Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,195,572 members, 7,958,777 topics. Date: Wednesday, 25 September 2024 at 11:41 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? (27899 Views)
I Reached Out To The Parents That Lost Their 4 Kids In Fire / Photos Of 6 Girls Who Lost Their Parents Under 1 Year / Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (22) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by spongeisback: 11:03pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
He said all the females in his family drive Mercedes including his mom! Buhahajajajajajjajajajajjajaj OMGosh! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by spongeisback: 11:08pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
The guy is just an idiot. I was going through a thread he created today and I was just wondering how someone could be so proud in his stupidity. Someone commented that he wanted to go to the University see the reply the fool gave him. wow bro you've got it covered. Fkforyou: 5 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:12pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
nwanneni: Yen yen yen the whining of a sissy nigga with no atom of self worth or class, what's with the emojis everywhere though? kids do that, oh well, you are a kid, wait, a kid that can't comment without emojis? I'm pained, been chating with a kid all this while, well I like the entertainment though so bring it on kiddo, the night is still very young. 8 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:13pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
spongeisback: Believe me he has dementia. 5 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Nobody: 11:20pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:Wait!I thought real women get entertainment from their men? You know,cuddling and making some life plans on the bed(pillow talk) What's happening to you? No bobo of course.lol Probably talking to an obese advanced lady who has got like 10 pet cats as company. Come on now,go cuddle one of your cats and leave me alone. Please remind me to get you some top notch cat food on my way back to town.where I am right now,I hear they make the best cat food. Will fatten your babies up in a jiffy 2 Likes
|
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by spongeisback: 11:22pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
Dear mother can you drive your "son" in your "Mercedes" to rumuigbo? He really needs it. This one done pass "one day him go grow up" 10 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by spongeisback: 11:23pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: Please don't reply him again. Thanks! 5 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:35pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
nwanneni: From emojis to meme, oh wait, he reduced the emojis lmao, you listen to your elders well, that's a good trait kiddo, now go to bed, or you still want to be schooled tonight? You know you have to rehearse on how to upgrade from being a crawling baby adult to baby adult and finally to adult, and it's going to be a whole lot of work for you since you're as slow as snail. 6 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:36pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
spongeisback: LMAO....... 4 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Nobody: 11:42pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:If supporting "ekuke feminists" means growing up then I'd rather be a baby Elders? .Well sure,you are a 44 year old spinster so no biggie.indeed you are an elder. Wait!aren't you suppose to sleep so you can be at your job before 8am?no be when them sack you now you go come here come dey shout sexism Sleep tight you hear? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:52pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
nwanneni: Seems someone slapped you real hard all your brain could register is the number 44, how efficient is your thinking since you've called everyone that on this thread? Very low I guess, you need sleep since you're seeing and typing double a number, slow as snail. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:52pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
spongeisback: Just seeing this, okay I won't. 4 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by KanwuliaExtra: 11:53pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
I was sitting in the movie theatre this past weekend to see The Imitation Game with my husband Don when a gaggle of twenty-something gals walked into the theatre, continuing past us to sit in the very back row. What has this got to do with feminism? THESE ARE ADULTS LIVING THEIR LIVES. If they are public nuisances, they would be dealt with as such. If they had such conversations in the privacy of their homes, would anyone care? I personally believe in the right to self-determination and autonomy. Feminism is defined by subjective standards. One size does not fit all. Being a feminist is about more action than words. If women decide to express their sexuality like men, POWER to them. I personally love women who are in control is their game. I am not the kind that loves the “love-letter” mode of chivalry. My needs are very few and there is not much any man OR WOMAN can do for me right now. If I decide to BLOW a guy at the back of his car, my business. If it manages to surface on YT, FB, IG, WU, SC or TT. . . . YOUR BUSINESS. Bottom line, speak for yourself only! If you can find people to agree with you, fine. If not, please don’t cry for another woman’s right to behave or misbehave. Free world. 22 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:54pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
Apologies bukatyne for derailing your thread, someone had to be schooled on sense. 8 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Nobody: 11:59pm On Jun 19, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:I'm yet to see that person man or woman enough to do that to me. Me weh to throw around law suit dey hungry I'll cash out big time on his/her ass. My IQ low?lol.well like I said,you can always raise or meet me on an intellect inclined thread so we find out who has got more grey matter You are the one that needs sleep more na.do I do 9-5? Are you interested in the cat food or not?I am trying to make a decision here. 1 Like |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Nobody: 12:00am On Jun 20, 2019 |
