ozonechrome:


I tried so hard not to reply you.

I don't know the type of single mums you've met. I need you to understand that not all single mums are broke or will even consider dating you with all your singleness.

You also need to understand you ain't a reward to anyone.

I understand you are young with your line of thoughts.
I'll just advise you that in life be very open-minded.

Joystark:


Okay... Handsome smart boy.

Michellekabod2:

Ubunja, despite how many times I call you out I LIKE you. The loophole here is the patriachy you preach and practice. While both males and females are looking forward to creating equality between males and females,you are still dragging us back to achaic practices...
Many men are feminist nowadays, many women now split the bills equally. Do you know now people are applauding men for slapping back females when they are slapped back?(I inclusive)...
Recently,a young lady had sex with a minor,my female friends and I said she should go to jail for rape as if the tables were turned many will cry foul!
Most of your miseducation fortunately talk about TRUTHS, already existing rules mostly existing in Africa. You don't want us to evolve past them.
Rather you SELFISHLY look out for guys, all about how they can be Victors in the game of dating. I am female, and I warn ladies against using the term "broke" just on guys,thats me advocating for what is right.But in your entire life have you ever spoken against a negative existing tag on ladies alone?.but all you do is save the heads of your fellow dudes...
You are a disgrace!
While only men who have gone brutal on ladies after reading your miseducations will hail you, men who look at for the interest of both genders will not.
Mjbolt, Martinez 39

jeph19:
What made her a single mom in the first place??
When there are lots of responsible single ladies...?

eallstar:

Wait a minute am not in support of him,
But does single mothers don't deserve to have husband in life again because of their past mistakes?
They are people's sister 4 crying out, ur sister or anybody can fall victim, so they don't deserve love in this entire world again because they are single mothers?
Is it not men like u dat turn them to single mothers in the first place?
Let me ask you a question ( no offence )
If ur sister or any female family of yours fell victim,
Does she not deserve love in life again?
She should be single forever?

MJBOLT:

michelle,i dont understand why you mentioned me

popcykaylah:
I think boys are not men.. They aren't different from every other lady out there ..having a child isn't a disease or a crime ..

Chukapage:
don't men have right of choice again ?

Joystark:
Because some of them do not have sense.

Michellekabod2:

There is a thin line between a single lady and a single mom- condom and abortion!
The single lady is not better off than the single mom morally if they both have sex....

Jfyzee:



Men who go the extra mile to do things beyond the ordinary, are always considered to be great. and not those who do the normal things which a sisi like you belong.



Who are you to judge others in the first place..? Is it because the girl or woman in question is not your sister or daughter..? You think most of the suppose baby mamas are not wise to also abort their babies..?

If not for randy men out there do you think some of these women want to be single with a child..? However, have you thought of women who may have lost their husbands to accident or illness while they are pregnant for their first or second child..? Don't these women deserve to be happy again if they should find another man..?

If you're to be God and these women should pray to you for another man in their lives, won't you grant their prayers..? Or you gonna send animals (Gorillas and Donkeys) to them as husband.

It is people like you with this shallow thinking and mentality that would have talked Joseph out from marrying Mary, the woman who gave birth to Jesus. You would have made him lose his blessings from God, but thank God they weren't in Africa.

Kindly grow up and change that shallow mentality and pray non of your daughters or sisters becomes a victim of what you condemn.


PEACE

Michellekabod2:

When ladies want to date only wealthy dudes,don't they have a choice as well? So why do guys frown at the idea of ladies looking at a man pocket not character when it is their choice?

