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| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by nonstan(m): 11:23am On Sep 10, 2019 |
I feel you bro, you will come out stronger, make sure you learn an IT skill on your own online, you can learn coding too and you will get a job with good pay in Lagos, Trust me. Last thing you need right now is a girl friend that will pressure you. Francisayo: |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Adaahjacob(m): 11:24am On Sep 10, 2019 |
izzou:May God bless u bro, we can only get few of ur type with kind advise and words or encouragements like this , ur comment really touched me.. Stay blessed bro. |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Truckpusher(m): 11:25am On Sep 10, 2019 |
Francisayo:If I tell you what is keeping you where you are right now you won't believe it. |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by brightgreat(m): 11:25am On Sep 10, 2019 |
At this point you can even think of a GF. My brother just know that you are still doing fine cos original poor man no de get erection |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by ElGood: 11:26am On Sep 10, 2019 |
U can start farming in that village and also start bring cheap agric produce from that village to your city to sell at profit, u can also have cheap space to start a fish farm there and also teach the villagers fish farming at a very affordable fee. Ask yoursef is it not the city you left to pick the teaching job in the village. So you problem is not the city and the village,your problem is lack of ideas to engage your sef. |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Favour295(m): 11:26am On Sep 10, 2019 |
brother locate Jesus,,even in your little salary hold on to him take that 25k job and secondly hold on to Jesus,, seek him ,align your ways with him,,,,,develop the power of the secret place,,,engage the holyghost,you cannot use human mentality to handle the things of the spirit, the devil is an ancient being ,he knew how he tackled your father and brought him down ,and he is likely to use same method against you,that's why you need to subscribe to the holyghost, you have delayed in your destiny because you have not trusted in the holyghost |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Niyinficient(m): 11:27am On Sep 10, 2019 |
Francisayo:It’s beginning of great thingsfor you if u are diligent and self believing. 25k in a local village? Lucky u. I started with 30k here in Lagos from mainland to island, waking 4am and returning home till abt midnight. I never stop believing and I took my fate in good faith. Today, to God be the glory. In that same village, opportunities exist, just have an eye for success and believe in God. Success is in view for you. If you want it tho |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by OBTMOS(m): 11:28am On Sep 10, 2019 |
At this point... you don't have to think of a girlfriend, Settle yourself first. This is what have been working for me since I finished service. So the money I get is enough and I can save. Any girl wey come my way I chop |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by jboycrb(m): 11:29am On Sep 10, 2019 |
From your story, it seems your gf is giving you some body hitting. Don't let her push you because in the end she leave you for next guy. Manage what you have for now and keep pushing. You will get there one day. Are u in Lagos and what did you study in sch? |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by soleexx(m): 11:29am On Sep 10, 2019 |
Francisayo:You Wana hear the truth... Nigeria is full of shhit and it's making the youth as useless as nothing... brroo the only advice I can give to you is to move closer to God... if you are a Christian or Muslim...Submit ur life to God and start praying and fasting.... God will be with u |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by DJInfluence: 11:29am On Sep 10, 2019 |
Weeb:Why do Nigerians like advising and admonishing someone at the same time. Your advise is a sound one, but there are ways to say the same thing and get a better effect. i have been opportune to have see Oyinbos giving advise, they never make the recipient feel bad when doing this. Just saying |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Jaspero94(m): 11:29am On Sep 10, 2019 |
