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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 6:25am On Aug 17, 2019 |
correctguy0900:it's sad when a man needs luck to have what his ancestors got everyday 6 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Efewestern: 6:29am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja: The way you hate women, do you have any woman in your life? like mother, sister, GF? Bro tone down please, stop throwing jabs at ladies at any given opportunity, they are humans just like you and me, and they also deserve to be happy. Being pregnant doesn't mean one is a slut, shii happens in life. Once again, learn to respect WOMEN! 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 6:31am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Efewestern:don't mistake truth for hate 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by DWJOBScom(m): 6:33am On Aug 17, 2019 |
No one is but just scared of the drama that comes with them and the reluctance to let go of their baby daddies 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 6:34am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja: Bros try dig na. In this world some things just work differently. A lady rape u no problem, ur hand touch her u go jail. She slapped u first but u do same back, all hell go loose 4 ur head. Can u change all these imbalance? Reason i said good luck. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 6:37am On Aug 17, 2019 |
correctguy0900:that's why my heart is now closed. No pity for women cause government is now their husband father and boyfriend. Im only tender to virgins. Even then with limits. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by nisai: 6:39am On Aug 17, 2019 |
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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by sylve11: 6:39am On Aug 17, 2019 |
madridguy: you are right ooooooooooooo. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by frozen70(f): 6:40am On Aug 17, 2019 |
eni4real: Was the bachelor blind that he left single ladies and went for single mothers ❓ |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 6:42am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja: Guy d way u carry virgin for head like gala. Go join bh. Na dem be virgin fanatics. U na virgin self? U go bias well well sha |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 6:44am On Aug 17, 2019 |
correctguy0900:when has male virginity ever mattered? Which primitive deity even accepts male virgins as a sacrifice?? 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 6:44am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja:If I get you correctly, marrying a single father is cool but a single mother is wrong? For the money aspect, in cases where the wife is the bread winner or at least very financially bouyant enough to cater for her kid it's still wrong? Lemme know what you think |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Chukapage(m): 6:45am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Ugosample:oga that's an individual issue some babby daddies are responsible ,Not all men are irresponsible stop writing like there was a national meeting that said baby daddies should be irresponsible.The females that became pregnant were they forced? Was it rape? Was it no consensual? It's high time folks like you stop making excuses for dumb women why pushing all the blame on the malefolks. The ladies didn't they know they were not ready for marriage too? It take two to tango. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by nisai: 6:45am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja:
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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Fordzzy(m): 6:50am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Someone said it's because football match nor dey start with 1:0... 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by tunjilana: 6:51am On Aug 17, 2019 |
cooooooks:More like extra luggage...what is now the advantage of u can't treat them maturedly...A lot of men who go for old ladies or single mothers crave that maturity hence the reason they went there initially...why will a 30 year old single mother have sane expectation and entitlement mentality like a 23 year old single...If that is the case then let men just go for the single and fresh.... |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ubunja(m): 6:51am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Michellekabod2:Michelle it's a little better if the whole excercise won't cost you money. But the time and emotional costs still matter. I think I've made that point already somewhere. In SA we have a TV Show called KhumbuleKhaya (Remember Home, loose English translation). Its about uniting long lost family members. You should see how stupid and dumb step fathers become when at 18 step kids go looking for their biological fathers. It's sad 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by egbaguy2: 6:51am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Married to one.....she has been the best thing to av happened to me. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Chukapage(m): 6:52am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Fvckmoderators:oga marry am first before you begin talk like professor if "everyone" that commented their own "opinions" are "Jambites then you sef na PHD holder in Single mother and baby mama affairs. