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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by spongeisback: 11:03pm On Jun 19, 2019
He said all the females in his family drive Mercedes including his mom! Buhahajajajajajjajajajajjajaj OMGosh!

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by spongeisback: 11:08pm On Jun 19, 2019
The guy is just an idiot. I was going through a thread he created today and I was just wondering how someone could be so proud in his stupidity.

Someone commented that he wanted to go to the University see the reply the fool gave him.


wow bro you've got it covered.
Worry not.the uni is a place where you'll meet lots of girls from different homes and cultures.
Trust me be more focused in getting in there.you'll forget the confusionist in no time smiley
Classier,richer and more sophisticated and mature girls await you there.
No Bleep up or kill yourself over one smallie that can't make up her mind



Fkforyou:


Wow...How can someone spill so much trash like this?

I swear you didn't read the article.

Quick question, the person that wrote this article, what's her husband's name?

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:12pm On Jun 19, 2019
nwanneni:
same as I do not give a fùck about what you all think of me smiley
It can't get me portable water ffs!
I don't have a problem with real feminists though.just the ekukes.
Who doesn't love the "whole 9 yards woman"? undecided
But no,wannabe feminists will demand for equality till it gets to real bills or acquiring securities cheesy
They now take the backseat and watch real men do their thing!no sweat wink
Fish brain?I thought the term was DESIGNED for your lots.
You know;fowl brain,fish brain....etc.it's your destiny.can't be altered! cheesy
Go get some sleep girl,you'll need all the energy for your rat race tomorrow smiley

Yen yen yen the whining of a sissy nigga with no atom of self worth or class, what's with the emojis everywhere though? kids do that, oh well, you are a kid, wait, a kid that can't comment without emojis? I'm pained, been chating with a kid all this while, well I like the entertainment though so bring it on kiddo, the night is still very young.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:13pm On Jun 19, 2019
spongeisback:
The guy is just an idiot. I was going through a thread he created today and I was just wondering how someone could be so proud in his stupidity.

Someone commented that he wanted to go to the University see the reply the fool gave him.







Believe me he has dementia.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Nobody: 11:20pm On Jun 19, 2019
Fountainofyouth:


Yen yen yen the whining of a sissy nigga with no atom of self worth or class, what's with the emojis everywhere though, kids do that, oh well, you are a kid, wait, a kid that can't comment without emojis? I'm pained, been chating with a kid all this while, well I like the entertainment though so bring it on kiddo, the night is still very young.
Wait!I thought real women get entertainment from their men?
You know,cuddling and making some life plans on the bed(pillow talk)
What's happening to you? undecided
No bobo of course.lol
Probably talking to an obese advanced lady who has got like 10 pet cats as company.
Come on now,go cuddle one of your cats and leave me alone.
Please remind me to get you some top notch cat food on my way back to town.where I am right now,I hear they make the best cat food.
Will fatten your babies up in a jiffy

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by spongeisback: 11:22pm On Jun 19, 2019
Dear mother can you drive your "son" in your "Mercedes" to rumuigbo? He really needs it. This one done pass "one day him go grow up"

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by spongeisback: 11:23pm On Jun 19, 2019
Fountainofyouth:


Believe me he has dementia.

Please don't reply him again. Thanks!

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:35pm On Jun 19, 2019
nwanneni:
Wait!I thought real women get entertainment from their men?
You know,cuddling and making some life plans on the bed(pillow talk)
What's happening to you? undecided
No bobo of course.lol
Probably talking to an obese advanced lady who has got like 10 pet cats as company.
Come on now,go cuddle one of your cats and leave me alone.
Please remind me to get you some top notch cat food on my way back to town.where I am right now,I hear they make the best cat food.
Will fatten your babies up in a jiffy

From emojis to meme, oh wait, he reduced the emojis lmao, you listen to your elders well, that's a good trait kiddo, now go to bed, or you still want to be schooled tonight? You know you have to rehearse on how to upgrade from being a crawling baby adult to baby adult and finally to adult, and it's going to be a whole lot of work for you since you're as slow as snail.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:36pm On Jun 19, 2019
spongeisback:
Dear mother can you drive your "son" in your "Mercedes" to rumuigbo? He really needs it. This one done pass "one day him go grow up"


LMAO.......