Bro just hang in there, I lived in my dad's house until I was 30 years old. I was sent on errands like a house boy because I had nothing to contribute but I was grateful at least i had a roof over my head. Now I live in the UK I earn about 2 million naira equivalent in a month. Just keep on trusting in God and draw a picture of yourself and where you want to be and keep it in your pocket and look at it once in a while trust me things will change. I feel your pain I've been there. God bless |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Bbbwings: 11:29am On Sep 10, 2019 |
emmaodet:I know one kid like that. |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by AkupeMBANO(f): 11:31am On Sep 10, 2019 |
Bro. don't go with all the comments here. the way you sound your girlfriend isn't the major problem here. and don't break up with her. don't mind these idiots carrying your babe's matter on their head. Simply keep your head straight. do the current job, seek out something better. make contacts with friends, school mates, facebook friends. just seek something better, in a short while all will be okay. meanwhile the most difficult times of any man is between the ages of 24-30years. you are just passing through the Regular phase. don't panic. pray also. you will be okay bro. cheers!!! |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by renewable1(m): 11:31am On Sep 10, 2019 |
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| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by pocohantas(f): 11:32am On Sep 10, 2019 |
Jayslicky:Well said too. I didn't understand the part he said "I am not taking care of her like I should..." Wetin be that nonsense. But then, it is possible the girl isn't even asking or putting negative pressure on him. It is just him disturbing himself. The male ego is a bad thing. |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Warripikin08(m): 11:32am On Sep 10, 2019 |
Martinez39:Oga Martinez39 na this kind of comment na fit this and of topic. 1 cold bottle of gold Berg for you. |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by BlueAir: 11:32am On Sep 10, 2019 |
Nooneonline:I stand by this except the ending criticism. This advice is best |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Broadenyourhori: 11:33am On Sep 10, 2019 |
Francisayo:Message me privately |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Sheunzy95(m): 11:33am On Sep 10, 2019 |
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| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Toyosimuyiwa: 11:35am On Sep 10, 2019 |
Hello dear, I can imagine how you're feeling, but then..... Okay, i would suggest you still continue with that your teaching job, then you hone your skills What's your field of study? it can't be that bad that in Lagos here, you wouldn't get something doing The skill that aces now is a digital skill, network, meet people, whatsapp groups and all You can forward me your number, so i can link you with some Job/Opportunities groups. |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Wande22(m): 11:35am On Sep 10, 2019 |
Bro abeg u dey drink BABA DUDU aka UDEME aka ODEKU ![]() Help me manage am WisdomHunter:If what I knew now was what I had known since 2009/2010........I for don blow seriously
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| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Wande22(m): 11:36am On Sep 10, 2019 |
Warripikin08:or this
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| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by NLorubebe(m): 11:36am On Sep 10, 2019 |
Francisayo:bro! If I can get a job of 20k right now which will leave me with at least 15k at the month end after transport, I'll take it. You start little from somewhere and continue searching for better opportunities on the job, continue to acquire skills. Bad as e bad, there are millions of people you're are better and millions that are better than you. Run your own race and pray for grace and God's direction bro |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by richPHAROAH: 11:36am On Sep 10, 2019 |
instead of this one to think of how to get money he dey scream girlfriend up and dan. this idiot dosnt have issue. he even has a jo that gives him 25k a month and he is complainging of how village the place is instead of to see how to get lemonade from lemon. i think he deserves a military slap to reset his brain. i have taught in an isolated chool and earned 15k monthly under UBE. dude chop this slap
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| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by obembet(f): 11:37am On Sep 10, 2019 |
