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lawman88:
I can't do that. During our relationship days, two of my wife friends wanted to sleep with me but I turned down the offer and she knows about it. That was the genesis of the trust...

How did she know? What if she sent them to try you , just as my guts is telling me, she might have orchestrated this show.

Who Dis one dey deceive? Aunty stop faking that you're a man jare. When did guys start calling boxers undies
Nonsense

Radarada ni yen naw! Anyway, I'm sure you know the game she's tryin to bring up. You either play it or get her off the pitch.

lawman88:
I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.

This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.

During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.

This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.

Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....

Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her.....
How can I handle this matter?

Once the opportunity presents itself fučk her silly so that her curiousity will be satisfied!

You already know what you’re going to do ... stop asking us

Safitu:
See as you’ve described her breast, you have already analysed, drooled and daydreamed about your in-laws boobs, it’s better left for you to fulfil that fantasy since you do not have the leverage to control your stupid urge. I’m sure if anyone stays in your house, they’ll be able to see you’re clearly exaggerating, because I’m pretty sure your wife would’ve cautioned her. How can her sister be dressing like a stripper, and she’s staying mute? You are seeing things, your lust is making your brain hallucinate. You can’t tell your wife what is going on because you are secretly loving the “show”, and you are waiting for the right chance to devour. You are deceiving yourself, silly man.

In all of this, you have failed to address the real issue.

1. Men are moved by what they see. At 22, this young lady most likely knows d effect her body has on men. And she is flaunting her big breasts freely. She most likely knows what she is doing.
2. D guy has d right to correct her. He can do so to her firstly, and if it persists, involve his wife to press home his point. He is the man of the house afterall.
3. The guy has started falling. It's natural. But it's also wrong. Men are moved by what they see! If he wanted to do all the things you accuse him of there, he would have done so without asking for advise.

4. Lastly, some temptations better not live under the same roof as me ooo...to the fall for this kind thing no go hard me.

it simple if you cant tell ur wife, you talk to her sister direct, otherwise mind your businee

Anyone who believes this can believe pigs can fly. Yet another fictitious story on NL.

Mr I have a solution for you, just tell her to see you in your room when your wife is not around, as soon as she comes, hold her hands and bend her over, tear that pants off her and fvck the hell out of her till her pucxy get sore, after that turn her over and splash your cum all over her boobs and face,

lawman88:
I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.

This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.

During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.

This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.

Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....

Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her.....
How can I handle this matter?

brother avoid that temptation it may be a set up.
try to control ur mind, the stuff about sex is just the mind.

my wife sisters are not attracted to me even if they walk necked in my presence

but i still reach out the other beautiful sisters out there, definitely not my inlaws

lawman88:
I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.

This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.

During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.

This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.

Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....

Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her.....
How can I handle this matter?

Is it not yu house. If your mind clean, tell her to go dress up properly with authority in your voice. He probably notice her dressing has effect on you anyway. Resist the devil and he will flee.

liberalchick:
I find it very hard to believe that a married woman will be comfortable with another young woman parading in front of her husband in see through clothing. I suspect that’s why you don’t want to tell your wife, you’re seeing what’s not there because of your obvious attraction to her.

Your marriage is just a year old you are supposed to be in the honey moon phase. Face your front, learn some self control and get a grip on your hormones.

If the wife is satisfying him, I doubt he would have time to visualize another. Ladies learn to take initiative and satisfy your husbands thoroughly. Make him shout eparipaa.

Safitu:
See as you’ve described her breast, you have already analysed, drooled and daydreamed about your in-laws boobs, it’s better left for you to fulfil that fantasy since you do not have the leverage to control your stupid urge. I’m sure if anyone stays in your house, they’ll be able to see you’re clearly exaggerating, because I’m pretty sure your wife would’ve cautioned her. How can her sister be dressing like a stripper, and she’s staying mute? You are seeing things, your lust is making your brain hallucinate. You can’t tell your wife what is going on because you are secretly loving the “show”, and you are waiting for the right chance to devour. You are deceiving yourself, silly man.

lolz

liberalchick:
I find it very hard to believe that a married woman will be comfortable with another young woman parading in front of her husband in see through clothing. I suspect that’s why you don’t want to tell your wife, you’re seeing what’s not there because of your obvious attraction to her.

Your marriage is just a year old you are supposed to be in the honey moon phase. Face your front, learn some self control and get a grip on your hormones.

she almost naked in his face and u say he shld face front madam u know how a man body is.na blood dey flow DAT every day temptation d guy will fall soon.let d sister live the house

Safitu:
See as you’ve described her breast, you have already analysed, drooled and daydreamed about your in-laws boobs, it’s better left for you to fulfil that fantasy since you do not have the leverage to control your stupid urge. I’m sure if anyone stays in your house, they’ll be able to see you’re clearly exaggerating, because I’m pretty sure your wife would’ve cautioned her. How can her sister be dressing like a stripper, and she’s staying mute? You are seeing things, your lust is making your brain hallucinate. You can’t tell your wife what is going on because you are secretly loving the “show”, and you are waiting for the right chance to devour. You are deceiving yourself, silly man.