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Nobody: 11:42pm On Jun 19, 2019
Fountainofyouth:


From emojis to meme, oh wait, he reduced the emojis lmao, you listen to your elders well, that's a good trait kiddo, now go to bed, or you still want to be schooled tonight? You know you have to rehearse on how to upgrade from being a crawling baby adult to baby adult and finally to adult, and it's going to be a whole lot of work for you since you're as slow as snail.
If supporting "ekuke feminists" means growing up then I'd rather be a baby smiley
Elders? undecided .Well sure,you are a 44 year old spinster so no biggie.indeed you are an elder.
Wait!aren't you suppose to sleep so you can be at your job before 8am?no be when them sack you now you go come here come dey shout sexism
Sleep tight you hear?

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:52pm On Jun 19, 2019
nwanneni:
If supporting "ekuke feminists" means growing up then I'd rather be a baby smiley
Elders? undecided .Well sure,you are a 44 year old spinster so no biggie.indeed you are an elder.
Wait!aren't you suppose to sleep so you can be at your job before 8am?no be when them sack you now you go come here come dey shout sexism
Sleep tight you hear?


Seems someone slapped you real hard all your brain could register is the number 44, how efficient is your thinking since you've called everyone that on this thread? Very low I guess, you need sleep since you're seeing and typing double a number, slow as snail.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:52pm On Jun 19, 2019
spongeisback:


Please don't reply him again. Thanks!

Just seeing this, okay I won't.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by KanwuliaExtra: 11:53pm On Jun 19, 2019
I was sitting in the movie theatre this past weekend to see The Imitation Game with my husband Don when a gaggle of twenty-something gals walked into the theatre, continuing past us to sit in the very back row.

What has this got to do with feminism? undecided
THESE ARE ADULTS LIVING THEIR LIVES.
If they are public nuisances, they would be dealt with as such. If they had such conversations in the privacy of their homes, would anyone care? undecided


I personally believe in the right to self-determination and autonomy.
Feminism is defined by subjective standards. One size does not fit all.

Being a feminist is about more action than words.
If women decide to express their sexuality like men, POWER to them. I personally love women who are in control is their game.

I am not the kind that loves the “love-letter” mode of chivalry. My needs are very few and there is not much any man OR WOMAN can do for me right now.

If I decide to BLOW a guy at the back of his car, my business. If it manages to surface on YT, FB, IG, WU, SC or TT. . . . YOUR BUSINESS.

Bottom line, speak for yourself only! If you can find people to agree with you, fine. If not, please don’t cry for another woman’s right to behave or misbehave. Free world. kiss

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:54pm On Jun 19, 2019
Apologies bukatyne for derailing your thread, someone had to be schooled on sense.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Nobody: 11:59pm On Jun 19, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



Seems someone slapped you real hard all your brain could register is the number 44, how efficient is your thinking since you've called everyone that on this thread? Very low I guess, you need sleep since you're seeing and typing double a number, slow as snail.
I'm yet to see that person man or woman enough to do that to me.
Me weh to throw around law suit dey hungry undecided
I'll cash out big time on his/her ass.
My IQ low?lol.well like I said,you can always raise or meet me on an intellect inclined thread so we find out who has got more grey matter smiley
You are the one that needs sleep more na.do I do 9-5?
Are you interested in the cat food or not?I am trying to make a decision here.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Nobody: 12:00am On Jun 20, 2019
KanwuliaExtra:


What has this got to do with feminism? undecided


I personally believe in the right to self-determination and autonomy.
Feminism is defined by subjective standards. One size does not fit all.