Michellekabod2:

Ubunja, despite how many times I call you out I LIKE you. The loophole here is the patriachy you preach and practice. While both males and females are looking forward to creating equality between males and females,you are still dragging us back to achaic practices...
Many men are feminist nowadays, many women now split the bills equally. Do you know now people are applauding men for slapping back females when they are slapped back?(I inclusive)...
Recently,a young lady had sex with a minor,my female friends and I said she should go to jail for rape as if the tables were turned many will cry foul!
Most of your miseducation fortunately talk about TRUTHS, already existing rules mostly existing in Africa. You don't want us to evolve past them.
Rather you SELFISHLY look out for guys, all about how they can be Victors in the game of dating. I am female, and I warn ladies against using the term "broke" just on guys,thats me advocating for what is right.But in your entire life have you ever spoken against a negative existing tag on ladies alone?.but all you do is save the heads of your fellow dudes...
You are a disgrace!
While only men who have gone brutal on ladies after reading your miseducations will hail you, men who look at for the interest of both genders will not.
Mjbolt, Martinez 39

eni4real:
Single Mothers are very perfect to date... They give you the best love at this stage. They know what men wants because of their previous experience, that may be deceptive tho

My Advice: Date them but don't marry them... Settle with a young ambitious girl instead!!!
Marriage is a long term union, not merely a flick.. Don't get carried away by how that single mother is giving you a 'peace of mind' now that you guys are dating!!!

Single Mothers should roll with single fathers... They fit each other in antics and Maturity!!!!
May love unite all Single mothers to different Single fathers and spare all the innocent guys who deserve a new family of their own!!! (Amen)!!!

joyfullyjoyous:
Love conquers all including status.

Boss13:


I have read some of your comments and I must admit you are saying the truth. Though harshly, but you are saying the truth. Some of these guys don't know what they would be getting themselves into. The children you laboured to pay bills for would always acknowledge their biological father. It's a waste of financial resources and bad investment. However, the response you would get is that not all step children would act likewise. But would you rather wait and waste 40 years of your life to find out or avoid it completely. A sensible man would avoid that situation.

Boss13:


Not at all. However, motherhood have a way of changing the priorities of a woman. A mother is more concerned about her children than seeking out love or sex. On the other hand, a man is in a relationship for such purpose. Clearly, you can see that the priorities of a single mother is quite different from that of a single man without kids. The same is applicable to married men with families. Once the children comes, men become second fiddle. Tolerance here is key and because the kids are your biological children, you partake with the responsibility of raising them. However, why should a single young man exhaust his energy on issues or responsibilities that are not his

Chukapage:
so men who now do "abnormal" stuffs like being with a single mother are *Great men* which kind of cheap black mail and manipulation is this?

ubunja:


Sex? Single girl gives it better cause that punay is tighter and sweeter cause no big baby head went through it

ubunja:
i hear you. It's only natural I want men to win cause I'm a man. Plus men have been duped for so long they deserve a rest. And a little victory.

I have no respect for a woman who splits a bill 50/50 with a man. I detest that BS. Either the man covers everything or the woman does. That's how relationships can last. One must dominate. Equality in relationships leads nowhere but to divorce.

As funny as it may sound, after the virgin, the best woman to marry is a Gold Digger. Gold Diggers are the most feminine, most submissive women you'll find. Cause they know their place. And play their role well: eat money, open legs and shut up.

Michellekabod2:

Am glad you admitted you look out for males. So why do you detest feminist that look out for females?

Michellekabod2:

Because you second ubunja view on this, wanted you to read my take on this matter . If you are not happy with this,Its fine,I will never mention you again

ubunja:
in which world do feminists have the interests of females at heart??

Michellekabod2:

When I talk of feminist,I don't mean the NL wannabe feminists that just rant when they are clueless of what feminism is

Michellekabod2:

This is so far the only sensible post I have read!
I am of the view that if the woman is financially stable to handle the kid alone there is no problem. To me it's a plus,a woman who didn't follow the crowd to commit should be applauded for being strong! Many wombs are damaged for that, men marry ladies without wombs nowadays....
A single mom will not be involved in runs or chasing dudes as she will be bothered on catering for her kid. She becomes mature and responsible .

darlokereke:



YOU ARE VERY WRONG IN ALL
I married a single mum. It's been 7years of our marriage ans she got 3 kids for me. It's been a journey of God faithfulness. All gender are equal. You don't judge their future except God.

joyfullyjoyous:
Love conquers all including status.

ubecharles:
. Hello Joy girl. You look very pretty