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Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by mapet: 2:46pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
lonelygem: Nairaland is one of the most funny places on the web. You went on an imagination trip on the guy, repackaged his narrative, saying what the guy neither said not alluded to, then descended on him with insults and summed it up as the truth? Some of you are just comical 3 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Nobody: 2:47pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: You're simply not being honest or practical. There is no free lunch anywhere. It's either someone is paying directly or indirectly. Selfishness is engrained in the nature of man. No one does anything for God, though, they may not admit it like you may eventually do after reading this but on critical evaluation, there is always more. 3 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Lovelyn451(f): 2:47pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Marry her Jare and put her through school, she wont leave you by Gods grace...afterall most crashed marriages are between two matured, exposed adults who already knew what they want before getting married yet they end up in divorce...please dont miss that girl b4 u end up in regret, even her parents is in support reason they always remind you that you're nt married to her whenever she stays overtime, so please do the needful sharp sharp 6 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Dacman(m): 2:51pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
The way you guys think baffles....you call a 18year old a child!!!.its this mentality that keeps an average Nigerian dependent on there parents while kids in Europe and America break boundaries at that age...black man mentality 6 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by luminouz(m): 2:51pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Yewandequeen: Will disagree with you on this.... Poverty has no effect on a person's character,from my experience... When I had no money,I was still bold,real n raw,never kept late nights, no clubbing or booze or womanizing upandan...i was even called a proud morafvcker. I never sucked up to anyone.always myself,every fuqin time. When money came(and is still coming), I never changed any of my lifestyles before. I was still me. When the money comes next in billions and I get a maserati,private jet and the likes...I STILL WONT CHANGE MY CHARACTER! So money won't change ur character, it only reveals ur real/hidden character that u buried while poor(so u could get by in life)... N this applies to PRETENDERS..not a guy like me. U want him to send her to 2yrs of school first? I dont buy that...that's wasted expenses to me. He's either in or out. He marries her and gives her a trade or he forgets about her and focus on his own siblings...not all 18 yr olds dey tear eye dey misbehave..some are way mature than their age.Omotola,Bianca Ojukwu...Amara KANU...all are examples. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by mrpaedo(m): 2:51pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Polchiz:This guy gets it 4 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by ngwababe(f): 2:53pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Polchiz: Bros, no be by handling NEPA oo or big grammar. If you will try and understand me, this guy should allow this girls parents to train her in school, so they will and she herself also will decide what she wants for herself. Hmmmm, 18years wey never go university, hmmmm, she's at her prime ooo, there are so much pressures in school ooo 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by mrpaedo(m): 2:53pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
mastermaestro:Another one 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by rayobaba(m): 2:54pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
See, it's simple. I don't like d aspect of signing any contract. If u are ready for marriage, ask her dt if she start school when will she be willing to marry u. If u are okay with her response, fine. I won't send her to school because of marrying her. She can disappoint u. Send her to school because u wanted to help her life, ds way u won't regret if she disappoint u. Don't go and send any girl to school, waiting till she finish before marrying her. Odikwa risky. If u are ready to settle down, send her to school and tell her wen u wl want d marriage. Don't complain abt her parent saying she's keeping late in ur house. She's not yet ur wife, live wt dt. U wl do same if u are d parent. |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Jman06(m): 2:54pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Babamide:Who said that 18yrs old is still a baby Nonsense and ingredients Op, my only advice is for you to suspend her schooling for now, marry her first and then set up a trade for her. She can decide to study on part-time later 3 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by chiboy1116: 2:55pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
ibkayee:yea , lol, i wouldn't take that from my 18 year old daughter at all , but seems like her parents are okay with it , it's not wrong legally though. I doesnt make sense to me though , but according to him the girl loves him and the parents are aware of this . |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by ngwababe(f): 2:56pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by mapet: 2:56pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
fascia: I like your "humane" submission to a large extent........but 1. Life is not always as simple. If her parents cannot afford to send her to school, then she probably will cross to another trajectory. The life she "will explore" may be different (probably more turbulent, tortuous and worse off) 2. "Investment in someone you care about"? Bros, we are human, and pardon me if I say this is not "Bible Story". Donation, yes, I can agree with....but the big question Why will he be busy "donating" when he should focus on finding a wife, which is his primary objective? Besides, the world had become harsher and stories of people who made those "investments" in the past discourages one from recommending such. In classic Yoruba setting when dating couples are about to be separated especially if one of them is travelling abroad, they commit in one form or the other (engagement or marriage) 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by mrpaedo(m): 2:56pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