Being a feminist is about more action than words.
If women decide to express their sexuality like men, POWER to them. I personally love women who are in control is their game.

I am not the kind that loves the “love-letter” mode of chivalry.
My needs are very few and there is not much any man can do for me right now.

If I decide to BLOW a guy at the back of his car in front of YouTube, my business. If it manages to surface on FB, IG, SC or TT. . . . YOUR BUSINESS.

Bottom line, speak for yourself only! If you can find people to agree with you, fine. If not, please don’t cry for another woman’s right to behave or misbehave. Free world. kiss
apt!always smart and real

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by KanwuliaExtra: 12:12am On Jun 20, 2019

We, as women, used to be something of an enigma to men. We used to have feminine mystique, an inscrutable and alluring "something" that men wondered about. And boy, did they try hard to figure us out. They used to trip over themselves trying to impress us with their charm, kindness and wit.

Na who be “we”? undecided
Na who be “they”? undecided

Na who dey look for who to “trip”? undecided
See freak show! grin


FEMININE MYSTIQUE = VIRGINITY? cheesy
What is the mystique in feminism?
You live your life to be validated by others(men or women) and you call yourself a feminist? undecided
There is no “we” in feminism. I don’t do labels or “gangster-philosophy”. Do your own, I do my own.
Abeg no be “WE” matter!
Shikena! kiss


Like lipsticked versions of the typical unruly kids at the back of the bus, their antics were soon in full-swing and their volume was set to maximum. Here's what we -- and every single other person in the theatre -- heard.

"I shi*t you not, I was so f*cking wasted I can't remember how I got home!"

"You were like SO f*cking hilarious! You were like dry humping that guy so bad...he probably went in the can to jerk off..."

"That guy sent me a pic of his dick!"

Just as one young woman was launching into a fairly graphic description of the aforementioned "dick," a theatre employee -- oh how my heart went out to this poor chap -- approached them and asked them to keep it down. After finding several ways to argue with and insult him, they finally piped down. And then they left halfway through the movie.


Sooooo, na wetin cause wahala be dis? grin
Interesting the narrator did not emphasize on the fact that the ladies were being loud. Women should not discuss the almighty DICKK in public o, wink but should only HIDE in secrecy/hypocrisy to discuss and share their experiences. wink If men discussed the female anatomy in such terms or worse, women would accept it as “boys will be boys talk”. Women have to learn to CHOP DICKK and pretend to be “coy” to “trip” men. wink

The only problem here is that the ladies were in a movie theater. I don’t see anything strange in their behavior. Glad they left the theatre, so as not to disturb others.

Awon me and “my husband” group of feminist-mystiquettes! These ladies are not married and have every right to demystify their own “feminism”!

Kudos to them! kiss

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by crackhaus: 12:40am On Jun 20, 2019
KanwuliaExtra:

What has this got to do with feminism? undecided
THESE ARE ADULTS LIVING THEIR LIVES.
If they are public nuisances, they would be dealt with as such. If they had such conversations in the privacy of their homes, would anyone care? undecided

I personally believe in the right to self-determination and autonomy.
Feminism is defined by subjective standards. One size does not fit all.

Being a feminist is about more action than words.
If women decide to express their sexuality like men, POWER to them. I personally love women who are in control is their game.

I am not the kind that loves the “love-letter” mode of chivalry.
My needs are very few and there is not much any man can do for me right now.

If I decide to BLOW a guy at the back of his car in front of YouTube, my business. If it manages to surface on FB, IG, SC or TT. . . . YOUR BUSINESS.

