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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by betterpikinn: 4:55am On Aug 17, 2019 |
onlinetomola:If the baby daddy is still alive, then it's a pity that you are dating a wasted cúnt. Why date a live leftover? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Liftedhands(f): 4:56am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja:Reading all your comments about this topic. This is the only one I agree with you 100percent. My childs welfare comes first no argument. As a single mother "BY CHOICE" legally was married and walked out on my own accord and terms cos I don't won't no manwhore as husband. I pat myself everyday for taking that bold step to leave a serial casanova and I don't regret it one bit. No single mother became a mother by mistake! No no! She thought it over and made the best and wisest decision to keep a life rather than abort it cos one boy feels he aints ready to take responsibility for his action. Single mothers have it rough and tough raising kids all alone coupled with society with a mindset as yours. It's shameful to see and regard them as unworthy of love! No woman who has gone thru the travails of childbirth whether as a wife or a single girl should be shamed for choosing to keep a life. If you don't fancy them fine but don't discourage a brother who finds love and peace with one with your utterances and belief. Note we all can't have same taste and choice in whom we love so don't crucify those who choose to love a single mother. Every child born on this earth deserves the love and care of a father and mother be it step or biologically. Live and let live Shalom. 11 Likes
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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by InvertedHammer: 4:57am On Aug 17, 2019 |
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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by betterpikinn: 5:00am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Mastalo:I thought you were making sense until I saw DRESS SHARP And shirt and trouser RUBBISH. How old are you |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 5:03am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Liftedhands:what man in his right mind will settle for being second or third in his woman's life? 6 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by deltateam: 5:07am On Aug 17, 2019 |
meobizy: Don't see it like that. Another man's reject is not the right word to use. Let's be mature in our response. There are different reasons that can make a lady a single mum. 1. It could be that her boyfriend impregnated her and denied responsibility. 2. It could be that she was raped. 3. It could be that she's a widow 4. It could be that her husband was maltreating her and she decided to 'separate' from her husband. Legally she's stil married.One should be careful here. 5. It could be that she wanted a child urgently and so decided to get pregnant for a man. A certain Linda comes to mind. 6 It could be that she was inexperienced that time and was cajoled into having sex without condoms. A certain Genevieve comes to mind. 7 Lots more circumstances you can think of 7 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by betterpikinn: 5:08am On Aug 17, 2019 |
cooooooks:Keeping fooling yourself Why date a wasted leftover? Single mothers (young and baby daddy alive) are mostly rude and arrogant wasted whorès How can I be taking care of another man's child that is alive, hail and hearty? GOD FORBID 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 5:10am On Aug 17, 2019 |
betterpikinn:the shaming doesn't stop with you does it? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by betterpikinn: 5:13am On Aug 17, 2019 |
rychard:You're just fooling yourself Only the losers settlement for less You'll be shamed later 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by deltateam: 5:15am On Aug 17, 2019 |
yazga: He made a valid point why trash him? You can't just marry a single mum without knowing the circumstance that made her single. What if she was under demonic covenant not to marry? First man died after marrying her, second went, third went and you are the the fourth! I know of a woman that had the reputation of getting pregnant for different men. Now that's also a single mum too cos she didn't marry any of them! 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Carlmax(m): 5:18am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja: Solid Point. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by deltateam: 5:19am On Aug 17, 2019 |
bentwood85: Then don't marry her if you are not going to take care of her children as well. In abroad if you want to marry her single mum, you propose to her through her children. If they accept you, then you can marry their mum. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Austineva(m): 5:19am On Aug 17, 2019 |
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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by solpat(m): 5:19am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Most of them have learnt from past mistakes and are ready to be cool headed. I like them though especially the hard working ones not the lazy ones waiting for a man to suck dry |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by betterpikinn: 5:24am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja:Lol Don't be silly I don't like single mothers and I can't even consider them when I even have fresh ones flocking around. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by deltateam: 5:28am On Aug 17, 2019 |
hayzed1090: She will be protective of her child/children and you can have issues with her based on that. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Lordwheez(m): 5:28am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Mastalo: Niqqa, calm down...... Lol... See as you jus take am personal. Anyways, I like as you take close the argument tho..... Lol |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by userplainly(m): 5:31am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Don’t let them fool u.. it’s worst than dating normal girl cos I met one online didn’t know tho until I went to visit cos she said she can’t visit, first thing was “I have a baby” I said ok.. then later when it seems we were connecting she said “sinach don’t mind him, he didn’t even buy u pampers” ... I swear that turned me off instantly.. I smile n told her I got things to do n I went home!.... I noh try that nonsense again! 