Francisayo:How will u feel if I tell u that u are lazy? I believe this shows that u are Yoruba or u grew up in Yoruba land. Cos many Yoruba train thier children how to be self independent Let me start by asking u how much u save from youth service abi u squandered all. When know ur background and u know that its only God be your backup. See let me tell u the truth, either the 18k salary is small or not.. Accept it and start ur life. U won't limit yourself on the job. U have smart phone.. As u are working u will be searching for better offer. If am ur girlfriend, I for don leave u for long. Pls don't wait for miracle job..start doing something. |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Kenneth10110(m): 11:37am On Sep 10, 2019 |
My big bros learn to start small. In no time when you've saved enough from the job you can start a small business or you should have built a good account balance. Learn to pray and don't believe anyone is doing you coz everything is from the mindset. *Surely there is no enchantment against me* *Numbers *23:19* Don't believe someone is enchanting against you. Whatever you believe in will come. I pray and i decree things will work in Favour of you. Amen |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by bayulll011(m): 11:40am On Sep 10, 2019 |
Martinez39:you are a wicked human being. but i agree with all what you've mentioned there,how many elections have we had in this country ?? nothing changes instead its keep getting worse,i for example dont rate how our political leaders rule this country,they are so insensitive,they don't care,they have dual citizenships all their kids are in europe and canada,i won't deceive you we are on a long thing because as things goes in this country.things are not getting better and it wont get better until will relegate them,i would have said purge them but that will be in human also. @op that's the situations average Nigeria graduate go through after graduations. be calm,take it easy,how to make end meets and be responsible for yourself is your topmost priority now,at las las you will be fine. |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by OILOFGLADNESS: 11:40am On Sep 10, 2019 |
Francisayo:PATIENCE AND FOCUS ALOT OF PERSON ARE USING THAT 25K TO CARTER FOR THEIR FAMILY I DONT KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING WITH A GF WHEN YOU ARE STILL DEPENDENT.................(IT GIVES ME CONCERN WHEN YOUNG MEN TALK ABOUT GF) YOU CAN HAVE CLOSE FRIENDS THAT INSPIRE YOU BOTH MALE AND FEMALE LET ME SHOCK YOU! I GRADUATED WITH 2ND CLASS UPPER IN ENGINEERING, THE BEST GRADUATE IN MY DEPT. 4 POINTER! AFTER MY NYSC I WAKA, SPENT LL MY SAVINGS ON INTERNET LOOKING FOR JOB, I WAS IN LAGOS, LEAVING WITH MY ELDER BROTHER, THEN I GOT A TEACHING JOB, ( AND THE HIGHEST PAID TEACHER 18K!!!!! COS I TEACH JS1 TO SS3 MTHEMATICS THEN SS1 TO SS3 BIOLOGY, CHEMISTRY AND PHYSICS. ) I DO IT WITH ALL MY HEART WHILE USING MY STIPEND TO SEARCH FOR JOB , I WAS IN SAME AGE BRACKET WITH YOU, THOUGH YOUNGER, NO AMOUNT OF APTITUDE TEST DIDNT I WROTE THEN GOD DID IT!!!!!!!!!!! I WAS CALLED FOR AN APTITUDE TEST IN CALABAR, I HAVE NEVER BEEN TO CALABAR IN MY LIFE, AGAINST ALL DISCOURAGEMENT, I TOOK THE RISK, AND ALAS, THE APTITUDE TEST WS DIFFERENT FROM THE USUAL, PURE WAEC LIKE QUESTION ( MATHS, ENGLISH, BI0LOGY, ECONOMICS, SIMPLE APTITUDE, CHEMISTRY AND PHYSICS,) HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM IT WAS EPIC! AND A GIVE AWAY FOR ME COS I AM A TEACHER OF THOSE SUBJECTS EXCEPT ENGLISH AND ECONOMICS, AMONG THE THOUSANDS OF PERSON THAT CAME ONLY ABOUT 20 PERSON WAS SELECTED FOR INTERVIEW!!! AND I WAS AMONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! UPTO 3 STAGES OF INTERVIEW AND AT THE END OF ALL THE RIGOROUS SHIT 8 PERSONS WAS SELECTED, AND WE WERE OFFERED JUST 50K!!! TO BE TAXED AND 1 YEAR PROBATION AND TRAINING...... TO CUT THE LONG STORY SHORT TODAY I AM A MANAGER IN SAME COMPANY , WITH YEARLY CAR ALLOWANCE... I DECIDED TO SHARE MY STORY COS ALOT OF YOUNG GRADUATES ARE TOO IMPATIENCE AND LACK FOCUS AND MISPLACES PRIORITY. NOTE: I AM AN ORPHAN SINCE 3YRS OF AGE!!!!, DONT ASK ME HOW I MANAGE TO SURVIVE.. GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!! |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Kenneth10110(m): 11:40am On Sep 10, 2019 |
emmaodet:The thing is not everyone will use their certificate to achieve the worst thing is sticking to one plan. If Education no work then starting a small scale business before it rises must work. All one needs is grace of God. |
| Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by Nnamebuka: 11:40am On Sep 10, 2019 |
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