Kapeter:
be decieving yourself there. Using your insatiable ex to judge the rest of the world. Nonsense and your Ex.

Stay there naa, you see something for your Face you still dey act blind.

I use to reason like you , until it gets to me.
The bitter truth is, girls don't like nice guys even when they claim they are the best.

All girls, whether holy holy type or Jaye Jaye type.
I'm not talking about being a bad boy ,but there are some certain bad boy character that attract girls, when you get to know it,you will understand.

Go and ask Adele

your under a serious evil influence. go to mfm for a thorough deliverance.your marriage is under serious attack.

Funmmyastic:
There is nothing wrong with you,just tell him pointblank you're no longer interested,simple as that.

Heartbreaker

Google and research Borderline Personality Disorder.

Your case is more of spiritual than physical, you may need to go for deliverance, maybe you have a spirit husband repelling men away from you.
N lasting pray b4 u go in2 relationship, let God himself choose for u. My words may look like nonsense to you, think abt it deeply

Ellatee256:
Hi everyone,
I'm 23 yrs and currently running my HND program.
I have a bf and we have been dating for almost a year.

We do almost everything together and we see each other every single day...
But now am irritated by him.

He comes to my hostel from his office everyday but now seeing him irritates me the more.
I just want a break but I don't want to hurt him.
This isn't the first time its happening to me,
I've had two boyfriends before I met my new bf and same thing happened with them.

Its just like I meet a guy I like..,we love each other and I get excited and then few months later I get irritated by them....

I told my elder sis about it and she dragged me to church saying I have spiritual problems but that's not the issue....

Sometimes I just want my time alone but my bf doesn't seem to understand that.
Have tried to ignore him and all but he doesn't get the message am passing........
He wants me to meet his mum but have been giving him excuses....

I don't know why I feel like this with only the guys I date cuz I don't feel that way with my friends and family in fact I want to be with them everyday but its different in my relationships...
I want to end things with my boyfriend without hurting him cuz I can't keep acting and I can't keep wasting his time.

I think I have a problem and I don't know what to do.
I don't want this to affect me when I get married cuz there won't be a break in marriage...
Pls kindly advice
Thanks

delete him from your life, I advice you to come and experience me..

Reading through your write up I saw a problem which could have led to your current situation. His place of work and your school are they in the same state or location? If yes then it's means that you and him need to have a serious talk concerning his visitation to your hostel. What I mean is that rather than always come to your hostel everyday, he should go home straight from his place of work. At least in 2 months, he can visit you like 3 times just to see how you are fairing or doing. You on your own can visit him sometimes even as a surprise. The fact that you and him are seeing everyday makes your relationship with him less interesting.

Ellatee256:
Hi everyone,
I'm 23 yrs and currently running my HND program.
I have a bf and we have been dating for almost a year.

We do almost everything together and we see each other every single day...
But now am irritated by him.

He comes to my hostel from his office everyday but now seeing him irritates me the more.
I just want a break but I don't want to hurt him.
This isn't the first time its happening to me,
I've had two boyfriends before I met my new bf and same thing happened with them.

Its just like I meet a guy I like..,we love each other and I get excited and then few months later I get irritated by them....

I told my elder sis about it and she dragged me to church saying I have spiritual problems but that's not the issue....

Sometimes I just want my time alone but my bf doesn't seem to understand that.
Have tried to ignore him and all but he doesn't get the message am passing........
He wants me to meet his mum but have been giving him excuses....

I don't know why I feel like this with only the guys I date cuz I don't feel that way with my friends and family in fact I want to be with them everyday but its different in my relationships...
I want to end things with my boyfriend without hurting him cuz I can't keep acting and I can't keep wasting his time.

I think I have a problem and I don't know what to do.
I don't want this to affect me when I get married cuz there won't be a break in marriage...
Pls kindly advice
Thanks

There is nothing wrong with you. Are you from a broke home, were you raised by a single mother?

You are not meant to be loved or cared for. The best therapy for girls like you are guys that keep their you mystery and suspense, the kind that force you to ask "does he love me or he is playing games"?

Guys who come in contact with you should keep their distance, especially after forking.

You will never appreciate a nice guy cos you don't deserve one in the first place, neither are you programmed to love such.

Your age is another problem. Girls within that age bracket in Nigeria, majority of them don't yet know what they want relationship - wise

Mood swings! Its common to Ladies. everything he does now irritates you. Could cause your future if you don't address it quickly. Possible solution is to meet marriage councellors and you yourself need to pray.

careersome:
Heartbreaker

Next!

SirDelight:
You could be having a problem

Perhaps, there's trace of lesbianism in you.