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Boss13: 6:56am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Liftedhands: You have spoken like a true experienced woman. Young men should read this comment thoroughly and digest it. Women want men to put them as first priority but women would always place the men in their lives below other priorities. Young men see how manipulative women are. This is actually the nature of women. Now why should a man who consider himself to be wise go ahead to elope with a single mother. You are going to be the least of her priorities and only needed for financial support. Being with a single mother is a dangerous affair. I have read some comments here and I'm surprised. Some are trying to discount the risk and suggesting not all single mothers are the same. How about completely avoiding the risk rather than telling sad tales in the future. What I know about women is they are smarter than what we think they are. They are manipulative and controlling. A woman would devise several techniques to manipulate a man. Only married men will understand what I'm saying here. When deciding your life, don't attempt it with trial and error, you have to mitigate obvious risk and go for situations with lesser risks. Single mothers are HIGH risks situations which every young man who is aspiring to go far in life should avoid. Start your family afresh and not lay eggs where there are already existing eggs. Leave that for FOOLS. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Chukapage(m): 6:58am On Aug 17, 2019 |
PoliteActivist:bro those men had their choices, they are not us we are not them.They are Americans in the American society were talking of Nigeria !Nigeria! .you and I know that our society is not yet matured enough for young men to be taking that kind of risk .with the level of manipulation, pretense and infidelity in the Nigerian society a single mother affair is Risky very risky the worst starts when the child na boy sef. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Chukapage(m): 7:04am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Bridget95:taa! Most? It's a lie from pit of hell! Only SOME FEW ONCE ARE VICTIMS. It's either they are so promiscious and finally got pregnant or they tried to use a rich guy as meal ticket by getting pregnant, some of them are single mothers because of their characters ,some are single mothers because they think they can manipulate or tie a man down with pregnancy,All am saying is Alot of single moms are no Victims but are product of the choices they made and life the lived 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Boss13: 7:05am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja: I have read some of your comments and I must admit you are saying the truth. Though harshly, but you are saying the truth. Some of these guys don't know what they would be getting themselves into. The children you laboured to pay bills for would always acknowledge their biological father. It's a waste of financial resources and bad investment. However, the response you would get is that not all step children would act likewise. But would you rather wait and waste 40 years of your life to find out or avoid it completely. A sensible man would avoid that situation. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Chukapage(m): 7:07am On Aug 17, 2019 |
molybdenum0012:oga you said "Yankee" not Nigeria we are talking Nigeria even as your single mother na Yankee you ain't still safe. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Joystark(f): 7:07am On Aug 17, 2019 |
johnkey: Okay... Handsome smart boy. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by zinaunreal(m): 7:07am On Aug 17, 2019 |
DonEd: Because the pikin papa don die abi?! Just listen to yourself |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by jeph19(m): 7:08am On Aug 17, 2019 |
What made her a single mom in the first place?? When there are lots of responsible single ladies...? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 7:08am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja:Ubunja, despite how many times I call you out I LIKE you. The loophole here is the patriachy you preach and practice. While both males and females are looking forward to creating equality between males and females,you are still dragging us back to achaic practices... Many men are feminist nowadays, many women now split the bills equally. Do you know now people are applauding men for slapping back females when they are slapped back?(I inclusive)... Recently,a young lady had sex with a minor,my female friends and I said she should go to jail for rape as if the tables were turned many will cry foul! Most of your miseducation fortunately talk about TRUTHS, already existing rules mostly existing in Africa. You don't want us to evolve past them. Rather you SELFISHLY look out for guys, all about how they can be Victors in the game of dating. I am female, and I warn ladies against using the term "broke" just on guys,thats me advocating for what is right.But in your entire life have you ever spoken against a negative existing tag on ladies alone?.but all you do is save the heads of your fellow dudes... You are a disgrace! While only men who have gone brutal on ladies after reading your miseducations will hail you, men who look at for the interest of both genders will not. Mjbolt, Martinez 39 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 7:08am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Because the single mums child(ren) will become the mans responsibility in addy |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by popcykaylah(m): 7:09am On Aug 17, 2019 |
I think boys are not men.. They aren't different from every other lady out there ..having a child isn't a disease or a crime .. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by sylve11: 7:09am On Aug 17, 2019 |
joepepsy: eyes go turn you las las. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by sylve11: 7:10am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja: 1 Like 1 Share |
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