be an independent woman and still receive gifts and get everything paid for by her man? You don't even know what it means to be independent. You think being independent means you can never ever lean on anyone for anything and no one can help you with anything at all. Quite pathetic. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Mariangeles(f): 5:59pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Daeylar:All I see is a meaningless rant from a self entitled leech ! Always crying victim. They hate the truth. You're here clamouring for stipends while Queens rule the world with new innovations . https://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2019/04/13/anambra-technovation-girls-ifest-boys-worth-billion-dollars-silicon-valley-group/ Read and be inspired! 7 Likes |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Nobody: 5:59pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Preeeachhhhhhhhhhh! They think being independent means accepting no favours or gestures from anyone just because I want to prove a point? For what? These men can be so ridiculous it’s unbelievable. Daeylar: 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Mariangeles(f): 6:15pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Saffi:Don't twist things to suit your narrative . Nobody said you shouldn't accept gifts. Just don't demand for it if you're not a wife. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Preshy561(f): 6:18pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Mariangeles:You telling people how to live their lives? Smh 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Nobody: 6:30pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
There are ladies who also take d initiative to call u and know hw u faring.i so much respect such ladies. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Nobody: 6:31pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
daeylar please Can you do us all a favor & change your text from Bold to Normal fonts. It's so hard to read, habba! You want to send your message across forcefully & then we can't even read it. |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by IAmSkinny: 6:31pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
shaybebaby: Me can I Holla at? Be like say u go get plenty connect o, the type I need to give my growing brand viral attention. . By the way, your comments are on point. It's obvious you ain't the average Nigerian lady. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by Nobody: 6:34pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Saffi: I believe you should be smarter than this na! You went along a whole thread of 8 pages arguing about ENTITLEMENT & not receiving gifts. If this was about Gifts, we should have close this thread in the 2nd page & called it a day. Just because a maniac from Family section called Daeylar has come to talk doesn't mean we are all foolish on this thread. 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies Stop Your Entitlement Mentality! It's Annoying! by shaybebaby(f): 6:38pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Guest007, are you just here to be a guest? Talk na! |
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