Bottom line, speak for yourself only! If you can find people to agree with you, fine. If not, please don’t cry for another woman’s right to behave or misbehave. Free world. kiss
KanwuliaExtra:


Na who be “we”? undecided
Na who be “they”? undecided

Na who dey look for who to “trip”? undecided
See freak show! grin

FEMININE MYSTIQUE = VIRGINITY? cheesy
What is the mystique in feminism?
You live your life to be validated by others(men or women) and you call yourself a feminist? undecided
There is no “we” in feminism. I don’t do labels or “gangster-philosophy”. Do your own, I do my own.
Abeg no be “WE” matter!
Shikena! kiss
Sooooo, na wetin cause wahala be dis? grin
Interesting the narrator did not emphasize on the fact that the ladies were being loud. Women should not discuss the almighty DICKK in public o, wink but should only HIDE in secrecy/hypocrisy to discuss and share their experiences. wink If men discussed the female anatomy in such terms or worse, women would accept it as “boys will be boys talk”. Women have to learn to CHOP DICKK and pretend to be “coy” to “trip” men. wink

The only problem here is that the ladies were in a movie theater. I don’t see anything strange in their behavior. Glad they left the theatre, so as not to disturb others.

Awon me and “my husband” group of feminist-mystiquettes! These ladies are not married and have every right to demystify their own “feminism”!

Kudos to them! kiss

You missed the point of that article by a long shot, not least going by all you typed, but most from the fact that the writer in fact noted this, yet it eluded you:

Some people blame feminism. I don't. I'm proud to be a feminist.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by baby124: 1:08am On Jun 20, 2019
Interesting article. I think this cuts across for both the young men and women... it starts from the breakdown of marriages and relationships in the home, parents too busy to raise their kids right or have time for them, then the internet as a medium of expression and validation.

I do agree that there is a serious breakdown in morals and value across the world and, across genders. The constant need for validation and see-me culture is atrocious. The. The peer pressure that comes with it, even more tragic. I like to think of myself as a feminist and I have always been.

I am not a social media person and when I stroll through social media in ghost mode, I see even parents looking for validation on the internet, both male and female. You see mothers twerking, shaking breast, taking pictures daily with suggestive poses. It’s like they lack attention and love at home, very sad. I even feel drained Viewing these pictures and watching praise videos where they twerk suggestively and, are furiously all dressed up. Maybe it’s me, but that must take a lot of time and energy which I don’t have. It’s hilarious and mind boggling I must admit grin

You see fathers posting Videos where they are dancing, puffing up muscles, showing off suspicious wealth that we all know they did not work for, and twerking with strange women or strippers. Lmaoooo.

Then you see parents open social media pages for babies... even their teenagers are all on social media, exposed to predators and all sorts of vices. Some parents even encourage their kids to participate in these vices to gain instant gratification and to pepper their mates and the world. This is a worldwide phenomenon and confirms an absolute loss of values. For both men and women.

Men have absolutely lost their charm and chivalry. It’s like all man for himself in the age of the internet. There is access to so many more women than before. Everyone seems to be desperate and in a hurry with many options. No one sees the need to try anymore and work on themselves or their relationships. There is always one desperado a click away willing to validate you if you twerk hard enough.

Then there is the porn. My God, is there the porn? So vile and extremely disturbing the lengths porn reaches these days. Even little kids are exposed to porn and we see little kids even rape these days. Porn has definitely spiked up the level of sexual immorality around the world. Little kids are being mentally abused by watching porn both online and even in their physical spaces. Selfish and so called adventurous people even have sex in parks in full view of little kids to destroy their innocence.

At the end of the day, it is the age we live in. The age of being moderate is long gone and we have lost it as a people. It’s crazy but it is what it is.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Nobody: 1:10am On Jun 20, 2019
zeb04:
aren’t you almost 40 with no sense. Mr man.
Because your sisters are still in your mothers house fighting for plate of food with her and her husband you think that is the narrative of all unmarried ladies.

Hod Bachelor with no sense at all mo.ron.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by KanwuliaExtra: 1:16am On Jun 20, 2019
crackhaus:



You missed the point of that article by a long shot, not least going by all you typed, but most from the fact that the writer in fact noted this, yet it eluded you:



Some people blame or do not blame feminism for ? undecided
I just had a hard time relating any iota of feminism to what the writer was trying to share.