7 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Jfyzee: 5:31am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Korllami007: Men who go the extra mile to do things beyond the ordinary, are always considered to be great. and not those who do the normal things which a sisi like you belong. Who are you to judge others in the first place..? Is it because the girl or woman in question is not your sister or daughter..? You think most of the suppose baby mamas are not wise to also abort their babies..? If not for randy men out there do you think some of these women want to be single with a child..? However, have you thought of women who may have lost their husbands to accident or illness while they are pregnant for their first or second child..? Don't these women deserve to be happy again if they should find another man..? If you're to be God and these women should pray to you for another man in their lives, won't you grant their prayers..? Or you gonna send animals (Gorillas and Donkeys) to them as husband. It is people like you with this shallow thinking and mentality that would have talked Joseph out from marrying Mary, the woman who gave birth to Jesus. You would have made him lose his blessings from God, but thank God they weren't in Africa. Kindly grow up and change that shallow mentality and pray non of your daughters or sisters becomes a victim of what you condemn. PEACE 6 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Owerri1stSon: 5:31am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Because no football match starts with 1:0 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by userplainly(m): 5:33am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Story!!! Women will always fall for wrong men .. there’s nothing like “learn from their past” single mothers will turn u to automatic ATM for a child that’s not urs solpat: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 5:35am On Aug 17, 2019 |
betterpikinn:you just age-shamed him. "How old are you?" Why would you even ask such a question?? |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by betterpikinn: 5:40am On Aug 17, 2019 |
RyanD147:Honestly, only a broke loser with low self-esteem will date a single mother especially the ones that the baby daddy is still alive and healthy 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Jfyzee: 5:42am On Aug 17, 2019 |
[quote author=Mastalo post=81277849]It is only weak, frustrated, poor old guys that goes after evening newspaper because the fresh younger girls are too beautiful for them and they will feel insecure around them claiming immaturity while those young succulent girls are more matured in mind than them. Many of them will now think it's all about money to get the young girls but it's not. They will do anything to please the young girls but they are not into them, do you know why; because you are not attractive to her. They will now go and settled for the old tired Mamas. (Second hand) Guys, dress Sharp, don't just wear trouser and shirt, dress SHARP! Girls will be fighting to have you.[/b] Men who go the extra mile to do things beyond the ordinary, are always considered to be great. and not those who do the normal things which a sisi like you belong. Who are you to judge others in the first place..? Is it because the girl or woman in question is not your sister or daughter..? You think most of the suppose baby mamas are not wise to also abort their babies..? If not for randy men out there do you think some of these women want to be single with a child..? However, have you thought of women who may have lost their husbands to accident or illness while they are pregnant for their first or second child..? Don't these women deserve to be happy again if they should find another man..? If you're to be God and these women should pray to you for another man in their lives, won't you grant their prayers..? Or you gonna send animals (Gorillas and Donkeys) to them as husband. It is people like you with this shallow thinking and mentality that would have talked Joseph out from marrying Mary, the woman who gave birth to Jesus. You would have made him lose his blessings from God, but thank God they weren't in Africa. Kindly grow up and change that shallow mentality and pray non of your daughters or sisters becomes a victim of what you condemn. [b]PEACE[b] |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Agugbadin: 5:43am On Aug 17, 2019 |
[quote author=madridguy post=81277395]Because men jealousy pass women own. Majority of single mothers codedly see their baby daddy. Make i stop for here now. Okafor's Law |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by raphy(m): 5:46am On Aug 17, 2019 |
different guys HV different taste in women. there are guys who love kids so much even if it's not there's. so some guys like single mum if they are well loaded to take Care of both. even me I like children tht is not mine . so all the single mum in the world should never givup on love.love comes to those who believe it.and that's the way it is. some parents can't have a say if who you want to spend the rest of ur life with.if you knew she has a good character n very hard working lady who is not lazy .she is good for keeps.. don't let someone past stop u from falling in love again... some girls too like single dad.. good morning all. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by betterpikinn: 5:46am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja:You'll know a child by their compose... What is the meaning of dress sharp not be just shirt and trouser? |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by meobizy(f): 5:47am On Aug 17, 2019 |
deltateam:Your answers justify my earlier comment. 1. Why will he deny if she’s not a reject? 2. That’s a sad case which I don’t judge. 3. That’s another sad case which I don’t judge but like I said a lot of divorcees and widowers are available to date. 4. If he hasn’t rejected her emotionally such a case won’t occur. I am still right. 5. Yes because all the men she knows have rejected her including the man who she stole his sperm. 6. ...and then he rejected her so what are we saying? |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by betterpikinn: 5:47am On Aug 17, 2019 |
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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by GboyegaD(m): 5:48am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja: Your reaction to the topic shows your life is full of misery. Go get a life and stop being a hater. The single mothers did not put your misery upon you. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by AreaFada2: 5:50am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Well, it's best to know oneself and do what one really wants to do genuinely. To date a single mother, one must be ready to play a "fatherly" role in the lives of her kids. If one is not ready or willing to play that role, no need dating her. It's bad for everyone. It can bring instability to the lives of the kids when they break up. And that cycle may repeat itself over and over again. It's a serious matter involving young lives and nobody should be "shamed" or " blackmailed" into dating single moms or dads if they are not ready to. The current economic situation is not encouraging either. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Agugbadin: 5:50am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Men are not scared but single mothers are like remnants food thrown into the refuse bin and you go pick them up to eat. Widows are exempt from from this category. 3 Likes |
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