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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 5:50am On Aug 17, 2019 |
GboyegaD:Then ignore my miserable self. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by bluefilm: 5:51am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Dating a single mother is like donating your head to carry another man's extremely heavy load. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by monerozi5590: 5:52am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Ubunja is right. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 5:52am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Who d hell are u? U speak the ways of the world. Only life experienced people will understand ur "naked philosophy" my only ish with u from ur write up so far is dat, u have downplayed the exceptional cases. U spoke the hard truth but doesn't apply (not all step daddies are losers, they could actually be gaining) in all cases. Example, the babymama cld have wealth of knowledge, uncommon qualities that u d step-daddy didn't find in slay queens. U would understand the importance of 2 heads are better than 1. Note dat the fact that a lady is a single mother doesn't mean she was dumped or doesn't have qualities. D baby daddy may actually have issues to deal with. Overall, if u chose "a no different babymama", u are therefore a multiple loser as u have labelled them above. It's a game, depends on what u getting from it. In the end, happiness is paramount to an average person in a relationship. It's like affording an iPhone only because it has a cracked screen. If that screen was OK you wouldn't afford it. And should that single mother lose her kid to death, guess what? She'll leave you. You don't even know that! [/quote] |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 5:53am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Jiang: So why are you now telling us? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 5:54am On Aug 17, 2019 |
betterpikinn:And why didn't you ask him this question? Instead you ask about his age. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by franchasng: 5:54am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Most single mothers come with too many baggage. How many rich single mothers will be willing to date or marry a broke or financially struggling single guy None! Single mothers be looking for financially successful guys to cater for them and their child. Its unfortunate that some men don't have sense; they allow ladies to use them all in the name of romantic love that does not exist. Most successful or rich single mothers will never agree to remarry and when they decide to date or marry, they always target only rich or successful guys, why Because to them its all about taking care of their child and themselves not even about romance they deceive guys into believing. Most single mothers will not even see you as a guy if you are not doing well financially, so they are not looking for love or romance but for a care taker and provider for them and their child. Since ladies want to coerce guys into dating and marrying single mothers, may we ask ladies why rich single mothers don't marry broke or average guys but will rather be waiting for the rich guys to date or marry Guys need to wise up, to ladies it is money, survival before romance but to sex and emotionally starved men, its always about sex and romance first which is why ladies use guys a lot to achieve their selfish life goals. Don't allow yourself to be used, don't be fooled, ladies only bring out what you guys mistake as love only when they know the money is there. So op @yazga why don't rich single mothers date and marry broke guys Can you tell us more please 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by OOLUSEG(m): 5:55am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja: Young, underage and poverty mentality. When you grow, have a better job, your orientation about life will change. But for now, you are still at learning phase of your life.. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 5:56am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Hipsofagoddess:give the guy the validation he's looking for 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Liftedhands(f): 5:56am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja:Every man will become second, third, fourth, fifth place! depending on the number of kids he father's in his woman's life once kids are involved. No wife places her husband above her children! NONE. The only time a man remains number one is during courtship and before children starts coming So don't deceive yourself, every man will eventually become second place after his children whether biological or adopted |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 5:57am On Aug 17, 2019 |
OOLUSEG:just because I don't want to raise another man's child? 12 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by betterpikinn: 5:58am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja:Go back to your mat 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 5:58am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja: Lol u can't escape that. Because u will always be second to even ur own kids in the eyes of ur wife. This is even more visible during a breakup. Largely so for women. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 5:59am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Liftedhands:not me. That's why Im only serious with virgins. I don't take well to being second or whatever. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 6:00am On Aug 17, 2019 |
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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 6:03am On Aug 17, 2019 |
correctguy0900:why do you think I dropped my Babymama?? I don't play that game. I can't be footing all the bills, wining bread, keeping everyone safe but coming last. No ways. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Liftedhands(f): 6:03am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja:Time will tell... |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by franchasng: 6:05am On Aug 17, 2019 |
OOLUSEG:stop castigating him for saying his mind. So the only reason you grew old and struggled to become financially successful in life is to enable you become mature and rich enough to date and marry a single mother Just listen to yourself. In as much as we should not discourage guys who feel comfortable dating and marrying single mothers, we must not make it seem like the norm because it is not. You can still adopt or take care of fatherless children even when married to a single girl without child, so it must not be through marrying a single mother. Before you marry any single mother ask questions about the father, what happened to the father, it is for your own safety and future; all road is not as straight as they appear to be on sight. And have you asked yourself why rich single mothers don't date or marry broke or average guys Have you also asked yourself if that single mother you are dating or married to would have noticed you if you were broke or struggling financially To them it's about a man to cater for them and their child but to men like you, its all about she is mature, she loves me more than the single girls, says who 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by femi4: 6:05am On Aug 17, 2019 |
yazga:she ll be too attached to her children Probably not wanting to have children again |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 6:06am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Liftedhands:Of course, that old trusted exit for people who're losing!!!. Up there with "you're still young" ... Next. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 6:09am On Aug 17, 2019 |
amuwo1980: All d beauties also with a brain? Beauty without brain is also a burden even bigger than single mum. Note that |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 6:09am On Aug 17, 2019 |
femi4:That's the other point. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 6:10am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja: I'd rather bring to his consciousness that he is seeking validation. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 6:13am On Aug 17, 2019 |
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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by dumahi(m): 6:14am On Aug 17, 2019 |
larryking540:Na dis one weak me pass. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 6:15am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja: Don't have children then. Because ur mum also chose u over ur dad. way it is. Learn.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by dumahi(m): 6:19am On Aug 17, 2019 |
fcdgrand:Ogah, if you no wan get fire outbreak, better no bring fuel come near open fire. Never you date person wey you no fit marry in case of eventuality. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Korllami007: 6:20am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Liftedhands: If I scold my children, my wife will never think I hate them. And my children won't disrespect me because someone that's not their father scold them. That's the difference. No one has answered this question. If single mothers are truly looking for love, why do single mothers do not marry struggling men or broke men even if their rich? We all know the answer tho because their looking for someone to take care of them and their childrenbut not because they truly love the new husbands. Let the new man stop taking care of their children then you will see their true color. 10 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 6:21am On Aug 17, 2019 |
correctguy0900:Because men have become losers. Do you know that if you put children first ahead of your wife(their mother) she'll complain? But when women do the same to us men we just accept it as "it's the way it is". That's not gonna fly with me. 11 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 6:23am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja: Good luck 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 6:24am On Aug 17, 2019 |
eni4real: U no well sha |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by vickydevoka(m): 6:25am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja:U jst made a point 2 Likes 1 Share |
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