Who are the “some people” blaming “feminism”? wink

That is the danger of using one’s viewpoint to speak for others.

It is her opinion ONLY. As a woman, I do not share or subscribe to any portion of the article, hence there should be a correction. She should have written from an “I” perspective, not a “WE WOMEN” one.

If “some” or “dem say” peeps are complaining, where are “they”? wink “They” should speak for themselves.

Why the “busy-body” woman nor get up from her chair go begin preach to the “akulas”? grin Dem for WOZE am DORTY, HOT SLAPS ke. cheesy

Feminism is like religion.
Practice YOUR OWN without PREACHING to others.
Every woman has her own meaning of feminism.
The ones that use MEN as their “pastors” to preach feminism are the very WORST kinds. I avoid them totally. But like I earlier stated, their choices. Free world. Feminism should not speak for ALL WOMEN. That is my point.

This article is quite misleading.
We are dealing with a public disturbance, not feminism. I do not care if the ladies chose to narrate how and why they were “wasted and over-sexed”. Not anyone’s gaddem buzz! kiss They should have taken their “noise” to a sports bar or their home. . . . Far away from awon “me and my husband” PLCs. kiss

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ibkayee(f): 1:19am On Jun 20, 2019
These women of the past that you’re romanticizing were forced to conduct themselves a certain way

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 5:12am On Jun 20, 2019
baby124:
Interesting article. I think this cuts across for both the young men and women... it starts from the breakdown of marriages and relationships in the home, parents too busy to raise their kids right or have time for them, then the internet as a medium of expression and validation.

I do agree that there is a serious breakdown in morals and value across the world and, across genders. The constant need for validation and see-me culture is atrocious. The. The peer pressure that comes with it, even more tragic. I like to think of myself as a feminist and I have always been.

I am not a social media person and when I stroll through social media in ghost mode, I see even parents looking for validation on the internet, both male and female. You see mothers twerking, shaking breast, taking pictures daily with suggestive poses. It’s like they lack attention and love at home, very sad. I even feel drained Viewing these pictures and watching praise videos where they twerk suggestively and, are furiously all dressed up. Maybe it’s me, but that must take a lot of time and energy which I don’t have. It’s hilarious and mind boggling I must admit grin

You see fathers posting Videos where they are dancing, puffing up muscles, showing off suspicious wealth that we all know they did not work for, and twerking with strange women or strippers. Lmaoooo.

Then you see parents open social media pages for babies... even their teenagers are all on social media, exposed to predators and all sorts of vices. Some parents even encourage their kids to participate in these vices to gain instant gratification and to pepper their mates and the world. This is a worldwide phenomenon and confirms an absolute loss of values. For both men and women.

Men have absolutely lost their charm and chivalry. It’s like all man for himself in the age of the internet. There is access to so many more women than before. Everyone seems to be desperate and in a hurry with many options. No one sees the need to try anymore and work on themselves or their relationships. There is always one desperado a click away willing to validate you if you twerk hard enough.

Then there is the porn. My God, is there the porn? So vile and extremely disturbing the lengths porn reaches these days. Even little kids are exposed to porn and we see little kids even rape these days. Porn has definitely spiked up the level of sexual immorality around the world. Little kids are being mentally abused by watching porn both online and even in their physical spaces. Selfish and so called adventurous people even have sex in parks in full view of little kids to destroy their innocence.

At the end of the day, it is the age we live in. The age of being moderate is long gone and we have lost it as a people. It’s crazy but it is what it is.

