Blakjewelry:

what is happening to you is called I called the overfeeding effect. it happened because you have consume his presence enough, if I were him I will see you less then you will want more of him.

stormborn28:
Oturugbeke...hope somebody is not making use of her fingers

tintingz:


Well, it's true they should avoid seeing each other everyday but I won't advice that anymore.

She should learn to see him everyday because if she marries him she will be seeing her husband everyday and night except they are the type that will be doing business away from home without seeing for months, years.

They should learn to have fun instead.

pocohantas:
It is normal. I don't know why Romance section guys can't give sensible comments- something different from "Shiloh". One would think it is programmed bots dropping the same comment every gadamn time!

Kudos to the people that made reasonable comments.

OP, it is normal for the initial spark to die down, especially when you people see regularly.

The problem with you is, rather than fix it- you keep throwing it away. That is what you should work on. Reigniting the spark, think about the good times, not breaking up everytime.

Ebonygirl1:
I usually experience this too

Bynz:



It's because you are beautiful and young... U have this demdeyrushMe syndromes. But remember you can't be young forever.

Kenturkey048:
Na youthful exorberance dey do you...las las you go wake up when you start to irratate them too..I give you 2years from now.....I wonder how some mature guys dey even date girls below 23years...its only when you date one you hear things like this.....

Ebonygirl1:
I usually experience this too

folake4u:



Same here. I get tired easily.

Ellatee256:
Hi everyone,
I'm 23 yrs and currently running my HND program.
I have a bf and we have been dating for almost a year.

We do almost everything together and we see each other every single day...
But now am irritated by him.

He comes to my hostel from his office everyday but now seeing him irritates me the more.
I just want a break but I don't want to hurt him.
This isn't the first time its happening to me,
I've had two boyfriends before I met my new bf and same thing happened with them.

Its just like I meet a guy I like..,we love each other and I get excited and then few months later I get irritated by them....

I told my elder sis about it and she dragged me to church saying I have spiritual problems but that's not the issue....

Sometimes I just want my time alone but my bf doesn't seem to understand that.
Have tried to ignore him and all but he doesn't get the message am passing........
He wants me to meet his mum but have been giving him excuses....

I don't know why I feel like this with only the guys I date cuz I don't feel that way with my friends and family in fact I want to be with them everyday but its different in my relationships...
I want to end things with my boyfriend without hurting him cuz I can't keep acting and I can't keep wasting his time.

I think I have a problem and I don't know what to do.
I don't want this to affect me when I get married cuz there won't be a break in marriage...
Pls kindly advice
Thanks

Funmmyastic:
There is nothing wrong with you,just tell him pointblank you're no longer interested,simple as that.

nigeriagospel:
oil dey your head, Hollywood and Bollywood scripted love is not applicable in real life. Girl want a man with value, by value you must not neccesarily own the world but rather create an impression of ' I can do without you' Stop being needy and clingy, ladies love guys with such qualities but don't expect them to tell you, its become scripted and uninteresting, they want you to figure it out yourself, some ladies are not wicked as portrayed its just that most men know nothing about female psychology and how they thinks, I once lost a gf cos I was too nice and tolerant, that makes me loose value in her sight.

victorian:







You don't have a problem dear

You are perfectly normal.

I don't like seeing my Man everyday..it irritates me too.

That's why I said to. Myself I will prefer to marry a man who travels every month for work or business, than marry a man who comes back home everyday, waiting for me at home. Because I know those kinds of men like having sex everyday if possible whenever they are back from work.

Stay at home, working kind of men are not for me either.

When he travels , at least I can get to miss him and revive the affection and passion when he comes back. It even makes the love and sex more passionate and sweet.

Trust me, u need breathing space. It's not like you don't love him but he's too clinging and it's annoying!

But if you tell him, he will get angry saying u don't love him.

Mehn u are in a tight spot. I don't envy you one bit!

stormborn28:
infact dating younger girls is really a war

Ellatee256:
Hi everyone,
I'm 23 yrs and currently running my HND program.
I have a bf and we have been dating for almost a year.

We do almost everything together and we see each other every single day...
But now am irritated by him.

He comes to my hostel from his office everyday but now seeing him irritates me the more.
I just want a break but I don't want to hurt him.
This isn't the first time its happening to me,
I've had two boyfriends before I met my new bf and same thing happened with them.

Its just like I meet a guy I like..,we love each other and I get excited and then few months later I get irritated by them....