KanwuliaExtra:apt!always smart and real 1 Like |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by KanwuliaExtra: 12:12am On Jun 20, 2019 |
Na who be “we”? Na who be “they”? Na who dey look for who to “trip”? See freak show! FEMININE MYSTIQUE = VIRGINITY? What is the mystique in feminism? You live your life to be validated by others(men or women) and you call yourself a feminist? There is no “we” in feminism. I don’t do labels or “gangster-philosophy”. Do your own, I do my own. Abeg no be “WE” matter! Shikena! Like lipsticked versions of the typical unruly kids at the back of the bus, their antics were soon in full-swing and their volume was set to maximum. Here's what we -- and every single other person in the theatre -- heard. Sooooo, na wetin cause wahala be dis? Interesting the narrator did not emphasize on the fact that the ladies were being loud. Women should not discuss the almighty DICKK in public o, but should only HIDE in secrecy/hypocrisy to discuss and share their experiences. If men discussed the female anatomy in such terms or worse, women would accept it as “boys will be boys talk”. Women have to learn to CHOP DICKK and pretend to be “coy” to “trip” men. The only problem here is that the ladies were in a movie theater. I don’t see anything strange in their behavior. Glad they left the theatre, so as not to disturb others. Awon me and “my husband” group of feminist-mystiquettes! These ladies are not married and have every right to demystify their own “feminism”! Kudos to them! 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by crackhaus: 12:40am On Jun 20, 2019 |
KanwuliaExtra: KanwuliaExtra: You missed the point of that article by a long shot, not least going by all you typed, but most from the fact that the writer in fact noted this, yet it eluded you: Some people blame feminism. I don't. I'm proud to be a feminist. 7 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by baby124: 1:08am On Jun 20, 2019 |
Interesting article. I think this cuts across for both the young men and women... it starts from the breakdown of marriages and relationships in the home, parents too busy to raise their kids right or have time for them, then the internet as a medium of expression and validation. I do agree that there is a serious breakdown in morals and value across the world and, across genders. The constant need for validation and see-me culture is atrocious. The. The peer pressure that comes with it, even more tragic. I like to think of myself as a feminist and I have always been. I am not a social media person and when I stroll through social media in ghost mode, I see even parents looking for validation on the internet, both male and female. You see mothers twerking, shaking breast, taking pictures daily with suggestive poses. It’s like they lack attention and love at home, very sad. I even feel drained Viewing these pictures and watching praise videos where they twerk suggestively and, are furiously all dressed up. Maybe it’s me, but that must take a lot of time and energy which I don’t have. It’s hilarious and mind boggling I must admit You see fathers posting Videos where they are dancing, puffing up muscles, showing off suspicious wealth that we all know they did not work for, and twerking with strange women or strippers. Lmaoooo. Then you see parents open social media pages for babies... even their teenagers are all on social media, exposed to predators and all sorts of vices. Some parents even encourage their kids to participate in these vices to gain instant gratification and to pepper their mates and the world. This is a worldwide phenomenon and confirms an absolute loss of values. For both men and women. Men have absolutely lost their charm and chivalry. It’s like all man for himself in the age of the internet. There is access to so many more women than before. Everyone seems to be desperate and in a hurry with many options. No one sees the need to try anymore and work on themselves or their relationships. There is always one desperado a click away willing to validate you if you twerk hard enough. Then there is the porn. My God, is there the porn? So vile and extremely disturbing the lengths porn reaches these days. Even little kids are exposed to porn and we see little kids even rape these days. Porn has definitely spiked up the level of sexual immorality around the world. Little kids are being mentally abused by watching porn both online and even in their physical spaces. Selfish and so called adventurous people even have sex in parks in full view of little kids to destroy their innocence. At the end of the day, it is the age we live in. The age of being moderate is long gone and we have lost it as a people. It’s crazy but it is what it is. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Nobody: 1:10am On Jun 20, 2019 |
zeb04: [img]https:///media/3-18-2018/Mgd9b8.gif[/img] 2 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by KanwuliaExtra: 1:16am On Jun 20, 2019 |
crackhaus: Some people blame or do not blame feminism for ? I just had a hard time relating any iota of feminism to what the writer was trying to share. Who are the “some people” blaming “feminism”? That is the danger of using one’s viewpoint to speak for others. It is her opinion ONLY. As a woman, I do not share or subscribe to any portion of the article, hence there should be a correction. She should have written from an “I” perspective, not a “WE WOMEN” one. If “some” or “dem say” peeps are complaining, where are “they”? “They” should speak for themselves. Why the “busy-body” woman nor get up from her chair go begin preach to the “akulas”? Dem for WOZE am DORTY, HOT SLAPS ke. Feminism is like religion. Practice YOUR OWN without PREACHING to others. Every woman has her own meaning of feminism. The ones that use MEN as their “pastors” to preach feminism are the very WORST kinds. I avoid them totally. But like I earlier stated, their choices. Free world. Feminism should not speak for ALL WOMEN. That is my point. This article is quite misleading. We are dealing with a public disturbance, not feminism. I do not care if the ladies chose to narrate how and why they were “wasted and over-sexed”. Not anyone’s gaddem buzz! They should have taken their “noise” to a sports bar or their home. . . . Far away from awon “me and my husband” PLCs. 8 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ibkayee(f): 1:19am On Jun 20, 2019 |