I think you are guilty of what sociologists call moral panic
you assume a moral breakdown, not even decline whereas there is no such a thing
you can't take some examples from social media of people who show off their bodies or wealth (something people have always been doing in different forms) and claim that people nowadays have no values
and like the author you have not made any distinction between people of different social and educational backgrounds
I was personally appalled by the language and crassness of these young ladies the author of the article saw with her husband but for every one of them there are young people who mind their language and consciously and eloquently articulate themselves, who have good manners
there are also studies that show that young Westerners nowadays (unfortunately there is no such study I know from Africa) uphold traditional family values even more than their parents do/did and values which were used to write the human rights charter are to a great extent universally accepted, something that people some 100 years ago could not even dream of
bottom line is: times have changed, so have some moral standards in the way that they have become stronger or have been replaced but never disappeared

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by baby124: 5:59am On Jun 20, 2019
desvi:


I think you are guilty of what sociologists call moral panic
you assume a moral breakdown, not even decline whereas there is no such a thing
you can't take some examples from social media of people who show off their bodies or wealth (something people have always been doing in different forms) and claim that people nowadays have no values
and like the author you have not made any distinction between people of different social and educational backgrounds
I was personally appalled by the language and crassness of these young ladies the author of the article saw with her husband but for every one of them there are young people who mind their language and consciously and eloquently articulate themselves, who have good manners
there are also studies that show that young Westerners nowadays (unfortunately there is no such study I know from Africa) uphold traditional family values even more than their parents do/did and values which were used to write the human rights charter are to a great extent universally accepted, something that people some 100 years ago could not even dream of
bottom line is: times have changed, so have some moral standards in the way that they have become stronger or have been replaced but never disappeared
Increase in traditional values? This is definitely your own observation, certainly not mine. Moral panic you say? Did anything I wrote above come across as a lie? We definitely do not have the same experience so, you are entitled to your opinion. while I strongly stand by my own opinion. Complete breakdown in moral values across the board. In fact, most don’t even know what values mean.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 6:16am On Jun 20, 2019
baby124:

Increase in traditional values? This is definitely your own observation, certainly not mine. Moral panic you say? Did anything I wrote above come across as a lie? We definitely do not have the same experience so, you are entitled to your opinion. while I strongly stand by my own opinion. Complete breakdown in moral values across the board. In fact, most don’t even know what values mean.

it's not about opinions really but ok
sorry I made you feel defensive

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by baby124: 6:38am On Jun 20, 2019
desvi:


it's not about opinions really but ok
sorry I made you feel defensive
It’s about opinions because I do not think your perspective is correct as it’s not my observation/experience and vice-versa. So there you go. You did not make me defensive, I was only responding to your comment and standing by what I wrote. You have no reason to be sorry in this case.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 7:00am On Jun 20, 2019
baby124:

It’s about opinions because I do not think your perspective is correct as it’s not my observation/experience and vice-versa. So there you go. You did not make me defensive, I was only responding to your comment and standing by what I wrote. You have no reason to be sorry in this case.

there is a body of quantitative research on moral development and historical changes and it resists the narrative that there is a breakdown in moral values so it is not entirely about perception and opinion, well at least not from my side

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by crackhaus: 7:13am On Jun 20, 2019
KanwuliaExtra:


Some people blame feminism for ? undecided
I just had a hard time relating any iota of feminism to what the writer was trying to share.

Who are the “some people” blaming “feminism”? wink

That is the danger of using one’s viewpoint to speak for others.

It is her opinion ONLY.

If “some” or “dem say” peeps are complaining, where are “they”? wink

Why the “busy-body” woman nor get up from her chair go begin preach to the “akulas”? grin

Dem for WOZE am HOT DORTY SLAPS ke. cheesy
Feminism is like religion.
Practice YOUR OWN without PREACHING to others.
Every woman has her own meaning of feminism.
The ones that use MEN as their “pastors” to preach feminism are the very WORST kinds. I avoid them totally.