Typical of an average Nigerian mentality.
You have judged and given verdict already.

You weren't there with them yet you concluded that he's lying.

Even went to the extent of cussing and using abusive words without decorum.

This is really bad.
You should learn to be civil at all times.

You know you have no right to use those words on him. And it's not okay.

Jmk9292:
Unless you're a visitor to that house... If not, you state to both ur wife and that girl what you don't want... QED

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obiekunie2:
see mumu!


them dey offer you paradise on a platter of gold you dey reject am!


some men sha!




bros abeg send me her number shaperly let me help you tell her to cover herself!

na beg i dey beg!

What and where is paradise? The same way Joseph was offered, right? He would have ended unsung, and an overfed slave!

Why are you man of the house if you can't open your mouth and tell your wife about her sister?


You have to be strong, remove timidity ,and be very careful. Call your wife's sister and talk to her in person. Don't even dare to tell or report her to your wife. Telling or reporting her to your wife would bring hatred cruel into your wife towards her sister.

If you are doing something in this life, always look on the both sides and not like a woman who look only on one side.


What is there to say,'' Mary, i would like to discuss with you on a certain issue am not pleased with. I don't like the way you dress , try to dress decently. That's all, you may go now.

As easy as, unless you have something you don't wanna tell us.

ngwababe:
Until you cum on top her breast, that's when you will know what to do, leave her ooo!!

lafmaoooo

GraGra247:
I find some women on this forum very ridiculous for suggesting the Op imagined the things he's complaining about.

I have seen these kind of thing the op spoke about happen in many homes and I marvel.

Women are apt to always deliberately choose to dress very carelessly and quickly label a man that complains a pervert.

Very true.

lawman88:
I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.

This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.

During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.

This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.

Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....

Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her.....
How can I handle this matter?

Allow the 22 yrs old to dress the way she wants. It is now your responsibility to control yourself. Stoping finding excuse for your rage of libido.

In your own home and you can't speak up like a man ? Come out roght and discuss with your wife that you are married to her and not her sister and so she should caution her sister on how she dresses .....

evilive:
do you like what you see?

Is your wife a type that overlooks?

do you suspect any game?

If you are not interested, tell the girl to tidy up her contours.

If you are interested, stop asking for people's opinion.

Which one is I never cheated on my wife, you can start anytime, heaven will not fall.

You can start with the stubborn breast.

lafmaooooooo

Reading comments from both sexes on this forum makes me realize one thing for sure. Men and women don't reason alike. While the females are busy insulting and calling the man names and accusing him of imagining things in his head, the males are actually seeing the whole thing from a different angle and I must say that some women on this forum and especially this thread can be so unbelievably daft. I'm not sorry to say.

lawman88:
I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.

This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.

During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.

This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.

Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....

Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her.....
How can I handle this matter?

This one na lord lead us not into temptation . After u nack am and one day she get belle u go wish say u get selfcontrol.

All ur Agros u fit use am on top ur wife

Presently managing same situation in my home. She came to greet, stayed few days, saw job advert and used my house as address. Job advert is in d state I redid while she stays in another far away state. Left after a week and came back for job interview, got lucky and employed. Now we are staying together.
How am I handling such? With the help of God, I "sister-zoned" her and make her feel like a kid sister @ 26 yrs. Of course she is. I tell her to her face dat seductive dressing is for cheap harlot and that everything i ever dreams of in a woman is in my wife (her sister).
Over time, all seductions disappeared and I became her relationship counsellor. We know our boundaries and limits. As a rule, her undies must not be visible around me, thats what I told my wife and she is abiding by it.
So With the help of God and clear conscience, you can overcome. But if all avenue fails, tell her to leave in the most understanding manner. U could help in resettljng her financially if needed. But bro,
U MUST BE TRUTHFUL TO YOURSELF

Hope I helped a bit?

You are not ripe for marriage if you cannot tell your wife what you want done in your house.
Are you staying with the woman or you actually married her

mariodko190:
Mr I have a solution for you, just tell her to see you in your room when your wife is not around, as soon as she comes, hold her hands and bend her over, tear that pants off her and fvck the hell out of her till her pucxy get sore, after that turn her over and splash your cum all over her boobs and face,

IS that the solution?
Repent and get your mind off the gutter.


Meanwhile hit my facebook link below on my signature and thank ME Later.

This one is sounding like an house boy where the inlaw is the boss. You better play your manly role before you get played.

Lucky guy

"About to crash my marriage"

Your choice of words shows you are already halfway fallen. Wise men say " run from temptation " It's not about fighting temptation, the failure rate is high when you choose that strategy. In this situation, you have to ask yourself if you can truly stop yourself from going after her even when you stop seeing her half naked. If you can't stop yourself, carefully and respectfully inform your wife that the girl has to leave. She's not worth risking your marriage.

As newly married couples, you shouldn't even accommodate anyone at least for the next 5 years as you are still getting to know each other and understand this institution called Marriage. Accommodating her in the first place is wrong, as you have just opened unnecessary room for temptations.