KevinDein: 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by olumalcolm(m): 2:58pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Alaye go and face ur life and ur siblings, support ur sis or ur bro to learn a trade or go to sch. You wont be too old to marry at 32 or 33. Invest in ur family nw cos u r nt married so dey cm first b4 anybody. |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by hope4life: 2:58pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Except if you are a Christian who will convince someone that it's God's will for your life which I doubt considering the age difference, I will have advised you to let her go. 1.Avoid infatuation, if you marry her,you will see a lady that will fit your spec in future but you won't be able to do anything about it.She is still very young. 2.I will NEVER advise two persons from.poor backgrounds to marry each other humanly speaking.The burden on any of the couple that has small lift will be too.unbearable if you will want to be responsible.Imagine your parents and hers,your siblings and hers seeing you as a Dangote on the salary of #50k per.mth even #100k-200k can't survive if if you want to please them. |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Deepfeel(m): 2:59pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
ngwababe:Then why did you say you don't support a guy marring a lady that's not up to 26? |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by mapet: 3:00pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
desthan: I believe he can.... but what he wants from her is marriage. |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by yaki84: 3:00pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
ITbomb:if so 18 too old na, na to go marry 8months old pikin men she for really grow with am. |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by ibkayee(f): 3:01pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
chiboy1116:It’s not wrong legally, it’s just weird. Plus we’ve heard this same story all too many times before. Since they’re poor the parents and girl will look to him as their chance ‘out’ and go along with it, most people in their situation would. Lol the girl has a lot of years and experience ahead of her though so her eye will clear soon enough and watch her be swept away by a better candidate once she’s been ‘cleaned’ up Best of luck to all of them 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by mapet: 3:01pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Phlakes: From the days of our fore-fathers, this tickles men 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by phemy36(m): 3:02pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
HitSong:What is your problem. Is she your sister. Oh you have not get a proposal for marriage and if paining you that your younger one want to get marry to a rich dude, so you are envious of her. May God give you your own. Leave them alone 3 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by funkemary(f): 3:03pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
My uncle did this same thing and after three years of marriage with a boy, she changed totally going after other guys. She said she married too early and now being a graduate, she wants to catch some fun before she clock thirty |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by mapet: 3:03pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
mastermaestro: I am sorry, but can't help laughing to this 3 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by aanuoluwami14(f): 3:06pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Polchiz:Lazy kid |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Efenaira(m): 3:07pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
GT07115:You’re very wicked man .Do you know there’s not differences Bea you and Ned? OMG at 29 chasing 18 years girl calling it Love ❤️,men dem go check you , because you have some little peanuts call money , you want to take advantage of the little girl, Oga you better respect your old age . 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by udemzyudex(m): 3:07pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
After all this I no wan hear say she go school finish come tell you say you're not her type ooo. |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by mapet: 3:08pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Yewandequeen: Rare. Some will send her to school because she's the side-chick. Life is unfair many times 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Charly68: 3:09pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
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Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by mapet: 3:13pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
BananaTree:funmisticqueen: :You're simply not being honest or practical. There is no free lunch anywhere. It's either someone is paying directly or indirectly. Selfishness is engrained in the nature of man. No one does anything for God, though, they may not admit it like you may eventually do after reading this but on critical evaluation, there is always more. It is not even selfishness. Why should the OP "invest" his time, money and emotion in something that can potentially end up a waste? |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by chiboy1116: 3:13pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
ibkayee:this happens all the time , and the guy ends up blaming the lady for leaving him . 1 Like |
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