onlinetomola:

I am dating one and I love her... Nothing is wrong with that.

ubunja:
if she's that type then she would have come to him without a child already having left it with grandma. The type can even hide the child.

But Single Mothers are fiercely protective about their children. And will even drop a man if they feel she's bad to their child.

Mastalo:
It is only weak, frustrated, poor old guys that goes after evening newspaper because the fresh younger girls are too beautiful for them and they will feel insecure around them claiming immaturity while those young succulent girls are more matured in mind than them.

Many of them will now think it's all about money to get the young girls but it's not.

They will do anything to please the young girls but they are not into them, do you know why; because you are not attractive to her.

They will now go and settled for the old tired Mamas. (Second hand)

Guys, dress Sharp, don't just wear trouser and shirt, dress SHARP!

Girls will be fighting to have you.

Liftedhands:
Reading all your comments about this topic. This is the only one I agree with you 100percent.

My childs welfare comes first no argument.

As a single mother "BY CHOICE" legally was married and walked out on my own accord and terms cos I don't won't no manwhore as husband. I pat myself everyday for taking that bold step to leave a serial casanova and I don't regret it one bit.



No single mother became a mother by mistake! No no! She thought it over and made the best and wisest decision to keep a life rather than abort it cos one boy feels he aints ready to take responsibility for his action.


Single mothers have it rough and tough raising kids all alone coupled with society with a mindset as yours.


It's shameful to see and regard them as unworthy of love! No woman who has gone thru the travails of childbirth whether as a wife or a single girl should be shamed for choosing to keep a life.


If you don't fancy them fine but don't discourage a brother who finds love and peace with one with your utterances and belief.

Note we all can't have same taste and choice in whom we love so don't crucify those who choose to love a single mother.

Every child born on this earth deserves the love and care of a father and mother be it step or biologically.


Live and let live

Shalom.

meobizy:
Single men should date single mothers? Divorcees and widowers don finish for market? Single mothers should make moves at single men and not feel bad for getting turned down. I know I'm way better than another man's reject.

cooooooks:
There's nothing wrong in being a single mother and there's nothing wrong in dating or marrying one.

However, don't expect them to be more mature or experienced or understanding. Treat them like as though they were single and not yet mothers.

Furthermore, you have to consider their kid(s). You should be ready to take care of them as though they were yours.

betterpikinn:

I thought you were making sense until I saw DRESS SHARP And shirt and trouser RUBBISH.
How old are you

rychard:


Very lame and childish remark.

I am older, I earn far more than her. I have my own house and comfortable enough to afford a good vacation 6-7 times a year, I have managed to become top 5 in a state sponsored modelling competition.

I have options, but I prefer to remain with someone I love and care about, when you grow older you'll understand. Anyways, what is wrong about single mothers or fathers, its life and its too short to worry about past stuff, last last, we go all die and leave options behind.

Grow up, Child

yazga:
You are still young, and do not understand life yet

ubunja:
play that game of heart leading the head and you'll lose.
You think women have a reputation for marrying men with money cause they chase happiness? You joking. Don't follow the heart. That thing is deceitful above all else. Love with your head. With sense. The head is above the heart for a reason.

Single Fathers are Okay because the man is the bread winner anyways.

Ever seen a single mother chase a broke man?

Or why do single mothers with money say they don't need a man they can raise their kids all on their own? CAUSE ITS ABOUT THE MONEY. always.

Wake up!!

bentwood85:

Upweek for what again? As in I will settle her weekly or monthly?
You are only responsible for your wife upkeep..

Mastalo:
It is only weak, frustrated, poor old guys that goes after evening newspaper because the fresh younger girls are too beautiful for them and they will feel insecure around them claiming immaturity while those young succulent girls are more matured in mind than them.

Many of them will now think it's all about money to get the young girls but it's not.

They will do anything to please the young girls but they are not into them, do you know why; because you are not attractive to her.

They will now go and settled for the old tired Mamas. (Second hand)

Guys, dress Sharp, don't just wear trouser and shirt, dress SHARP!

Girls will be fighting to have you.

ubunja:
the shaming doesn't stop with you does it?

hayzed1090:


As much as I don't see my self settling with one... I don't see any thing wrong in it especially when you are ready to love her regardless of her past. Furthermore , some single mother will be a better wife than even marrying a virgin

Mastalo:
It is only weak, frustrated, poor old guys that goes after evening newspaper because the fresh younger girls are too beautiful for them and they will feel insecure around them claiming immaturity while those young succulent girls are more matured in mind than them.

Many of them will now think it's all about money to get the young girls but it's not.

They will do anything to please the young girls but they are not into them, do you know why; because you are not attractive to her.

They will now go and settled for the old tired Mamas. (Second hand)

Guys, dress Sharp, don't just wear trouser and shirt, dress SHARP!

Girls will be fighting to have you.

Korllami007:


The father of the kid(s) can come back and claim his child(ren) and the kid(s) may not regard their mother's new husband as their father because they may stil love their father or they don't love their mother's new husband. The new husband will just be paying bills and school fees for nothing and the kid(s) may go back to their father in the future despite the fact the new husband has spent time and money on them.

[b]
The perfect example of a loser is man that marries a single mother. [/b]

solpat:
Most of them have learnt from past mistakes and are ready to be cool headed. I like them though especially the hard working ones not the lazy ones waiting for a man to suck dry

betterpikinn:

Lol
Don't be silly
I don't like single mothers and I can't even consider them when I even have fresh ones flocking around.

RyanD147:
Speaking from experience
Dating older women or single mothers has been the most interesting relationships I’ve ever had. They know what they want, and love genuinely.

You see all this our age mate dem, they’re still confused about what they want.

I am open to dating older women/single mothers.

ubunja:
you just age-shamed him.

"How old are you?"

Why would you even ask such a question??

deltateam:


Don't see it like that. Another man's reject is not the right word to use. Let's be mature in our response.

There are different reasons that can make a lady a single mum.

1. It could be that her boyfriend impregnated her and denied responsibility.

2. It could be that she was raped.

3. It could be that she's a widow

4. It could be that her husband was maltreating her and she decided to 'separate' from her husband. Legally she's stil married.One should be careful here.

5. It could be that she wanted a child urgently and so decided to get pregnant for a man. A certain Linda comes to mind.

6 It could be that she was inexperienced that time and was cajoled into having sex without condoms. A certain Genevieve comes to mind.

7 Lots more circumstances you can think of

eni4real:
Single Mothers are very perfect to date... They give you the best love at this stage. They know what men wants because of their previous experience, that may be deceptive tho

My Advice: Date them but don't marry them... Settle with a young ambitious girl instead!!!
Marriage is a long term union, not merely a flick.. Don't get carried away by how that single mother is giving you a 'peace of mind' now that you guys are dating!!!

Single Mothers should roll with single fathers... They fit each other in antics and Maturity!!!!
May love unite all Single mothers to different Single fathers and spare all the innocent guys who deserve a new family of their own!!! (Amen)!!!

ubunja:

Your mother who raised you is the troll.