niaralandtopuser:

oga go and marry your old olosho. we all have the right to chose

Timbers:
I didn't talk to you but since you can't mind your business I have something for you.�


You know most men like you with inky winky joysticks can't approach older women because you are afraid that they will be too matured for a child like you that's why you opt for younger girls who fall for Gala and LaCasera� going to show you're a PAEDOPHILE

Timbers:
Are you richer than Jason Momoa who married Lisa Bonet when she already had children almost his age and yet you with you backward crappy mindset that prevailed in the times of cavemen comes here to say rubbish.


clearly goes to show that you are an achaic, primitive, backward, bullshit thinking ASSHOLE

Timbers:
I didn't talk to you but since you can't mind your business I have something for you.�


You know most men like you with inky winky joysticks can't approach older women because you are afraid that they will be too matured for a child like you that's why you opt for younger girls who fall for Gala and LaCasera� going to show you're a PAEDOPHILE

MrBrownJay1:
- misplaced ego
- failed society mindset
- religious brainwashing
- stupidity

as for your friend who "supposedly" love the woman but is willing to HIDE her mother status, he is no better than the deluded people who look down on single mothers

FrLukas:


And as long as the baby daddy is no longer in her life or the child's life.
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Alexgeneration:
No man in his right senses will waste his resources to marry a second-hand woman (single mother) when he can use same resources to get a better wife.

Only losers and men with low self esteem will end up with single mothers because they can't attract better females to themselves and if you ask them why,they will mask their inferiority with love,then you begin to ask "you no see virgin love abi you no see woman wey dem never useless love"?

Single mothers are the dregs of the female species and only few inches above mad women.

MrBrownJay1:


bro... it is no secret that Nigerian are foolishly driven by society and religion.
many of you would swear you can never marry such lady but let your parents or pastor tell you that you should, and you will quickly oblige.....FURTHERMORE: if that single mother is Linda Ikeji, Tiwa Savage or Genevieve then see how all you bunch of hypocrites would change your tune.

fykes:
All d comments before mine have one thing in common with me...
Experience!

I have never seen one such union end well and truly happy.
Not one. All d guy gets is sex at a whim while he lives with the devil.

fykes:

Now bro, if u roll with guys who can't hold up their own and pay their bills, or who get intimidated by others success, I can't help it.
Linda ikeji, Genevieve or whatever u call it, has nothing on me.
I love my life, done well for my age, and I know lots of guys who won't even piss on them. Our greatest challenge as men is to defy those whose approval we often seek.
FYI... I dated a single mom with 3 kids for 3 years.. I was 25 then and worked in a multinational. I met lots of her friends and cliques... I'm talking outta my personal experience

jugger:
Ever seen a football match start from 1-0?

DanXplore:


Yes now. Second leg aggregate score at the start of a match.

MrBrownJay1:


... and you are entitled to your own opinion.
now give us an INTELLIGENT statement as to why you look down on single mothers.... because what you wrote woud be as crazy as me saying that because my ex was a wh0re, all women are wh0res. duh!

MrBrownJay1:


bro... it is no secret that Nigerian are foolishly driven by society and religion.
many of you would swear you can never marry such lady but let your parents or pastor tell you that you should, and you will quickly oblige.....FURTHERMORE: if that single mother is Linda Ikeji, Tiwa Savage or Genevieve then see how all you bunch of hypocrites would change your tune.

MrBrownJay1:


are you claiming that a woman without child is automatically "better" than a single mother?! if you judge ALL single mothers as bad and ALL single women as good, then you sir has seriously lost the plot. the problem is therefore NOT these women but instead your misplaced ego....
your misplaced ego is stinking!



so you actually believe a virgin will always be better than a single mother?! again, it shows that the reason you hate these women is because they have been with other men before you, AND NOT because they are actually bad women.
your misplaced ego is stinking!



whoever is the single mother that must have hurt you (to think in such a foul way about them) because no man in his right mind would be narrow minded when thinking of these women. pele o!
your hate for them is stinking!

lefulefu:
thats not possible bros

FrLukas:


Sometimes the guy just doesn't want anything to do with baby or its mother. That would be a win-win for me.

lefulefu:
the guy would still want to see his child so from there it could be possible chemistry might spark off b/w the babymama and babydaddy .coded things.

