Yes. I can help her with amount that won't pain me if l later found out she maga me. If she now continue to ask me for money,......l wl RUN

yes give her but don't fail to collect your share of the cake.

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

Do not help her. Tell her to ask her father at home.

no female comment on the first 4 pages..... is our God not a wonderful God....



op.... you owe that girl nothing

seniorgozman:
Op you dey try oo, Una still dey communicate. I don't understand what gives some girls the mind to ask for money with easy.

it's better than stealing

have u receive help frm someone u refused to help in d year past

u wanted to snach her away from another fellow man like u. she refused. now it is a crime. let me tell u, if u dont hell her God will help her and u Will b punished.
some men r too emotional.

am a fellow man like u.
dat girl turns u down May b she doesnt want to disapoint her current man.

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

Oh she wants ur money but don't want u?....OP someone can not be working for shell and collecting salary from chevron.

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

givers never lack my brother

BIXYBABE:

it's better than stealing

Hmm, you ask close friends not anyone that talks to you

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

If u try am ehnn remember anytin u do for a woman na loss de don't value it

Just delete her number or find way Bleep her n japa

Dating her is one thing. Helping her is another. They are 2 different things. I’ve help a girl of same issue. Now she’s d one begging for a relationship with her body language but I declined

she turned you down for not dating you, agreed
But she didn't kill you or any of your known ones.

See my brother, we are now in a world where if we are not dating, then I can't help you
Dating or relationships should not be the key to helping one another.

I understand she made you less a man by what she did, but have you asked yourself if it might be a. blessing in disguise? you might have end up loosing your mind if you had dated her, something so tragic might have happened to you if you had dated her
see people meet for a reason in this life, intimacy and heart bonding is not the major bro

my say is if you have the money, help her
she'll adore you for the rest of your life
Maturity is not age but what you can produce out of your age

Some ladies has no shame @ all. You rejected a dude some yrs back, you are now asking for cash ! bros give beggers the money on the street it has more blessing than to give irresponsible girl!

Hmmmmm
I was in this shoe 2 years ago bro
What I did then was....
I asked her out again...
I gave myself 2 options
1. If she said yes this time.....I won’t date her and I won’t help her also but I will let her tell me reasons for not dating in the first place.
If the reasons is cool I will just give her what my mind tells me.

2. If she said NO
I will give her the money to help her move forward and still I will also ask her why is she not wanting to date me.

That was all in the past
But I have grown
Money is not my problem anymore
Date or no date
I will just give
I do things not for any reason but for future and for good will of nature
What if I don’t have?
God has bless me....so I must and I will bless others in need so I won’t be in need or if at all I will be....I will always see who will be there for me. That’s the truth

My bro.......don’t help her as someone u know before JUST HELP her in any form u can and God will bless u.

NOTE:
We are not the same
Just Incase u still feels u can’t or don’t want to help
Send her account number to my mail.
We can change this world by giving
Thank u

Op you don't have sense!

A lady turned u down because she saw u not fit enough to be her boyfriend and must have accepted one broke dingbat as boyfriend who only gives her sex and fine boy levels, and now she in need and she ran to u because u are only good for giving and helping

Tell her to ask her boyfriend that you just sent the money u have to your girlfriend who is also in school, that u are very sorry, and that's how a sensible young man should act.


Guys stop turning yourselves to ladies' paymasters and robots they only call on when they need help, develop sense, help only the needy and downtrodden and those that love and care about you, it is not bad thing at all, she should run to her superman boyfriend

No girl will ever have the guts to even meet me with such bull shit considering the circumstance of our association looks like this one narrated here. Some men will have sisters and brothers who need a token genuinely but will be wasting resources on witches.

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

U may choose to help her, then try ur luck again thereafter...

Truthshurts:
Hmmmmm
I was in this shoe 2 years ago bro
What I did then was....
I asked her out again...
I gave myself 2 options
1. If she said yes this time.....I won’t date her and I won’t help her also but I will let her tell me reasons for not dating in the first place.
If the reasons is cool I will just give her what my mind tells me.

2. If she said NO
I will give her the money to help her move forward andvdtill I will also ask her why is she not wanting to date me.

That was all in the past
But I have grown
Money is not my problem anymore
Date or no date
I will just give
I do things not for any reason but for future and fir good will of nature
What if I don’t have?
God has bless me....so I must and I will bless others in need so I won’t be in need or ifvst all I will be....I will always see who will be there for me. That’s the truth

My bro.......don’t help her as someone u know before JUDT HELP in any firm u can and God will bless u.

NOTE:
We are not the same
Just Incase u still feels u can’t or don’t want to help
Send her account number to my mail.
We can change this world by giving
Thank u

whether u are a billionaire or not doesn't matter here bra, you are not supposed to help her, she doesn't need your help. Most girls see guys as mugu they can outsmart and use as they like if u don't know.

So because u have money u should become unreasonable with spending money Because u have money u should no longer have sense right Continue

The heart of ladies and girls harbors more cunningness and evil for men than u may ever think of. That small girl u think doesn't have sense probably have sense more than the President of most nations.

Doesn't she have a boyfriend or relatives The guy she considered fit enough to be her boyfriend should be able to take care of such small needs of hers of course or she should start a small business in school to earn side income to solve her small financial needs.

We Nigerian guys make our ladies to become lazy and needy.

How many Nigerian ladies help Nigerian guys

Must you guys be the ones spending on ladies who still don't appreciate your helps at the end

Wise up oh.....

Even if I am Jeff Bezos I won't help such girl, never!

Our actions as guys most times are the reasons our ladies are misbehaving and taking men for fools!?, stop Mr. Nice Guy!

oyinda1599:
Now this is someone that made sensible comment .

Lol. Typical of a lady.

Obainoneandonly:
don't waste your money. but if you feel otherwise just send it to this account number 2189490964 ZENITH BANK. I will pray for you everyday throughout this year

Poor man wey dey use zenith bank

As for me, I will give her double what she asked for... There is blessing in giving and making her know am not stingy

bros jus epp d poor girl if you can and if you can't nobody will prosecute you!

The issue is that, she ll still come back later for more infact, I Fear she may eventually turn you to father Christmas �



She only need to work on your emotion .

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

If she turns you down because you have no money then,if by now you have that money, don't you think she's the one who stares you to bring out the best in you?

Help her if the help will not cause you any harm

Davash222:

You’re one of the problems we have in this country.

on the contrary, you yourself are a plague among the good ones

yes u can help her if u have the money...what if she accepted to date u with pretence of loving u...do u know how much u would have spent on her.... at least she came out true to u...

Davash222:

You’re one of the problems we have in this country.

I don't think so. Helping someone is far different from expecting something from same person. Why do we always attached help to another thing? Most u get something from someone before u render help to him? Help is of God, because he is d one that grant us d power to help. So, if u want to help her then do so without expecting anything n if u felt u don't want to help her, don't n stop posting issues like this.

Davash222:
Turn her down completely without any reasonable excuse!!

You can’t work for mtn and expect airtel to pay you.

But I guess you are without faults whether knowingly or unknowingly faults, just don't use your own negativity to affect others, just because she turned him down? Like its a new thing for a girl to turn a guy down with even a lie? nobody really know what she was going through when she turned him down, and by the way, the "unreasonable excuse" is what this guy mentioned, he didn't even explain the excuse itself before you made yourself judge and jury, kindly learn to be wise, don't base your assessment on assumption.

she turn's u down deosn't mean u no help...help her if u have d cash.

If u give her a dime now, u are the real mumu

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

Be sure u re chatting with the real girl..

Dem fit don hack her account,