I told my elder sis about it and she dragged me to church saying I have spiritual problems but that's not the issue....

Sometimes I just want my time alone but my bf doesn't seem to understand that.
Have tried to ignore him and all but he doesn't get the message am passing........
He wants me to meet his mum but have been giving him excuses....

I don't know why I feel like this with only the guys I date cuz I don't feel that way with my friends and family in fact I want to be with them everyday but its different in my relationships...
I want to end things with my boyfriend without hurting him cuz I can't keep acting and I can't keep wasting his time.

I think I have a problem and I don't know what to do.
I don't want this to affect me when I get married cuz there won't be a break in marriage...
Pls kindly advice
Thanks

Lamanii22:




Right... But the guy doesn't know that.. She has been giving him some signals but he can't decipher.... He is one of 'em nice guys, he thinks you have to see the one you love everyday...

Funmmyastic:
There is nothing wrong with you,just tell him pointblank you're no longer interested,simple as that.

Lamanii22:

Right... But the guy doesn't know that.. She has been giving him some signals but he can't decipher.... He is one of 'em nice guys, he thinks you have to see the one you love everyday...

Ellatee256:
Hi everyone,
I'm 23 yrs and currently running my HND program.
I have a bf and we have been dating for almost a year.

We do almost everything together and we see each other every single day...
But now am irritated by him.

He comes to my hostel from his office everyday but now seeing him irritates me the more.
I just want a break but I don't want to hurt him.
This isn't the first time its happening to me,
I've had two boyfriends before I met my new bf and same thing happened with them.

Its just like I meet a guy I like..,we love each other and I get excited and then few months later I get irritated by them....

I told my elder sis about it and she dragged me to church saying I have spiritual problems but that's not the issue....

Sometimes I just want my time alone but my bf doesn't seem to understand that.
Have tried to ignore him and all but he doesn't get the message am passing........
He wants me to meet his mum but have been giving him excuses....

I don't know why I feel like this with only the guys I date cuz I don't feel that way with my friends and family in fact I want to be with them everyday but its different in my relationships...
I want to end things with my boyfriend without hurting him cuz I can't keep acting and I can't keep wasting his time.

I think I have a problem and I don't know what to do.
I don't want this to affect me when I get married cuz there won't be a break in marriage...
Pls kindly advice
Thanks

stormborn28:
go and check the ratio of male to female.. Then you will understand

Kenturkey048:
I swear to God...to me,if you are not more than 25years stay your lane..gush..its only when you date them below 25 you hear such bull-sh*it..those mature guys upto 30 dating them dey really try...I can't in my wildest dream even imagine that....

dairykidd:


Did u read where she said it's happened in her previous relationships?? Really there's nothing wrong with her? And ur advising her to dump this guy and then when the pattern resurfaces again in her new relationship what will she do..dump him again?

She needs answers not u trying to make her feel good. Op u clearly need help and taking a break off any relationship is the first step.. know urself first and then go for the type of guy that suits blends with ur personality and pray too.

Ellatee256:
Hi everyone,
I'm 23 yrs and currently running my HND program.
I have a bf and we have been dating for almost a year.

We do almost everything together and we see each other every single day...
But now am irritated by him.

He comes to my hostel from his office everyday but now seeing him irritates me the more.
I just want a break but I don't want to hurt him.
This isn't the first time its happening to me,
I've had two boyfriends before I met my new bf and same thing happened with them.

Its just like I meet a guy I like..,we love each other and I get excited and then few months later I get irritated by them....

I told my elder sis about it and she dragged me to church saying I have spiritual problems but that's not the issue....

Sometimes I just want my time alone but my bf doesn't seem to understand that.
Have tried to ignore him and all but he doesn't get the message am passing........
He wants me to meet his mum but have been giving him excuses....

I don't know why I feel like this with only the guys I date cuz I don't feel that way with my friends and family in fact I want to be with them everyday but its different in my relationships...
I want to end things with my boyfriend without hurting him cuz I can't keep acting and I can't keep wasting his time.

I think I have a problem and I don't know what to do.
I don't want this to affect me when I get married cuz there won't be a break in marriage...
Pls kindly advice
Thanks

ImaIma1:


Then let whoever is going to Shiloh go in peace. At least they won't come and disturb you to go with them.

This idea of threatening and bullying ladies with "Shiloh" needs to stop. It's their life and they are responsible for the decisions whether good or bad.