How do you relate with ladies?

Loool "trace of lesbianism" it's so funny....

Funmmyastic:
There is nothing wrong with you,just tell him pointblank you're no longer interested,simple as that.

But it seems you don't get her story, She said that the irritation, mood swing keep reoccurring each time she catch new boyfriend. It has happened to her past relationships. So, something is wrong somewhere. What's d assurance dat after discarding this one & she get another, that thing wiil not occur again.

Larryfest:
When you start attending Shiloh 2039 in search of a husband then you will be ok..

This shiloh thing is becoming overused. Besides, is it only single women you see at Shiloh when you attend?

Ellatee256:
Hi everyone,
I'm 23 yrs and currently running my HND program.
I have a bf and we have been dating for almost a year.

We do almost everything together and we see each other every single day...
But now am irritated by him.

He comes to my hostel from his office everyday but now seeing him irritates me the more.
I just want a break but I don't want to hurt him.
This isn't the first time its happening to me,
I've had two boyfriends before I met my new bf and same thing happened with them.

Its just like I meet a guy I like..,we love each other and I get excited and then few months later I get irritated by them....

I told my elder sis about it and she dragged me to church saying I have spiritual problems but that's not the issue....

Sometimes I just want my time alone but my bf doesn't seem to understand that.
Have tried to ignore him and all but he doesn't get the message am passing........
He wants me to meet his mum but have been giving him excuses....

I don't know why I feel like this with only the guys I date cuz I don't feel that way with my friends and family in fact I want to be with them everyday but its different in my relationships...
I want to end things with my boyfriend without hurting him cuz I can't keep acting and I can't keep wasting his time.

I think I have a problem and I don't know what to do.
I don't want this to affect me when I get married cuz there won't be a break in marriage...
Pls kindly advice
Thanks

what is happening to you is called I called the overfeeding effect. it happened because you have consume his presence enough, if I were him I will see you less then you will want more of him.

Ellatee256:
Hi everyone,
I'm 23 yrs and currently running my HND program.
I have a bf and we have been dating for almost a year.

We do almost everything together and we see each other every single day...
But now am irritated by him.

He comes to my hostel from his office everyday but now seeing him irritates me the more.
I just want a break but I don't want to hurt him.
This isn't the first time its happening to me,
I've had two boyfriends before I met my new bf and same thing happened with them.

Its just like I meet a guy I like..,we love each other and I get excited and then few months later I get irritated by them....

I told my elder sis about it and she dragged me to church saying I have spiritual problems but that's not the issue....

Sometimes I just want my time alone but my bf doesn't seem to understand that.
Have tried to ignore him and all but he doesn't get the message am passing........
He wants me to meet his mum but have been giving him excuses....

I don't know why I feel like this with only the guys I date cuz I don't feel that way with my friends and family in fact I want to be with them everyday but its different in my relationships...
I want to end things with my boyfriend without hurting him cuz I can't keep acting and I can't keep wasting his time.

I think I have a problem and I don't know what to do.
I don't want this to affect me when I get married cuz there won't be a break in marriage...
Pls kindly advice
Thanks

it i simple you are a free minded person just like me. you like the person but you don't want the person to be clingy
you prefer the solace of being alone because you are an introvert. you know how to be alone, you love being alone
because it started a long time ago. were you in a boarding school? i understand how you feel

Ellatee256:
Hi everyone,
I'm 23 yrs and currently running my HND program.
I have a bf and we have been dating for almost a year.

We do almost everything together and we see each other every single day...
But now am irritated by him.

He comes to my hostel from his office everyday but now seeing him irritates me the more.
I just want a break but I don't want to hurt him.
This isn't the first time its happening to me,
I've had two boyfriends before I met my new bf and same thing happened with them.

Its just like I meet a guy I like..,we love each other and I get excited and then few months later I get irritated by them....

I told my elder sis about it and she dragged me to church saying I have spiritual problems but that's not the issue....

Sometimes I just want my time alone but my bf doesn't seem to understand that.
Have tried to ignore him and all but he doesn't get the message am passing........
He wants me to meet his mum but have been giving him excuses....

I don't know why I feel like this with only the guys I date cuz I don't feel that way with my friends and family in fact I want to be with them everyday but its different in my relationships...
I want to end things with my boyfriend without hurting him cuz I can't keep acting and I can't keep wasting his time.

I think I have a problem and I don't know what to do.
I don't want this to affect me when I get married cuz there won't be a break in marriage...
Pls kindly advice
Thanks

just look at what you wrote... You have a problem yet you want to deny it

olosho

generationz:



I understand where you are coming from.