This article is quite misleading.
We are dealing with a public disturbance, not feminism. I do not care if the ladies chose to narrate how and why they were “wasted and over-sexed”. Not anyone’s gaddem buzz! kissThey should have taken their “noise” to a sports bar or their home. . . . Far away from awon “me and my husband” PLCs. kiss
Kai.. gringrin

But isn't that what the writer noted too?
Some people blame feminism. I don't.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by baby124: 7:16am On Jun 20, 2019
desvi:


there is a body of quantitative research on moral development and historical changes and it resists the narrative that there is a breakdown in moral values so it is not entirely about perception and opinion, well at least not from my side

I would appreciate if you post that research. I am sure I can also find a research that suggests otherwise. This woman’s experience in the OP also speaks to a breakdown in morals generally. Would you go to a cinema and become a nuisance to everyone else? Sure your morals and upbringing should be better than that. Even though this was a random event. But it even gets worse in reality.

Of course if this is researched with the subjects informed on the purpose of the research, behaviors may change. But observing human behavior of this day when they do not think they are being watched and, when they think their only audience are vacuous elements like themselves is a totally different ball game and experience.

What I wrote up there is my silent observation because, personally I am not a partaker of trends and social media. I am one of those who just sits back and observes what goes on around me. What I wrote is my observation. You could see things through a different lens and that is quite alright.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by crackhaus: 7:22am On Jun 20, 2019
ibkayee:
These women of the past that you’re romanticizing were forced to conduct themselves a certain way
Another person missing the point entirely.

She already noted in her article that women of today are more liberated, essentially admitting that they were forced in the past..

This is what happens when your default reflex action is always one of getting defensive once you sense it's an attack even when it's not. cheesy

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 7:27am On Jun 20, 2019
baby124:

I would appreciate if you post that research. I am sure I can also find a research that suggests otherwise. This woman’s experience in the OP also speaks to a breakdown in morals generally. Would you go to a cinema and become a nuisance to everyone else? Sure your morals and upbringing should be better than that. Even though this was a random event. But it even gets worse in reality. What I wrote up there is my silent observation because, personally I am not a partaker of trends and social media. I am one of those who just sits back and observes what goes on around me. What I wrote is my observation. You could see things through a different lens and that is quite alright.

if I post it, will you take the time to read it thoroughly?
you can post research that suggests otherwise but please make sure it is serious and has not been funded by the Vatican cheesy

we all see the world through a particular set of lenses
yours are very fatalistic

when you go to the playground with your children, do you not see parents teaching their children to say 'please' and 'thank you' and 'sorry'?
do you not see parents teaching their children the value of consideration and compassion?
do you not see politicians all around the world emphasizing the value of the family unit?
do you not see people celebrating charity?
do you not see organizations protecting human and even animal rights?
don't most people agree that selfishness and greed are bad traits?
don't most people condemn dishonesty?

I really do not understand how anyone can claim that there is a breakdown in moral values because even without research good examples outweigh the bad ones, just that they do not get the attention they deserve

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by baby124: 7:30am On Jun 20, 2019
desvi:


if I post it, will you take the time to read it thoroughly?
you can post research that suggests otherwise but please make sure it is serious and has not been funded by the Vatican cheesy

we all see the world through a particular set of lenses
yours are very fatalistic

when you go to the playground with your children, do you not see parents teaching their children to say 'please' and 'thank you' and 'sorry'?
do you not see parents teaching their children the value of consideration and compassion?
do you not see politicians all around the world emphasizing the value of the family unit?
do you not see people celebrating charity?
do you not see organizations protecting human and even animal rights?
don't most people agree that selfishness and greed are bad traits?
don't most people condemn dishonesty?

I really do not understand how anyone can claim that there is a breakdown in moral values because even without research good examples outweigh the bad ones, just that they do not get the attention they deserve
Right. It looks like you just want to keep going on in circles. I don’t have time for this. I told you to post your research, but you entered gear 2 going on and on. I have better things to do than to argue needlessly with someone online. When you are ready to post your research, you can mention me. Till then, you can stick to your opinion while I stick to mine.

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