These women of the past that you’re romanticizing were forced to conduct themselves a certain way 14 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 5:12am On Jun 20, 2019 |
baby124: I think you are guilty of what sociologists call moral panic you assume a moral breakdown, not even decline whereas there is no such a thing you can't take some examples from social media of people who show off their bodies or wealth (something people have always been doing in different forms) and claim that people nowadays have no values and like the author you have not made any distinction between people of different social and educational backgrounds I was personally appalled by the language and crassness of these young ladies the author of the article saw with her husband but for every one of them there are young people who mind their language and consciously and eloquently articulate themselves, who have good manners there are also studies that show that young Westerners nowadays (unfortunately there is no such study I know from Africa) uphold traditional family values even more than their parents do/did and values which were used to write the human rights charter are to a great extent universally accepted, something that people some 100 years ago could not even dream of bottom line is: times have changed, so have some moral standards in the way that they have become stronger or have been replaced but never disappeared 5 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by baby124: 5:59am On Jun 20, 2019 |
desvi:Increase in traditional values? This is definitely your own observation, certainly not mine. Moral panic you say? Did anything I wrote above come across as a lie? We definitely do not have the same experience so, you are entitled to your opinion. while I strongly stand by my own opinion. Complete breakdown in moral values across the board. In fact, most don’t even know what values mean. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 6:16am On Jun 20, 2019 |
baby124: it's not about opinions really but ok sorry I made you feel defensive 2 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by baby124: 6:38am On Jun 20, 2019 |
desvi:It’s about opinions because I do not think your perspective is correct as it’s not my observation/experience and vice-versa. So there you go. You did not make me defensive, I was only responding to your comment and standing by what I wrote. You have no reason to be sorry in this case. 2 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 7:00am On Jun 20, 2019 |
baby124: there is a body of quantitative research on moral development and historical changes and it resists the narrative that there is a breakdown in moral values so it is not entirely about perception and opinion, well at least not from my side 1 Like |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by crackhaus: 7:13am On Jun 20, 2019 |
KanwuliaExtra:Kai.. But isn't that what the writer noted too? Some people blame feminism. I don't. 2 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by baby124: 7:16am On Jun 20, 2019 |
desvi:I would appreciate if you post that research. I am sure I can also find a research that suggests otherwise. This woman’s experience in the OP also speaks to a breakdown in morals generally. Would you go to a cinema and become a nuisance to everyone else? Sure your morals and upbringing should be better than that. Even though this was a random event. But it even gets worse in reality. Of course if this is researched with the subjects informed on the purpose of the research, behaviors may change. But observing human behavior of this day when they do not think they are being watched and, when they think their only audience are vacuous elements like themselves is a totally different ball game and experience. What I wrote up there is my silent observation because, personally I am not a partaker of trends and social media. I am one of those who just sits back and observes what goes on around me. What I wrote is my observation. You could see things through a different lens and that is quite alright. 2 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by crackhaus: 7:22am On Jun 20, 2019 |
ibkayee:Another person missing the point entirely. She already noted in her article that women of today are more liberated, essentially admitting that they were forced in the past.. This is what happens when your default reflex action is always one of getting defensive once you sense it's an attack even when it's not. 6 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 7:27am On Jun 20, 2019 |
baby124: if I post it, will you take the time to read it thoroughly? you can post research that suggests otherwise but please make sure it is serious and has not been funded by the Vatican we all see the world through a particular set of lenses yours are very fatalistic when you go to the playground with your children, do you not see parents teaching their children to say 'please' and 'thank you' and 'sorry'? do you not see parents teaching their children the value of consideration and compassion? do you not see politicians all around the world emphasizing the value of the family unit? do you not see people celebrating charity? do you not see organizations protecting human and even animal rights? don't most people agree that selfishness and greed are bad traits? don't most people condemn dishonesty? I really do not understand how anyone can claim that there is a breakdown in moral values because even without research good examples outweigh the bad ones, just that they do not get the attention they deserve 3 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by baby124: 7:30am On Jun 20, 2019 |
desvi:Right. It looks like you just want to keep going on in circles. I don’t have time for this. I told you to post your research, but you entered gear 2 going on and on. I have better things to do than to argue needlessly with someone online. When you are ready to post your research, you can mention me. Till then, you can stick to your opinion while I stick to mine. 4 Likes |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (22) (Reply)
Boy Who Ran Away From Home In Abakiliki To Aba For Survival Suffering (Photos) / Is It Compulsory To Wear Identical Outfits For Introduction? / Whenever He Quarrels With His Wife, She Brings Her 3 Brothers To Come Beat Him
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 96 |