My mum always says " Too much familiarity breeds contempt.''

it's not for your mum, the expression has been since 1386

Na youthful exorberance dey do you...las las you go wake up when you start to irratate them too..I give you 2years from now.....I wonder how some mature guys dey even date girls below 23years...its only when you date one you hear things like this.....

I hope you know that scarcity( as in being scarce in a relationship ) is healthy. Its quite obvious you people see each other too often and there is no spark...

Ellatee256:
Hi everyone,
I'm 23 yrs and currently running my HND program.
I have a bf and we have been dating for almost a year.

We do almost everything together and we see each other every single day...
But now am irritated by him.

He comes to my hostel from his office everyday but now seeing him irritates me the more.
I just want a break but I don't want to hurt him.
This isn't the first time its happening to me,
I've had two boyfriends before I met my new bf and same thing happened with them.

Its just like I meet a guy I like..,we love each other and I get excited and then few months later I get irritated by them....

I told my elder sis about it and she dragged me to church saying I have spiritual problems but that's not the issue....

Sometimes I just want my time alone but my bf doesn't seem to understand that.
Have tried to ignore him and all but he doesn't get the message am passing........
He wants me to meet his mum but have been giving him excuses....

I don't know why I feel like this with only the guys I date cuz I don't feel that way with my friends and family in fact I want to be with them everyday but its different in my relationships...
I want to end things with my boyfriend without hurting him cuz I can't keep acting and I can't keep wasting his time.

I think I have a problem and I don't know what to do.
I don't want this to affect me when I get married cuz there won't be a break in marriage...
Pls kindly advice
Thanks

The kind of guy you need is the one that is not clingy... Or maybe you need to try long distance relationship... Or you need to stay away from relationship(s) for now and discover yourself, what you would like your relationship to be like and all that jazz...

Lamanii22:



I think she's still in love with him... Maybe they only need a break or some space so they can miss each other ... She can as well speak to him about it...

Well, it's true they should avoid seeing each other everyday but I won't advice that anymore.

She should learn to see him everyday because if she marries him she will be seeing her husband everyday and night except they are the type that will be doing business away from home without seeing for months, years.

They should learn to have fun instead.

ImaIma1:


This shiloh thing is becoming overused. Besides, is it only single women you see at Shiloh when you attend?

go and check the ratio of male to female.. Then you will understand

Bynz:



It's because you are beautiful and young... U have this demdeyrushMe syndromes. But remember you can't be young forever.

you said it all bro

when she hits 33, she will become clingy and start complaining about guys losing interest in her

let the older ladies tell her o

Timileyin1234:
Nothing wrong with u. There are times u need privacy.
But U are dating and u people are seeing each other everyday, u will get tired na
Even Samsung phone that get mad design we get tired of it

So when she marry nko? Na so she go dey dump them dey go

ArticleBeast:

So when she marry nko? Na so she go dey dump them dey go

leave dem....na small pikin still dey do her...them still dey rushher that's why...she go still wake up...I don see people wey worst pass her before...

Lamanii22:



Loool "trace of lesbianism" it's so funny....

Oturugbeke...hope somebody is not making use of her fingers

it's a funny TRUTH. This is how people allow little attitudinal problem ruin their future. It's a mindset and a way of life which she must learn to manage

Larryfest:
When you start attending Shiloh 2039 in search of a husband then you will be ok..

mimicious:
Give me his number let me talk to him on your behalf

Lol

Wehdone ma

udemzyudex:
Important of space , this is one thing most guys don't understand.

Girls play hard to get why can't you play hard to get too

Don't rush to pick her calls,allow it to ring the second time or third time before picking,girls do this a lot too.

Give room to miss each other,see each other maybe 3 - times in a week if you stay close, don't be too clingy or needy, don't call often ,haba get a life naa.

I learnt the hard way,of course she told me and I was happy she did.

Girls don't like nice guys even when they claim they do.

oil dey your head, Hollywood and Bollywood scripted love is not applicable in real life. Girl want a man with value, by value you must not neccesarily own the world but rather create an impression of ' I can do without you' Stop being needy and clingy, ladies love guys with such qualities but don't expect them to tell you, its become scripted and uninteresting, they want you to figure it out yourself, some ladies are not wicked as portrayed its just that most men know nothing about female psychology and how they thinks, I once lost a gf cos I was too nice and tolerant, that makes me loose value in her sight.

Get yourself a boyfriend that's far from you (distance relationship)
Thank me later.

Ahmed0336:


Both of you should see a psychologist asap. You may find answers to what ye seek.

it happens if you were in a boarding school you become Estranged from Family.
check people who were in boarding school at least 70 -80% percent feel that way