Sirvingeo:
Single mothers are mostly promiscuous and have high tendency falling in love with the wrong men .

pcguru1:


I know I can't avoid Drama but dealing with a single mother whose relationship with the father is problematic would equally be your own issues to inherit as the man of the house. I have to mentally not discipline his son because of what could happen, you have to maintain an unnecessary cordial relationship, and if there's conflict between the co-parents it becomes your own headache. Sounds stressful to me, I'm sure others wouldn't mind them, but not for me, experienced the drama involved already it's not fun at all.

Alexgeneration:
No man in his right senses will waste his resources to marry a second-hand woman (single mother) when he can use same resources to get a better wife.




Only losers and men with low self esteem will end up with single mothers because they can't attract better females to themselves and if you ask them why,they will mask their inferiority with love,then you begin to ask "you no see virgin love abi you no see woman wey dem never useless love"?



Single mothers are the dregs of the female species and only few inches above mad women.


#Pukes

Sirvingeo:
[s]Single mothers are mostly promiscuous and have high tendency falling in love with the wrong men.[/s]

Akanoaaa:
Cuz its likely for the single mother to bleep her baby daddy again

Leoniine:


BS...

shut up.

oyatz:
You are one of the problems of single mothers in Nigeria.

Your words are just too harsh. When you reach 40 years of age, you will voluntarily wish to delete this post.


Single mothers aren't necessarily bad, I once wanted to marry one but external influences scuttled the plan before it germinated.

Alexgeneration:

Men with low self esteem will always cook up stories to justify their being with second-hand women and will want to guilt-trip you when you can't stoop so low to their level to begin to mingle with leftovers.

Tallesty1:
Linda couldn't marry when she doesn't have a child e come be now that she is a single mom. Genevieve is a single mom and she is single with all her wealth and achievements, Tiwa too and the best she could get with all her money is fvcking a boy

Guy, you're just trying to blackmail other guys without making sense.

Apart from the fact that most single mothers(who aren't unfortunate widows) are promiscuous, there are a million and one other reasons to stay away from them.

But before I go down to one or maybe two of these reason, I will like to point out something to some of you. You especially.
Single mothers should stop this always failing attempt to blackmail men to marry them.
For every single mother out there, there's at least 20 ladies that have not had a child who are still single.

If your being single is a result of having a child then explain these other ladies who are also single even though they have never had a child? You go online to claim that being a single parent is bliss and the only way and then come offline to wail that you can't find a husband? Who takes such an unstable person serious.

You make it seem like they're single because they're single mothers but truth is they're single because they have issues just like other single ladies out there. Women generally have issues, matter of fact, anything that has tire, engine or boobs have issues but boobs that have fed a child have complicated issues.

Now down to the reasons. Which you have not experienced. Women have undying love for things that give them pain.
High heels give them pain but they wear it anyways. Skimpy dresses makes them uncomfortable, but they can't do without it. You see them cling to shitholes that treat them like trash and then make you their best friend so you can console them when they are treated like thrash. It's illogical to us but they seem to understand it.

A lot of the guys that put these ladies in the family way are assholes so your woman, because of this their inexplicable love for things that give them pain will once in a while go back to this guy.

Women who suffered terribly in the hands of an ex lover see their child as a consolation price. For this reason, this child will come first before the one she will have for you.

I know you don't understand this because you've not experienced anything like that.

Picture this family.
A single father married a single mother.
By your logic, they're birds of the same feather and similar experience so they are going make a one happy family.

Single mothers of today cling on the child without any reasonable source of income, so the moment you marry them, the child becomes your responsibility.

How will you feel seeing your wife give most of her love and attention to a kid she had for another man and you helped her to raise while your own kids get just whatever is left of her love? If you are okay with it then please by all means, marry a single mother and leave us to our choice.

I can't do it and neither you nor any single mom can blackmail me to do it.

And finally, blaming everything that happens in Africa on religion is becoming very lame.

Please note that all single mothers are not the same. There are many many good single mothers who are just unfortunate with men but finding a wife is difficult and I am not going to make it more difficult by including single mothers.